This recent thread
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=5472210.msg63078727#msg63078727 that talks about "how children are more closed to mother's than father's" inspired me to create this post.
I want to categorically emphasis on how negatively mother's has inffected us as a course of mothers love but with the aids and ability of adulthood and conductive aids, we could be able to separate right from wrongs and lead our paths independently at today.
However, here are my outlines about our mothers negative effects during our childhoods>>>* Enemity amongst the families: Mother's are in fund of being one sided when their children are in domestic misunderstanding (quarrel/fights).
Instead of mothers applying diplomatic when children are having issues, they would just want to take one sided and have the other to be blamed basically on the one she loves more without undermining who was at fault and then enemities amongst both arouses by grudges.
* Laziness: Mother's has tended to breed about laziness in the kids as a course of pampering/caring.
At the age of a child supposed to be rendering some domestic helps in the family such as the house chores, they would opt to say the child is too tendered to engage on domestic works instead they would bring in house help to do the works. This pretty treat's has caused must of our girls/women today slaying even at the husband's house that they can't take proper in-charge of the duties of a woman at home.
Also has caused laziness on the male borns whereas they finds it hard to cope on their own at when time is due and failing to consider they would be man of their own home sometimes and they got lost the responsibilities exercises because they so much leaned on the parents endivoirs.
* Lack of conducts: The mothers has always lived to tolerate with our mannerlessness whereas the junior ones disrespects the seniors while mother's takes it for fun protecting the junior ones from sanctioned for being disrespectful.
This has also brought us about public misconducts that we don't at all realizes who is our elders. We just talk to people without undermining age differences simply because we have a lioness mother who is behind to defend our actions. Etc.
Conclusively, it all begins from the inside. Mother's love on children is exceptionally incomparable but losses its fundamental obliged significant.