Behaviours of gamblers you dislike.

[stomachgrowls]

What is the one behaviour you noticed in a gambler and  you dislike it? You don't need to have a reason for disliking it but you just do.

As for me I dislike when gamblers complain of their losses, meanwhile you hear them complain when they are getting winnings.

What about you, what do you dislike ?

The behavior that I don't like in a gambler is liking debt. They like to get into debt and promise to pay it off in the next few days, but never get paid, then come back and ask for another loan. This makes the friendship sour.

Plus, they only come when they need money, and when they win, they never tell me. I had a friend like that and our relationship is now distant and we rarely communicate anymore

This must be a terrible thing, if you can't hold your money and you are getting debt to gamble that is the worst thing ever. First of all, when you are getting debt, that means you must be paying it back, secondly if you are gambling with it, house always wins so you will most likely lose it, if you lose the money and need to pay it back, how can you do it? You will not be able to do it and that's the most important part.

I think it is quite important to realize that you are going to end up with a situation that is a lot worse and need to figure out a way to change it as much as you possibly could. I need to see you get better personally before I could trust you, and I would never give any money to any gambler ever.

On the time that you had reached into the point that you are taking up some loans just for you to gamble then this is a solid sign that you are already that addicted to gambling on which it is really just that wise that you should really be stopping it immediately or quit it mid way if you dont like to mess up your life in talks about finances. Gambling isnt bad as long you do mind yourself about those priorities or those important things in life.

Just like been said that gambling isnt bad as long you do make yourself that responsible for whatever things that you are dealing with. There are really just that people who are really that do fail out on doing so
and they would really only realize things when its too late which is something that had been avoided in the first place on which dont come into a point that you are struggling or heavily affected financially because of your gambling means or activity on which it did really result into such condition where your finances had greatly been affected.

Being greedy? Its normal because we are just humans and this is why its really that important that you should really be that having that good control and discipline towards self because if not
then you are really that bound to mistakes.

[Westinhome]

Perhaps it has not happened to anyone here, but something which makes me to feel quite bothered about gamblers (specially when they have problems with gambling addiction) is when they ask for money and when one asks what they money is for, they do not dare to admit they are obviously trying to get money to gamble away, so lie to our faces instead.

It is like an insult to the intelligence of anyone, like when a person with an obvious problem with alcohol asks you to lean money and lie saying it is not for alcohol.  

Has anyone have to dealt with such uncomfortable situation?

The most reported thing in the gambling was the gambling addiction from the loss.Mostly the gambler became the addict after the loss from the gambling,My friend had won 200k from the gambling.This made my friend to get addicted to the gambling from the other online games like PUBG.Because he had seen the biggest win from the investment of 200 dollars.So like him,if the gamblers get addicted to the gambling by the profit.This also leads to big addiction to the gambling.Some people withdraw the full money after the big like 200k from the gambling.

[Tuturtinular]

On the time that you had reached into the point that you are taking up some loans just for you to gamble then this is a solid sign that you are already that addicted to gambling on which it is really just that wise that you should really be stopping it immediately or quit it mid way if you dont like to mess up your life in talks about finances. Gambling isnt bad as long you do mind yourself about those priorities or those important things in life.

The worst thing about a gambler is when they are addicted to gambling. They are always hungry for money and manipulate to get loans from those closest to them. How many times have they been told to stop but they keep gambling, it's better to just leave it alone and wait until they go bankrupt and lose everything. It was the best way to force him to stop gambling

Being greedy? Its normal because we are just humans and this is why its really that important that you should really be that having that good control and discipline towards self because if not
then you are really that bound to mistakes.

Greed often comes when we get a big win, we don't stop playing and withdrawing money, but continue and increase our bets. Until finally luck was not on his side and all his money was lost again. Then he will go back to looking for a loan

[Webetcoins]

You've hit on a few truths there, but let's not sugarcoat it. Some people  thinking they're smarter than the system. The key is: the house always has the edge. While I'm not here to hold anyone's hand, the idea of looking at gambling as a steady income is 100% stupid. But hey, if you can enjoy a game without going bankrupt, more power to you. For those who can't, a reality check is overdue. But really, find another way to make a living. Not everyone is meant for the gambling world

Those people are arrogant, they somehow believe that the math behind the games does not really apply to them, as if for some reason the odds of the games are going to change simply because they are the ones playing, and when that does not happen they refuse to accept the reality and blame the casino, their luck and anything and anyone they can, without ever admitting they are the main source of their problems, as they believe they can make money while gambling and this is not true.

