pretend dead in real life

[Broly46]

since people are savage, today they dont care whether you are dead, or they rather working to die, even my friends dont brother whether I'm dead, they dont answer calls, answer mails or answer texts, it is clear whether you existed or not doesnt really matter in their life, nothing of values is loss when one guy is dead from their social circles, they are fully becoming economics and social output, working toward eliminating each other. when they come to you, they definitely look for benefit, once you are injured, no more hecks is given! just like a wife come to you for monthly allowance and child support, once you loss your ability to earn income, divorce rape is inevitable. all of them act just like a wife irl but pretending to be friend with you and helping you.

what do you think, how can we pretend dead? I'm injured, but not yet dead, but the reality startled me completely, I remember what they did to me heartlessly, can we really totally detach from reality and disconnect from them totally?

so if I pretend dead would my friend really forget me completely ever existed in this world? would the govt really believe I'm officially dead and leave me alone in the afterlife? so is it possible to pretend ourselves to be dead and disappeared and finally making a fake official dead notice on news and announce to the entire world?

[EluguHcman]

Faking dead isn't the best, leg go off those who only finds values in you only at when they are in need of you.
And not crave to be remembered forever afterlife.
Just move your life on without those who only have you in mind as their provider because they certainly have not good deeds of offer to you and besides you should ask yourself that... "Of what would it profit you if people are not concerned about your well-being but your name reigns forever"?

I think if you must go far away it shouldn't be because you want to take a dead but should be a reason that you have to distance yourself from those who doesn't give damn of your existence.

[Broly46]

Faking dead isn't the best, leg go off those who only finds values in you only at when they are in need of you.
And not crave to be remembered forever afterlife.
Just move your life on without those who only have you in mind as their provider because they certainly have not good deeds of offer to you and besides you should ask yourself that... "Of what would it profit you if people are not concerned about your well-being but your name reigns forever"?

I think if you must go far away it shouldn't be because you want to take a dead but should be a reason that you have to distance yourself from those who doesn't give damn of your existence.

you wanna say even dead wont warrant you to escape from the matrix? obviously faking dead seem to be better option then real dead just like a lot of my "good guy" friends who died during the pandemic, totally unaware of the danger, and took all the vaccines and overwork to finally become a statistic number to the financial giant!

[franky1]

you say you were injured and expected everyone to help... well that too is you thinking they exist to help you when you are in need
which is pretty much the same as what you claim is their problem. needing you when they need help

just move away. find a new town to live in. start afresh.

just dont respond to previous people, find new people. and instead of relying on the new people to be around when you need help. become independent.

have people around you for social reasons with no expectations of "needing" each other for help
if they volunteer help, great.
but dont expect it. as thats the same hypocrisy you claim your old friends done to you

[mindrust]

Sometimes people just want to be left alone or they don’t want to interact with you. Admit it and move on. You can’t force anybody answer your calls. Especially if she/he is not a family member and it is not a matter of life and death. You don’t like his attitude? Fine then next time you won’t respond to his calls also. I personally think the less people we meet the better it is. Especially in this age there is a fuckface waiting to ruin your day on every corner. There are some good people out there too but they are the minority so…

[angrybirdy]

Sometimes people just want to be left alone or they don’t want to interact with you. Admit it and move on. You can’t force anybody answer your calls. Especially if she/he is not a family member and it is not a matter of life and death. You don’t like his attitude? Fine then next time you won’t respond to his calls also. I personally think the less people we meet the better it is. Especially in this age there is a fuckface waiting to ruin your day on every corner. There are some good people out there too but they are the minority so…

I am at this point in my life that the only person who can reciprocate the energy that I give to them, I will consider them as one of the people who are important to me. We cannot control other people's thoughts and actions just to get the things we want from them. Everyone has their own life and they don't always have time for us especially when we need them and I think that's okay. You can't say no one loves you or helps you just because they can't answer you immediately when you're looking for them, but you also need to understand someone's situation before you get angry or hold a grudge against them, so let's not make the little things worse.

[slapper]

I've often pondered on the nature of human relationships; they can be both a source of immense joy and profound disappointment. Your experience reflects a hard truth: sometimes, those we count on let us down. However, I believe that detaching completely or pretending to be dead isn't the answer. Instead, it might be more beneficial to seek a deeper understanding of these relationships. Are there ways to communicate your feelings to your friends? Could there be underlying reasons for their behavior that you're not aware of?

On the idea of faking death, it's a path fraught with legal and moral complications. Governments and legal systems are equipped to investigate and debunk such attempts. More than that, think about the aftermath. What happens after the 'death'? You'll be cutting off all chances of reconciliation, new friendships, and experiences. I believe in the power of resilience and the ability to rebuild. Maybe it's not about detaching from reality but finding a new way to navigate it. Consider therapy or joining support groups where you can express these feelings and receive guidance. Life, despite its flaws, holds potential for change and growth. It's about finding the strength to seek out those opportunities.

[Zanab247]

so if I pretend dead would my friend really forget me completely ever existed in this world? would the govt really believe I'm officially dead and leave me alone in the afterlife? so is it possible to pretend ourselves to be dead and disappeared and finally making a fake official dead notice on news and announce to the entire world?

If you committed something bad that will make your friends to look for your relatives to ensure they get what you collected from them in form of loan or scam them , I don't think they will forget until they collect what belong to them as long you have the next of kids you use to filled their form. If government Carry out their investigation about your death, they will forget you but they will ensure they block all your bank details and other things for other people to know you're dead even though you are not dead and, you will no long have access to your details.

