Gambling and Behavioral Change!!!

[Belarge]

Certainly! Personally, when I win, I first feel a feeling of joy and satisfaction. But then I feel like something is missing and I go back to play, although I have no desire ((
When I lose, I experience strong apathy, but not for long. Usually after a few days everything returns to normal

Everything can never be normal when the system is unfavorable to us and our plans. We tend to approach the system with more careful steps and earning big become very competitive and successful. Gambling is triggered when we've observed tough matches in the system. Winning bets brings joy to the face and when one doesn't earn quite reasonable amounts of winning, he grow to become sad and eager to replace his money, thereby resulting in the player wagering again and he will continue to lose until there's nothing left but the wise one have learnt their lesson between.

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[Agbe]

 As for me those are normal things in gambling. Whenever you loss there is transgression of anger and whoever talked nonsense at that time receive the anger from the loss gambler and when you win there would be smile full over your body. The behavioral change come into in two perspective. It is either positive or negative the positive change is the happy mode of the game and the negative change is the losing game of the gambler. Op so what was your behavioral changed of the game your loss or win? Gambling is subtle, because when you win you will be willing to play games every time and all the time and when the wins cash has been exhausted then you become to realize that you have misused the money and you can't get them back again. It is when the money finished thY your eyes will clear.

[blockman]

Reducing your concentration on the games you have reserved or bet can help the behavioral effects of gambling to have less of an impact on you whether you win or lose.

It can help because your focus isn't on it and I agree that reducing the concentration there, this can give you the idea that you should just be chilled when you gamble and that your behavior won't be much affected if ever you get more losses. But we're all human beings and we've got ways of tackling things like what we do in gambling. It's disappointing whenever we lose and that's why our behavior changes when we are on that actuality.

Don't assume that you will succeed every time you gamble on any game

This is known by many. We're gambling and the results vary, sometimes we win but many times we're going to lose just for us to take at least one win. But even with that, we're all okay with it because we chose to gamble and that's not going to take us away with it unless you can't control yourself anymore.

[flipme]

Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.

I feel what you describe from time to time, but as soon as I feel it, I start to think that I need to control myself and I work to normalize my behavior. I believe that everything is in our will. It's up to us to be slaves to our emotions or to use them properly and enjoy life.

[Hirose UK]

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You don't need to become an addict first in order to experience a behavioural change. Then, losing isn't alone that can cause for our behaviour to change, (but also winning does). Indeed that being addicted in gambling can affect other aspects of our lives. It's because when we are addicted in to something, we will now have less or no time to do other things.

Indeed, changes in behavior and attitudes do not wait for someone to become addicted to gambling first because even if new gambler experiences certain conditions such as losing large amounts of course he will experience changes in attitude.
But for an addict, the changes may not be so visible because they will tend to remain silent and try to recover the situation and use what they have to achieve this achievement.
It just that I found something different about gambler who has quiet attitude or behavior in his daily life, he gambles, experiences big losses and becomes quieter person, even for some time he just locks himself up in his room.
This is completely incomprehensible difference.

We can also lose our money that is supposed to be allocated for something which can be more important than in gambling. It is easy to spot an addicted gambler even that gambler didn't tell about his bad habit. We need to do something like give them an advice, because some are only shy or afraid to ask a help about their problem.

Of course in gambling whatever money you have can be used up without any remaining if there is no control or good management, especially for an addict who will give it up and then regret it later.
And just giving advice will not be useful or even just useless, the first thing is that they must first have awareness of their activities which have bad impact.
That way it will be easier to overcome addiction problems.

[pinggoki]

I feel what you describe from time to time, but as soon as I feel it, I start to think that I need to control myself and I work to normalize my behavior. I believe that everything is in our will. It's up to us to be slaves to our emotions or to use them properly and enjoy life.

Good for you, that's kind of awesome that you're able to control and be aware that you're starting to feel a certain emotion, you don't have to be so hard on yourself when it comes to controlling your emotions, remember that it's a natural thing for someone to feel that emotion. I don't think that feeling those emotions are a bad thing when you're gambling and if you're winning or losing, shouldn't that be the normal thing to happen for someone when they experience something, you have to check on yourself if you're not feeling those emotions or behavior because that means there's something wrong if not different with how you process emotion, these feelings are okay to feel, what our next action is what dictates how we will do things.

