Can Gambling affect your relationship?

[len01]

Gambling can destroy your relationship when your partner notice that you are addicted gambler, if you are a someone that plays gambling with a precautions and hind it to your family you never have a misunderstanding with your partner or with your family, many people seems gamblers or whosoever that plays gambling as irresponsible person, but that is a fatal lies because gambling can not change your character except its a situation whereby you alone gambling to penetrate into your lifestyle and initiate another way, their is no educated person that gamble beyond its monthly and weekly income, so what causes issues in family or relationship towards gambling is when you are not meeting up with provision of your family and you divert the funds to gamble, so that is only thing that brings issues between partner towards gambling

this is the real problem point.
as a man, it is our responsibility to support his family and if we want to gamble, it won't be a problem as long as it doesn't affect the economy or our daily needs and we are able to manage our finances well. if we really want to gamble, try to find a side job that can make more money than your target every month and if that is successful we do it, make sure we only spend 2-5% of our monthly income on gambling and so far it has been going well without any problems and we can afford it. managing well, the relationship with our partner will definitely not be damaged and everything will be fine, even if a man's income is always good without any problems, a partner will definitely allow her husband to gamble.

most important thing is to give confidence to your partner with good behavior and a strong commitment if you are able to gamble responsibly and I am sure your partner will allow it.

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[slapper]

Gambling can destroy your relationship when your partner notice that you are addicted gambler, if you are a someone that plays gambling with a precautions and hind it to your family you never have a misunderstanding with your partner or with your family, many people seems gamblers or whosoever that plays gambling as irresponsible person, but that is a fatal lies because gambling can not change your character except its a situation whereby you alone gambling to penetrate into your lifestyle and initiate another way, their is no educated person that gamble beyond its monthly and weekly income, so what causes issues in family or relationship towards gambling is when you are not meeting up with provision of your family and you divert the funds to gamble, so that is only thing that brings issues between partner towards gambling

this is the real problem point.
as a man, it is our responsibility to support his family and if we want to gamble, it won't be a problem as long as it doesn't affect the economy or our daily needs and we are able to manage our finances well. if we really want to gamble, try to find a side job that can make more money than your target every month and if that is successful we do it, make sure we only spend 2-5% of our monthly income on gambling and so far it has been going well without any problems and we can afford it. managing well, the relationship with our partner will definitely not be damaged and everything will be fine, even if a man's income is always good without any problems, a partner will definitely allow her husband to gamble.

most important thing is to give confidence to your partner with good behavior and a strong commitment if you are able to gamble responsibly and I am sure your partner will allow it.

You're doing great at responsible gambling! We're talking about a hobby, a thrill, a bit of zest in the mundane routine of life. You’ve got it right; we can enjoy gambling without tipping the scales. Allocate a small percentage of income - you said 2-5%, perfect! This isn't reckless; it's calculated fun. The key? Stick to the plan like glue. If we're smart, disciplined, gambling becomes an exhilarating, controlled dive into excitement, not a freefall into chaos

Balancing a relationship with gambling is tricky, but not impossible. Transparency and trust, those are our pillars. Show her the books, the wins, the losses, the budget. She sees you're in control; her worries fade away. It's not just about the money; it's about the thrill, the entertainment, the strategy. It’s an intellectual challenge, a test of wits, and a dash of luck. Brainsport, not simply a game. So yes, gamble! But do it with such finesse and control that it becomes a testament to your discipline, not a question mark on your responsibilities

[Gozie51]

No gambler can realize it properly until the loss. To bet on the addiction of profit leads to the destruction of life. That hurts family relationships. It is very sad that negative attitudes are created in relationships. Gambling should be stopped before it can affect the relationship. Gambling requires skill but is not effective everywhere. Some are succeeding while others continue until the damage is done.

Yeah until the damage is done  It looks like you are well experienced in the things concerning gambling and how you have some wins and you decide to increase your stake then come the crashing and that has broken many homes. When money comes in through gambling, every one is happy but if the losses come and the home becomes impecunious then it creates problem between spouse when financial obligations begin to stare in the face. There is no doubt that the gambling is capable to raise the financial status of the home when the winning is coming and also can pull the family resources down when there is losses but the weight of losses is greater than winnings.

