Do your parents know about your gambling habit ?

[aioc]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

I started gambling seriously at the age I could make my own decisions so it doesn't matter if my parents knew that I gamble I have my own family so it is my family is the one who should know that I'm into gambling because all my money and time are for my family and they are the one that will suffer if I lose a lot of money from gambling.

But if I am still young or still in my parents' jurisdiction then they have the right to know my gambling habit and they have the right to stop me if they want to because it's their money that I'm using and I'm still their responsibility and as their child, I am obligated to obey them if they restrict me.

[Hirose UK]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

When I was a teenager was caught several times coming to land-based betting places and they were both angry with me for trying to gambling especially using the money they gave me with and from then on I started to gamble less and go out to play more often friends the same age.
But as time went by I had family and worked at company in the area where I lived there were quite lot of gamblers there and plus the environment where I lived was also an environment full of people who liked to gamble it made me try playing again and to this day I still continue to bet when I have certain amount of money that I can accept when I lose.
Even so I still have to prioritize limits and also control myself because I have a family to support so I don't go so far as to use extra money to gamble.

This is just little of my experience in gambling but from what I have gone through there are many valuable lessons and experiences that cannot be obtained from other activities.

[angrybirdy]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

No, for me, any gambling related activity is not that important for them to know. As long I can handle myself in gambling and I know my limits, it's enough reason not to let them know. Besides, I can already picture their reaction, and what words I can get from them. They are actually the type of people who do not like gambling ever since. Letting them know will only put me in a bad mood

[TopTort777]

We already have: "keep gambling" in secret and "never gamble in front of kids" topics. Now about parents What next - never gamble in front of parents or does your pet know you gamble?

I will confess - I have gambled in front of my parents, they have seen I have placed a bet on a hockey game. But, we have watched that game together and I am 35+ Jokes aside, I think it is better to tell parents that you gamble, because they, as more experienced, might help and spot that moment when gambling is no longer about fun.

[Blitzboy]

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Yes, that's gambling no matter how you hide it, no matter how tight you hide it by not telling anyone at all, one day it will definitely be found out too, just like you hide a carcass over time, it will smell too. Therefore, instead of continuing to hide it, it is better for you to try to stop, I understand that it is quite difficult, but nothing is impossible if you keep trying even if slowly.

Of course, every parent has a different perspective and response every time they see or face a problem, I see that your parents are quite different, which as you said you thought they would scold you for being caught gambling but apparently the assumption was wrong. But to be honest here I see your parents are quite understanding, they don't scold you because maybe they know you are a big boy and should be able to think to distinguish what is good and what is bad, I am quite impressed with the advice conveyed by your parents. Instead of scolding you they responded with a suggestion that you can consider, that's right, it doesn't matter if you want to gamble but we have to be responsible gamblers by accepting all the risks involved and also of course with strong self-control so that you don't go too far into gambling.

You speak the truth. Every behavior, especially gambling-related ones, affects our psyche and those around us. With its appeal and digital immersion, online gambling is adept at hiding its addiction. It's fascinating and scary how humans are predisposed to do so even when the repercussions are obvious.

Your parental reply observation is insightful. It shows their comprehension of human behavior and gambling addiction. Not everyone reacts to aggression. Gentle nudges and understanding are often needed, especially if the person is grown and can tell right from wrong. Responsibility and self-control are key in online gaming. Solution layers are needed for this problem. More people seeing things as clearly as you do might help break addiction's shackles.

[Vaculin]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

My parents are quite conservative type so I have this feeling that if I tell them that I’m into gambling, they will never be glad and for sure they will just keep reminding me to stop gambling before losing everything. So I keep it to myself and when I started winning significant profits, and share some of them, that’s when they found out that I’m into gambling and to my surprise, they’re not against with it as long as I know how to control my finances and put some limits into my losses so I won’t literally end up with gambling addiction.