They are not arrogant but they are idiots. Even after seeing everything clearly, experiencing losses multiple times, losing everything they deposited on uncountable occasions, they still don't understand that gambling is not for making money, it doesn't provide you with constant profits because it is a business and a business can only provide profits for its owner and not the customers, and when we are gambling, we are the customers and the house is the owner.

I really hate this thing in people. It's understandable if they don't listen to you or believe you and say that you are bluffing and lying, but they should at least understand it when they experience it themselves, but no, they always find an excuse to put in front and say that we can still make money from gambling if we get to deposit a lot of money, lol.

[ethereumhunter]

On the time that you had reached into the point that you are taking up some loans just for you to gamble then this is a solid sign that you are already that addicted to gambling on which it is really just that wise that you should really be stopping it immediately or quit it mid way if you dont like to mess up your life in talks about finances. Gambling isnt bad as long you do mind yourself about those priorities or those important things in life.

The worst thing about a gambler is when they are addicted to gambling. They are always hungry for money and manipulate to get loans from those closest to them. How many times have they been told to stop but they keep gambling, it's better to just leave it alone and wait until they go bankrupt and lose everything. It was the best way to force him to stop gambling

That is why you must be able to prevent yourself from becoming addicted to gambling by having self-control that you practice continuously. Without it, you can lose self-control, which will cause you to slowly develop a gambling addiction without you realizing it. Gambling addicts' only desire is to gamble endlessly and if their money runs out, they may look for money in ways they know so they can return to gambling again. If they borrow money from other people, it will only cause serious problems for them. If they have to wait until they go bankrupt, it might be too late to help them because they might commit suicide to end it all. And that has happened in many cases.

[Sanugarid]

What is the one behaviour you noticed in a gambler and  you dislike it? You don't need to have a reason for disliking it but you just do.

As for me I dislike when gamblers complain of their losses, meanwhile you hear them complain when they are getting winnings.

What about you, what do you dislike ?

I really don't like gamblers who become aggressive when they are on a losing streak. It's like he knows the risk that he will keep losing and lose a lot of money, but he still plays and loses and takes his anger out on other people, this is what I hate the most.

I agree with you, my father used to be like this. I understand why they are like that but it's so wrong, you should have a budget when it comes to gambling so that if you lose, you won't feel bad about what you lost. But of course I still love my father very much even though he used to be like that

[Docnaster]

What is the one behaviour you noticed in a gambler and  you dislike it? You don't need to have a reason for disliking it but you just do.

As for me I dislike when gamblers complain of their losses, meanwhile you hear them complain when they are getting winnings.

What about you, what do you dislike ?

I really don't like gamblers who become aggressive when they are on a losing streak. It's like he knows the risk that he will keep losing and lose a lot of money, but he still plays and loses and takes his anger out on other people, this is what I hate the most.

I agree with you, my father used to be like this. I understand why they are like that but it's so wrong, you should have a budget when it comes to gambling so that if you lose, you won't feel bad about what you lost. But of course I still love my father very much even though he used to be like that

Gambling is one engagement that has to do with so much risks and that's why people who can't manage the outcome of losing their money are strongly advised to stay out of gambling. One popular behavior among gamblers especially addicts is that they're always transferring their aggression on people around them whenever they lose their stakes in gambling and sometimes it does lead irreconcilable quarrells with people around them. It's very bad to behold most times.

[Lida93]

What is the one behaviour you noticed in a gambler and  you dislike it? You don't need to have a reason for disliking it but you just do.

As for me I dislike when gamblers complain of their losses, meanwhile you hear them complain when they are getting winnings.

What about you, what do you dislike ?

I really don't like gamblers who become aggressive when they are on a losing streak. It's like he knows the risk that he will keep losing and lose a lot of money, but he still plays and loses and takes his anger out on other people, this is what I hate the most.

