Do your parents know about your gambling habit ?

[rahmad2nd]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

So far, my parents don't know I like gambling. For me, we don't need to publish this hobby to other people, including family and even parents. after all, I live with my small family and not under the same roof as my parents. Well, if they knew I liked to gamble, I can guarantee, I wouldn't give any explanation or make any claims.  there's nothing I need to compromise on, even if they force me to stop. especially, if my parents don't ask anything. So, I really won't bother to say anything.

The point is, firstly, they have absolutely no idea what activities I do with my gambling. secondly, if they ask about it and ask for an explanation. as I said at the beginning, I will not claim anything or justify the actions I took. The point is I will only answer to them, whether my life is a mess. if yes, I will gladly accept any criticism and suggestions. but if everything is under control, and does not harm anyone.
For me personally, there is nothing to worry about. because, I know what I am doing and am responsible for it. it's that simple, no need to bother explaining anything. after all, we are adults who are fully aware of what we are doing.

[Broadanbig]

I am a private person and although I am not an active gambler, I will not let my family know that I like to gamble. Because my family is against gambling and they consider gambling to be haram, and when I gamble as much as possible I do it very carefully and hide.
Because of my gambling activities, I often play online gambling using my cellphone, so it's still safe because they won't check my cellphone and I also often do it outside the house when I'm out enjoying a cup of coffee.
And now I'm married, and I also hide it from my wife and only bet on weekends and only bet on sports betting on football and just for fun after five busy days of work. Because I love the sport of football and betting is just for fun and most importantly I can watch it and enjoy the match.

If your family never supports gambling and completely forbids you from gambling, then don't do it in their presence. Of course you've taken the right steps to hide it from your parents and wife, but that's not enough if you don't delete your browser browsing history. But since you don't gamble for money, I don't think your problem will ever be big even if they find out. You gamble for fun even though sometimes you lose money because of it, but as long as you set a gambling budget limit, it's safe for your.

In Indonesia, not only do you have to hide your gambling activities from your family, but you cannot gamble in public. You could be caught by the police because gambling is illegal, even if you are caught you will be publicly humiliated. Things like this happen in certain areas that enforce Islamic law, not only the constitution.

In my country, parents detest gambling not to talk of when they discover that their child(ren) are engaged in gambling activities. If they dare find out that you as their kid is gambling just forget about it because sorry is your name. Here, people see gamblers as irresponsible and would not want to associate themselves  with it. Do you know why? because most of the people who gamble here are the middle class who hope on it for wins and profit and thy end up losing and becoming addicted with nothing to write home about them. They are seen as people with no hope and future and they most have some odd and funny characteristics that seems not attractive. I believe these are the reasons why parents detest their children from it here. So in that case any one engaged in gambling here always do it in the secret so that no one would know.

[cheezcarls]

Until now, they do not really mind about my activities ever since I find success in this industry years ago.

They're not asking me if I am visiting to casinos, gambling or such. My dad was just simply having no comments unlike before when I was still financially broke back then. My mom however has a deteriorating dementia condition right now, but back then when she was still will she's not asking me about my gambling habits or so.

However, I just gamble at my own free time and money that I can afford to lose and mostly here online and not in-person.

[topbitcoin]

not all of these things can be told to your parents even if you live in the same house with them. even though i still live with my parents, i never tell them about my gambling activities because why would they know that? i am an adult and have earned my own money, even though i live with my parents, there are things that are my privacy and i consider that my gambling activities are my own privacy and no one knows about it, even my own parents.

the most important thing is that they know that what i'm doing is still at a reasonable level and in my opinion it's fine for an adult to gamble as long as it's not too excessive.

Maturity means not just talking about age but talking about thinking and level of understanding. If you already have a good level of thinking and understanding then you are worthy of being called an adult.

Don't be too arrogant, just because you are able to earn your own money, it makes you arrogant by saying that you are able to control your own gambling activities without having to involve other people. Her bro.. if you still live with your parents, this shows that you don't have independence and maturity yet because you still need the role of someone to answer all your problems and needs.
However, you have to remember that when you still live at home with your parents, everything that happens to you is still the responsibility of your parents.

So if you can, immediately tell the truth about the gambling activities you are doing, at least you tell this to your father because he is the one who understands this best. You need to do this to anticipate undesirable things happening, because by telling the truth about this, when you lose control of the gambling you do, then there is a father there who will always remind you of this.

And we need to remember that we never know what will happen tomorrow.