[gabbie2010]

Gambling can destroy your relationship when your partner notice that you are addicted gambler, if you are a someone that plays gambling with a precautions and hind it to your family you never have a misunderstanding with your partner or with your family, many people seems gamblers or whosoever that plays gambling as irresponsible person, but that is a fatal lies because gambling can not change your character except its a situation whereby you alone gambling to penetrate into your lifestyle and initiate another way, their is no educated person that gamble beyond its monthly and weekly income, so what causes issues in family or relationship towards gambling is when you are not meeting up with provision of your family and you divert the funds to gamble, so that is only thing that brings issues between partner towards gambling

this is the real problem point.
as a man, it is our responsibility to support his family and if we want to gamble, it won't be a problem as long as it doesn't affect the economy or our daily needs and we are able to manage our finances well. if we really want to gamble, try to find a side job that can make more money than your target every month and if that is successful we do it, make sure we only spend 2-5% of our monthly income on gambling and so far it has been going well without any problems and we can afford it. managing well, the relationship with our partner will definitely not be damaged and everything will be fine, even if a man's income is always good without any problems, a partner will definitely allow her husband to gamble.

most important thing is to give confidence to your partner with good behavior and a strong commitment if you are able to gamble responsibly and I am sure your partner will allow it.

I gamble responsibly such that I never let it affect my relationship with my partner that is I only gamble with the amount of money I can afford to lose therefore if lose no pain no gain after all my commitment to the family is not affected by gambling activities because I don't rely solely on gambling as means of income to support or cater for my family rather whatever income I earned from gambling serve as extra source of income that can be used to pay for some minor bills, of course I knew the consequences of being addicted to gambling and how it can affect my relationship with my partner thus I will always avoid anything that can bring about a strain relationship with my partner.

[junder]

Gambling can destroy your relationship when your partner notice that you are addicted gambler, if you are a someone that plays gambling with a precautions and hind it to your family you never have a misunderstanding with your partner or with your family, many people seems gamblers or whosoever that plays gambling as irresponsible person, but that is a fatal lies because gambling can not change your character except its a situation whereby you alone gambling to penetrate into your lifestyle and initiate another way, their is no educated person that gamble beyond its monthly and weekly income, so what causes issues in family or relationship towards gambling is when you are not meeting up with provision of your family and you divert the funds to gamble, so that is only thing that brings issues between partner towards gambling

this is the real problem point.
as a man, it is our responsibility to support his family and if we want to gamble, it won't be a problem as long as it doesn't affect the economy or our daily needs and we are able to manage our finances well. if we really want to gamble, try to find a side job that can make more money than your target every month and if that is successful we do it, make sure we only spend 2-5% of our monthly income on gambling and so far it has been going well without any problems and we can afford it. managing well, the relationship with our partner will definitely not be damaged and everything will be fine, even if a man's income is always good without any problems, a partner will definitely allow her husband to gamble.

most important thing is to give confidence to your partner with good behavior and a strong commitment if you are able to gamble responsibly and I am sure your partner will allow it.

That's true, as men of course we have a big responsibility, especially towards our own family where in our own family of course we will be the head of the family who has to provide for our own family because that is the responsibility of the head of the family. also as a man we have to be able to manage our finances well, therefore we have to have a clear income to be able to support our family, even if we like to gamble it doesn't matter as long as it doesn't disturb the finances which should be the family's right, so if you really want to gamble please being able to just set aside our pocket money is better.
Even though women are known to be better at managing finances, there is nothing wrong with men having to be able to manage their finances well, and also men must be able to regulate themselves to limit gambling because otherwise their finances might be in conflict which could have an impact on their relationship. their family, and clearly this is a disaster, as best as possible if you really like gambling, don't let your own family be affected by the effects of gambling.

[maydna]

I gamble responsibly such that I never let it affect my relationship with my partner that is I only gamble with the amount of money I can afford to lose therefore if lose no pain no gain after all my commitment to the family is not affected by gambling activities because I don't rely solely on gambling as means of income to support or cater for my family rather whatever income I earned from gambling serve as extra source of income that can be used to pay for some minor bills, of course I knew the consequences of being addicted to gambling and how it can affect my relationship with my partner thus I will always avoid anything that can bring about a strain relationship with my partner.

You are right to be a responsible gambler because we don't want to see our lives fall apart because we gamble excessively. We also know that many gamblers end up losing their responsibility in gambling, which causes their relationship with their partner to fall apart. And it's not worth it if we experience it because our goal in gambling is to have fun and get entertainment, so we have to be responsible gamblers. However, when we gamble, there will be temptations that will encourage us to continue gambling. But responsibility, self-control, and the desire to avoid more losses can make us stop our gambling activities before things turn bad. We will not experience any problems by gambling responsibly.

