Gambling and Behavioral Change!!!

[Dewi Aries]

What is the problem and what causes a person to be addicted is the lack of understanding of what gambling really is, they only underline that gambling is a place to change the fate in life by utilizing opportunities, but they do not understand that opportunities are just "possibilities" which means there is absolutely no certainty to become a reality and it will really happen when you are lucky.

Addiction is not always because of a lack of understanding. Sometimes, people who know that gambling is all about possibilities and luck and there are no guaranteed gains get addicted to it and the reason behind that is that they do it excessively, maybe not at the initial stage but later on when they have seen that they can win money from it but it's just not guaranteed but their minds keep telling them to try again, what if you win this time?

When they keep trying, again and again, to see if they can win something significant, this thing makes them addicted eventually, along with the fact that they might keep trying to recover their losses each time they gamble and we know what happens to those who try to recover their losses.

Yes I understand what you mean here which is that addiction is not always caused by a lack of understanding of what gambling really is, and the other reason you mentioned here that addiction can also be caused by someone who wants to continue to win to the point of overdoing it in terms of doing more experiments, I understand that and I think it still has something to do with "not having the right understanding" because wouldn't having the right and proper understanding of what gambling really is make them not do everything that is excessive to get a win? Of course, so the main point to the problem is the lack of understanding so that when they manage to get a win they instead try harder by all means in order to get a win like that again or in a bigger amount.

The object of victory in gambling is money and everyone needs money to fulfill their needs or buy something they want, meaning that wants and needs will never end while we are alive, and this is the reason why someone can get addicted to gambling, they want results that are always profitable to be able to fulfill their desires in life by putting aside aspects that are actually much more important and should not be ignored in gambling such as "possible risks".

[Gheka]

However, behavior in gambling is a different matter where a gambler behaves differently when he loses, and rejoices when he wins. Of course, you will always be in a bad mood when you lose gambling but when you win gambling you will be in a good mood, and you will be happy. Patience is the most important thing in gambling because most of the time people lose, very few people win the bet, and they are always in a high mood. But when I won the first gamble I was very happy and when I lost later I felt very bad even though I was very emotional at that time. However, individuals who have become addicted to gambling become more emotional and their behavior worsens when they lose rather than win. An addicted player definitely has a lot of mood swings and a lot of anger inside him and when he loses his behavior changes even more.

In the long run, gambling is a revolution that completely changes personality, a person with a gentle appearance can still turn into a stubborn and aggressive person, it feels like they have held on to too many inhibitions and this is a cover for expressing their resentments. Behavior in gambling is just a contrast between causes, desires and actual results, any outcome pushes the gambler to strange and corresponding emotions, hunger and eating for satisfaction, it's like gambling to regain the initial emotional balance, but once you lose your balance, you won't be able to find the balance again

[reagansimms]

Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.

Your level of patience is very unstable because what you have in mind when gambling is how to make money and win the game, especially when gambling has cost you a lot of money and debts have piled up. It's not surprising to me why it is so difficult for you to control your emotions, the personality that you shouldn't show when gathering with your family or children due to not being able to control your emotions when luck is not on your side.
Try to be a more responsible gambler, you should not bring your gambling habits home, you should always be sweet and gentle with your children even if you have just lost a bet.

[Accardo]

However, behavior in gambling is a different matter where a gambler behaves differently when he loses, and rejoices when he wins. Of course, you will always be in a bad mood when you lose gambling but when you win gambling you will be in a good mood, and you will be happy. Patience is the most important thing in gambling because most of the time people lose, very few people win the bet, and they are always in a high mood. But when I won the first gamble I was very happy and when I lost later I felt very bad even though I was very emotional at that time. However, individuals who have become addicted to gambling become more emotional and their behavior worsens when they lose rather than win. An addicted player definitely has a lot of mood swings and a lot of anger inside him and when he loses his behavior changes even more.

