Do you care about what people say about you gambling?

[Negotiation]

most people's perception of gambling is quite negative because they think that gambling is a useless, wasteful activity, and especially when you live in a country that is quite religious they will look down on gamblers because it is haram.

and because of this, if it is not very important, reduce accessing casino applications when in public areas because we don't know how people will react to what we do. they could say unpleasant words and that will disturb us when gambling. but if you don't mind what other people say, then just play, but i personally prefer to play in a quieter place to avoid these things and noise.

It is true that most people's thoughts about gambling are negative but if a gambling person can keep himself under control then no one will know about his activities. Many people think that gambling is something that people can spend a lot of money on. If this happens and a significant number of people spend a lot of money on it can have a negative effect on the economy because gambling is spending too much money on it at the expense of other things. All forms of gambling are illegal in Islam everything derived from gambling is haram. But there are many other countries where they are legal.

[sompitonov]

Those who attack us about the gambling we play, of course they don't understand how we gamble and it's impossible for them to understand the gambling we play. All they can do is criticize people who gamble because they don't like gambling, but for those who advise us in gambling of course we can see how they advise us, if they advise us because they have had a lot of experience in the gambling they play I don't think there's any harm in listening but we remain in our stance whether what they say is true or they just say it is not appropriate with what they know.

If they criticize me by saying bad things that might happen to me, I will just leave it and not want to listen because, in my opinion, they don't know how I use gambling, and they are just talking. We know better how we gamble and when we can be responsible with our gambling, we don't need to give them any arguments because they don't know anything about us. But we can also listen to what they say and reply to their words by saying that we can gamble responsibly and not use too much money. But that might later lead to arguments because many people don't want to get replies to arguments from other people. After all, they prefer to criticize other people. And that will give them a misunderstanding of us.

Many people can indeed tell us what to do with our gambling game, but they do not see the full picture. Maybe I just play for fun and have it there and my bets don't affect my wallet because I can afford it. But people can say that I am an addict, which in reality is absolutely not true. These conversations do not give anything, it is better to concentrate on your own life, and not interfere in someone else’s. Surely those who speak may have more problems than we do, so there is no point in listening to them. There are those who are worried about this, just do what you want, but do not forget that in gambling you do not need to cross the red lines.

[Ever-young]

Those who attack us about the gambling we play, of course they don't understand how we gamble and it's impossible for them to understand the gambling we play. All they can do is criticize people who gamble because they don't like gambling, but for those who advise us in gambling of course we can see how they advise us, if they advise us because they have had a lot of experience in the gambling they play I don't think there's any harm in listening but we remain in our stance whether what they say is true or they just say it is not appropriate with what they know.

Many gambling criticizers are doing that not because they know anything about gambling but most of them are just out their doing what ever they are doing because of what and the kind of life style they have seen those who are into gambling are living, like most of them have come across lot of gambling addicts than those who are responsible and they ought to believe that anything that comes with gambling have bad influence they forget to note the fact that gambling and how people reach to it is base on individuals and how they deal with their emotions and personal control.

[angrybirdy]

Those who attack us about the gambling we play, of course they don't understand how we gamble and it's impossible for them to understand the gambling we play. All they can do is criticize people who gamble because they don't like gambling, but for those who advise us in gambling of course we can see how they advise us, if they advise us because they have had a lot of experience in the gambling they play I don't think there's any harm in listening but we remain in our stance whether what they say is true or they just say it is not appropriate with what they know.

Many gambling criticizers are doing that not because they know anything about gambling but most of them are just out their doing what ever they are doing because of what and the kind of life style they have seen those who are into gambling are living, like most of them have come across lot of gambling addicts than those who are responsible and they ought to believe that anything that comes with gambling have bad influence they forget to note the fact that gambling and how people reach to it is base on individuals and how they deal with their emotions and personal control.

maybe that's why it's already imprinted in other people's mind that when a person participates in gambling, they will judge them  as a bad person, they easily judge him because maybe they're used to see other gamblers who almost ruin their lives and no control over mind and their actions.
To be honest, here in our country, when they hear or know that someone is gambling, they immediately have a lot of negative side comments because there are many cases of crimes and wrongdoings here because of the influence of alcohol addiction and gambling, but they don't know that there are many people who have been helped by gambling, those people who have their own self control and responsible thinking, they don't know that because they are too narrowminded when they hear the word gambling or gambler.