[Asuspawer09]

Yes, Gambling addiction has strained a lot of relationships through financial instabilities emotional turmoil, social isolation, and family problems. Gambling which was meant to be a popular kind of entertainment for many and was designed to provide a temporary escape from everyday life and also help one to be more observant mentally task your brain and it is also good for your mental brain. When it becomes an addiction it causes financial strain the strain can manifest in various ways including the loss of shared savings, debt accumulation, and financial secrecy which may lead to strained communication between partners. This communication breakdown can prevent couples, friends, and associates from working together.

I mean it can for sure affect your relationship with your partner especially if you are a gambling addict and gamble a lot your partner for your are concern about what you are doing and not gonna allowed that if your are not gonna listen to your partner and that is also affecting your financial that could totally leads to fights and worst even break up or divorce on the end. I mean i've know alot of people where they get they live their man since the man doesnt want to stop what his doing always wasting there money gambling on cock fights if your familiar with it. Her wife knows about his gambling addiction and it always lead to fights since most of the time its all about money.

But in some cases this could easily be prevented since in the first place gambling are for entertainment and you could always gamble responsible and moderately, with that you could set limitations and doing it just for fun just to see if your kinda lucky. I mean if you get it there are times that you kinda want to bet on a lotto and thinking that your going to win, then you bet on it, in the end you dont really care if you win just want to do it just for fun.

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I gamble responsibly such that I never let it affect my relationship with my partner that is I only gamble with the amount of money I can afford to lose therefore if lose no pain no gain after all my commitment to the family is not affected by gambling activities because I don't rely solely on gambling as means of income to support or cater for my family rather whatever income I earned from gambling serve as extra source of income that can be used to pay for some minor bills, of course I knew the consequences of being addicted to gambling and how it can affect my relationship with my partner thus I will always avoid anything that can bring about a strain relationship with my partner.

you have very precise thinking and more precisely, think of gambling as looking for luck with a small amount, who knows, maybe you can get a big win, it can provide extra money for your daily needs.
this kind of thinking is what makes our family harmonious without having serious problems caused by gambling and gambling responsibly is very necessary to be able to continue gambling, but partners also allow it as long as it doesn't worsen the family's economic situation.

but my advice is that if you gamble responsibly, you still have to tell about your gambling activities so that one day when you lose control, your partner will remind you to always gamble responsibly, putting your family first.
the reason I say this is because no matter how hard you gamble, you will definitely lose control at some point when you have problems and force yourself to gamble. so try to be honest with your partner so that your family remains safe from the bad effects of gambling.

[Accardo]

I gamble responsibly such that I never let it affect my relationship with my partner that is I only gamble with the amount of money I can afford to lose therefore if lose no pain no gain after all my commitment to the family is not affected by gambling activities because I don't rely solely on gambling as means of income to support or cater for my family rather whatever income I earned from gambling serve as extra source of income that can be used to pay for some minor bills, of course I knew the consequences of being addicted to gambling and how it can affect my relationship with my partner thus I will always avoid anything that can bring about a strain relationship with my partner.

You are right to be a responsible gambler because we don't want to see our lives fall apart because we gamble excessively. We also know that many gamblers end up losing their responsibility in gambling, which causes their relationship with their partner to fall apart. And it's not worth it if we experience it because our goal in gambling is to have fun and get entertainment, so we have to be responsible gamblers. However, when we gamble, there will be temptations that will encourage us to continue gambling. But responsibility, self-control, and the desire to avoid more losses can make us stop our gambling activities before things turn bad. We will not experience any problems by gambling responsibly.

Being a responsible gambler is nice for every gambler, but may also be a problem in a relationship for a spouse who doesn't like, one bit, gambling. It also serves as a means of extra work for the gambler. He needs to convince his wife that there is nothing wrong with what he's doing. The aim and goal of that gambler is to secure his home and not put an end to a long-lasting relationship that he has formed in his life. Because the disadvantage of being a responsible gambler in a relationship where the spouse frowns at gambling is that, if the relationship breaks, the responsible gambler can become a compulsive gambler in the process, due to heartbreak. Hence the gambler needs to endeavor to stabilize his relationship and make a space in his time to explain to his wife not to be afraid about his gambling habit. But if the girl's family rule is strictly against it, I don't think the relationship would last long. In such a relationship, the gambler needs to hide it from the nongambling spouse.

That way he doesn't need to gamble at home when the wife is around. Or he can be making use of the physical casinos. It can only get better, but gambling is a threat to most relationships. It has no good news circulating in the brains of people. Once a person figures out you gamble, his first impression of you will change, and he'll begin to see you as a person who is not money-conscious, wastes money on casinos borrows to gamble, etc. And to remove such doubts on them would be difficult, as the ways to prove them are very slim. Unless the players win a jackpot, his spouse will still have doubts about the gambler. Being financially conscious while gambling as a married man is very crucial. Failing our family is like dealing with ourselves too. Whatever we see as bad to us shouldn't be used to affect the peace of our family members.