In the long run, gambling is a revolution that completely changes personality, a person with a gentle appearance can still turn into a stubborn and aggressive person, it feels like they have held on to too many inhibitions and this is a cover for expressing their resentments. Behavior in gambling is just a contrast between causes, desires and actual results, any outcome pushes the gambler to strange and corresponding emotions, hunger and eating for satisfaction, it's like gambling to regain the initial emotional balance, but once you lose your balance, you won't be able to find the balance again

Gamblers can switch from their best behavior to a worst behavior, when the losses are getting too many. The game is a type that would definitely make gamblers feel the pain of losing their money. But in situations where the gambler is no longer comfortable with his loved ones, he should look into visiting a therapist. As it's a sign of addiction. Problem gambling starts with too many symptoms and behavioral change. When neglected can escalate to a more difficult stage where it gets harder for the person to revive to his normal behavior. Consistent losses increase the problem, and the player won't stop at his first loss, instead the game continues till he exhausts his money, then the anger skyrockets. What could make anybody happy can swing the mood of the gambler. Hence, as gambler we all need to change the mode of our games, once the results are no longer favorable, the gambler can decide to reduce the amount of money he wagers and focus on observing the game.

[Cookdata]

When a gambler gets addicted to gambling, it's his fault and not the fault of the casino or any other individual therefore when they decide to blame other individuals I don't always get them. You're the one that decided to gamble, nobody is forcing you as you're gambling either as you want to entertain yourself or you're looking to make money therefore you have to discipline yourself so you don't get addicted. Gambling addiction causes many bad behaviours that won't give you good reputation.

When money preceded everything you do in gambling, the result is always addiction because instead of you to be looking at the fun while making money from the passion and in the end, the money you are so eager to make don't come, I hardly see gambling addicts make good amount of money from gambling, if they do then it means they have lost 5 times of what the have won and that means they have a lot of debt to settle with the one they just won, sometimes they aren't even enough to pay back the money they owe people and relatives due to there addiction.

To prevent gambling addiction, you need to stop chasing after your losses, when you lose don't keep gambling. Always take some break to get back your thinking right as losing can make you not to be thinking in the right sense and all the decisions you take during that time will be leading to more losses instead of making the situation better. When you're having a bad result, pay attention to your behaviour more.

To prevent gambling addiction, you don't have to wait until you have some losses. The first thing you need to do is to remove the mindset of making money that will solve all your life problems, gambling is not a place to get money to live the life you have always dream to have but if it happen, then consider yourself as a lucky champ favour by the luck in gambling. This way, even if you lose, chasing after the loss wouldn't mean anything to you.

[panjul07]

When your gambling activity affect your emotion too much, that's not a good sign and I think you should stop for a while.
Evaluate yourself especially your gambling activity, why it can change your emotion because I think your emotion is changed like 180° means that you lost something that more than you should.
If you have better limit on how much to lose, I dont think your emotion will change that much.
I cant deny that I was like you when I was still in my early gambling journey, luckily experiences teach me a lot and I can learn from it.

[Gozie51]

If you have better limit on how much to lose, I dont think your emotion will change that much.
I cant deny that I was like you when I was still in my early gambling journey, luckily experiences teach me a lot and I can learn from it.

In gambling, having a better limit or percentage of bankroll to gamble isn't what matters above emotions rather you need better emotion to be able to manage whatever decision that you have made about your gambling habit or how much you want to be gambling from your bankroll so that at the time you get to that mark then you have the emotional control to stop.

In other words, emotion come before your gambling limit. A good gambling limit or percentage with a wrong or bad emotion will end you up so shaky. You need better control of your emotion so that you can follow your gambling plans just as when you are still uninfluenced by your gambling winnings or loses.

[Zanab247]

Whenever I win in the gambling center, my siblings will know because, I will like to buy some things that will make everybody in the house feel good which they are use to such attitude from me whenever I won my bet, but the day I will lose in the gambling they will know when I come back home without buying anything for them.

There are many attitude gamblers use to display whenever they leave the gambling center and, it will make other people to know that some thing bad happen to the person because the person mood will change totally to everyone in the house to know too.

[umbara ardian]

We all get caught up in the feels, but for gamblers and traders, it's like an emotional rollercoaster on steroids. Winning feels amazing, missing out feels like a punch to the gut, and the FOMO is real.

Remember that time I dove headfirst into crypto futures? My emotions were all over the place, like a chihuahua on a sugar rush. Even my loved ones weren't safe from my trading tantrums! While I still feel the pull sometimes, I've learned to chill and not let the emotions hijack my decisions. Eliminating them entirely? Nah, that's like trying to tame a hurricane with a flyswatter. The key is managing those emotional beasts, not silencing them. Think of it like surfing: you can't control the waves, but you can learn to ride them without getting wiped out.