I agree with you, my father used to be like this. I understand why they are like that but it's so wrong, you should have a budget when it comes to gambling so that if you lose, you won't feel bad about what you lost. But of course I still love my father very much even though he used to be like that

Gambling is one engagement that has to do with so much risks and that's why people who can't manage the outcome of losing their money are strongly advised to stay out of gambling. One popular behavior among gamblers especially addicts is that they're always transferring their aggression on people around them whenever they lose their stakes in gambling and sometimes it does lead irreconcilable quarrells with people around them. It's very bad to behold most times.

Gamblers that behave this way taking the aggression of their loss on others they are gamblers that gamble beyond what they can afford to let go and just as @Sanugarid said they don't have budget a gambling budget so there's no control of a percentage limit they put budgeted just for gambling.

When you have a percentage amount you keep for yourself you can hardly go beyond it spending money meant for something else for gambling. Another thing is that those that get aggressive and quarrelsome about losing their money to gambling are people who don't view gambling as an activity for fun and entertainment but something entirely of money making.

[Silberman]

Gambling is one engagement that has to do with so much risks and that's why people who can't manage the outcome of losing their money are strongly advised to stay out of gambling. One popular behavior among gamblers especially addicts is that they're always transferring their aggression on people around them whenever they lose their stakes in gambling and sometimes it does lead irreconcilable quarrells with people around them. It's very bad to behold most times.

This is without a doubt a very upsetting behavior, one of the things we must learn early on life is that things will not always happen in the way we want, and what we need to do is to adjust to those new circumstances and move on, however one characteristic a great deal of those that eventually get addicted have is their inability to accept they have lost against the casino or another player, it is as if they expect that everything should always happen in exactly the way they want, and when that obviously does not happen they get mad that was not the case.

[LUCKMCFLY]

I think that he turns his temper on other people when he loses gambling like my father used to.
When he came home he threw all his anger at me when he saw me. Of course not only me, but also my brothers I don't know why. I still remember when it was my birthday, my classmates went to our house to have fun and of course to eat then dad came home from gambling and dad saw my classmates and suddenly slapped me in front of my classmates.

it is the behavior of a gambling addict that in the end he loses his money and takes it out on people. Your father was depressed and would take it out on anyone in front of him. As a child, you will certainly be traumatized when you experience a beating like that in front of your friends and the person who hit you is your own father. The behavior of a gambling addict will really not be liked by anyone, including his own family. This is a pretty bad effect when someone gambles without any management and strategy, they just play and keep playing.

Well, this type of behavior is never good , because it really is Such that the player does not repress it, but what it does is damage, a person who is addicted always highlights the things that make him weaker, and a A person is weaker when at the moment of playing he Cannot control himself and loses everything, at that Moment he does not want to get Even , and for him to take that type of behavior it is because obviously things he does not know how to handle well, they are poorly channeled money. So if a person has these sentimental shortcomings, it is not advisable for them to play, because things cannot be that way, nor look good, no matter how much Addiction problem they have Because Others are not to blame for doing the things that they lose, if he loses is his responsibility, a person who is in his right mind, if he loses, he assumes the loss , he does not feel bad nor does he have to take out his anger with others, because that is the Worst thing that can be done.

When a person is in a State that is so strong , so Severe, so bad, it is dangerous. I have come to see how some men under the influence of alcohol, gambling, drugs and those things are very bad. Those who suffer the most are the family members, if that is the case a person Who is the Head of the family because things can be quite difficult, because some things are Usually abandoned, such as buying what is necessary to shop, the basic needs of the children, they Neglect school, they begin to do poorly in their Studies and a series of lacks without need, only because of irresponsibility, the bad thing about all this is that a man hits his children , Woman , because the game puts it that way, that is the only thing that should be avoided, one cannot be thinking that the game is the exit, that is why whenever we go to play it is important to have the best of all the answers, to have the money willing to lose, if you lose it is Assumed, if you win then you enjoy the money , but no more , that Entertainment does not Turn into a Nightmare.