[uchegod-21]

No gambler can realize it properly until the loss. To bet on the addiction of profit leads to the destruction of life. That hurts family relationships. It is very sad that negative attitudes are created in relationships. Gambling should be stopped before it can affect the relationship. Gambling requires skill but is not effective everywhere. Some are succeeding while others continue until the damage is done.

Yeah until the damage is done  It looks like you are well experienced in the things concerning gambling and how you have some wins and you decide to increase your stake then come the crashing and that has broken many homes. When money comes in through gambling, every one is happy but if the losses come and the home becomes impecunious then it creates problem between spouse when financial obligations begin to stare in the face. There is no doubt that the gambling is capable to raise the financial status of the home when the winning is coming and also can pull the family resources down when there is losses but the weight of losses is greater than winnings.

One thing about winning and losing in gambling is that the excitement of winning supersedes the agony of losing. What do I mean in essence, can be lossing almost everyday and when you check the accumulative losses it will amount to a very high money but whenever they manage to get one win, the excitement of that winning will make them forget all their accumulative losses.

Relating this to relationship, if someone is always on the winning streak his spouse will be happy and the relationship will be in a good shape, no one will complain. But immediately loses continue and money no longer flow in the family that is when people will understand the negative effect of gambling and blame everything and the gambler. This is the reason why every gambler needs to be financially conscious and spend according to their budget.

[Slow death]

Although money can alleviate fights in a relationship, it is still not enough to stop the many fights that exist in a relationship. Most of the time when one of the parties to the marriage or relationship has dedicated little time to their partner, then the fights don't end. and gambling is very time consuming for those who are addicted or looking for more profits. I've read many stories of people who said that when they became addicted to gambling, they spent many hours locked in their room playing on the computer and no longer paid attention to their wives and children. as they no longer paid attention to their wives and children, so the wives started to complain in the family and the fights didn't end

but even with so many fights, they didn't stop playing, they even treated their wives and children badly because they wanted to have more time to play, so as time went by the game also started to affect the jobs of these people and the wives got tired and gave up on these activities. people and took their children. I think that gambling has a lot of power to influence relationships in a very negative way, women hardly agree for their partners to play in physical casinos and in the case of online casinos people keep playing without their wives accepting that they play and In a relationship there should be no secrets

[Suzume]

Yes we have seen when a gambler start gambling at the starting time the distance between a gambler and gambler family increase. In our society usually people don't take gambling lightly they have a lot of bad thinking for gamblers. Because the gambler in our country limit less. They play until go empty. That reason relationship distance increase and people don't like gamblers.

If the gambler cannot divide his time between gambling and his family, he can start to become distant from his family. And if he becomes less and less aware of this "distant," he will become increasingly distant from everyone, not just his family. He will become more concerned with gambling than other people, even his own family.

They cannot differentiate between their gambling and their family. All that was on his mind was gambling. And the more often they gamble, the more they will forget the presence of their family. Every gambler should avoid this because they gamble only to have fun. And that means they must not forget or become distant from their families or the people around them.

If they can balance their gambling activities with their family, they can still enjoy their free time by gambling. However, if they feel that gambling makes them distant from their family, they must immediately stop their gambling activities. If not, they will get deeper into gambling and will eventually become addicted to gambling.

This happens unnoticed during the game. The player himself will not be able to understand exactly when the line between entertainment in gambling and real family life is blurred. Therefore, this needs to be very strictly controlled. The stakes are too high, but usually no one thinks about this, but rather thinks about game strategies, odds, potential winnings and who to borrow money from next time. If a player’s head constantly thinks about such things 24/7, then his family will leave him sooner or later and it will be almost impossible to get her back. It’s better not to let things get to that point and try to control yourself. After all, if we lose our family, then ultimately we may lose ourselves.

Yes loses in gambling creats this type of problem in a gambler's life. Because no one have enough money for started gambling. For that after facing big losses the always thik to recover thier money. That thinking is harmful for his. Because in bad thinking people do bad behavior with family members. That's thinking and behavior creat distance inside family. After all of that family can't conect back together. That reason relationship affect in a gambler life.