[rozak]

I feel what you describe from time to time, but as soon as I feel it, I start to think that I need to control myself and I work to normalize my behavior. I believe that everything is in our will. It's up to us to be slaves to our emotions or to use them properly and enjoy life.

Good for you, that's kind of awesome that you're able to control and be aware that you're starting to feel a certain emotion, you don't have to be so hard on yourself when it comes to controlling your emotions, remember that it's a natural thing for someone to feel that emotion. I don't think that feeling those emotions are a bad thing when you're gambling and if you're winning or losing, shouldn't that be the normal thing to happen for someone when they experience something, you have to check on yourself if you're not feeling those emotions or behavior because that means there's something wrong if not different with how you process emotion, these feelings are okay to feel, what our next action is what dictates how we will do things.

However, everyone's attitudes and emotions are different. Some people need a process so they can control and take positive action on what happens to them after losing or winning.
It is not easy for every gambler who is very emotional and addicted to control his activities. Maybe you need someone else to remind you to start controlling. but everything is still part of the process. Changes in behavior are possible, but we must wisely adapt to our circumstances.

[pinggoki]

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However, everyone's attitudes and emotions are different. Some people need a process so they can control and take positive action on what happens to them after losing or winning.
It is not easy for every gambler who is very emotional and addicted to control his activities. Maybe you need someone else to remind you to start controlling. but everything is still part of the process. Changes in behavior are possible, but we must wisely adapt to our circumstances.

I'm not saying that everyone's the same, my point is that you have to feel that emotion and let it all out because it's not wrong to feel those things, the difference the processing of the emotion. What I mean is that if you're ecstatic or so happy after a win, your move on how you will continue playing or not is the control that I'm talking about or for when you're losing, are you going to let frustration and anger make you continue playing or you will decide then and there that you're going to stop gambling today. Discipline is the key to that control, now if you have a little of that or you're lacking in that department, wouldn't this be the right time to be learning about it and how you can have that discipline?

[bettercrypto]

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However, everyone's attitudes and emotions are different. Some people need a process so they can control and take positive action on what happens to them after losing or winning.
It is not easy for every gambler who is very emotional and addicted to control his activities. Maybe you need someone else to remind you to start controlling. but everything is still part of the process. Changes in behavior are possible, but we must wisely adapt to our circumstances.

I'm not saying that everyone's the same, my point is that you have to feel that emotion and let it all out because it's not wrong to feel those things, the difference the processing of the emotion. What I mean is that if you're ecstatic or so happy after a win, your move on how you will continue playing or not is the control that I'm talking about or for when you're losing, are you going to let frustration and anger make you continue playing or you will decide then and there that you're going to stop gambling today. Discipline is the key to that control, now if you have a little of that or you're lacking in that department, wouldn't this be the right time to be learning about it and how you can have that discipline?

Well, you are right about that. As much as possible, we should be able to control our emotions correctly when playing gambling. Especially when we experience winning, gamblers feel different emotions, one of which is that instead of stopping playing the game, they continue because of greed.

Others stop and take out what they won, and it's up to them if they want to treat their loved ones because they won gambling. as if they wanted to share their blessings obtained by winning gambling at the casino.

[Fredomago]

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However, everyone's attitudes and emotions are different. Some people need a process so they can control and take positive action on what happens to them after losing or winning.
It is not easy for every gambler who is very emotional and addicted to control his activities. Maybe you need someone else to remind you to start controlling. but everything is still part of the process. Changes in behavior are possible, but we must wisely adapt to our circumstances.

I'm not saying that everyone's the same, my point is that you have to feel that emotion and let it all out because it's not wrong to feel those things, the difference the processing of the emotion. What I mean is that if you're ecstatic or so happy after a win, your move on how you will continue playing or not is the control that I'm talking about or for when you're losing, are you going to let frustration and anger make you continue playing or you will decide then and there that you're going to stop gambling today. Discipline is the key to that control, now if you have a little of that or you're lacking in that department, wouldn't this be the right time to be learning about it and how you can have that discipline?

Well, you are right about that. As much as possible, we should be able to control our emotions correctly when playing gambling. Especially when we experience winning, gamblers feel different emotions, one of which is that instead of stopping playing the game, they continue because of greed.

