A warning against cheating and lending to a trusted friend

[synchronym]

I have been thinking for some time now to discuss some of our personal matters with all of you. I myself have been involved with Bitcoin for a long time and my cousin knows quite a bit about Bitcoin. Whenever I have any problem I discuss it with him and he gives me a lot of helpful words. I will discuss some personal matters of my cousin with you all. My cousin and his friend are studying in the same college. His best friend said to him what are you doing.  He said I have been involved in Bitcoin for a long time and his friend knew he traded in Bitcoin. Bitcoin He works hard and because of this hard work he is a successful trader. Seeing his success, his best friend requested him a lot and finally he agreed. The problem is that he had no capital. He borrowed about 800 dollars from my cousin. My cousin did not share this with anyone. His best friend worked hard enough in Bitcoin and now he is successful. So my cousin said friend pay me the 800 dollars you took from me. As soon as my cousin spoke, his best friend said, "Dude, I paid you 800 dollars long ago. He could not understand what to say as if he was losing his language after hearing this. My cousin just keeps saying one thing and if he doesn't pay me back the 800 dollars I won't have much financial loss but I can't trust anyone else who did this to me I will never forget it. My cousin is very broken mentally and can't share this with any of his family. He can't take any legal action because Bitcoin is not legal. My cousin keeps saying one thing my best friend cheated on me then I told her a lot that what happened happened don't worry about it anymore.

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[darkangel11]

His best friend worked hard enough in Bitcoin and now he is successful. So my cousin said friend pay me the 800 dollars you took from me.

And what? Your story ends with a suspense
I guess he wasn't paid back...

It's  not really a bitcoin story, but a story about lending in general. You should always take steps to protect yourself. Maybe next time write this down on paper and get a witness to sign it, so at least you can take this to court.

[Merit.s]

I don't think that this topic belongs to this board because you are talking about your cousin and his friend. Your cousin should know that her friend wasn't a true and was only there for her based on what he wants to benefit from her. This is a lesson to your cousin not to trust anyone with money because we have greedy people that will never appreciate whatever that you have done for them. Instead they will leave you heart broken because of the good that you did for them. Investing in bitcoin should be done with one's own funds and never borrow anyone money to invest into crypto because the market is very risky and you can loss that money that you borrowed out thinking to get it back later. Money can seperate two friend forever and I am not surprised that this was done to your cousin.

[Razmirraz]

Your narration is not too detailed which makes anyone who reads wonder about what happened to your cousin and his friend.

1. Your cousin's friend doesn't have the capital to invest in Bitcoin, I assume he doesn't have experience in the Cryptocurrency field referring to the question what are you doing to your friend.

2. After getting a loan of 800 dollars from your cousin, who taught him how to invest in Bitcoin, what I know investing in Bitcoin requires established knowledge.

3. Why didn't he pay off his loan immediately when he was already successful in investing in Bitcoin, isn't your cousin very close to him.

4. How does it end, does he immediately pay off the loan or does he run away after being successful in Bitcoin, from the title you apply "A warning against cheating and lending to a trusted friend" people here assume he is not the type of person who can be trusted.

[Agbe]

I’m quite confused on your narrative. So you are telling that your cousin lend his best friend his money and his friend becomes successful trader. You didn’t mention how long did his friend borrowed the money and you just concluded in the end that your cousin ask his best friend for a payback now that he is successful.

Then what happened?

Ahahaha! Omen, this is a Novella from the nightgale of the creek. Op such is life, that is why lending without written documents is bad. If you cousin wrote everything down plus the collection and the repayment dates, all this melodramas would not display again. And now there is no evidence to show that he has paid him or not. Even bitcoin is legal, your cousin cannot take this matter to court because court believe in written documents on cases like this and also believe in evidences. So where are the evidences?
Op, for your cousin friend to understand everything, it is to give him a break down of everything and how it started to the present narration.

