Who should be held responsible for the problems of the society

[Makus]

Just as you talk say even the girl mama dey advise her daughter amiss na so e just be. No be everything be the government fault, though dem don fail for their own part, but afar our own part? Are we still faithful of being a disciplined citizens? Just imagine wattin mama dey tell pikin say genuine yahoo boy dey. Despite the hardship plenty hustle still dey ground wey people take dey get am clear for this life, is just that plenty people too like short cut. And that na one of the reasons why the country be like this.

[Kelward]

For the national level na government we suppose hold responsible for anything wey no go well, because na dem de for power and na dem responsibility if currency devalue and di purchasing power de very low, na government suppose put measures in place to correct am, for electricity, good road, enabling environment for businesses, security and other national matters. If na for individuals level, na family we fit to blame if person no behave well, we go question di family background, like di story wey di OP narete, di mama of di girl get blame, because she de encourage her daughter to date yahoo boy because of money.

Poverty follow for wetin de make people to misbehave, if parents bring children up well, give dem good education and teach dem good morals, criminality go reduce. Also if government provide basic amenities, provide jobs and support businesses to grow, poverty go reduce including criminalities.

[Obim34]

Make we no also forget say this called government na human being like we too, every body get him own personality wey no go they presentable to other people, so let's be guided not every fault  is from the government. If we begin staying positive from individually, the way we think, talk and act then we can uproot the wrong government and fill in someone who should be much better.
The government can be blamed at some level of their incapability or selfish desires but we owe more to ourselves than what the government can render to us.

Very bad for her mom to be in support of her daughter dating a yahoo boy even if he does it genuinely but also considering we are all humans, not all who does it are evil or capable of staining their hands with blood.

[Loveday422]

This question is not only base on a particular society,the question is central question that's to say it touches all Angle of organization or society,if it's a country the person who should be question is the president
Then if it's in the house ,they will ask the head of the family which is the father,then in the court of other ,they will ask the magistrate.
That why I said that this question is not in a particular society put general society
To me am taking it up to the federal government FG,now that their's a big problem in the society you don't expect me to go blame my boss at work or my father,who should be held responsible is the president because currently he has failed us his citizens,nobody is calling good of him,he has let the future and now down ever since he stated functioning nothing good to be write him of because all he concentrate is for him to be richer,so when to holding anyone down is to go and hold the president because he has no right to suffer his people he should be held responsible for any problem today inbthis society,turn the question upside down who should be held or mentioned his good if their's no problem in the society,is still him , because if your leadership is good ,people will rejoice and your name will be allover that you are the one they will call

Then if the country younth is not doing well too ,they will still call you .

[electronicash]

it sounds like the mother of the waitress and the Aunt are judging each other. i'm quite sure both sisters are not on good terms. if you have lived in this world long enough to understand what other things are happening behind the scenes, you shall see it's not just the government's fault or the corrupt politicians.

but the culture in Nigeria is just like any Asian countries that we respect the elders otherwise you get a slap on your face. that waitress wouldn't even have to work for her mom once she graduated college. she can decide for herself later whether to marry a yahoo boy or not.

society always tells us to protect and educate children because they are the future but look at what we did to the teachers, the government doesn't even pay what they're worth.

[Agbamoni]

The problems of the government have does not have anything to do with our personal decisions. Their functions comprise of the economical, health, financial to mention a few sections in the county. The choice we make on how we want to earn a living, live our lives or the work and business we choose to do all depends on us. And if we choose the wrong part, we should be the ones to blame and not the government. In this scenario, the woman's mother is to be blamed. She has successfully infused the mindset that there is nothing wrong in dating yahoo guys now her daughter will be comfortable with that and start looking for a yahoo boy to date. I would have blamed the girl but i wont, this is because she believed that her mom thinks good for her and wouldn't want her to suffer, perhaps dating a yahoo guy will bring them out from the financial level they are.

[Promocodeudo]

The problems of the government have does not have anything to do with our personal decisions. Their functions comprise of the economical, health, financial to mention a few sections in the county. The choice we make on how we want to earn a living, live our lives or the work and business we choose to do all depends on us. And if we choose the wrong part, we should be the ones to blame and not the government. In this scenario, the woman's mother is to be blamed. She has successfully infused the mindset that there is nothing wrong in dating yahoo guys now her daughter will be comfortable with that and start looking for a yahoo boy to date. I would have blamed the girl but i wont, this is because she believed that her mom thinks good for her and wouldn't want her to suffer, perhaps dating a yahoo guy will bring them out from the financial level they are.

There are concerning points that you raised which I find very interesting, decisions are individualistic in nature that's why everyone is been left to their believe or decision to do whatever they like so that they won't blame anyone if any ugly incident courts, one thing we should also know is that mother has influence on their daughters decision on whom to date and again women in general are weak in decision making so this girl in question having such mindset was triggered by his mum but if she was in control of the game I think she wouldn't have been such dumb decision taker but that's by the way.
We should forget that women like flashy things and it is very difficult for a woman to fall for a young man that has money respective of how he made the money, some girls don't want to know how a man makes his money, what they care about is the money itself and that's the mindset.

[odunybiz]

It is true that the government cannot solve all the problems in the society. Most of the problem we have in the society emanated from the family. It is the family that trains a child that go out there in the society. While we blame the government in somethings, we equally have to blame the parents for the characters that their children showcase in the society. There is no way the government can provide jobs for everyone in the society. In this particular issue I blame the mother for giving out bad advise to her daughter.

Problems of the society can vary from economical or environmental problem. Our government has great control over economical problems. But the environmental problem has nothing to do with the government. These are problems that emanate from our various homes. In most cases some environmental problems may leads to or affect economical problems. Just like you said the government can provide jobs for us but they can help to creat good atmosphere for business purposes.

[Ever-young]

It is true that the government cannot solve all the problems in the society. Most of the problem we have in the society emanated from the family. It is the family that trains a child that go out there in the society. While we blame the government in somethings, we equally have to blame the parents for the characters that their children showcase in the society. There is no way the government can provide jobs for everyone in the society. In this particular issue I blame the mother for giving out bad advise to her daughter.

I totally agree with u, we are blaming the government for not performing their duties like we ourselves are performing ours, we are to held everybody responsible for the problems of this society because we are all at fault in a way that we know how difficult it is to survive in this our country yet we are making things worst by increasing the cost of things the more making it difficult for individuals to afford and we can't create job opportunities for people even when we have the power to do so, even to create awareness is a problem for some of us, knowing fully well that information is power, if we are not informed we are deformed so it's not only the government that makes our country worst but we also contributed too. So we should do needful to save people lives.

[sotelorene]

You ask a very good question and I think everyone have their own answer to this question. Let me start by saying everybody/almost everybody is responsible for the problem in this country, I may not point out everything but I know for sure that in one way or the other we are responsible. First we are the one who voted the President, Governor and the rest of them knowing fully well that the people we are voting are not the right people but because of our selfish interest and the small small things they gave us. Moreover, voting them is not really a bad idea but them not doing what they were voted for makes it look like a wrong idea that is why I said almost everybody is responsible.

Talking about the Yahoo boys, they are not the only people the Government is not looking out for so why doing fraud and the so called Yahoo boys are the reason why most of the price of some goods/products have increased, are we going to say Government is responsible for this one off cause NO, most of these problem and challenges are what we are creating by ourselves. if not everybody, almost everybody is responsible.