Others stop and take out what they won, and it's up to them if they want to treat their loved ones because they won gambling. as if they wanted to share their blessings obtained by winning gambling at the casino.

Yeh, if you are good in that kind of control you will be able to enjoy your winnings, but because of greed most of the time, gambler decided to push for more thinking that they are really lucky and they can add more with their winnings, you need to keep yourself calm and not to sway to your emotions as winning is just a bonus and you need to make sure that you'll be able to make a good use of it.

Think of your purpose and try to keep that entertainment and not to seek for huge benefits, you'll need to stay focus if you don't want to suffer with huge losses becuase of your emotions.

[Dickiy]

I feel what you describe from time to time, but as soon as I feel it, I start to think that I need to control myself and I work to normalize my behavior. I believe that everything is in our will. It's up to us to be slaves to our emotions or to use them properly and enjoy life.

Good for you, that's kind of awesome that you're able to control and be aware that you're starting to feel a certain emotion, you don't have to be so hard on yourself when it comes to controlling your emotions, remember that it's a natural thing for someone to feel that emotion. I don't think that feeling those emotions are a bad thing when you're gambling and if you're winning or losing, shouldn't that be the normal thing to happen for someone when they experience something, you have to check on yourself if you're not feeling those emotions or behavior because that means there's something wrong if not different with how you process emotion, these feelings are okay to feel, what our next action is what dictates how we will do things.

However, everyone's attitudes and emotions are different. Some people need a process so they can control and take positive action on what happens to them after losing or winning.
It is not easy for every gambler who is very emotional and addicted to control his activities. Maybe you need someone else to remind you to start controlling. but everything is still part of the process. Changes in behavior are possible, but we must wisely adapt to our circumstances.

Of course that's true, everyone has a different level of emotion and also there are even some or some of them who have a temperament which means they are sensitive and very easily provoked by their emotions, and that means everyone has different actions and some of the factors I mentioned above are very influential on what decisions or actions they will take when the situation is like that. Even though they may be able to reach a point of good control, it still won't happen spontaneously and means there must be a struggle to hold back all the negative things that come out of their mindset when the situation is hot.

If you gamble alone and without the company of others, especially your friends, then obviously you will not be able to withstand some out-of-control actions when the situation has started to heat up due to defeat, and honestly for myself I often gamble with my friend while chatting and enjoying a cup of coffee, he will give some advice when I start to get upset and that is very helpful.

[Lanatsa]

I feel what you describe from time to time, but as soon as I feel it, I start to think that I need to control myself and I work to normalize my behavior. I believe that everything is in our will. It's up to us to be slaves to our emotions or to use them properly and enjoy life.

Good for you, that's kind of awesome that you're able to control and be aware that you're starting to feel a certain emotion, you don't have to be so hard on yourself when it comes to controlling your emotions, remember that it's a natural thing for someone to feel that emotion. I don't think that feeling those emotions are a bad thing when you're gambling and if you're winning or losing, shouldn't that be the normal thing to happen for someone when they experience something, you have to check on yourself if you're not feeling those emotions or behavior because that means there's something wrong if not different with how you process emotion, these feelings are okay to feel, what our next action is what dictates how we will do things.

However, everyone's attitudes and emotions are different. Some people need a process so they can control and take positive action on what happens to them after losing or winning.
It is not easy for every gambler who is very emotional and addicted to control his activities. Maybe you need someone else to remind you to start controlling. but everything is still part of the process. Changes in behavior are possible, but we must wisely adapt to our circumstances.

Of course that's true, everyone has a different level of emotion and also there are even some or some of them who have a temperament which means they are sensitive and very easily provoked by their emotions, and that means everyone has different actions and some of the factors I mentioned above are very influential on what decisions or actions they will take when the situation is like that. Even though they may be able to reach a point of good control, it still won't happen spontaneously and means there must be a struggle to hold back all the negative things that come out of their mindset when the situation is hot.

If you gamble alone and without the company of others, especially your friends, then obviously you will not be able to withstand some out-of-control actions when the situation has started to heat up due to defeat, and honestly for myself I often gamble with my friend while chatting and enjoying a cup of coffee, he will give some advice when I start to get upset and that is very helpful.