[bitzizzix]

Those who attack us about the gambling we play, of course they don't understand how we gamble and it's impossible for them to understand the gambling we play. All they can do is criticize people who gamble because they don't like gambling, but for those who advise us in gambling of course we can see how they advise us, if they advise us because they have had a lot of experience in the gambling they play I don't think there's any harm in listening but we remain in our stance whether what they say is true or they just say it is not appropriate with what they know.

If they criticize me by saying bad things that might happen to me, I will just leave it and not want to listen because, in my opinion, they don't know how I use gambling, and they are just talking. We know better how we gamble and when we can be responsible with our gambling, we don't need to give them any arguments because they don't know anything about us. But we can also listen to what they say and reply to their words by saying that we can gamble responsibly and not use too much money. But that might later lead to arguments because many people don't want to get replies to arguments from other people. After all, they prefer to criticize other people. And that will give them a misunderstanding of us.

Many people can indeed tell us what to do with our gambling game, but they do not see the full picture. Maybe I just play for fun and have it there and my bets don't affect my wallet because I can afford it. But people can say that I am an addict, which in reality is absolutely not true. These conversations do not give anything, it is better to concentrate on your own life, and not interfere in someone else’s. Surely those who speak may have more problems than we do, so there is no point in listening to them. There are those who are worried about this, just do what you want, but do not forget that in gambling you do not need to cross the red lines.

Yes, that's right, why care about those who criticize or interfere with our gambling activities. We gamble using our own money, we are the ones who experience winning or losing, not them, so just ignore those who criticize our gambling activities.
Even if they think we are addicted, just ignore them and it's none of their business whether we are addicted or not, the important thing is that we don't harm other people, and we know better about our own situation. They criticize or dislike gambling because gambling activities are considered negative, even though gambling is a game for fun and is only played in free time. And I prefer to gamble in secret so that I can enjoy the game and play casually in a calm and comfortable atmosphere, using only a few dollars.

[YOSHIE]

Do you care about what people say about you gambling?

Not all words said by other people can be ignored and not all words said by other people can be trusted, if you talk about gambling, the same goes for games and money that we want to bet, depending on the circumstances and situations.

In gambling, in some places people's advice is really needed, where we can at least consider our bets, but if we don't know the person and he says something about our game, it might be a little sensitive to digest, Maybe he had evil intentions or good intentions, but I stood my ground and ignored him.

But if he says something that can be accepted with common sense, if it is clarified that he should have done that, of course it is a good thing to consider, if it is beneficial we can be heard and if it is detrimental it is wrong.

[Jawhead999]

There's a difference between people who don't give a fuck with someone else opinion, people who can adapt, and people pleaser.

The best is become people who can adapt because you're not necessary need to change yourself completely.

People who can't accept criticism isn't good because sometime you may need it, you're not always correct.

While people pleaser is simply bad, you're not become yourself because you will try to become other people even it can harm yourself.

[Hirose UK]

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It is true that most people's thoughts about gambling are negative but if a gambling person can keep himself under control then no one will know about his activities. Many people think that gambling is something that people can spend a lot of money on. If this happens and a significant number of people spend a lot of money on it can have a negative effect on the economy because gambling is spending too much money on it at the expense of other things. All forms of gambling are illegal in Islam everything derived from gambling is haram. But there are many other countries where they are legal.

It is natural that many people out there have bad thoughts about gambling, especially in some countries that have bans on gambling, almost the majority of people will think that gambling is really negative activity.
We live in social environment, especially for people who live in areas that are said to have high levels of socialization, so it is clear that there will always be bad thoughts and conversations about certain activities such as gambling.
It is not only about activities that consume lot of money but also allows criminal acts such as robbery or even theft to occur and this happens when gambling addict really has no money and cannot borrow from anyone.

In fact, gambling does not have such negative impact if a gambler himself can have sense of responsibility and can control himself over all the gambling activities he carries out.
And the main factor is errors in having a mindset and approach to gambling, which can lead to problems such as addiction which can have negative impact on anyone and in any form.