[Su-asa]

What is the problem and what causes a person to be addicted is the lack of understanding of what gambling really is, they only underline that gambling is a place to change the fate in life by utilizing opportunities, but they do not understand that opportunities are just "possibilities" which means there is absolutely no certainty to become a reality and it will really happen when you are lucky.

Addiction is not always because of a lack of understanding. Sometimes, people who know that gambling is all about possibilities and luck and there are no guaranteed gains get addicted to it and the reason behind that is that they do it excessively, maybe not at the initial stage but later on when they have seen that they can win money from it but it's just not guaranteed but their minds keep telling them to try again, what if you win this time?

That is the problem why gamblers become more addicted , the idea of "WHAT IF YOU WIN THIS TIME"

that is why many gamblers turns addicted because of this kind .

When they keep trying, again and again, to see if they can win something significant, this thing makes them addicted eventually, along with the fact that they might keep trying to recover their losses each time they gamble and we know what happens to those who try to recover their losses.

another point , chasing losses this is also somewhat the reason of addiction.

What if you win this time can never stop coming to your mind if you don't learn to make a change that will not allow you to keep on betting, if you keep thinking "WHAT IF YOU WIN THIS TIME" you will never stop even when your initial deposits are gone you will fund another because your mindset keeps saying what if you win. What if you win thoughts, makes you addicted with time and you can't control it when you are being affected because you are chasing losses.

[zuzie]

When a gambler gets addicted to gambling, it's his fault and not the fault of the casino or any other individual therefore when they decide to blame other individuals I don't always get them. You're the one that decided to gamble, nobody is forcing you as you're gambling either as you want to entertain yourself or you're looking to make money therefore you have to discipline yourself so you don't get addicted. Gambling addiction causes many bad behaviours that won't give you good reputation.

Of course, it's not the casino's fault, it's just that people who are addicted to gambling cannot control themselves well when they are in the casino and they are also easily tempted by the many types of casino games available so they dare to bet. quite a lot of money because it is considered a game. it was easy for him to win.

Precisely, if the person can't accept failure it boost more on his adrenaline as he will try to keep thinking about his gambling mistake and most of the time, there's behavioral changes as his focus is more on his losses. Those who understand the feeling of not ready in letting go the amount knows that being a short temper usually being triggered.

You need to have that good attitude in treating the outcome of your game, it will save you from having that swing emotion as you already knew what to do whatever the outcome of your gambling sessions.

More on your emotional control and being responsible from keeping the balance with your money and time managements.

Agree with you, if a gambler tries to accept the defeat or failure he experienced at that time, he might try to stop and go home after recovering his mind well again. That way, he won't be careless in trying to bet again, even though if he does it will make things worse and he will definitely regret it.

[Fredomago]

When your gambling activity affect your emotion too much, that's not a good sign and I think you should stop for a while.
Evaluate yourself especially your gambling activity, why it can change your emotion because I think your emotion is changed like 180° means that you lost something that more than you should.
If you have better limit on how much to lose, I dont think your emotion will change that much.
I cant deny that I was like you when I was still in my early gambling journey, luckily experiences teach me a lot and I can learn from it.

You need this if you feel or see that you are already exceeding from your suppose budget, most of the time, gambler who failed to re-assess themselves while playing exceed to the point that they put some yolo and when they lose instead of making the hard stop, they will find way to add more from their bankroll and will try again, that cycle will continue to repeat itself and your apettite will increase as your lust and desire has been filled by your emotions.

Make sure to have that time for yourself to visualize all the possibilities, without a good control with your emotion you'll see yourself keeps having a mood swing and it will affect not just you but more on those people that surrounds you.

Precisely, if the person can't accept failure it boost more on his adrenaline as he will try to keep thinking about his gambling mistake and most of the time, there's behavioral changes as his focus is more on his losses. Those who understand the feeling of not ready in letting go the amount knows that being a short temper usually being triggered.

You need to have that good attitude in treating the outcome of your game, it will save you from having that swing emotion as you already knew what to do whatever the outcome of your gambling sessions.

More on your emotional control and being responsible from keeping the balance with your money and time managements.

