unfortunately the mining site tronset.pro doesn’t have a section to show outgoing transactions. I’m not sure why. I have reached out to their support, with no luck.
say i “activate” the new wallet, would it release the transaction in limbo or is it a loss?
No, if the funds are not there. There's no point in sending funds or activating anything.
But I'm starting to think that the problem here is the site you're using and not your wallet. Are you sure it's not a scam? I have googled it, and it has barely any online presence. How did you come across the site?