Emotion handling and control would really be totally different to each other on which it would really be that there are people who do easily control up themselves and there are ones who are really that impulsive
when it comes into this aspect on which it is something that you could say that there are people who are really that not able to control their emotions on the time that they do play gambling.
There are ones who are really that able to do so just because they've been aware on the things that they are dealing with.Whereas to those people who are impulsive and too emotional then it isnt really just that
limited that they are really that doing those reactions when dealing up with gambling but also in other things as well on which this one really imposes up that there's something wrong
when it comes to your behavior or simply with your emotion.

This is something which is really that hard to be changed up, on point because this would really be  that requiring up that kind of control and discipline on which it cant really be just that
done on a single day but rather it would really be something that you would really be needing to deal and actually do on a long term mannter before everything
could changed up.

[Sanugarid]

Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.

Most of the gamblers actually experience something like that because you have lost in gambling, if you know that your behavior is like that when you lose in gambling, you should fix it because this is bad behavior. You can't always be like that every time you go home. Learn how to control your emotions, and only gamble as much as you can afford to lose so your head doesn't get hot when you lose. You should enjoy it.

[Westinhome]

As for me those are normal things in gambling. Whenever you loss there is transgression of anger and whoever talked nonsense at that time receive the anger from the loss gambler and when you win there would be smile full over your body. The behavioral change come into in two perspective. It is either positive or negative the positive change is the happy mode of the game and the negative change is the losing game of the gambler. Op so what was your behavioral changed of the game your loss or win? Gambling is subtle, because when you win you will be willing to play games every time and all the time and when the wins cash has been exhausted then you become to realize that you have misused the money and you can't get them back again. It is when the money finished thY your eyes will clear.

The gambler usually get the anger after the loss,it may be against his own luck or on the gambling site.Gambler anger on the luck is not a problem,but anger on the gambling site is not the professional behaviour of the gambler.The gambler may motivate themselves to both positive and negative way.The positive way is the gambler get self confidence and self motivation in their next game.This type of gambler will get their loss money in the gambling site by the self confidence on their technique of that particular game.The gambler who get negative wipe will start to spread bad about the gambling site until his anger on that gambling site was reduce.

[Fredomago]

Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.

Most of the gamblers actually experience something like that because you have lost in gambling, if you know that your behavior is like that when you lose in gambling, you should fix it because this is bad behavior. You can't always be like that every time you go home. Learn how to control your emotions, and only gamble as much as you can afford to lose so your head doesn't get hot when you lose. You should enjoy it.

Yes, you said it right, better to cope up with this kind of attitude before playing again, or if you already noticing this kind of changes you should find the best way to recover and reset everything back to normal, I guess changing in mood while betting is a natural reaction as human always have that after effect in terms of emotion.

But, it's still important that you know how to control that and make sure that you have all the possible option not to continue acting like that to prevent pushing your love ones away from you.

[piebeyb]

But, it's still important that you know how to control that and make sure that you have all the possible option not to continue acting like that to prevent pushing your love ones away from you.

Yes, it's really important to be able to maintain your behavior before or after gambling because as a gambler you have to know how to control yourself so that people around you don't see our uncontrolled emotions just because you lost at gambling. Changes in behavior must be separated so that it doesn't take out on other people. who don't deserve to see changes in our behavior that suddenly change for the worse.

So far, I have always maintained my behavior after playing gambling because I don't have to vent my frustration because I lost gambling and have to take it all out on other people. Moreover, I have never been so angry and annoyed excessively because I gamble just for entertainment. But it is important for gamblers who are looking for money there, at least never bring their emotions and annoyance at gambling to other people, especially those closest to them, including family.

[Wexnident]

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I'm not particularly sure. As far as I can recall, I've always had anger issues whenever emotions run high. To the point where I can hurl abusive words at anyone i'm conversing with really hard. It rarely happened though simply because I try to keep my emotions down for the most part, and in reality, it mostly happens when either I get really competitive (mostly in games) or in gambling, which is a game in itself.

I don't think gambling affects it in any way of err, e.g., having more instances of said behavior or something. I guess it's just how I am?

[Porfirii]

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So far, I have always maintained my behavior after playing gambling because I don't have to vent my frustration because I lost gambling and have to take it all out on other people. Moreover, I have never been so angry and annoyed excessively because I gamble just for entertainment. But it is important for gamblers who are looking for money there, at least never bring their emotions and annoyance at gambling to other people, especially those closest to them, including family.