[maydna]

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Being a responsible gambler is nice for every gambler, but may also be a problem in a relationship for a spouse who doesn't like, one bit, gambling. It also serves as a means of extra work for the gambler. He needs to convince his wife that there is nothing wrong with what he's doing. The aim and goal of that gambler is to secure his home and not put an end to a long-lasting relationship that he has formed in his life. Because the disadvantage of being a responsible gambler in a relationship where the spouse frowns at gambling is that, if the relationship breaks, the responsible gambler can become a compulsive gambler in the process, due to heartbreak. Hence the gambler needs to endeavor to stabilize his relationship and make a space in his time to explain to his wife not to be afraid about his gambling habit. But if the girl's family rule is strictly against it, I don't think the relationship would last long. In such a relationship, the gambler needs to hide it from the nongambling spouse.

That way he doesn't need to gamble at home when the wife is around. Or he can be making use of the physical casinos. It can only get better, but gambling is a threat to most relationships. It has no good news circulating in the brains of people. Once a person figures out you gamble, his first impression of you will change, and he'll begin to see you as a person who is not money-conscious, wastes money on casinos borrows to gamble, etc. And to remove such doubts on them would be difficult, as the ways to prove them are very slim. Unless the players win a jackpot, his spouse will still have doubts about the gambler. Being financially conscious while gambling as a married man is very crucial. Failing our family is like dealing with ourselves too. Whatever we see as bad to us shouldn't be used to affect the peace of our family members.

When he can be a responsible gambler, but his partner does not like him being involved in gambling, it will disrupt his relationship with his partner. His partner will ask him to stop gambling on the pretext that someone could lose his responsibility for gambling, especially when that person loses a lot of money because of his losses. But the gambler said he would be fine in gambling, and there would be no problems whatsoever. Yes, each of them is right, and no one can be blamed, but for the sake of a good domestic life, there needs to be deeper communication between them to understand each other's desires. But it is better for a gambler to stop gambling, especially if he is married, because there is no guarantee that he can still be responsible when he gambles.

If he continues to gamble when his wife is not at home even though the gambler has said that he has stopped gambling, that is the same as lying to his wife, and he and his wife will probably know that the gambler is lying. If that happens, it will trigger arguments between the two, and inevitably, small problems will become big. With so many interesting things found in casinos, it can really make someone forget their responsibilities while gambling, and this is what their partner is worried about. His partner does not want to see the gambler lose control of himself and use more money, even family money, to gamble.

[Accardo]

Being a responsible gambler is nice for every gambler, but may also be a problem in a relationship for a spouse who doesn't like, one bit, gambling. It also serves as a means of extra work for the gambler. He needs to convince his wife that there is nothing wrong with what he's doing. The aim and goal of that gambler is to secure his home and not put an end to a long-lasting relationship that he has formed in his life. Because the disadvantage of being a responsible gambler in a relationship where the spouse frowns at gambling is that, if the relationship breaks, the responsible gambler can become a compulsive gambler in the process, due to heartbreak. Hence the gambler needs to endeavor to stabilize his relationship and make a space in his time to explain to his wife not to be afraid about his gambling habit. But if the girl's family rule is strictly against it, I don't think the relationship would last long. In such a relationship, the gambler needs to hide it from the nongambling spouse.

That way he doesn't need to gamble at home when the wife is around. Or he can be making use of the physical casinos. It can only get better, but gambling is a threat to most relationships. It has no good news circulating in the brains of people. Once a person figures out you gamble, his first impression of you will change, and he'll begin to see you as a person who is not money-conscious, wastes money on casinos borrows to gamble, etc. And to remove such doubts on them would be difficult, as the ways to prove them are very slim. Unless the players win a jackpot, his spouse will still have doubts about the gambler. Being financially conscious while gambling as a married man is very crucial. Failing our family is like dealing with ourselves too. Whatever we see as bad to us shouldn't be used to affect the peace of our family members.

When he can be a responsible gambler, but his partner does not like him being involved in gambling, it will disrupt his relationship with his partner. His partner will ask him to stop gambling on the pretext that someone could lose his responsibility for gambling, especially when that person loses a lot of money because of his losses. But the gambler said he would be fine in gambling, and there would be no problems whatsoever. Yes, each of them is right, and no one can be blamed, but for the sake of a good domestic life, there needs to be deeper communication between them to understand each other's desires. But it is better for a gambler to stop gambling, especially if he is married, because there is no guarantee that he can still be responsible when he gambles.

If he continues to gamble when his wife is not at home even though the gambler has said that he has stopped gambling, that is the same as lying to his wife, and he and his wife will probably know that the gambler is lying. If that happens, it will trigger arguments between the two, and inevitably, small problems will become big. With so many interesting things found in casinos, it can really make someone forget their responsibilities while gambling, and this is what their partner is worried about. His partner does not want to see the gambler lose control of himself and use more money, even family money, to gamble.

