The best motivation

[Victan22]

   In life we all Dream  and aspire to be great but lack the right motivation. Anything or anyone can be a motivation to somebody's dream, we often hear some individuals say that they are self motivated while on the other hand some would say my dad, my mom, sister, uncle etc. is the motivation behind my success.
   Personally I think the greatest motivation a person needs to thrive is his /her "WHY"
W=what
H=hurts
Y=you
 
What hurts you most could be anything so a deep meditation on your "why" will help push you a bit harder on you career endeavor.

  On this note, as an individual which do you think is the strongest motivation,should we say it is,
- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?

Let's share your idea.

[Dunamisx]

On this note, as an individual which do you think is the strongest motivation,should we say it is,
- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?

The two can be a good thing to always accept and take into consideration but one thing we must always be careful about is not to let pride gone over us when trying to appear on a self motivated level or stage, there are times we will also want to be motivated through what people see or commend about us, this will help us to know how far we have performed and where we needed to add more additional efforts to our life, also in other words, we will have to be self motivated because not everyone we can get motivated from people around us the way we want or expect.

[PytagoraZ]

  On this note, as an individual which do you think is the strongest motivation,should we say it is,
- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?

Let's share your idea.

It depends on your type. Are you an introvert or extrovert. You are the person who best knows how to motivate yourself.

What I know is only one. Read a lot, read more, your curiosity will grow, and that's where we finally found our goal. and goals are the strongest motivations I know

[Stepstowealth]

On this note, as an individual which do you think is the strongest motivation,should we say it is,
- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?

The best motivation is self motivation, but the strongest motivation can be from either self or from someone else.

Nothing beats the motivation you give yourself, even though it may not be the strongest in every case, it is important that everyone is able to motivate themselves by themselves. If you depend on other people to motivate you, there will be times when they will not be there and you will need motivation. And because you depend on someone else's motivation always, you will find it hard to do what needs to be done sometimes. When you can self motivate yourself everytime, you will be able to say to yourself everyday the things you need to hear and will always have the motivation that is needed to do what needs to be done.

[Rockstarguy]

  On this note, as an individual which do you think is the strongest motivation,should we say it is,
- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?

Let's share your idea.

Self motivation is the most important,  without self motivation no matter how people try to motivate you to do something it will never work. It is only when one has self motivation then the motivation of other people can work for him or her. In life we first need to push ourselves first before other people can push us, when we are so reluctant to do things their will be no positive results. Self motivation comes first before any othe motivation can be effective in us.

[Zlantann]

   Personally I think the greatest motivation a person needs to thrive is his /her "WHY"
W=what
H=hurts
Y=you
 
What hurts you most could be anything so a deep meditation on your "why" will help push you a bit harder on you career endeavor.

I am struggling to make meaning of your words but I guess you are talking about being motivated by a problem or challenge. Motivation can be generated by the drive to tackle what hurts you. A problem can be a source of motivation especially when one begin to strive or devise means to over come it. Many inventions were born out of the need to tackle a problem. So I agree that when people begin to inquire "why this problem", it could serve as motivation..

 

On this note, as an individual which do you think is the strongest motivation,should we say it is,
- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?

Let's share your idea.

I don't really care about the source of motivation as much as it is positive. If the motivation is to contribute positively to society, the source is irrelevant. To be self-motivated is better because it is internal and requires no external force. If there is nobody or thing to motivate someone that depends on external motivators, such a person will not make progress. I prefer to be self-motivated so that I will be independent.

[Kavelj22]

  On this note, as an individual which do you think is the strongest motivation,should we say it is,
- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?

Maybe self motivation may be the most important but external stimuli are also important. External motivation is mainly important for stimulating self-motivation, and herein lies its importance.

Most of those who were able to succeed in achieving great goals necessarily believed in themselves and in their ability to implement and reach, even if they were constantly frustrated.
Today I watched the final match of the Wimbledon women's professional tennis championship, and as usual, the Tunisian Anas Jaber lost, who always won us back to lose in the final match. This provides an example that self-motivation is important to win all matches but can backfire when self-confidence becomes excessive.

[Gozie51]

Different things can motivate someone not only yourself or second party like parents or siblings. You can have a motivation after you have come out of a particular challenge, so will this be considered as a personal motivation or third party? I see many things can be a source of motivation but what is important is how we are able to see that as something motivating us. Like they say, the best advise is the one that an individual give to themselves. Therefore, if you had a challenge and after words that challenge became your source of motivation, then take up the challenge and make your life better, that is what is important. We don't have to allow situations that are not pleasant to bring us down but we are to learn from it, get motivated and move on.

[Frankolala]

Everyone has which kind of motivation that is best for them. When we were kids,our parents motivate is to study hard and also to be focus. Gradually when you have someone that motivates you,you can later when you are on your own motivate yourself. Some persons on their own needs other people to motivate them on their decisions because they feel that two heads are better than one.

On the other hand,some people have that gift of self motivation in the sense that they encourage themselves and take a bold step to whatever is suppose to be done by them. One thing I understand is that motivation mustn't be talking to someone but it can be that the way someone is handling issues can motivate you that you can do the same. I was motivated by my friend's dad even though we have never sat down to talk for once.

