Raising children in this current society

[boyptc]

I think with the rate of technology advancement to train children of now into good morala are quit facinating and difficult.

You said it right, fascinating and difficult.

Difficult in a way that it could lead to speech delay for the infants when most of their parents are just like busy people working to their offices and will come home with their nanny taking care of their child.

While the nanny just takes care of everything and letting a huge screen in front of the kid watching all of those coco melons and other kids' stuff that can easily browsed on the web.

It is very important that the same way we are busy working to earn money do that we can pay our bills should be the same way we have to take care of the children that we have. It is nit easy especially for a single parent to train there children even when they are doing extra work to make sure that they put food on the table for the children. Things are getting worse and with time if we don't take better care of our children, we might end up losing there value. Children are supposed to learn from us not just staying around us without learning thoroughly.

It's not easy and if you're talking about single parents, they have to deal with everything and that's why hiring someone to take care of their children is what they have to do as they go to their work.

There will be an effect to the kid if it's not his or her real parent takes care of them as they grow old. But as a parent, it is also your responsibility to at least allocate time for your kids.

With that, just having some good time, good food and good bonding with them will make them remember that as they grow older and the teachings that you'll tell to them will be remembered.

[btc78]

I think with the rate of technology advancement to train children of now into good morala are quit facinating and difficult.

You said it right, fascinating and difficult.

Difficult in a way that it could lead to speech delay for the infants when most of their parents are just like busy people working to their offices and will come home with their nanny taking care of their child.

While the nanny just takes care of everything and letting a huge screen in front of the kid watching all of those coco melons and other kids' stuff that can easily browsed on the web.

It is very important that the same way we are busy working to earn money do that we can pay our bills should be the same way we have to take care of the children that we have. It is nit easy especially for a single parent to train there children even when they are doing extra work to make sure that they put food on the table for the children. Things are getting worse and with time if we don't take better care of our children, we might end up losing there value. Children are supposed to learn from us not just staying around us without learning thoroughly.

It's not easy and if you're talking about single parents, they have to deal with everything and that's why hiring someone to take care of their children is what they have to do as they go to their work.

There will be an effect to the kid if it's not his or her real parent takes care of them as they grow old. But as a parent, it is also your responsibility to at least allocate time for your kids.

With that, just having some good time, good food and good bonding with them will make them remember that as they grow older and the teachings that you'll tell to them will be remembered.

there are no perfect parents in my opinion kids would always have one or two things they will hate their parents for

if their parents were busy when they were growing up they might resent their parents for it but if the parents did a good job in making the kid feel loved and taken care of then as the kid grows up they will realize all the sacrifices their parents did for them and that would be enough

[Nerdy doctor]

there are no perfect parents in my opinion kids would always have one or two things they will hate their parents for

if their parents were busy when they were growing up they might resent their parents for it but if the parents did a good job in making the kid feel loved and taken care of then as the kid grows up they will realize all the sacrifices their parents did for them and that would be enough

Yes, they’re no perfect parents anywhere but your opinion about kids always going to have something to hate their parents for is not entirely true.
I also don’t think parents having a busy schedule and not having much time to spend on their kids could make their kids resent them. They’re quite aware of the busy schedules of their parents and may feel bad at their absence, but certainly not resentment.

[Suzume]

Our society makes childrens life hell. Because society forces them to do what against their comfort zone. Children who like to do something the society say what they will do in future he has no bright future with his dedication and this type of work he loves. Because of society many lost their dreams that makes the children's sad and broken but they have nothing to do because their parents don't understand them. Why they will understand them every parents are tensed with their children future what they will do in life that's why the force to do that work their parents like. Because of that kind of mentality what society will say what are you going to do that's make a children depressed that's why many children's committed suicide and many fell into depression.

[boyptc]

It's not easy and if you're talking about single parents, they have to deal with everything and that's why hiring someone to take care of their children is what they have to do as they go to their work.

There will be an effect to the kid if it's not his or her real parent takes care of them as they grow old. But as a parent, it is also your responsibility to at least allocate time for your kids.