Agree with you, if a gambler tries to accept the defeat or failure he experienced at that time, he might try to stop and go home after recovering his mind well again. That way, he won't be careless in trying to bet again, even though if he does it will make things worse and he will definitely regret it.

Yeah, it's the best solution for him to re-assess whatever mistake he made during that failed session, instead of pushing his way to keep playing and most of the time the outcome will be against him, you need to be wise to keep that emotion and treatment towards your gambling participation, having that kind of understanding will let you to keep yourself in shape.

[Hirose UK]

However, behavior in gambling is a different matter where a gambler behaves differently when he loses, and rejoices when he wins. Of course, you will always be in a bad mood when you lose gambling but when you win gambling you will be in a good mood, and you will be happy. Patience is the most important thing in gambling because most of the time people lose, very few people win the bet, and they are always in a high mood. But when I won the first gamble I was very happy and when I lost later I felt very bad even though I was very emotional at that time. However, individuals who have become addicted to gambling become more emotional and their behavior worsens when they lose rather than win. An addicted player definitely has a lot of mood swings and a lot of anger inside him and when he loses his behavior changes even more.

Of course, but I will say that not all gamblers will have feelings like that and of course there are still some gamblers who really don't have any changes whether after experiencing win or losing.
And gamblers like this are usually those who have quiet attitude, I know one gambler who wins in everyday life, looks very normal but is relatively quiet, even if he has any problems he will solve them himself.
He won't tell anyone or say anything about what happened to him, one thing that is certain is that even though he has complicated problem, he still looks calm and can control his emotions so he doesn't look depressed or experience change in attitude.

It just that most gamblers can't control their emotions, even when they lose or have slightly more complicated problems, they can look very different in everyday life.
An emotional level will emerge that cannot be controlled and they will become individuals with tendency to be more irritable and truly unable to accept any words that they feel are related to their problems.
So far, we often encounter the typical attitude of gamblers like this, especially if they are gambling addicts.

[carlfebz2]

However, behavior in gambling is a different matter where a gambler behaves differently when he loses, and rejoices when he wins. Of course, you will always be in a bad mood when you lose gambling but when you win gambling you will be in a good mood, and you will be happy. Patience is the most important thing in gambling because most of the time people lose, very few people win the bet, and they are always in a high mood. But when I won the first gamble I was very happy and when I lost later I felt very bad even though I was very emotional at that time. However, individuals who have become addicted to gambling become more emotional and their behavior worsens when they lose rather than win. An addicted player definitely has a lot of mood swings and a lot of anger inside him and when he loses his behavior changes even more.

In the long run, gambling is a revolution that completely changes personality, a person with a gentle appearance can still turn into a stubborn and aggressive person, it feels like they have held on to too many inhibitions and this is a cover for expressing their resentments. Behavior in gambling is just a contrast between causes, desires and actual results, any outcome pushes the gambler to strange and corresponding emotions, hunger and eating for satisfaction, it's like gambling to regain the initial emotional balance, but once you lose your balance, you won't be able to find the balance again

Gamblers can switch from their best behavior to a worst behavior, when the losses are getting too many. The game is a type that would definitely make gamblers feel the pain of losing their money. But in situations where the gambler is no longer comfortable with his loved ones, he should look into visiting a therapist. As it's a sign of addiction. Problem gambling starts with too many symptoms and behavioral change. When neglected can escalate to a more difficult stage where it gets harder for the person to revive to his normal behavior. Consistent losses increase the problem, and the player won't stop at his first loss, instead the game continues till he exhausts his money, then the anger skyrockets. What could make anybody happy can swing the mood of the gambler. Hence, as gambler we all need to change the mode of our games, once the results are no longer favorable, the gambler can decide to reduce the amount of money he wagers and focus on observing the game.

There would really be an easy transition on which you do start on being a cool guy and ended up on being an impulsive and emotional guy on which we know that this is something that would really be that normal here on gambling space which these behavioral change is really that present or something that standard. This is the main reason on why gambling business is really that profitable because of these behavioral change.Whether we do like it or not with those business owners or investors do really love this kind of advantage with those people who are really that keeping on making deposits due to surge of emotions.

On the time that you do step your foot into this space then you should really be wary about those probable things that could happen, so that you will be able to make yourself
be prepared and wont really be that totally make yourself that being that too making those reactions. Gamble for fun and not to stress yourself because
this is where people do mess up their lives due to impulse actions.