One thing leads to another and a well-groomed relationship could blast into a full-grown fire of trouble because of a single match stick of lie that was detected. Yes, the gambler needs to stop to save his family from a long-term problem. Because when we uncomfortably participate in gambling, we may not be reasonable enough like when gamble in a stable state of mind. However, people are not always made complete without some problems. The wife also has some flaws that the gambler needs to live with. Every marriage has a dispute, one way or another, both spouses are not perfectly made. Peace only reigns if one person stays in a house, but once two or more people are under the same roof, at some point, troubles begin to erupt. Solving the gambling trouble doesn't end the problem of the marriage. It's just a temporary dispute, the brain can't leave the gambling slot empty without being occupied with some other leisure activity which the man must use to keep himself busy.

And the part of the woman's brain that wasn't comfortable with gambling would not be comfortable with the activity eating up the man's time, and vice versa. Because the man also has some things he doesn't like about the wife. Hence, in a family spouses need to have a mutual understanding, and help one another in changing or solving their troubles. Gambling responsibly is not a problem or trouble, but it could be a source of dispute in a family. You see the different perspectives that need to be settled, the woman's flaws could be fine in the eyes of people who understand her attitude, but not in the man's senses. For instance, we are the people who can differentiate between when a gambler is in his right mode and when he's addicted. But, some other people can't, they only rate gambling as wrong or bad. Nothing would ever make them understand that some are responsible while others are not, they only placed everyone in that same category. So, it'll be hard to stop issues from happening in a relationship, it's better to hold on to one trouble and solve it mutually and both parties accept some terms. Because stopping a responsible gambler from gambler, may not be the right solution for the relationship.

[Mr. Magkaisa]

No gambler can realize it properly until the loss. To bet on the addiction of profit leads to the destruction of life. That hurts family relationships. It is very sad that negative attitudes are created in relationships. Gambling should be stopped before it can affect the relationship. Gambling requires skill but is not effective everywhere. Some are succeeding while others continue until the damage is done.

Yeah until the damage is done  It looks like you are well experienced in the things concerning gambling and how you have some wins and you decide to increase your stake then come the crashing and that has broken many homes. When money comes in through gambling, every one is happy but if the losses come and the home becomes impecunious then it creates problem between spouse when financial obligations begin to stare in the face. There is no doubt that the gambling is capable to raise the financial status of the home when the winning is coming and also can pull the family resources down when there is losses but the weight of losses is greater than winnings.

   -   I have never seen an addicted gambler whose family is still happy because they often bring home winnings from gambling. If I were the parent of an addicted gambler, perhaps, to others, yes, they are happy. Even if we say that the gambler always comes home with a win, I would still not be happy for him because it destroys people's lives.

We also know that as long as we are talking about addiction, it is not good for a person. We know that everything that is too much does not bring good to his relationship with those around him, particularly his close family and friends.

[carlisle1]

No gambler can realize it properly until the loss. To bet on the addiction of profit leads to the destruction of life. That hurts family relationships. It is very sad that negative attitudes are created in relationships. Gambling should be stopped before it can affect the relationship. Gambling requires skill but is not effective everywhere. Some are succeeding while others continue until the damage is done.

Yeah until the damage is done  It looks like you are well experienced in the things concerning gambling and how you have some wins and you decide to increase your stake then come the crashing and that has broken many homes. When money comes in through gambling, every one is happy but if the losses come and the home becomes impecunious then it creates problem between spouse when financial obligations begin to stare in the face. There is no doubt that the gambling is capable to raise the financial status of the home when the winning is coming and also can pull the family resources down when there is losses but the weight of losses is greater than winnings.

   -   I have never seen an addicted gambler whose family is still happy because they often bring home winnings from gambling. If I were the parent of an addicted gambler, perhaps, to others, yes, they are happy. Even if we say that the gambler always comes home with a win, I would still not be happy for him because it destroys people's lives.

We also know that as long as we are talking about addiction, it is not good for a person. We know that everything that is too much does not bring good to his relationship with those around him, particularly his close family and friends.

I don't know but if in that case, if the person manages to bring home money after playing or after gambling, it might be an expert
or a gambler who knows how to manage his finances.

Not saying that it's good for the family, but if he's really good in bringing money from time to time, that kind of outcome is not usual.

and the bad effect of gambling happens when money is really unable to be manage correctly, if the person who's engage is no longer
capable in controlling his finances and every time he participates only ends up losing.

[Suzume]

No gambler can realize it properly until the loss. To bet on the addiction of profit leads to the destruction of life. That hurts family relationships. It is very sad that negative attitudes are created in relationships. Gambling should be stopped before it can affect the relationship. Gambling requires skill but is not effective everywhere. Some are succeeding while others continue until the damage is done.