[junder]

Yes, that's right, why care about those who criticize or interfere with our gambling activities. We gamble using our own money, we are the ones who experience winning or losing, not them, so just ignore those who criticize our gambling activities.
Even if they think we are addicted, just ignore them and it's none of their business whether we are addicted or not, the important thing is that we don't harm other people, and we know better about our own situation. They criticize or dislike gambling because gambling activities are considered negative, even though gambling is a game for fun and is only played in free time. And I prefer to gamble in secret so that I can enjoy the game and play casually in a calm and comfortable atmosphere, using only a few dollars.

That's true, indeed everything is based on our control, the money used is also based on what we feel, we ourselves have found it, but this must of course be paid attention to and limited, because if you gamble too much, I'm sure it can have an impact on other people. , financially or otherwise. It's true that we don't need to listen to other people about what we do as long as it doesn't harm other people. That's not a problem, but that doesn't mean we can do it excessively, we still have to do it carefully, don't let it become an addiction, because if it is Addiction will be a different story.

I also tend to gamble in secret, because I want to enjoy the gambling that I do, because I feel annoyed when I'm gambling but someone disturbs me, therefore I prefer to gamble in a place that I think is comfortable for me. also with gambling activities which in my opinion are better kept secret and not too publicized too.

[ChiBitCTy]

I personally could care less.  I've never been one to try and be anybody but myself.  If someone judges me for gambling, then I judge them for being judgmental (oh the irony lol).  My gambling doesn't negatively effect anyone on this planet.  I also don't have a gambling issue what so ever, so it's just not a huge deal if someone sees this as a negative for myself.

[alankasman]

This now triggered me to come ask here whether you cares about what people says or sees you as when gambling, I know there are people who don't know you from time or who doesn't believe that you are a gambler and if it happens that you came across such people and their reaction towards you goes other way round would you care about it or you just totally ignore them?

Let's discuss amicably

Caring about what people say about the gambling I do is the same as keeping myself busy without meaning. There is only wasted time on things that are not important.
There are types of people's words that I will consider if the nature of what people say about my gambling is good rather than negative like a reminder for good.

If other people just say my behavior is bad because of gambling and blah blah blah... Then I don't ask them for money and the risks that will happen will be borne by me, not them. What do I care?
I just smile at that person.

[Juse14]

If the statements uttered by others align with reality, I shall be inclined to embrace their counsel and acknowledge the errors that I have committed. However, in actuality, individuals tend to deride me when I encounter defeat, while they shower me with accolades and request a portion of my triumphs. This recurring pattern has left me considerably exasperated with such individuals. Yet, it is beyond our control to impose our desires upon others and compel them to hold a favorable view of us. Likewise, we ourselves cannot be coerced into embracing the viewpoints of others. It is evident that we will experience a sense of admiration and regard from those who genuinely care for us, perceiving us as virtuous. Conversely, in the eyes of individuals harboring deep animosity towards us, we may find ourselves deemed unworthy despite our earnest efforts to do good and wholeheartedly offer our best.

[SOKO-DEKE]

This now triggered me to come ask here whether you cares about what people says or sees you as when gambling, I know there are people who don't know you from time or who doesn't believe that you are a gambler and if it happens that you came across such people and their reaction towards you goes other way round would you care about it or you just totally ignore them?

Let's discuss amicably

I don't think I will give a damn about what people think of me because I don't think gambling is evil. Besides, i don't collect money from anyone for financial support, so why should I care what they think of me? However, I think a lot of people will be really worried about what other people will say about them. For this reason, they constantly attempt to conceal their habit of gambling, particularly when they identify with a certain religious group and make disparaging remarks about gamblers.

[asyakashi]

I will care about other people's advice, especially my family, if they see me spending a lot of time gambling, I am happy to hear them, and that is the importance of a healthy environment

[sujonali1819]

If I love something, and people are talking against me I don't care. In the same way, if I love to gamble and people are talking about me I also don't care of course. It's just an extra pain if you take it seriously.

But yeah, gamblers always should care about their privacy. and need to keep this hidden so that friends and family are not affected.

[l3pox]

I will care about other people's advice, especially my family, if they see me spending a lot of time gambling, I am happy to hear them, and that is the importance of a healthy environment

yes, I commented many times on the importance of having a good support network
it's important for us to have a network of people we can talk and share feelings and intimacy somehow, humans need that to be healthy, in my opinion

If I love something, and people are talking against me I don't care. In the same way, if I love to gamble and people are talking about me I also don't care of course. It's just an extra pain if you take it seriously.

