He Used Our Wedding Savings to Play Bet

[cabron]

Her life will be in total misery if he marries this guy, this guy is a compulsive gambler, he doesn't care about his bride's feelings, and it's better for the lady to cool off the wedding and only talk about the wedding if he is totally cured.

Compulsive gamblers like the guy in the description should not have a family, they will spend more time in casinos and spend all their money betting, if that lady is a friend I will ask her to just break the guy, and if he wants her back he must show first that he is totally cured from his addiction.

The worst thing that can happen to a woman is getting married to a compulsive gambler, the marriage will eventually end in divorce and he will continue to hurt her feelings, there are many straight and clean guys so it is better to look for a man who take care of her and not spend her money or love gambling more than he loves her.

Marriage is off then. There is no good for this man to marry her as it is already a problem from the beginning. Give it a year after the wedding the guy will be spending money he didn't earn. Regardless of what his motive is. Let's say he meant to grow the money to impress this woman that he is a good provider but look at how it turned out.

Not gonna be great if she continues their plan. So people in Nigeria are actually no very traditional where only the men spend money for their girl?

[_act_]

Her life will be in total misery if he marries this guy, this guy is a compulsive gambler, he doesn't care about his bride's feelings, and it's better for the lady to cool off the wedding and only talk about the wedding if he is totally cured.

Maybe or maybe not. What he did is stupidity. Some people can think they can still give such a person second chance. But if it is me that I am the girl, I will not only call off the wedding but also call of the relationship. If the girl did not also call off the relationship, maybe she is stupid. But maybe not, becuase some people can think of second chance, I noticye my friends that were addicted left gambling after they had huge losses that severely affected them just like this, sometimes, there can be second chance.

[passwordnow]

It can be a blessing in disguise for that lady that the nature of the guy has been exposed because of gambling. If she didn't called off the wedding and continued because of how desperate she is and loves the guy truly, she'll be the one to suffer with both of them living on the same roof. With that attitude and addiction in gambling, the money that they agreed to save for their wedding won't just be like that if they do plan another saving for some of their needs or plans together. It's possible that the guy will spend the money and will just carefree as if nothing has happened.

It's sad to see that a dream wedding has been called off because of such incidents but the woman will eventually realize that it's okay but, the pain is there at the beginning and she had to accept and endure that until it's finally gone. The final decision of leaving the guy and moving on is what she need to do to have a brand new start. Finding the new love of her life might not be easy as it may be but that's what should happen if ever the guy will never change. The guy is also going to be a lucky one if the woman will give him another chance but the question is, is she going to give another shot for that guy that's been the major reason why their wedding has been canceled?

[jrrsparkles]

Betting with savings money is wrong I agree with it.

But every story has two different sides we we can't come to any conclusion about whether her choice is right or wrong with her partner but he may have his reasons for such actions too is there any information about the results of the bet or its assumption of complete loss that is why she did this?

[ethereumhunter]

I also felt very sorry for the woman because she had struggled to save money for her wedding with her fiancé. Still, her fiancé instead used the money to gamble, hoping that he could double his money quickly so that they no longer had to save for their wedding costs. The man was foolish. He had disappointed his fiancé because he was willing to make sacrifices for his wedding plans and instead thought he wanted to gamble with that money.

We don't know what happened to them. But hopefully, the man will come to his senses and can cancel his plan to bet. For their wedding, they could still have a simple wedding attended by only their close family. That would save him money if he still had it. But if the money is no longer there, the woman must postpone her marriage for certain reasons. And the worst thing was canceling the wedding because he couldn't be with his fiancé anymore. But the woman had to be able to remind her fiancé not to gamble for anything because they were risking his money.

[ryzaadit]

A legend word say.

The man is 1% aways from winning a jackpot ~XD I cannot believe for anyone who are playing using such other fund, I mean (I have gambling addiction) but only using the money until I run out the money (for my worst scenario)

Never using someone money or money are gonna to be used for paying the rent and something like that.

[Strongkored]

what could be more heart breaking than this?

What was more painful was that he did not reimburse the woman and only apologized, which meant that the woman had been greatly harmed financially and mentally.
Feeling sorry for what the woman was going through, the decision to call off the wedding was the right step and I'm sure many are curious about the continuation of their relationship, whether to stay in the relationship or break up.
It is very important to discuss finances before starting a marriage because finances will play a very important role in the future household because without the same view about finances, it will be difficult for a couple to build a family future.
The man was stupid in thinking he could double the money and gambling is uncertain because the chances of winning and losing are equal.