That's what happens with other addictions too: most of us know a few people who gets aggressive when they drink. In my case (I hardly ever drink) alcohol relaxes me, but in other people it detonates the activation of the amygdala.

Those who get angry and annoyed excessively is in part because of their way of being. If I lost a lot of money gambling, which I shouldn't have risked in first place, I suppose that I would be utterly sad, but not angry.

So, answering the OP's question, I don't think that gambling changes my behaviour in general, and while it is true that I feel a bit sad when I don't win, it doesn't change the way I interact with other people.

[Jody.Drummer]

Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.

Most of the gamblers actually experience something like that because you have lost in gambling, if you know that your behavior is like that when you lose in gambling, you should fix it because this is bad behavior. You can't always be like that every time you go home. Learn how to control your emotions, and only gamble as much as you can afford to lose so your head doesn't get hot when you lose. You should enjoy it.

Yes, you said it right, better to cope up with this kind of attitude before playing again, or if you already noticing this kind of changes you should find the best way to recover and reset everything back to normal, I guess changing in mood while betting is a natural reaction as human always have that after effect in terms of emotion.

But, it's still important that you know how to control that and make sure that you have all the possible option not to continue acting like that to prevent pushing your love ones away from you.

The level of hope and expectations that are too high makes it difficult for them to think realistically in terms of considering for a change for the better, they are aware and know that it is the best thing to do but the problem is that it is not easy for them to fight emotions when the situation is really hot due to defeat and loss of money which for them means a lot. I think the first thing that should be changed is in terms of understanding the gambling itself, do not let them think that gambling is a way to make money because there is always no certainty, the second is to bet with an amount that can be accounted for to lose.

I think with the two things above at least it will not make them too upset and disappointed if they really lose again. And also I think self-control and some limits will not be too difficult to do if indeed they have a good understanding and awareness, because usually something that cannot be controlled starts from emotions that cannot be restrained, so by putting a small budget and reducing expectations then I think it will not be too difficult to do.

[Dickiy]

However, everyone's attitudes and emotions are different. Some people need a process so they can control and take positive action on what happens to them after losing or winning.
It is not easy for every gambler who is very emotional and addicted to control his activities. Maybe you need someone else to remind you to start controlling. but everything is still part of the process. Changes in behavior are possible, but we must wisely adapt to our circumstances.

Of course that's true, everyone has a different level of emotion and also there are even some or some of them who have a temperament which means they are sensitive and very easily provoked by their emotions, and that means everyone has different actions and some of the factors I mentioned above are very influential on what decisions or actions they will take when the situation is like that. Even though they may be able to reach a point of good control, it still won't happen spontaneously and means there must be a struggle to hold back all the negative things that come out of their mindset when the situation is hot.

If you gamble alone and without the company of others, especially your friends, then obviously you will not be able to withstand some out-of-control actions when the situation has started to heat up due to defeat, and honestly for myself I often gamble with my friend while chatting and enjoying a cup of coffee, he will give some advice when I start to get upset and that is very helpful.

Emotion handling and control would really be totally different to each other on which it would really be that there are people who do easily control up themselves and there are ones who are really that impulsive
when it comes into this aspect on which it is something that you could say that there are people who are really that not able to control their emotions on the time that they do play gambling.
There are ones who are really that able to do so just because they've been aware on the things that they are dealing with.Whereas to those people who are impulsive and too emotional then it isnt really just that
limited that they are really that doing those reactions when dealing up with gambling but also in other things as well on which this one really imposes up that there's something wrong
when it comes to your behavior or simply with your emotion.

This is something which is really that hard to be changed up, on point because this would really be  that requiring up that kind of control and discipline on which it cant really be just that
done on a single day but rather it would really be something that you would really be needing to deal and actually do on a long term mannter before everything
could changed up.

As I said before, what makes someone do things differently, especially in terms of control, is because there are other incentives such as circumstances or personal characteristics that they have, such as being easily provoked or having a temperamental nature, and that is what makes it almost difficult for gamblers to control themselves. all actions beyond the control that exist in his mind. The only people who are able to do this are probably those who are still at a good level of awareness so that they are able to choose the best decisions correctly.

Yes, it is true that habits  are very difficult to change, they require seriousness and strong firmness to be able to exercise proper control when in such conditions. I think it all comes down to how skilled they are at managing their own control when they are in such conditions.