But yeah, gamblers always should care about their privacy. and need to keep this hidden so that friends and family are not affected.

that is a good point
putting too much weight on other people's opinions won't let you go so far
it's your life after all...
you will have to face your decisions in the future

[Oilacris]

most people's perception of gambling is quite negative because they think that gambling is a useless, wasteful activity, and especially when you live in a country that is quite religious they will look down on gamblers because it is haram.

and because of this, if it is not very important, reduce accessing casino applications when in public areas because we don't know how people will react to what we do. they could say unpleasant words and that will disturb us when gambling. but if you don't mind what other people say, then just play, but i personally prefer to play in a quieter place to avoid these things and noise.

It is true that most people's thoughts about gambling are negative but if a gambling person can keep himself under control then no one will know about his activities. Many people think that gambling is something that people can spend a lot of money on. If this happens and a significant number of people spend a lot of money on it can have a negative effect on the economy because gambling is spending too much money on it at the expense of other things. All forms of gambling are illegal in Islam everything derived from gambling is haram. But there are many other countries where they are legal.

This is why tons of people would really be that keeping themselves that having secretive kind of approach towards gambling on which they dont really like on being criticized basing up on what they do.
We do know that gambling does have that negative approach or impressions towards it on which it is really just that common that they would really be having bad impressions and people who do really get involved with it would really be that be also be criticized too. In overall, its not really that bad for you to gamble since its your money then you do have the full rights on what you would gonna do.
The only issue on here is that when things turns out to be messy then it would really be always that reflecting on you and this is why you should really be that careful.

[Marykeller]

The only time I think, I can care about what other people would say about my gambling habit is, if I gamble all the time without minding how much I spend in a gambling house in a week or months.

If someone is to draw my attention to it, I would listen to him or her to see how I am getting my habit of gambling wrong. Whether to re-strategize my betting stakes.

Any other advice than that, someone trying to make me feel less about my gambling involvement will not be accepted and I will shun the person not to interfere in what I choose to live up to in gambling since I am over 18 years old and I bet on gambling with little money I have and their money.

[acroman08]

This now triggered me to come ask here whether you cares about what people says or sees you as when gambling, I know there are people who don't know you from time or who doesn't believe that you are a gambler and if it happens that you came across such people and their reaction towards you goes other way round would you care about it or you just totally ignore them?

Let's discuss amicably

No, I wouldn't care, I just ignore them. there is no point caring for someone's opinion about you if they don't really know you. besides, people who love judging other people are usually hypocrites and are just projecting their insecurities towards others to make themselves feel good about themselves. I've had my fair share of people like the one you mention and one of the things I've learned about those kinds of people is that ignoring their opinion and not getting a reaction out of you Irritates them, which is funny(at least for me).

[Yaunfitda]

This now triggered me to come ask here whether you cares about what people says or sees you as when gambling, I know there are people who don't know you from time or who doesn't believe that you are a gambler and if it happens that you came across such people and their reaction towards you goes other way round would you care about it or you just totally ignore them?

Let's discuss amicably

No, I wouldn't care, I just ignore them. there is no point caring for someone's opinion about you if they don't really know you. besides, people who love judging other people are usually hypocrites and are just projecting their insecurities towards others to make themselves feel good about themselves. I've had my fair share of people like the one you mention and one of the things I've learned about those kinds of people is that ignoring their opinion and not getting a reaction out of you Irritates them, which is funny(at least for me).

That's the thing with gamblers though, we are very emotional, I mean that is the very basic of how we lose, we sometimes goes to the length of using our emotions that we don't stop when we still have money in our pocket but instead go and try to win big. So maybe there are gamblers here who are still very emotional as far as hearing what others are saying behind their back. Sort of they don't want to have that social stigma in their neighborhood or society that he or she is identified as a gambler. Specially if there are stories that you losing big money in gambling.

And admit it or not, there are people who loves to gossip and talk about others specially if you did like a taboo against the society. And then they try to influence others too and make them believed that something is wrong with. Obviously, this will get us to be irritate with this kind of people around. But for me, I will just laugh it off and try not to be influence by them.