With that, just having some good time, good food and good bonding with them will make them remember that as they grow older and the teachings that you'll tell to them will be remembered.

there are no perfect parents in my opinion kids would always have one or two things they will hate their parents for

if their parents were busy when they were growing up they might resent their parents for it but if the parents did a good job in making the kid feel loved and taken care of then as the kid grows up they will realize all the sacrifices their parents did for them and that would be enough

That is true.

But being responsible is different, we all know that there's no perfect parenthood and even kids too. It is just so happen that the current society and with the modern technology, if we're going to combine both of them, it's always been impactful whether negatively or positively.

The dependence of it is always based on how the parents do handle the grooming of their own kids. I just hope that I'd be also one of the good parents out there despite that I'm quite a busy guy and I do understand about being busy on work and at the same time raising a child.

[jrrsparkles]

Being a parent is not easy either and with the current work environment they have to spent more time doing their duties for their bosses than their loved ones because money is crucial for everything. And mostly both parents has to go for the job to meet their needs so the kid is actually brought by a third person.

Teachers play a vital role but they also forget their responsibility of teaching discipline is a basic manner.

But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

This is Bullshit! you need to take responsibility for whatever happens.

[o48o]

How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

It's about educating yourself on raising children, and not being a main character of your life anymore. You sometimes need to put your life on hold as it was and focus on what's important.
When you get your first child, your priorities and some of your values will shift. You should put more focus on practicality and psychological well being rather than delegating your work to some spirit, or what ever you believe in.

You can pray if you want or not to pray if it suits you, but that doesn't really affect the outcome, especially if you are trusting solely in praying. It might relax you as a form of meditation, but don't count that as a parenting. You need to do parenting yourself and not trust invisible dad from the sky to watch your kids. There's an actual physical parents that child needs to be present and noticing them in order for them to grow up as emphatic, and balanced, good human beings.

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The next thing to do is to change your signature on any current BCs of your children. Change it so that the 'non-assumpsit' words are added to it. This may be difficult in some States, but it can be done.
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You don't need to worry about that. BD-level of crazy is whole another scale and government will take custody of those children in no-time.

[Kavelj22]

Our society makes childrens life hell. Because society forces them to do what against their comfort zone. Children who like to do something the society say what they will do in future he has no bright future with his dedication and this type of work he loves. Because of society many lost their dreams that makes the children's sad and broken but they have nothing to do because their parents don't understand them. Why they will understand them every parents are tensed with their children future what they will do in life that's why the force to do that work their parents like. Because of that kind of mentality what society will say what are you going to do that's make a children depressed that's why many children's committed suicide and many fell into depression.

This reality was not tied to a specific time because caring for children was and still is a difficult task at all times and in any place. The peculiarity that characterizes our time is that the requirements for living, including basics and luxuries, have become very expensive due to the world’s integration into a globalized totalitarian system that makes economies affected by each other.

Today, due to the Ukrainian crisis, there has been a disruption in the distribution of grains to many countries of the world and an increase in the prices of all materials that use grains as raw materials. The rise in feed prices in the countries that produce them also leads to an increase in the prices of milk and all its derivatives in most countries of the world.

All of these indicators make it difficult to ensure easy living conditions for children, not to mention the security instability that threatens the modern world due to racist movements and conflicts for interests.

[Baki202]

There is a lot of distractions these days when you raise a kid. Everything has their own gadgets and parenting has become pretty much easier because they'll just let the kid sit on the couch and let it alone use the tablet or smartphone.

And with all of these distractions sacrifices the typical parenting that we used to grow with. Technology can really be either useful or harmful depending on how it's used especially on parenting.

Take note that as young as a toddler or less than a year old, there's already the gadget and his/her hand.

There are so many distractions these days that it is hard even for an adult to talk about raising a child. As the world gets better, so does talk of crime, corruption, and many other things. Gadgets have a way of making parenting easier for busy parents, but when children become overly dependent on them, it can have negative effects on them. and parent rely on their children's gadgets so they don't even have enough time to spend with their children, and that will have psychological effect on them.

[Wiwo]

There is this popular saying that most children born around the year 2000 down are rude. As insensitive as it may sound,  it is actually true. The rate of moral decadence in our society today is alarming and parents need to be intentional in parenting. Parenting is a very big task which must not be neglected.  If you don't inculcate into the children the right values at their tender age, they will learn by themselves from social media or strangers and they might learn the wrong thing.
 