[adultcrypto]

I really feel sorry for the lady with no single sympathy for the man. The only area I don't understand was if she already knew her man was a gambler and the extent to which he can gamble. If such information was revealed to her and she still felt she could cope, then she should deal with it and move on because she should not be surprised. On the other hand, if the man concealed such information from the fiance, then he still have terrible secrets and marrying such a man is not the best for the lady.

Gambling is supposed to be done with spared funds and not money one cannot afford to loose. The guy should first go and treat his greed level before raising a family because it is obvious he hasn't understand the important of priority.

This will also help us learn from his mistakes because many people have poor mindset about gambling. Since it is something of probability, we should always follow it in that manner because it is not certain the outcome you choose will work that way.

[DabsPoorVersion]

I really feel sorry for the lady with no single sympathy for the man. The only area I don't understand was if she already knew her man was a gambler and the extent to which he can gamble. If such information was revealed to her and she still felt she could cope, then she should deal with it and move on because she should not be surprised. On the other hand, if the man concealed such information from the fiance, then he still have terrible secrets and marrying such a man is not the best for the lady.

Gambling is supposed to be done with spared funds and not money one cannot afford to loose. The guy should first go and treat his greed level before raising a family because it is obvious he hasn't understand the important of priority.

This will also help us learn from his mistakes because many people have poor mindset about gambling. Since it is something of probability, we should always follow it in that manner because it is not certain the outcome you choose will work that way.

Questioning the lady is nonsense. She's just a victim of a man not being responsible, despite the plan for their wedding, he still ends up hurting the woman. Let's say the woman knows the gambling activities of the man, they might already talk about it. However, the man has no other way to contribute more. Being desperate to act like a man and pay most of the expenses, he ends up betting the money for their wedding.

The man should think deeply before he acts and starts betting. Thinking about the possibility of what will happen if the money is lost in gambling, or what his partner would feel if the man acted alone without her consent.

[Cantsay]

To be honest when I read the title I thought it was a personal experience and seeing your name as the op made me more eager to read through the thread, but unfortunately it’s nothing personal but that still does not make it less tragic.

This is the type of case where the popular quote makes sense “the idle mind is the devil’s workshop”, I really don’t know what made him take that bold step by betting such a large amount he might have been doing it for a lower amount and has had a higher rate of winning and that’s why he was confident enough to have used that amount.

And right now the lady is left in a situation where she has to cope with the man’s decision and save another money or just part ways with the man and move on with her life and it’s not going to be a easy one for her and it’s also something she can do alone with no one’s assistance.

[livingfree]

Betting with savings money is wrong I agree with it.

But every story has two different sides we we can't come to any conclusion about whether her choice is right or wrong with her partner but he may have his reasons for such actions too is there any information about the results of the bet or its assumption of complete loss that is why she did this?

It's wrong in all aspects because the money that's gambled is not just his money but also her money. And there's a reason why they're saving up that money and that's for their most awaited union, their marriage.

On this case, we don't need any other side of the story that will come from the guy. The obvious matter has been said that he has spent their savings for the wedding and it shouldn't be tolerated.

Let us say that he has his reason doing that, and that's to gamble and nothing more or less. Sad on her side but better decision will come for her after this.

[yazher]

The same happened to the person I know when he used the money that had been entrusted to him just because he was full of himself that he gonna win the bet that day. But gambling is not to be trusted when it comes to money needed to buy your essential needs and when he regret his decision, it is too late because he lost the money that supposed to buy supplies for his friend's store and he doesn't have any means to pay it and after that, he just lose a friend and took a loan to pay his debt because it was a huge amount of money that he just wasted. I wonder if their wedding will still be done in the future but if it was me, I would count it as a red flag and quit becoming his bride.

[Jawhead999]

It's good if she not yet married a gambling addict, she need to thankfully to her boyfriend because she can easily break up and search for a better man. If they've married, it's become more harder for the wife to divorce with his husband because become a widower isn't easy.

Never think he will become a better man, human will never change.

[knowngunman]

I want to only talk about the comic part although for many people there is nothing comic in here,yet the lady didn't she knew that her fiance was a gambler and out of a gambler what can you expect when the hardest form of addiction hits you,you will find any remote possibility to get money to bet and to feed your burning desire to gamble.

The fact that he wanted to double his money is a clear indication that this guy is definitely addicted as only addicted people do not think much about consequences as they are only focused on doubling their money whatever the amount they bet for them is irrelevant.

On the contrary, he might be new to the system and not really an addict because thinking about doubling his money sounds so foolish to be coming from professional gambler. Sounds like someone who was deceived by some friends to try his luck on gambling and everything goes against him. This the consequences of gambling with other people's money. Even with your own money, you're supposed to gamble with what you can afford to lose and not gambling above your worth. I feel bad for the poor girl because the love she has for the guy will not allow her to take necessary action on the guy.