[kamvreto]

~snip~When a person is in a State that is so strong , so Severe, so bad, it is dangerous. I have come to see how some men under the influence of alcohol, gambling, drugs and those things are very bad. Those who suffer the most are the family members, if that is the case a person Who is the Head of the family because things can be quite difficult, because some things are Usually abandoned, such as buying what is necessary to shop, the basic needs of the children, they Neglect school, they begin to do poorly in their Studies and a series of lacks without need, only because of irresponsibility, the bad thing about all this is that a man hits his children , Woman , because the game puts it that way, that is the only thing that should be avoided, one cannot be thinking that the game is the exit, that is why whenever we go to play it is important to have the best of all the answers, to have the money willing to lose, if you lose it is Assumed, if you win then you enjoy the money , but no more , that Entertainment does not Turn into a Nightmare.

The negative impact of unhealthy gambling on their nuclear family does look scary. How could it not be when they are a gambling addict who is the head of the household and cannot control their emotions, not carrying out good responsibilities as head of the household will destroy their family. Moreover, if the head of the household commits acts of violence against his children or wife, this can no longer be tolerated and becomes very undesirable gambling behavior. The self-control of these negative traits and behaviors really must be exercised, lest they become behaviors that cannot be changed and have fatal consequences for the harmonious life of a family.

[Mr.suevie]

On the time that you had reached into the point that you are taking up some loans just for you to gamble then this is a solid sign that you are already that addicted to gambling on which it is really just that wise that you should really be stopping it immediately or quit it mid way if you dont like to mess up your life in talks about finances. Gambling isnt bad as long you do mind yourself about those priorities or those important things in life.

The worst thing about a gambler is when they are addicted to gambling. They are always hungry for money and manipulate to get loans from those closest to them. How many times have they been told to stop but they keep gambling, it's better to just leave it alone and wait until they go bankrupt and lose everything. It was the best way to force him to stop gambling

That is why you must be able to prevent yourself from becoming addicted to gambling by having self-control that you practice continuously. Without it, you can lose self-control, which will cause you to slowly develop a gambling addiction without you realizing it. Gambling addicts' only desire is to gamble endlessly and if their money runs out, they may look for money in ways they know so they can return to gambling again. If they borrow money from other people, it will only cause serious problems for them. If they have to wait until they go bankrupt, it might be too late to help them because they might commit suicide to end it all. And that has happened in many cases.

An addicted gambler is a really serious issue  because its something that is not easily stopped and sometimes I see most advice saying that an addicted gambler should always talk to people about their issue but this particular advice to me seems irrelevant because only someone who is addicted can actually advice his or herself to actually stop this act because it is self discipline and determination which most people fail to have.

[Tuturtinular]

An addicted gambler is a really serious issue 

Yes, apart from gambling addicts whose behavior is not liked by family and friends, they also have the opportunity to commit crimes for the sake of money. Or worse, if they have too much debt, they could end their own life

I see most advice saying that an addicted gambler should always talk to people about their issue but this particular advice to me seems irrelevant because only someone who is addicted can actually advice his or herself to actually stop this act because it is self discipline and determination which most people fail to have.

I think it is important to tell his family or friends about his gambling addiction problem so that they can care about him and help him get out of the gambling cycle. Why is it important to tell? because if they only rely on their beliefs to stop gambling, usually they are not strong enough and end up gambling again. Actually, it doesn't matter whether people gamble or not, but being a gambling addict is a serious problem

[SeriouslyGiveaway]

What is the one behaviour you noticed in a gambler and  you dislike it? You don't need to have a reason for disliking it but you just do.

As for me I dislike when gamblers complain of their losses, meanwhile you hear them complain when they are getting winnings.

What about you, what do you dislike ?

For me, I don't like gamblers who can't admit their mistakes and often come up with various excuses, not taking responsibility for their actions. I believe it's a bad habit that doesn't help them improve. On the other hand, being overly confident isn't a good attitude when engaging in gambling, in my opinion. It's important to strike a balance and have a clear understanding of one's strengths and weaknesses.

There are others that are addicted to gambling and never socialize with other people they are just focused on their gambling activities but there are also other gamblers that keep bugging you asking for money or other things which is very annoying and for sure all of us don't like it.

I've noticed that many addicted gamblers tend to pester and borrow money from their family or friends to some extent. It's better to firmly refuse such requests and not engage in explanations. Lending them money only pushes them further into debt and addiction. I consider this to be one of the worst behaviors frequently encountered among gamblers.