[TechnoX_X]

I'm pretty sure that most of the users on this forum are aged 20+ and are old enough to have the right to freedom of doing anything, including gambling. Usually someone who is an adult will not be too closely watched by their parents, I mean every parent who sees their child is very mature as a parent gives them the freedom to do whatever they want so that even if they gamble in front of their parents they will definitely be fine just like myself . But all of that is just an overall statement because it all depends on which country he grew up in, whether the country is predominantly Muslim and if the parents are Muslim, parents usually always remind him to tell him to stop gambling even though he is old enough because for Islam gambling is something bad or against the law. which is determined. So a gambler who has a certain religion will definitely gamble secretly without anyone even their parents knowing.

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

[LFC_Bitcoin]

As a grown man in my 30’s I don’t really care less what my parents think about my gambling habits. I don’t stake more than I can afford to lose so it’s none of their business.

I understand why some family members could be worried if you have a problem but if it’s just a hobby & you are having fun then it’s none of their business.

Life is tough, we all need a vice or three to get us through it
 

[Casdinyard]

Yes and I made it a point to let everyone that I love and care about know about the fact that I gamble. If not for them matter of fact I may have relapsed and went back to gambling after I realized that I was getting addicted to gambling and I started working on it.

I suggest everyone should try letting their parents and loved-ones know that they are gambling, they will be one of the first to realize that something is off with you and you always need people like that in your side just in case you fall off the deep end. If parents aren't available, try friends or looking for a partner. It's much better when you have someone who's looking out for you cause let's be real here, sometimes we're not really sure if we're already addicted to gambling.

[nara1892]

Yes, that's gambling no matter how you hide it, no matter how tight you hide it by not telling anyone at all, one day it will definitely be found out too, just like you hide a carcass over time, it will smell too. Therefore, instead of continuing to hide it, it is better for you to try to stop, I understand that it is quite difficult, but nothing is impossible if you keep trying even if slowly.

Of course, every parent has a different perspective and response every time they see or face a problem, I see that your parents are quite different, which as you said you thought they would scold you for being caught gambling but apparently the assumption was wrong. But to be honest here I see your parents are quite understanding, they don't scold you because maybe they know you are a big boy and should be able to think to distinguish what is good and what is bad, I am quite impressed with the advice conveyed by your parents. Instead of scolding you they responded with a suggestion that you can consider, that's right, it doesn't matter if you want to gamble but we have to be responsible gamblers by accepting all the risks involved and also of course with strong self-control so that you don't go too far into gambling.

You speak the truth. Every behavior, especially gambling-related ones, affects our psyche and those around us. With its appeal and digital immersion, online gambling is adept at hiding its addiction. It's fascinating and scary how humans are predisposed to do so even when the repercussions are obvious.

Your parental reply observation is insightful. It shows their comprehension of human behavior and gambling addiction. Not everyone reacts to aggression. Gentle nudges and understanding are often needed, especially if the person is grown and can tell right from wrong. Responsibility and self-control are key in online gaming. Solution layers are needed for this problem. More people seeing things as clearly as you do might help break addiction's shackles.

Yes and over time they, especially the people around us, will also find out about our gambling habits, it can be through anything, whether it's from your nature and behavior that has changed, and also in terms of your finances that are always experiencing problems, they will know it because they are one of the closest people in the environment around you. So instead of continuing to hide it then I think it's better for you to look for other alternatives that can take you to a safer and more comfortable place, and yes one of them is by always trying to stop doing it, I think there is nothing better than that.

Parents have a very strong sense of their children, whatever their children do they will at least be able to find out through any medium, so maybe I think it's wrong if you intend to hide it because it won't last long. It's better to tell them the truth and ask them for advice, both parents know how you are and what's best for their child, so of course it can be a huge encouragement for you to consider all the advice they give you. You are old enough to differentiate things and I think with that encouragement you just have to choose the wiser option when in that situation.

[yazher]

Some people especially in Asia still live with their parents and when their parents find out about their habits and the parents hate such kinds of actions, the consequences are not pleasing that's why most of them I think have been hiding this kind of habit until they have no other choice but to tell them about it. Just like my Brother's friend who got himself in trouble when the gambling den got raided by the police and caught him when he was in jail, he explained everything to his parent and confessed how and who people influenced him on gambling and it was his cousins.

[Accardo]

Some people especially in Asia still live with their parents and when their parents find out about their habits and the parents hate such kinds of actions, the consequences are not pleasing that's why most of them I think have been hiding this kind of habit until they have no other choice but to tell them about it. Just like my Brother's friend who got himself in trouble when the gambling den got raided by the police and caught him when he was in jail, he explained everything to his parent and confessed how and who people influenced him on gambling and it was his cousins.