[coinerer]

I have been thinking for some time now to discuss some of our personal matters with all of you. I myself have been involved with Bitcoin for a long time and my cousin knows quite a bit about Bitcoin. Whenever I have any problem I discuss it with him and he gives me a lot of helpful words. I will discuss some personal matters of my cousin with you all. My cousin and his friend are studying in the same college. His best friend said to him what are you doing.  He said I have been involved in Bitcoin for a long time and his friend knew he traded in Bitcoin. Bitcoin He works hard and because of this hard work he is a successful trader. Seeing his success, his best friend requested him a lot and finally he agreed. The problem is that he had no capital. He borrowed about 800 dollars from my cousin. My cousin did not share this with anyone. His best friend worked hard enough in Bitcoin and now he is successful. So my cousin said friend pay me the 800 dollars you took from me. As soon as my cousin spoke, his best friend said, "Dude, I paid you 800 dollars long ago. He could not understand what to say as if he was losing his language after hearing this. My cousin just keeps saying one thing and if he doesn't pay me back the 800 dollars I won't have much financial loss but I can't trust anyone else who did this to me I will never forget it. My cousin is very broken mentally and can't share this with any of his family. He can't take any legal action because Bitcoin is not legal. My cousin keeps saying one thing my best friend cheated on me then I told her a lot that what happened happened don't worry about it anymore.

There are many such incidents in our society because people are slowly becoming unscrupulous/traitors due to the greed of money. the one you benefit, you will find harming from him. I have seen far worse things happen around me than what happened to your friend. So now I believe one thing is that it's foolish to ever teach others everything you do, once you do that, they won't appreciate you and on the contrary won't hesitate to harm you. this is the current reality

[SamReomo]

I have been thinking for some time now to discuss some of our personal matters with all of you. I myself have been involved with Bitcoin for a long time and my cousin knows quite a bit about Bitcoin. Whenever I have any problem I discuss it with him and he gives me a lot of helpful words. I will discuss some personal matters of my cousin with you all. My cousin and his friend are studying in the same college. His best friend said to him what are you doing.  He said I have been involved in Bitcoin for a long time and his friend knew he traded in Bitcoin. Bitcoin He works hard and because of this hard work he is a successful trader. Seeing his success, his best friend requested him a lot and finally he agreed. The problem is that he had no capital. He borrowed about 800 dollars from my cousin. My cousin did not share this with anyone. His best friend worked hard enough in Bitcoin and now he is successful. So my cousin said friend pay me the 800 dollars you took from me. As soon as my cousin spoke, his best friend said, "Dude, I paid you 800 dollars long ago. He could not understand what to say as if he was losing his language after hearing this. My cousin just keeps saying one thing and if he doesn't pay me back the 800 dollars I won't have much financial loss but I can't trust anyone else who did this to me I will never forget it. My cousin is very broken mentally and can't share this with any of his family. He can't take any legal action because Bitcoin is not legal. My cousin keeps saying one thing my best friend cheated on me then I told her a lot that what happened happened don't worry about it anymore.

I think such people are always there to teach us some lessons that everyone in this world can't be trusted and your cousin's friend also did something that only a scammer would do. He took money from your cousin when he needed money, and now when he is financially stable, he just take U-turns and falsely says that he had already paid him that $800 dollar which he borrowed when needed.

You should tell you cousin that there are always such kind of people who take advantage of one's generosity and take U-turns by say false words and lies to convince other that they have already done them a favor when they needed it, or totally ignore the people who favored them. I think those people really don't have any morals because they can sell their soul for money, and they don't really care about someone's goodness, or about someone's emotions that they hurt with their behavior.

[tjtonmoy]

Money destroys relationships. I still believe this and act based on this. You are good as long as you are providing them with money. The moment you ask for the money or refuse to give them the money in the first place, you are bad to them. I have faced this many times and I am someone who will not ask for that money back. For this, I have suffered a lot. People still owe me money, I never ask that back. Now I just make up an excuse to not give them any.

People are just so much ungrateful and greedy these days. Your cousin made a mistake. Now all he/she can do is just leave that and move on. That friend who took that money will lose double the amount one day. this is how the world works. Nature loves balance and that will be achieved one day. Take good care of your cousin and seek mental help if necessary. Depression is not a light thing. It could ruin life. So make sure your cousin does not walk that path. Also, tell him/her to avoid such people in the future.

[The Cryptovator]

If I understand correctly, your cousin's friend lacked the capital to invest in Bitcoin, and your friend assisted him by providing $800 for the investment. However, when your cousin requested the borrowed amount to be returned, the friend denied owing anything and falsely claimed to have already repaid your cousin. If this account is accurate, it is indeed disheartening. It highlights the difficulty in trusting others with financial matters. This incident is not specifically related to Bitcoin; rather, it reflects the importance of basic human decency in repaying borrowed funds. It serves as a valuable lesson for both you and your cousin to exercise caution when entrusting anyone with your money.

