I think all you can do in life is to be the best version of yourself. If you get up in the morning, work hard & go to bed knowing that you were a good person & couldn’t have done any more then that’s all you can do. We all have goals, targets etc but we must make them realistic. We all want to be Tom Brady but it’s not going to happen. Whether it’s a new qualification or a promotion at work, to make your wife proud of you, self motivation to go out there every day & do your best is a recipe for success.
Of course women like to have their men achieving in whatever they do, they want them to excel and so they also assist them in prayers especially the women that have the fear of God.
We can also motivate others by encouraging them using our own experiences. Sometimes we are a living motivation to people even without speaking to them if they know our triers and how we have been able to win in all the challenges. Also those people who know us, share our stories to others.