In most traditions it could be uncommon to find people living with their parents. But for those culture where it's common, the young ones are also expected to acknowledge the fact that they're with their parents. And not engage in things that could make the family go through losses. Even if the gambler earns his income. If it's channeled into gambling he would be rendering the family a bad stewardship. Especially when he's losing it all. The player in the story, he could be free from gambling, afterwards. For opening up to his parents, when he gets out, his parents can guide him not to gamble again. The problem are those whose gambling activities are still hidden to their parents. Mostly, it'll be nice to be friends with our parents. As it'll help us easily talk to them about anything. Many good players don't unveil it, because they don't know the result; how their Dad or mom will feel about it. The journey gets easier for the play who opened up than the play that hides his gambling attitude. Unless in cases of grown ups, the gamblers that can control their actions. Many of them don't need to inform their parents, as all is maintained. As for young, growing players who still play hide and seek. It won't take longer for gambling to piss you off. Due to not being comfortable, while gambling with phone or laptop in the house. One day it'll be clear. More damages may have been done. It feels better when we discuss it with the parents. Sharing news on gambling with the parents. When they begin to get interest in watching or reading people's win and lose in gambling. They'll definitely start to relate with their kids. And ushering good advise to them. It's bad, we blame the day's stress, for being the cause of the day's lack of familiarity with our kids and wives. It can affect the growth of gravity. 

[HelliumZ]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

Since I never involved myself in gambling, it was never possible for my father's parents to know about it. My parents trust me a lot so I won't do things that cause them to distrust me at work. But since I haven't participated in the earnings so far, even if it involves gambling in the future, it won't be based on my parents' money. If I have to join gambling alone, I will join gambling by earning myself. But it is undeniable that gambling is not a good act at all but it is one of the reprehensible acts.

[livingfree]

Well, what they would say now? It doesn't matter anymore but back then, I don't want to recall anymore those moments. So, I'll talk about the present time.

They sort of aware of it and I even saw one time that my mom talked about gambling on an app which is popular today. And even saw the bet slip in the history of her phone.

I guess she had an idea about that on me so, that probably concludes that it's fine whether they know or not in present time.

[Docnaster]

Some people especially in Asia still live with their parents and when their parents find out about their habits and the parents hate such kinds of actions, the consequences are not pleasing that's why most of them I think have been hiding this kind of habit until they have no other choice but to tell them about it. Just like my Brother's friend who got himself in trouble when the gambling den got raided by the police and caught him when he was in jail, he explained everything to his parent and confessed how and who people influenced him on gambling and it was his cousins.

In most Africa homes, gambling is regarded as one the vices that a responsible child shouldn't get engaged in and that's why most African youths who engage in gambling doesn't allow their gambling activities get to the notice of their parents as they'll never find it acceptable no matter how hard you try to make them accept gambling.
So the best thing to do when an African youth doesn't want to attract the wrath of their parents is to stay away from gambling.

[Eureka_07]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

I did not told them that I am gambling, but they can sometimes see it. I am just not sure if they were aware that it is gambling. There are times though that I think they knew and told me something about gambling. I believe they do trust me that I am old enough and I know how to be responsible with such thing. Anyways, gambling is not a habit of mine, but I do play a lot from time to time.

[ethereumhunter]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

I did not told them that I am gambling, but they can sometimes see it. I am just not sure if they were aware that it is gambling. There are times though that I think they knew and told me something about gambling. I believe they do trust me that I am old enough and I know how to be responsible with such thing. Anyways, gambling is not a habit of mine, but I do play a lot from time to time.

Many of us still continue to hide our gambling because if our parents found out, they would definitely tell us to stop immediately and some even forced us to stop immediately. This will depend on each gambler because if they don't want to see their parents sad, they will immediately stop and some people don't gamble when their parents are at home. And I agree with you that no matter what, they can find out on their own without us telling them. Meanwhile, we also don't know how they found out when no one knew.

[348Judah]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

Since I never involved myself in gambling, it was never possible for my father's parents to know about it. My parents trust me a lot so I won't do things that cause them to distrust me at work. But since I haven't participated in the earnings so far, even if it involves gambling in the future, it won't be based on my parents' money. If I have to join gambling alone, I will join gambling by earning myself. But it is undeniable that gambling is not a good act at all but it is one of the reprehensible acts.

For someone who is still independent may be scared of these, but now that in your own case, you're not a gambler like that, then there's nothing to hide from them, parents are not going to dislike us because we are gambling, but they will react negatively on is on knowing that we are gambling when we are not even serious with our lives, gambling is for fun and not to be abused, our relationship with our parents also will determine their take on such diwcovery that we gambles.

[letteredhub]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

Gambling is not supposed to be for kinds. Many casinos and gambling companies do not allow children to register or use their services. Consequently, anyone up to the age of gambling is supposed to be able to make his decisions with little to no interference from parents or anyone.

If it is just my parents knowing that I am into gambling, they do and not that they really have any way to interfere as I'm independent and can take my decisions.