Yeah until the damage is done  It looks like you are well experienced in the things concerning gambling and how you have some wins and you decide to increase your stake then come the crashing and that has broken many homes. When money comes in through gambling, every one is happy but if the losses come and the home becomes impecunious then it creates problem between spouse when financial obligations begin to stare in the face. There is no doubt that the gambling is capable to raise the financial status of the home when the winning is coming and also can pull the family resources down when there is losses but the weight of losses is greater than winnings.

   -   I have never seen an addicted gambler whose family is still happy because they often bring home winnings from gambling. If I were the parent of an addicted gambler, perhaps, to others, yes, they are happy. Even if we say that the gambler always comes home with a win, I would still not be happy for him because it destroys people's lives.

We also know that as long as we are talking about addiction, it is not good for a person. We know that everything that is too much does not bring good to his relationship with those around him, particularly his close family and friends.

I don't know but if in that case, if the person manages to bring home money after playing or after gambling, it might be an expert
or a gambler who knows how to manage his finances.

Not saying that it's good for the family, but if he's really good in bringing money from time to time, that kind of outcome is not usual.

and the bad effect of gambling happens when money is really unable to be manage correctly, if the person who's engage is no longer
capable in controlling his finances and every time he participates only ends up losing.

It's really helped if a person don't good in gambling then it's tuff to bring money from gambling. If someone one bring money form gambling and give money to family then that is good. But it's not every time happened. Gambling losses effect on family if it's huge and it create distance in relationship. So play it carefully.

[maydna]

~snips~

One thing leads to another and a well-groomed relationship could blast into a full-grown fire of trouble because of a single match stick of lie that was detected. Yes, the gambler needs to stop to save his family from a long-term problem. Because when we uncomfortably participate in gambling, we may not be reasonable enough like when gamble in a stable state of mind. However, people are not always made complete without some problems. The wife also has some flaws that the gambler needs to live with. Every marriage has a dispute, one way or another, both spouses are not perfectly made. Peace only reigns if one person stays in a house, but once two or more people are under the same roof, at some point, troubles begin to erupt. Solving the gambling trouble doesn't end the problem of the marriage. It's just a temporary dispute, the brain can't leave the gambling slot empty without being occupied with some other leisure activity which the man must use to keep himself busy.

And the part of the woman's brain that wasn't comfortable with gambling would not be comfortable with the activity eating up the man's time, and vice versa. Because the man also has some things he doesn't like about the wife. Hence, in a family spouses need to have a mutual understanding, and help one another in changing or solving their troubles. Gambling responsibly is not a problem or trouble, but it could be a source of dispute in a family. You see the different perspectives that need to be settled, the woman's flaws could be fine in the eyes of people who understand her attitude, but not in the man's senses. For instance, we are the people who can differentiate between when a gambler is in his right mode and when he's addicted. But, some other people can't, they only rate gambling as wrong or bad. Nothing would ever make them understand that some are responsible while others are not, they only placed everyone in that same category. So, it'll be hard to stop issues from happening in a relationship, it's better to hold on to one trouble and solve it mutually and both parties accept some terms. Because stopping a responsible gambler from gambler, may not be the right solution for the relationship.

When a lie is detected, a person can create another lie, which will be like that for a while. Other people close to us will find out if we have lied to them, and even though they don't do anything and seem to accept our lies, in their hearts, they still won't trust us anymore. That's where other problems will arise, and because lies from us trigger them, these problems will become bigger, and ultimately, a fight will occur between us. Many people have experienced things like that and ended up in divorce or separation, and we should be able to learn from their experiences so we don't lie. Small lies will become big lies, and when we have lied several times, it will make us uncomfortable when dealing with other people. In married life, there are bound to be imperfections between us, and the purpose of marriage is to complement each other.

Only by trying to understand each other can they try to carry out the goals they want to achieve so they can work together to achieve them. Gambling responsibly can be done if he really understands that there are obligations that he must carry out, so he must always try to protect himself when gambling. If he can be responsible with himself while gambling, no problems will arise, and he will also be fine with his partner.

[Accardo]

One thing leads to another and a well-groomed relationship could blast into a full-grown fire of trouble because of a single match stick of lie that was detected. Yes, the gambler needs to stop to save his family from a long-term problem. Because when we uncomfortably participate in gambling, we may not be reasonable enough like when gamble in a stable state of mind. However, people are not always made complete without some problems. The wife also has some flaws that the gambler needs to live with. Every marriage has a dispute, one way or another, both spouses are not perfectly made. Peace only reigns if one person stays in a house, but once two or more people are under the same roof, at some point, troubles begin to erupt. Solving the gambling trouble doesn't end the problem of the marriage. It's just a temporary dispute, the brain can't leave the gambling slot empty without being occupied with some other leisure activity which the man must use to keep himself busy.