[Doan9269]

The problem is that he had no capital. He borrowed about 800 dollars from my cousin.

First wrong move, they used to say two cannot be wrong, which means two wrongs cannot make right, he made a mistake without knowing by asking for loan from your cousin while your own cousin made the worst mistake to crown it all by granting him the request, here he may thought he helped him but at the end it's not what he will ever be grateful for, bitcoin should be earned or exchanged for something valuable, he would have learnt about bitcoin and wait to have enough resources to use for holding bitcoin.

So my cousin said friend pay me the 800 dollars you took from me. As soon as my cousin spoke, his best friend said, "Dude, I paid you 800 dollars long ago.

Since there's no surety or third party to witness the transaction that wet between the two of them, we cannot blame anyone because it's possible he had paid but his friend has forgotten, but if he knew he never paid but insisted to have paid, your cousin shouldn't worry, law of karma will soon bounce back on him, your cousin aleo have learnt the best learning of his life not to lend out what he can't afford to loose.

[uneng]

Very confusing story, but what I got from this is that your cousin should be more careful with who he considers to be his best friend, as a friend would never cheat on us. If he doesn't have money to pay back, he will find a way to not prejudice us, because a friend would never want to see us in trouble, as it will hurt him as well to know he put someone he cares in a bad situation.

I fear this money is already lost, as no formal agreements were made on the lending operation. Your cousin was scammed and has to move on now. If you are going yo lend money any time soon, make sure to have a collateral as guarantee.

[Obari]

I’m quite confused on your narrative. So you are telling that your cousin lend his best friend his money and his friend becomes successful trader. You didn’t mention how long did his friend borrowed the money and you just concluded in the end that your cousin ask his best friend for a payback now that he is successful.

Then what happened?

What happened  next is that his brother will never trust any other of his friends neither will he ever lend out money to others but whatever the case might be, it is always very hard for friends and families payback debts because at the end of the day, you wouldn't want to take any very drastic actions against them but rather turn to be at their mercie.

If I understand correctly, your cousin's friend lacked the capital to invest in Bitcoin, and your friend assisted him by providing $800 for the investment. However, when your cousin requested the borrowed amount to be returned, the friend denied owing anything and falsely claimed to have already repaid your cousin. If this account is accurate, it is indeed disheartening. It highlights the difficulty in trusting others with financial matters. This incident is not specifically related to Bitcoin; rather, it reflects the importance of basic human decency in repaying borrowed funds. It serves as a valuable lesson for both you and your cousin to exercise caution when entrusting anyone with your money.

Exactly  and I solely do agree with you but I think despite the fact that bitcoin  isn't accepted in your country, I think there are other ways he can get his money back but the first step is to open up to family and friends and possibly  going to his friend's family so he can come with prove of repayment at least a receipt of transfer is prove enough.

[BitcoinPanther]

Isn't there a record of transaction?  If it is transferred through bank or paid in cryptocurrency, there should be a record. $800 can't be paid in person and got forgotten.  It is either the friend don't want to pay at all or your cousin had forgotten it.

He should ask more information on when and how he was paid.  It is quite hard to jump into conclusion and believe what @OP just wrote.  Instead, it only conveys a message that in every money transaction, make sure that there is a proof of transaction either by writing that the person received the amount and should be signed.  This way confusion will be avoided.  

[Fivestar4everMVP]

Not a very clear story though , but I supposed the confusion lies in the OPs inability make use of good English, maybe he is not from an English speaking region, then that's quite understandable..

Anyways, from what I understand, I would say that some people are like that, we cant completely trust people to keep to their words, most especially if they sometime had nothing, but after some time and help from maybe a friend, things turn around for good for them, it is important to expect some changes in their attitude and character , @op, for your cousin, I don't think there is anything he would have done even if bitcoin was legal in your country, he cant possibly arrest his own friend, where is the evidence that the friend is owing him?, even if he decided to drag the friend to court, there was never a written agreement between between the two, so there is also no evidence to nail him, he should just forget about it and move on, and also learn a lesson from it.

[Cryptomultiplier]

The case is complicated in that it can't even be resolved in a court of law for the sake that BTC is not recognized as legal tender.
I have been hearing a lot of money issues lately, that it seems like am the only person who has been more than careful in avoiding such loss.
Friends are only much good when there's no money lending, nor borrowing nor doing a business together. Money changes people and you would be shocked the meager amount that might server a long friendship bond.