I believe the role of the parents in gambling is not actually to discourage their children not to engage in gambling, but to educate them on how to deal with the risks and be prepared with inevitable losses as gambling will certainly make us lose than win. Because whether we like it or not, adult people will eventually be hooked with gambling and there’s no wrong with it as long as responsible gambling is always observed and practiced.

[krishnaverma]

As you mean and personally I say that adult men have the right to privacy to do anything as long as they can control it, after all, not many parents want to know about the activities of their adult children unless they are still underage, of course they are still under parental control, where They must know what activities they usually do, so parents are obliged to guide them properly.

Adult men don't live with their parents, how can they know you are gambling when you don't live together, even if you live together, is it possible to gamble in front of your parents, I don't think there will be many people who do that, although there are, it could be that he is already an addict so it's difficult to be controlled so that he plays gambling in front of his parents without caring about their suggestions and advice. but personally, until now my parents have never known that I gamble because they don't need to know that and so far my gambling is still under control so there won't be any problems.   

Right to privacy I agree but we are talking about parents not neighbors.  Parents are not going to make it public even if you share this with them like others.

[maydna]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

No, for me, any gambling related activity is not that important for them to know. As long I can handle myself in gambling and I know my limits, it's enough reason not to let them know. Besides, I can already picture their reaction, and what words I can get from them. They are actually the type of people who do not like gambling ever since. Letting them know will only put me in a bad mood

Perhaps parents will not like it if they see their children gambling and will ask them to stop gambling immediately before they experience big problems. And it is normal for parents to ask us to stop gambling immediately because they already know the impact of gambling on those who gamble too often. Even though his son said he could still take care of himself by controlling himself, his parents told him to stop gambling and didn't want to know his reasons. That might cause children to hide their gambling activities from their parents so they don't want to cause problems in their relationships.

[inthelongrun]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

For grown-up people who are already living outside their parents' home, does it matter if they are gambling or not? I just don't get it. Or do you come from a place where parents still play a major role in your life decisions even if you are already a grown-up person?

Personally, my parents know that I am betting regularly, especially my father since sometimes I use my online betting account for his own bets. No big deal though, I don't have to tell them and they don't have to ask me. It doesn't matter since I am a grown-up man and I have my own source of living. I have no debts to my parents and I am betting responsibly.

[ultrloa]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

Actually yes they know I am open with them with this activities so that they will not get worried about what we are doing. Sometimes we need those advice given by our parents so accept whatever words they are saying since all action they do is for our own good. We might feel harsh if sometimes they don't like those things what they do but in the end of the day we should think about that their disagreement with those actions we do is just for us and they just see something that might not result good to us in long run.

 But try to make them understand that you are playing just for fun and if they see you having a good time and make gambling as your stress reliever then for sure they can understand you and somehow let you gamble in moderation.

[lienfaye]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

Yes. But they have nothing against it since i'm old enough to handle myself. Of course they're concern, often advice me and that's understandable. However, as a grown up individual they know that I am a responsible person because I also have a family of my own.

Well, if you're still depending on your parents, you should be open. Our parents knows what's best for their children, therefore if you're still living with them, follow their advice and don't keep your gambling habit a secret.

[knowngunman]

Gambling is not supposed to be for kinds. Many casinos and gambling companies do not allow children to register or use their services. Consequently, anyone up to the age of gambling is supposed to be able to make his decisions with little to no interference from parents or anyone.

If it is just my parents knowing that I am into gambling, they do and not that they really have any way to interfere as I'm independent and can take my decisions.

I think you're mistaken the point op is coming from. The post is not talking about parents interference or the casino allowing the underage to play. Op is talking about the reaction of your parents when they discovered that you're gambling or what their reaction would be if they found out that you are into gambling. Considering, the negative vibes and effect of gambling in our society, most parents will feel embarrassed or express disappointment when they discovered that their child engaged in gambling. But, on the other hand, it depends on the society one belongs to. Especially in Africa society where religion is a basis of judgment, parents will react in unpleasant way upon that discovery.