And the part of the woman's brain that wasn't comfortable with gambling would not be comfortable with the activity eating up the man's time, and vice versa. Because the man also has some things he doesn't like about the wife. Hence, in a family spouses need to have a mutual understanding, and help one another in changing or solving their troubles. Gambling responsibly is not a problem or trouble, but it could be a source of dispute in a family. You see the different perspectives that need to be settled, the woman's flaws could be fine in the eyes of people who understand her attitude, but not in the man's senses. For instance, we are the people who can differentiate between when a gambler is in his right mode and when he's addicted. But, some other people can't, they only rate gambling as wrong or bad. Nothing would ever make them understand that some are responsible while others are not, they only placed everyone in that same category. So, it'll be hard to stop issues from happening in a relationship, it's better to hold on to one trouble and solve it mutually and both parties accept some terms. Because stopping a responsible gambler from gambler, may not be the right solution for the relationship.

When a lie is detected, a person can create another lie, which will be like that for a while. Other people close to us will find out if we have lied to them, and even though they don't do anything and seem to accept our lies, in their hearts, they still won't trust us anymore. That's where other problems will arise, and because lies from us trigger them, these problems will become bigger, and ultimately, a fight will occur between us. Many people have experienced things like that and ended up in divorce or separation, and we should be able to learn from their experiences so we don't lie. Small lies will become big lies, and when we have lied several times, it will make us uncomfortable when dealing with other people. In married life, there are bound to be imperfections between us, and the purpose of marriage is to complement each other.

Only by trying to understand each other can they try to carry out the goals they want to achieve so they can work together to achieve them. Gambling responsibly can be done if he really understands that there are obligations that he must carry out, so he must always try to protect himself when gambling. If he can be responsible with himself while gambling, no problems will arise, and he will also be fine with his partner.

Anyone who has been in a relationship would understand that lying can be crucial in saving the relationship status from becoming tiring. Because sometimes telling the truth may end the relationship prematurely. But the truth is very good, as we don't know how good it could be to the next person's ear. As you said, one lie leads to another, which wouldn't be nice for the spouses. And one day the truth would be revealed thereby putting everything to an end. Hence, the gambler must stay truthful, if he chooses not to gamble when the wife is at home. In many occurrences, not all spouses would get sad at the truth about the gambler's habit. Provided that he's not toxic and maintains a responsible lifestyle, pays bills, takes care of the children, and cares for the spouse. Only a few people who don't like gambling would complain about the man's habit.

Those type of people has no good experience with gamblers and have seen lots of addicted gamblers misbehave. Hence, they'll think their gambling husband will one day act like an addicted person. In a family like that, it's supper smart that the man says the truth even before marrying the woman. Because asking questions matters in every relationship. Whatever habit we have, asking questions to know the reaction of the person towards people with such attitude matters a lot. It's a lifelong union and the better we handle it, the more productive we'll get. One must be careful in matters like marriage not to fail in the process. As it'll demoralize both spouse's life and their productivity could be affected too, depending on how strong emotionally they are. Instead of having an emotional problem the gambler needs to open up before the marriage, to know whether to continue the marriage or not. Depending on the other person's reaction.

[Rabata]

No gambler can realize it properly until the loss. To bet on the addiction of profit leads to the destruction of life. That hurts family relationships. It is very sad that negative attitudes are created in relationships. Gambling should be stopped before it can affect the relationship. Gambling requires skill but is not effective everywhere. Some are succeeding while others continue until the damage is done.

Yeah until the damage is done  It looks like you are well experienced in the things concerning gambling and how you have some wins and you decide to increase your stake then come the crashing and that has broken many homes. When money comes in through gambling, every one is happy but if the losses come and the home becomes impecunious then it creates problem between spouse when financial obligations begin to stare in the face. There is no doubt that the gambling is capable to raise the financial status of the home when the winning is coming and also can pull the family resources down when there is losses but the weight of losses is greater than winnings.

No one has a negative tendency in gambling until he loses big in gambling. Everyone wants to continue gambling according to their capability. When a family member gets a big win from gambling, the family members cheer him or they enjoy it, but when they lose, there is a problem. My point is that winning and losing in gambling are not fixed so it is not right to look at it only negatively. Some family members who are desperate for gambling due to which their big losses cause financial loss to the family. When family members feel lacking in something and when it reaches extremes only the relationship is ruined. If a gambler conducts gambling within his limits then the relationship is not nullified.