Your cousin acted matured by letting the issue slide, but I can assure you that the said friend would loose more than the $800 soon, and he won't even understand how it happened.

[BenCodie]

The old saying goes; "Don't mix your friends with your money".

Unfortunately for the lender to a friend, lending is business and an additional good deed to help a friend. Unfortunately, it does not always reciprocate. In bad friendships, friends take this privilege unappreciated, like they are entitled to it, and most of the time will never pay it back. If the friend is appreciative and immediately works to repay the amount so that they are no longer indebted to the friend, maybe there are better chances.

A friend exploiting another out of some Bitcoin just because Bitcoin matters can not be handled in court should not mean that there are no consequences. If the supposed friend is not paying on purpose and out of greed (and this is 100% confirmed), why not just confront them for the money and see how much resistance they show to pay it back? Your cousin and yourself are entitled to do that if the supposed friend really is showing no signs of respecting the agreement.

[Litzki1990]

Always follow certain safety and precautions in providing loan and then loan should be granted. No matter how much you lend to someone close to you, you must keep a document before the loan so that you can show that document later if he refuses to repay the loan. What happened here was that a friend gave a loan to another friend to help him and had enough faith and trust in him but later when the lender friend asked for his loan back the borrower friend refused to repay the loan. In this case, if the person who took the loan refuses, the person who gave the loan will have nothing to do because the person who gave the loan has not kept any kind of document regarding the loan. So no matter how much you give loan to your close people as it is financial matter always take security and then give loan.

[GeorgeJohn]

Despite that it took me long time to understand your narrative after reading consecutively to understand you. At last part of the story that the friend of your cousin said that it has paid your cousin long time ago" did you ask your cousin if it was owning the friend long time ago before your cousin borrowed the friend 800$" because someone you helped in business or in a trade to became successful and the person don't want to refund a money you gave to he or her to start up same business you are into, that means their is already issues that is happening between both which one person might be gotten, with the narration of this story that means that the friend of your cousin is ungrateful, but never conclude until you get information from your cousin friend before you conclude. What i will advice you is to render help to whom you are pleased to.

[bitterguy28]

I have been thinking for some time now to discuss some of our personal matters with all of you. I myself have been involved with Bitcoin for a long time and my cousin knows quite a bit about Bitcoin. Whenever I have any problem I discuss it with him and he gives me a lot of helpful words. I will discuss some personal matters of my cousin with you all. My cousin and his friend are studying in the same college. His best friend said to him what are you doing.  He said I have been involved in Bitcoin for a long time and his friend knew he traded in Bitcoin. Bitcoin He works hard and because of this hard work he is a successful trader. Seeing his success, his best friend requested him a lot and finally he agreed. The problem is that he had no capital. He borrowed about 800 dollars from my cousin. My cousin did not share this with anyone. His best friend worked hard enough in Bitcoin and now he is successful. So my cousin said friend pay me the 800 dollars you took from me. As soon as my cousin spoke, his best friend said, "Dude, I paid you 800 dollars long ago. He could not understand what to say as if he was losing his language after hearing this. My cousin just keeps saying one thing and if he doesn't pay me back the 800 dollars I won't have much financial loss but I can't trust anyone else who did this to me I will never forget it. My cousin is very broken mentally and can't share this with any of his family. He can't take any legal action because Bitcoin is not legal. My cousin keeps saying one thing my best friend cheated on me then I told her a lot that what happened happened don't worry about it anymore.

Your cousin is your adviser  , but ending that he is stupid enough to lend a money to a So called best friend in which about crypto and it was illegal to your country, so this is the result of being stupid enough trusting people with money that has no collateral or no record at all.
sad to hear but your cousin is at the wrong decision here.
best not to fall from same trap again mate, goodluck to you and your cousin.

[Uruhara]

Your cousin should ask his friend for proof of payment. To prove whether he really has paid or not. This is why it is very important for us to always make all loan and repayment agreements accompanied by proof. be it physical or digital receipts. So that the track record can be evidence for us to make sure everything can't be fooled. I understand your cousin is feeling disappointed and maybe a little mentally battered for not even thinking that a friend could be a traitor and a shameless liar. Well this is a unique world. Sometimes enemies can be more trusted than friends. then it's better to make things that have passed as a lesson to be more careful in the future.