Well even though there may be some element of truth in what you said,  but the truth is that that is just a statement based on assumptions and we have to be very aware of that and its possibilities,  we can't say that all the kids that falls that age of 2000 are all rude since we still have some children's who are born in that age who are still very well behaved and have control them self and behaved most respectfully,

But if we say they have high mental alertness to attract whatever character that is exhibited around them,  that I may accept and be the reason why some of them may be rude is because of the environment they grow in and the behaviour of their parents determined also behave.

[Gozie51]

There is this popular saying that most children born around the year 2000 down are rude. As insensitive as it may sound,  it is actually true. The rate of moral decadence in our society today is alarming and parents need to be intentional in parenting. Parenting is a very big task which must not be neglected.  If you don't inculcate into the children the right values at their tender age, they will learn by themselves from social media or strangers and they might learn the wrong thing.
 

This is the era of information technology and it brings with it all manners of negative vices and the youth are the major carriers of these vices. Technology has brought so many innovations that has made humanity more comfortable to live in the world but at the same time we are facing serious training challenge in our hands.

Children learn so much unhealthy stuffs from the visual media, television and the rest, they browse online to see things they age is not ready to graple with and so they also exibit them wrongly. I believe the biblical verse that says spare the rod and spoil the child is very much suited for this era. Parents have to be on toes to be sure that they turn out good children and youth to the society because good and sane society actually starts from the training young people receive.

[Ndabagi01]

How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

It appears that children are being born into a higher level of age in this day and age. Children tend to learn faster at a young age, perhaps this is because they are exposed to computers at a young age, making them so familiar with them that they misuse them. Children who are raised differently and lack proper morals in society are frequently victims of excessive internet exposure. Lack of regulation on its use for children has reduced it to a toy tool for them to explore and interact with things they are not supposed to at their young age, fostering bad habits and behaviour in society.

The family is the first stage of a child's socialisation, if they fail in that aspect, they will fail in every other aspect and are more likely to be influenced and involved in illegal activities. Keeping a good and proper check on your children's activities is the best thing for every parent to do in this new age; if the parents lacks in this regard, it begins to be the doom of the children in society.

[coolcoinz]

Being a parent is not easy either and with the current work environment they have to spent more time doing their duties for their bosses than their loved ones because money is crucial for everything. And mostly both parents has to go for the job to meet their needs so the kid is actually brought by a third person.

Teachers play a vital role but they also forget their responsibility of teaching discipline is a basic manner.

I agree, which is why me and my wife are basically a pair of teachers for our child. We haven't been working as teachers most of our lives because there were more profitable trades out there, but we have the necessary education. I've noticed that our daughter is doing great when it comes to all the basic skills at very young age. She remembers stories and tells them from memory, sings songs, recognizes letters and numbers. We're not pushing her or anything, but we've decided not to send her to day care and instead we work shifts and spend time with her at home.

But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

This is Bullshit! you need to take responsibility for whatever happens.

I agree. We don't teach our child how to pray. In a time of need she should seek smart solutions, not help from a higher power.

[JMBitcointernational]

How the society is now one has to be extremely careful with the way we bring up our children and then no body can raise our children better not even their teachers who spend most time with them
In this jet age they ( children) learn very fast from as early as zero years..
Parents needs to be alert with the activities of their children until they get to adulthood
But in all prayer is the strongest weapon

Prayer works but there is time for everything , it is not bad to train your child to know God but the child might End up becoming a religious fanatics . When a child is born it is assumed that the child’s brain is empty and whatever you tell the child registers in his or her brain consciously or unconsciously.however, one of the major factors that affects a child’s upbringing is the environment where the child stays while growing up .This might be the domestic environment, school Environment, church Environment and so on.

Parents are one of the major players of a child’s upbringing but the Environment determines the child’s future because if the environment is corrupt there is a possibility that the child will also be corrupt and vice versa when   The environment is good .Peer group also facilitates in a child’s upbringing because the age brackets and kinds of friends that the child will keep in future will also affect the child positively or negatively.