I personally will not like my parents to be aware of my gambling habit despite the fact that they have no say or the right to interfere in my personal life but to maintain my reputation in their sight.

[Saisher]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

If you are responsible for all your actions and you have a job of your own you don't have to tell them about your gambling habit but if they found out about your gambling habit you can explain to them that you are already a grown-up man and you are independent enough and have a mind of your own, its right for parents to worry about your gambling habit if they found out but if they see that you are not the type that will become a compulsive gambler they will trust you.
It's important that we are a responsible gamble so our parents will not worry if you're going to go astray.

[len01]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

before I got married and had children, I used to have a very dark life in the world of gambling and I once told about my experience in another thread and that when my whole family, including my parents, knew about my gambling activities and they were really worried because I had become an addict who was a little crazy about gambling, but since I recovered and can gamble more maturely and have a wife, everything is fine, my parents worry has become normal because I have become better. even if I gamble online when I visit my parents house, it has become a normal thing and dont worry my parents anymore because overall they really understand how to be more responsible when I gamble, even though sometimes I still lose control, but everything its fine, even my wife also knows about my gambling activities.

[pawanjain]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

You are right. Many youngsters do not live with their parents and do what they like. For me though, it was not the case because most of the Indian youngsters live with their family.
Even after getting married they still live with their parents and so my parents know most of the things I do except gambling.
But my brother knows about it and he's okay with it because I am not addicted to it. He knows I play for fun and I am sure my parents won't have an obligation too.
As long as we are in control and don't cross our limits I think nobody will be bothered.

[Razmirraz]

When you are an adult and don't live with your parents, every activity you do is always outside your parents' supervision, including your gambling habits. Parents always supervise their children from childhood to adolescence. When you enter adulthood and start earning your own income, you are free to use the money you earn anywhere that makes you happy. Parents can only advise what is best for their children, you are free to choose your path in life as long as it doesn't interfere with other people's lives.

[goldkingcoiner]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

No. I am an adult who does not require nor want the approval of my parents. I know what is good and what is bad for me. I also understand risks and responsibilities. That is what it means to be an adult, essentially. So I do not think that anyone above a certain age should still be a manchild/womanchild.

Furthermore, you make it sound like gambling is something to be ashamed of. There is a world of difference between problematic and non-problematic gambling. An indulgence is not a habit and a habit is not an addiction.

[Oluwa-btc]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

My Biological Father wasn't angry, as far as I don't steal to gamble, I don't go around begging to gamble and also being addicted to the point that, I'll have to sell my cellphone in order to player virtual games. That I didn't do.
2020 during COVID-19 ( With Gambling ) I won correct scores which I used to buy foodstuffs ,( Heck! 2020 was bloody tough )
So he's fine with me gambling.

My Father in the Lord ( Pastor ) Caught me in the act! Then I wad actually staying with him. He considered Gambling bad and called those seen sinners. Man, I was not permitted to have dinner that night all because I was caught gambling.
As much as you're not addicted, know when to stop and start all over again, that's good. You should do well with saving profits you get from em too.

[NeilLostBitCoin]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

No. Why on earth would I disclose that information to them? As an adult, I can earn money ethically and gamble for entertainment only with small amounts. Some parents may try to interfere with your gambling habits even if you gamble responsibly. So think carefully if you want to disclose those habits of yours. And I think as long as I'm not addicted to it, I will not tell my habits.

[DabsPoorVersion]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

I am one of those grown up people, and my answer is YES, they know that I gamble and see me most of the time. Their reaction is normal, they just saw a normal adult playing gambling.

Parents/Guardian will not react if they see an adult or even if it's their son playing gambling. Parents know that they should not treat an adult as a kid anymore. Being an adult means that we have our own knowledge and capability to decide by ourself. But I know, unless I get to the point that I can't control myself in gambling anymore. They will react for sure.