[yazher]

Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.

This is exactly what happened to some of my friends and when I looked at the reasons behind it, I found out that they were betting online and they did not always win because after they lose their money, they ask for more and when their relatives don't let them borrow some money, they ended up shouting each other just because of it. People quickly change their behavior when it involves money and this is normal in our society nowadays because when the time comes that you are no longer capable of funding your essential needs, no one is there to help you and that's the reason why he didn't get some money from them.

[danadc]

Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.

This is exactly what happened to some of my friends and when I looked at the reasons behind it, I found out that they were betting online and they did not always win because after they lose their money, they ask for more and when their relatives don't let them borrow some money, they ended up shouting each other just because of it. People quickly change their behavior when it involves money and this is normal in our society nowadays because when the time comes that you are no longer capable of funding your essential needs, no one is there to help you and that's the reason why he didn't get some money from them.

Changes in behavior thanks to the game must be taken care of, it is not good when the changes are from positive to negative, obviously when the person loses because he or she does not feel good, but one must know how to handle things , Others do not have the capacity to what happened to the person, for that reason when something like this happens you have to be very mature and accept things as they are, if you have a family you don't have to pay badly with a bad temper, or with nonsense, that's not Well, because people who are innocent and people who have nothing to do with this are paying.

I would say that people who are closely related to the game should be mature, turn the page if they lose and not have bad Experiences with the family again, friends, if you lose then you have to accept things and not mix those emotions with the things that the person has and that will always have support.

[junder]

When your gambling activity affect your emotion too much, that's not a good sign and I think you should stop for a while.
Evaluate yourself especially your gambling activity, why it can change your emotion because I think your emotion is changed like 180° means that you lost something that more than you should.
If you have better limit on how much to lose, I dont think your emotion will change that much.
I cant deny that I was like you when I was still in my early gambling journey, luckily experiences teach me a lot and I can learn from it.

Gambling can really affect us, where we can become overly emotional because the gambling we do is not in accordance with our own expectations, gambling will result in defeats more often than wins, and if we cannot accept the reality of the fact that we will lose more often then It's clear that it can trigger our emotions, it's true what you said, we should stop for a moment to calm our minds and calm our emotions, because gambling done with emotions will trigger big losses and everything will become a mess. It's not surprising that many people get emotional about the gambling they do because they themselves can't respond to gambling properly.

That's good, having experience and learning from experiences that have already happened is a good thing, because by having that experience we can learn lessons from it, and maybe those who are addicted to gambling can stop if they have experienced something that is true. it slapped them so much that they realized not to gamble excessively, and could learn from the thing that slapped them.

[Westinhome]

The gambler who loss the money not all the gamblers was get into the sad mood.Because the new gambler consider it as their experience based gambling,the gambler who had experience and loss after the experience only hate the gamblers.Because they had loss some dollars already in the game to earn the knowledge.If they keep the money loss after the experience means,it’s like they not responsible enough to play the gambling.Such irresponsible gambler should pause their game in the gambling,because the gambler who keep loss of their money is like they going backwards in few years back in their life.The loss will make the gamblers to loss their money and allow them to get more loan from their friends.But when they ask for the loan with the friends they will understand the real friends most of the time.If one speak more sweet doesn’t mean they are your friend,only when they help you at the emergency means they are your real friend.Don’t keep huge friends in your list,keep some few friends who help you at the hard time must be important and specially for the gamblers.

[Cryptoprincess101]

Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.

This attitude is very common among gamblers as some persons can even become aggressive when they are experiencing losses then in a case of winning they become so happy as some of them can even share part of the winnings with other gamblers around them, gambling shouldn't be played with emotions whether you win or not and one shouldn't be too emotionally attached to gambling such that any outcome of it would affect the gambler.

[zuzie]

Yeah, it's the best solution for him to re-assess whatever mistake he made during that failed session, instead of pushing his way to keep playing and most of the time the outcome will be against him, you need to be wise to keep that emotion and treatment towards your gambling participation, having that kind of understanding will let you to keep yourself in shape.

By introspecting ourselves on the mistakes we have made before, this will certainly motivate us to be more careful in every decision and action we take in the future. For wise and responsible gamblers, have good thinking because opportunity does not come a second time and this can be applied in gambling so that we remain consistent in maintaining good control.