[Suzume]

Society fuck childrens life. Parents are already ever and tensed with the children's future in our country. The forces the children to do work against there comfort zone. That make a children depressed a lot. They do work against they comfort zone if some time they fail to do this work societies says your son can do this do that etc. then the parents force the children to do it properly that's the main reason children's who don't take pressures committed suicide. The current generation children's are so much confused what they will do. They are continuously forcing by their parents for the work they don't want to do.

[jrrsparkles]

Being a parent is not easy either and with the current work environment they have to spent more time doing their duties for their bosses than their loved ones because money is crucial for everything. And mostly both parents has to go for the job to meet their needs so the kid is actually brought by a third person.

Teachers play a vital role but they also forget their responsibility of teaching discipline is a basic manner.

I agree, which is why me and my wife are basically a pair of teachers for our child. We haven't been working as teachers most of our lives because there were more profitable trades out there, but we have the necessary education. I've noticed that our daughter is doing great when it comes to all the basic skills at very young age. She remembers stories and tells them from memory, sings songs, recognizes letters and numbers. We're not pushing her or anything, but we've decided not to send her to day care and instead we work shifts and spend time with her at home.
 

Home schooling can work up to a certain age but to get to know society school is the best place and as a parent will only nurture the kids with the best thing in all the way. So they never got exposed to the reality of the world which is why they can't able to face it when reality hits them hard. Give all your love as you wish but also teach them the reality of this world which is never going to be as sweet as we behave to our kids.

[Bushdark]

there are no perfect parents in my opinion kids would always have one or two things they will hate their parents for

if their parents were busy when they were growing up they might resent their parents for it but if the parents did a good job in making the kid feel loved and taken care of then as the kid grows up they will realize all the sacrifices their parents did for them and that would be enough

Yes, they’re no perfect parents anywhere but your opinion about kids always going to have something to hate their parents for is not entirely true.
I also don’t think parents having a busy schedule and not having much time to spend on their kids could make their kids resent them. They’re quite aware of the busy schedules of their parents and may feel bad at their absence, but certainly not resentment.

Parent should be hold responsible for anyhow there children is behaving in the society. There are parent that care less for their children and do not ask questions about their activities and what they do at all. We all have the right to know what our children is really doing so that we can kind them from going the wrong part.

 Just like the way we see today seeing children that are not of age betting and doing some ridiculous things that is never accepted at there age. We need to talk to our children and guide them on the certain way they are supposed to behave in the society.

[coolcoinz]

Home schooling can work up to a certain age but to get to know society school is the best place and as a parent will only nurture the kids with the best thing in all the way. So they never got exposed to the reality of the world which is why they can't able to face it when reality hits them hard. Give all your love as you wish but also teach them the reality of this world which is never going to be as sweet as we behave to our kids.

You're right and I believe that it's important to spend time with your kids at young age, where the personality develops at rapid pace and a child learns the fastest. I see so many people make the mistake of putting kids in day care since the age of 1 and then hey wake up to a teenager they share no connection with. A child that escapes from home to spend time with friends because the world is familiar and home is not. I want my child to value home and family the most and know there's always support and understanding waiting there.

I'm not going to home school her into her teenage years, although I feel like doing that on your own before primary school is a must these days.
People tend to think that home schooled children are soft, unprepared for the real world, but they aren't. You send kids to all the extracurricular activities they want, but they can choose what they want to do and get a like-minded group of friends there.

[348Judah]

With what is going on in the society today, every parent have to be very careful on the ways they raise their wards from the influence of the society, considering how corrupt manners are looming around everywhere, we must not allow our children get exposed to the environmental influence because they are something we cannot accept seing our children growing up with, there are lots of vices happening today and there were not secluded from children, parents should take full responsibility of their child support and make every necessary provisions for them in other not to seek for external extension.

[jrrsparkles]

People tend to think that home schooled children are soft, unprepared for the real world, but they aren't. You send kids to all the extracurricular activities they want, but they can choose what they want to do and get a like-minded group of friends there.

But they never know what they want at that young age so they will travel in the path that their parent chose for them but in school curriculum they get all the basics covered and also they can pursue their extra curricular activities too from their high school itself but that's my opinion which may differs from others though.