All casino prohibits children and underage from using their platforms to gamble. Gambling is strictly meant for adults and as an adult you're entitled to making your own life's decision and facing whatever consequences that follows without parents interfering because that's what makes you an adult. For parents that cares too much the only area they can come in is just to give advice of been mindful not to get into addiction. Their knowledge about me being a gambler doesn't tickle my fantasy of what they think about it whether they stomach it in good faith or not, that's part of adulthood.

[TopTort777]

Gambling is strictly meant for adults and as an adult you're entitled to making your own life's decision and facing whatever consequences that follows without parents interfering because that's what makes you an adult.

You are funny. When the kid skips school and goes home to play video games, even though he know he will be punished if parents find out about it - makes him adult?  If gambling is for adults only, why in cartoons we seem characters gamble or visit casinos? Are cartoons for adults then? When you visit Vegas or any IRL casino with your family and you are accompanied with a kid, casinos guard will let your kid in, as well as let kid watch others gamble and even wont interfere if you will allow your kid to smash spin button in slots. Btw, do you know that on YouTube kids app kids can eventually get gambling ads? I'm eager to get your comment on this.

[Blitzboy]

Most of the grown up people do not live with parents. At such, the parents are not aware about the interests and habits of individuals. Do you parents know that you gamble ? What was their first reaction towards your gambling habit ?

I did not told them that I am gambling, but they can sometimes see it. I am just not sure if they were aware that it is gambling. There are times though that I think they knew and told me something about gambling. I believe they do trust me that I am old enough and I know how to be responsible with such thing. Anyways, gambling is not a habit of mine, but I do play a lot from time to time.

Many of us still continue to hide our gambling because if our parents found out, they would definitely tell us to stop immediately and some even forced us to stop immediately. This will depend on each gambler because if they don't want to see their parents sad, they will immediately stop and some people don't gamble when their parents are at home. And I agree with you that no matter what, they can find out on their own without us telling them. Meanwhile, we also don't know how they found out when no one knew.

With their expectations and judgements, families can strongly affect behaviour. Children often disguise unhappy or unsatisfactory behaviour. Protecting our loved ones from pain is instinctual, and many would rather see their parents upset than their own desires or habits.

Its intriguing and disconcerting how parents can spot behavioural changes in their children. A deep-seated evolutionary drive to protect their children may explain this perceptiveness. Perhaps after years of seeing and engaging with their kids, they notice even small changes. Even if one thinks they've hidden their acts, tiny behavioural cues can reveal them. A subtle dance of acts, reactions, and concealing and seeking.

[Rabata]

I am a private person and although I am not an active gambler, I will not let my family know that I like to gamble. Because my family is against gambling and they consider gambling to be haram, and when I gamble as much as possible I do it very carefully and hide.
Because of my gambling activities, I often play online gambling using my cellphone, so it's still safe because they won't check my cellphone and I also often do it outside the house when I'm out enjoying a cup of coffee.
And now I'm married, and I also hide it from my wife and only bet on weekends and only bet on sports betting on football and just for fun after five busy days of work. Because I love the sport of football and betting is just for fun and most importantly I can watch it and enjoy the match.

If your family never supports gambling and completely forbids you from gambling, then don't do it in their presence. Of course you've taken the right steps to hide it from your parents and wife, but that's not enough if you don't delete your browser browsing history. But since you don't gamble for money, I don't think your problem will ever be big even if they find out. You gamble for fun even though sometimes you lose money because of it, but as long as you set a gambling budget limit, it's safe for your.

In Indonesia, not only do you have to hide your gambling activities from your family, but you cannot gamble in public. You could be caught by the police because gambling is illegal, even if you are caught you will be publicly humiliated. Things like this happen in certain areas that enforce Islamic law, not only the constitution.

In my country, parents detest gambling not to talk of when they discover that their child(ren) are engaged in gambling activities. If they dare find out that you as their kid is gambling just forget about it because sorry is your name. Here, people see gamblers as irresponsible and would not want to associate themselves  with it. Do you know why? because most of the people who gamble here are the middle class who hope on it for wins and profit and thy end up losing and becoming addicted with nothing to write home about them. They are seen as people with no hope and future and they most have some odd and funny characteristics that seems not attractive. I believe these are the reasons why parents detest their children from it here. So in that case any one engaged in gambling here always do it in the secret so that no one would know.

Gambling is seen by almost everyone in a negative light which a gambler can easily understand. Parents of those who become addicted to gambling also end up in embarrassing situations. They think their child is over. He can no longer be controlled. If the attitude of people in a society is very bad towards gambling then surely not every gambler will show interest to inform about their gambling. But gambling is now much easier in recent times. No one is able to understand anything while gambling at home. Gamblers are now completely free from that aspect. As a result, they do not have to face any such problem as earlier a gambler had to be under pressure. But I think there is not much a parent can do to get their child back from gambling. If the gambler is not self-aware.