Both of them will never forget gambling for prolonging their wedding if it will ever take place again. Such a bad experience!

[cryptomaniac_xxx]

It's obviously very wrong at what angle you look at it and I don't know what is the reason behind this man to take that risk to gamble the money suddenly that they have work hard to save just to have a great wedding. On the other hard, it's good that the girl has experience it before their actual wedding. I mean just imagine if they stay in one roof and suddenly he discovers that his husband is a gambling addict.

So she should just move forward, I know it's very difficult for her, but this is the only way she will have a better life than to live with a man that you cannot trust specially with money matters even though that she loves him very much.

[Ruttoshi]

The man is a big fool for thinking that he can double $5000 through gambling, he must be an addict that sees gambling as a means to make profit. If not after gambling with $1000 and lost the bet, he is suppose to stop gambling but instead he went ahead to gambling all his wedding funds.

He is a gambler and that is why he did it, if not his mind wouldn't go into using such important money that he has a little percent in it to gamble without looking back. I believe that the lady in question will quit the relationship, since she said that he hasn't been disgraced like that.

Poor woman that is doing everything possible to be wedded but it all ended up in vain. I have seen a marriage that was broken because of gambling addiction.

[NeilLostBitCoin]

Let's focus on the positive in this situation. Although the girl may feel embarrassed, the fact that she is not yet married means she still has the opportunity to make the best decision for herself and find a man who truly deserves her.

To the man, it's important to realize you have lost a woman who loved you. Not all women are willing to fund a wedding unless they genuinely love their partner. Even if a woman loves her partner, she is not obligated to provide for the wedding expenses. You have wasted the opportunity to be with a woman who truly loved you to fuel your gambling addiction. This should be an example that the money allocated for important occasions, such as weddings, should be used wisely and not spent on gambling.

[Wexnident]

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Call the wedding and the relationship off lady! Probably better for you. There's a lot better fish than the sea take your time. Idrk if it was good this happened before marriage or not lol.

I mean honestly, any sane gambler out there would not use funds you've gathered up especially one that was gathered together with someone to gamble.  It's rather confusing really how some people consider gambling as a "guaranteed" way of earning money jesus. Yes, he did the act hoping for the best, but it's the best of both worlds, one of which does not give a fuck about you. Let's not even consider how the money had the wife contributing more than him.

[carlfebz2]

  Hi guys and ladies, here comes a very sad and heart-breaking story (true life confession) of a young lady who was contributing money (saving money) together with her husband-to-be (fiancée) in preparation for their wedding. The story in quote ..

I am really speechless and confused, and i think it's best for me to call the wedding off, what will i even tell people that already know about our wedding plans? this is the most disgraceful thing that has ever happened to me.[/i]

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Even though i don't know this young lady in question personally, i felt true pity for her after coming across and reading her confession, i know how important weddings are to women and for the fact that she herself joined the man in saving, and even contributed about 60% of the entire funds they managed to save, shows or showed how committed she was to see that their wedding takes place, but unfortunately, the man gambled the money away, what could be more heart breaking than this?

Totally heartbreaking i would say on which spending up your wedding funds or savings for the sake of gambling then this one indicates that your man isnt really that serious on you. Even if we do say that he's aiming on doubling the money for that kind of purpose but we know that its never been that a good decision or ideal one for you to gamble out those funds, not unless you have some permission into the other half or with your fiancee if there's not then its just purely showing  that you disrespect her. She had really the  right since he had contributed 60% of the entire savings on which she has right to know on where those funds been stored or if ever there's plan on some unexpected spending.

This is heartbreaking for the girl and as much as possible as long its still early, then she should leave the guy yet this kind of action does indicate about being addicted with gambling.
This isnt something that couldnt really be good into your future endeavors on your marriage life. Its impossible that you cant really be able to assess these things on point.
Yes, it does hurt but you do make the best decisions which would really be that just right for you. Dont force yourself into a man which arent that worth of your love.

[danherbias07]

Damn bro, where do you get those stories. I can see "Rant Vault" as the watermark but finding this might be hard.

Anyway, about the story, truly it is a sad one. But I do understand the point of the "should be groom" because maybe he is really just trying to help and feeling down that he only has 40 percent on their contribution. This is pride and ego and not a gambling addiction. Maybe he is cornered and trying to find ways to help but he made a mistake in putting it in the gambling way.

But on the "should be bride" side this is of course a bad decision and she will probably just end their relationship because of this mistake. It's the right thing to do because what if they are already husband and wife and they have money saved for their mortgage payment or bills then the guy gambled it again just trying his luck. That will make her regret her decision to wed him and they will just separate, it's better to do it early while they are not yet one.