[Hirose UK]

An addicted gambler is a really serious issue 

Yes, apart from gambling addicts whose behavior is not liked by family and friends, they also have the opportunity to commit crimes for the sake of money. Or worse, if they have too much debt, they could end their own life

Yes this is a negative impact of gambling addicts and also the thing that least favorite is borrowing money.
Some people are reluctant to lend money to a gambler and usually people like this will default on their loans or will not be able to pay back the loan money on time.

I see most advice saying that an addicted gambler should always talk to people about their issue but this particular advice to me seems irrelevant because only someone who is addicted can actually advice his or herself to actually stop this act because it is self discipline and determination which most people fail to have.

I think it is important to tell his family or friends about his gambling addiction problem so that they can care about him and help him get out of the gambling cycle. Why is it important to tell? because if they only rely on their beliefs to stop gambling, usually they are not strong enough and end up gambling again. Actually, it doesn't matter whether people gamble or not, but being a gambling addict is a serious problem

A gambler will of course keep their gambling activities a secret because they don't want to be seen as bad or don't want other people to interfere too much in their life as they enter the gambling circle.

Telling the family may be more helpful but not a few people around such as the family will want to care if he has become a gambling addict even the family may prefer to leave him.
But there no harm in trying this because it true that relying on yourself won't necessarily help get out of the difficulties experiencing with gambling addiction.

[ethereumhunter]

An addicted gambler is a really serious issue  because its something that is not easily stopped and sometimes I see most advice saying that an addicted gambler should always talk to people about their issue but this particular advice to me seems irrelevant because only someone who is addicted can actually advice his or herself to actually stop this act because it is self discipline and determination which most people fail to have.

At least, if he is willing to talk to other people and talk about his problems, he can be a little relieved and reduce his burden so that he can also get advice from other people to overcome his gambling addiction. Maybe other people can suggest he do something different from gambling or take him somewhere to do something new, which will require the focus of the gambling addict so that he can divert his thoughts about gambling. If that can be accompanied by self-discipline and determination to cure his gambling addiction, it can give him the opportunity to start something new. That can help him to cure his gambling addiction. But it all depends on the gambling addict himself because he must be aware of his gambling addiction so that he intends to stop it.

[darewaller]

Gambling is one engagement that has to do with so much risks and that's why people who can't manage the outcome of losing their money are strongly advised to stay out of gambling. One popular behavior among gamblers especially addicts is that they're always transferring their aggression on people around them whenever they lose their stakes in gambling and sometimes it does lead irreconcilable quarrells with people around them. It's very bad to behold most times.

This is without a doubt a very upsetting behavior, one of the things we must learn early on life is that things will not always happen in the way we want, and what we need to do is to adjust to those new circumstances and move on, however one characteristic a great deal of those that eventually get addicted have is their inability to accept they have lost against the casino or another player, it is as if they expect that everything should always happen in exactly the way they want, and when that obviously does not happen they get mad that was not the case.

There are things which are totally reliant on luck and there some in skills but like you said, no matter how eager we are of wanting it and no matter how much skill we have, it seems that all things in this world still needs a luck. It is hard at first once we fail but we can always move on. Maybe there are some who just end their lives immediately which is sad.

There are other negative characteristics of some gamblers but in no way of disliking it. That is their life anyway so why should I care? they can also think like us, where they also don't care that we are just calm. It is enough that their own characteristics are the ones that can give them a lesson.

[Lida93]

What is the one behaviour you noticed in a gambler and  you dislike it? You don't need to have a reason for disliking it but you just do.

As for me I dislike when gamblers complain of their losses, meanwhile you hear them complain when they are getting winnings.

What about you, what do you dislike ?

For me, I don't like gamblers who can't admit their mistakes and often come up with various excuses, not taking responsibility for their actions. I believe it's a bad habit that doesn't help them improve. On the other hand, being overly confident isn't a good attitude when engaging in gambling, in my opinion. It's important to strike a balance and have a clear understanding of one's strengths and weaknesses.

Even on a normal level of reasoning people still avoid/deny responsibility not to talk of one who's a gambling addict he will wanna use gambling as an excuse to avoid  accepting or been responsible with issues of life.