[purinZ14]

Both is definitely something everyone should have in their life.  However at the end of the day, it is you that will make things happen so I still believe self motivation is the strongest out of the two. It doesn't matter if there's hundreds of people cheering you on if you yourself don't have that drive inside you. Motivation from other people surely helps but it's always our decision to make a move.

[mu_enrico]

I used to think that self-motivation is everything until I joined a martial arts dojo decades ago. The teacher asked me to kick the sandbag and told me I didn't give everything and started screaming. Long story short, I was able to kick harder when that guy was screaming and saying nasty things. The moral of the story is you need someone to PUSH YOU beyond your limit.

[Belarge]

I think self motivation is everything, you can be motivated by people though, but your self motivation is your power, I see external motivation as a channel for achievements or an advice that can help you reach your own set goals.

To me someone's success might motivate me but their achievements might be what I want, but it might not be at that material (particular)time.

 for example I might be motivated that someone just got a car for maybe 5.5million or there about, but if I have 5.5million I won't use mine to buy a car, I might use it to buy a land or start up a business, so to me my self motivation is just everything to me, I see external motivation as a channel for learning or advice because it's not every someone does I will do, or anything someone achieves I would want to achieve....

[sunsilk]

You don't need motivation from anyone, what you only need to think is about the daily survival that you have to make. I barely remember who said that if you need a motivation, you'll stay on where you are.

I know that motivation is going to drive you at your best when you've got one. So, if you're going to have something that pushes you at your best, what you need to do is to do everything with happiness.

So whether you've got one or none, do it with joy and fun like if you're in your job.

[Ndabagi01]

   In life we all Dream  and aspire to be great but lack the right motivation. Anything or anyone can be a motivation to somebody's dream, we often hear some individuals say that they are self motivated while on the other hand some would say my dad, my mom, sister, uncle etc. is the motivation behind my success.
   Personally I think the greatest motivation a person needs to thrive is his /her "WHY"
W=what
H=hurts
Y=you

Trying to figure out what to do and what to do next is already a strong motivator to keep you focused on your goals. Only a lazy man and a man who does not plan his future effectively would never think outside the box, find solutions to new problems, or be curious about what is going on around him.

What hurts you most could be anything so a deep meditation on your "why" will help push you a bit harder on you career endeavor.
  On this note, as an individual which do you think is the strongest motivation,should we say it is,
- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?
Let's share your idea.

Any source of motivation is welcome if it can at least solve an issue and provide a solution to whatever is at hand. Trying to get the persons motivation to value more over the other is a complete waste of time and thought. If you’re already determined to know more, then you’re already motivated at achieving your goal already.

[Myleschetty]

Motivation is not the only thing people need to achieve their dream and from my research what people to achieve their dream differs.
For some people what they need to achieve their dream is persistence and resilience while for some people confidence and self-belief are what they need not motivation.

[Qiubell5]

Motivation must start from yourself then from others. The bottom line is that both are equally important. And the most important thing in my opinion, is that you must have motivation, intention, goals, and hard work. You will never be able to achieve your dreams even though there are a thousand motivational words for you, but you are still lazy and don't move.

[DeathAngel]

I think all you can do in life is to be the best version of yourself. If you get up in the morning, work hard & go to bed knowing that you were a good person & couldn’t have done any more then that’s all you can do. We all have goals, targets etc but we must make them realistic. We all want to be Tom Brady but it’s not going to happen. Whether it’s a new qualification or a promotion at work, to make your wife proud of you, self motivation to go out there every day & do your best is a recipe for success.

[Dzwaafu11]

On this note, as an individual which do you think is the strongest motivation,should we say it is,
- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?

Let's share your idea.

Although siblings, parents, or other family members can motivate someone as well, what motivates me the most is when I see someone achieve a common goal in a very meaningful way that is not illegal. That always serves as motivation to me in order to keep trying and also get what that person has got. Self motivation today causes some people to give up when they see they keep trying but they didn't get what they want. However, even if someone tried to motivate you and you lack self-motivation, I doubt it would work since you would feel like, as an adult, no one could force you to do something you didn't want to.
Particularly if he received a certificate from school attesting to his success. I realize that our fates are different, but when one person achieves success, it inspires others to keep working hard until they, too, reach their goals.  

[Mr.right85]

  On this note, as an individual which do you think is the strongest motivation,should we say it is,
- self motivation or
- a second party motivation?

Let's share your idea.

I don't subscribe to your definition of why although, I agree to a point that, the WHY becomes a big player or course for one to wish to do better.

Fir the record, no one can push you than you would push yourself and that's to say, no one can motivate you the way you would motivate yourself. You might get to pick a role model go life and wish to do as they do or see them for a reason why it's possible to archive certain heights in life but, it all goes down to you haven't been willing yo take necessary steps and push yourself.

Self motivation and determination becomes a course gor change.

[Qahwakupi]

Most of us often look for the best motivation from various references without asking ourselves, why should I be motivated.
Even though it is very basic to our soul, it will not rise if we don't know what caused it.
Then the sentence why this must be asked into ourselves so that it is motivated for ourselves in particular and also for others.