There are others that are addicted to gambling and never socialize with other people they are just focused on their gambling activities but there are also other gamblers that keep bugging you asking for money or other things which is very annoying and for sure all of us don't like it.

I've noticed that many addicted gamblers tend to pester and borrow money from their family or friends to some extent. It's better to firmly refuse such requests and not engage in explanations. Lending them money only pushes them further into debt and addiction. I consider this to be one of the worst behaviors frequently encountered among gamblers.

Some people are casually shy and introvert as their nature they therefore use gambling as a distraction to  occupy themselves and stay away from associating with people all of the time so they don't discover how much of an introvert they are. They even pretend to be too serious focus on their gambling while in the midst of other gamblers.

When a gambler start pestering and disturbing friends and relative about lending him money to fund his gambling lifestyle, it should be known that such a gambler has really soaking deep into addiction and can do or sell almost anything their eyes perch on to get money. I consider them to be very dangerous gamblers.

[LUCKMCFLY]

~snip~When a person is in a State that is so strong , so Severe, so bad, it is dangerous. I have come to see how some men under the influence of alcohol, gambling, drugs and those things are very bad. Those who suffer the most are the family members, if that is the case a person Who is the Head of the family because things can be quite difficult, because some things are Usually abandoned, such as buying what is necessary to shop, the basic needs of the children, they Neglect school, they begin to do poorly in their Studies and a series of lacks without need, only because of irresponsibility, the bad thing about all this is that a man hits his children , Woman , because the game puts it that way, that is the only thing that should be avoided, one cannot be thinking that the game is the exit, that is why whenever we go to play it is important to have the best of all the answers, to have the money willing to lose, if you lose it is Assumed, if you win then you enjoy the money , but no more , that Entertainment does not Turn into a Nightmare.

The negative impact of unhealthy gambling on their nuclear family does look scary. How could it not be when they are a gambling addict who is the head of the household and cannot control their emotions, not carrying out good responsibilities as head of the household will destroy their family. Moreover, if the head of the household commits acts of violence against his children or wife, this can no longer be tolerated and becomes very undesirable gambling behavior. The self-control of these negative traits and behaviors really must be exercised, lest they become behaviors that cannot be changed and have fatal consequences for the harmonious life of a family.

There are people who are like that, personally I have seen many who do not give importance to what they have, to what is so difficult to build during a lifetime so that they can have something, however the game is capable of taking everything away from them. a person for not knowing how to control themselves, there are cases where they even pawn their own house for the game, and they still win or lose it, but it is very sad when they lose it, I am a person who always takes those things into consideration, because it is due learn to be more realistic, in the casino things happen because the person can get excited, they can believe that they are going to win a lot because they bet a lot of money, and things are not like that, the casino does not work like that, people sometimes forget the fact that the casino always has the house advantage and that is something that always has to be taken into consideration, otherwise things can go very wrong, I could say that when it comes to gambling you have to leave money available to lose and that money should be allocated, but that is not the way.

To avoid these things, many things must be considered, first that the person is aware that he has to have his limits, that he should never exceed himself in order to achieve a goal in the casino, even if he has a lot of money it is also dangerous, and a player You can have a lot of money and you can spend it quickly from the moment you decide to make huge bets, just with the intention of winning a lot, if you can do it, but it is something very difficult, reckless, so when things start to get more difficult you can becoming what we call self-control, it is when you consider that you have lost a lot, the best thing is to retire, because it is a way of protecting what is essential, you may have had a loss, but you cannot lose everything, this is what we We can draw a conclusion, so every time we are seeing a situation like this, or experience it, we have to remember what they have and what they cannot or should not lose.

[Silberman]

An addicted gambler is a really serious issue  because its something that is not easily stopped and sometimes I see most advice saying that an addicted gambler should always talk to people about their issue but this particular advice to me seems irrelevant because only someone who is addicted can actually advice his or herself to actually stop this act because it is self discipline and determination which most people fail to have.

Another reason why having groups like AA is a good idea is that those people know exactly what you are going through, and while they know how hard it is they are not going to cut you any slack either, so if you begin to give excuses about why you cannot keep yourself away from the source of your addiction, they will call you out and point you on the right direction, so while talking with your friends and family members is a good idea, since they know nothing about what you are going through then the help they can give you is limited at best.