Many have use that system to test their wife to know how his wife will act to his family after death and, someone in my community did something like this to his wife, that made the man to hide his original document that contain all his properties before he pretend dead, and a months later, his wife stop all his husband family not to have access to any of his husband properties and the woman was planning to sell some of his companies before the man appear to stop the buyers not to buy the companies with the original document that made many people to believed that the man was not dead but pretending.

[Broly46]

you say you were injured and expected everyone to help... well that too is you thinking they exist to help you when you are in need
which is pretty much the same as what you claim is their problem. needing you when they need help

just move away. find a new town to live in. start afresh.

just dont respond to previous people, find new people. and instead of relying on the new people to be around when you need help. become independent.

have people around you for social reasons with no expectations of "needing" each other for help
if they volunteer help, great.
but dont expect it. as thats the same hypocrisy you claim your old friends done to you

well, you are not entirely wrong about trying to seek help from them, but that is fine because I have much bigger than normal social life, I too have real life friends who I meet each day and they are the real flesh which I can touch, not talking through calls or texts, surprisingly I seek help from those real people who are much nearby! however it is not fun when I was being target and pranked by those "good" friends, I knowingly know what I'm into it to test a person intention, "you cant read a person mind without testify them, even in the court you need countless testimony to make a judgement!" honestly I'm kinda disappointed, although I'm not dead, but I finally see what they are up to, of course everyone learn from mistakes. I'm not trying to educate or trying to change a person attitude, they are all high achievers for the very good reasons, high achievers all usually have the same set of mindset, they are very good at taking advantages of someone else for benefits, just like the broker from the wall street! may be trying to be extremely cautious the next time? I can never imaging a friend would want not just my money but also my life, that is quite disheartening honestly.

[Gozie51]

The government can't act to you as a dead person except you present to them your dead certificate and it is funny that you can't present your dead certificate by yourself while you are still alive  So you have to die for your family to present that to them. In other words, whatever gimmick you are going to play concerning you faking your state of living or claiming to be dead, you need to collaborate with another person who would know your plan and help you to keep it and also deliver certain messages claiming and confirming that you are dead.

However, you sound depressed with the attitude you are getting from people around you. My advise is to stay away from bad people, people that don't help you to achieve your goals but only pull you down. This is new year, it is also for new kind of living where you are not satisfied with the way you have lived in 2023. Leave negative people and follow positive people that will make you happy. There are still good human beings, look for them and you will find them. Don't even think of taking your life.

[Broly46]

Sometimes people just want to be left alone or they don’t want to interact with you. Admit it and move on. You can’t force anybody answer your calls. Especially if she/he is not a family member and it is not a matter of life and death. You don’t like his attitude? Fine then next time you won’t respond to his calls also. I personally think the less people we meet the better it is. Especially in this age there is a fuckface waiting to ruin your day on every corner. There are some good people out there too but they are the minority so…

good people you said? I tot good guy always died, do you think there is still good people left after the pandemic? Read the news many of them have gone to heaven recently, there may have left people who are less bad ass, charlie munger died because he is not bad enough to live longer, obviously bad guy always live the longer than anyone else, it is always truth through the history, (I'm not saying I'm the usual "good guy" because I survive too!), because the bad guy can spend the money on life-extending research such as stem-cell technology, organs transplant, or mind transplant. Dont responding calls sound to be the only good approach honestly, especially in chaotic period (depression) like now.

[Broly46]

I've often pondered on the nature of human relationships; they can be both a source of immense joy and profound disappointment. Your experience reflects a hard truth: sometimes, those we count on let us down. However, I believe that detaching completely or pretending to be dead isn't the answer. Instead, it might be more beneficial to seek a deeper understanding of these relationships. Are there ways to communicate your feelings to your friends? Could there be underlying reasons for their behavior that you're not aware of?

On the idea of faking death, it's a path fraught with legal and moral complications. Governments and legal systems are equipped to investigate and debunk such attempts. More than that, think about the aftermath. What happens after the 'death'? You'll be cutting off all chances of reconciliation, new friendships, and experiences. I believe in the power of resilience and the ability to rebuild. Maybe it's not about detaching from reality but finding a new way to navigate it. Consider therapy or joining support groups where you can express these feelings and receive guidance. Life, despite its flaws, holds potential for change and growth. It's about finding the strength to seek out those opportunities.

bantering with each other seem to be the only relationship that never get bored. A guy get to know each other through competition, since young age, pokemon red rival pokemon blue and become good friend in the anime, although the competition seem to be harmless when nobody get killed in the process, but things escalated quickly recently, the competition become so fierce we see guy actually work until the loss their life at young age because they do not want to loss the competition and begin to take drugs and overwork to please their boss or get promotion in the job ladder, I know a few guys who actually work until they collapse in work and later announced to be officially dead, I'm not saying those guy such of Do Kwon or the founders of 3AC capital and SBF I doubt they have the dead wish too and willing to commit crime that may end them in life-time jail to win a competition.

Faking death, I know that sound like joke, but there must be a way to get out of this "matrix", I do not care what the govt could do, internet is invented for this very purpose, it is used to be a joke that is full of haox and we keep telling people do not believe whatever you read on internet! but it has became so matured that you can no longer tell whether internet is still a joke, or whether you should believe what you read on internet! What else can be done to detach from reality after internet? idk the answer btw! All those attempt about rebuilding, starting to believe in hope sound to me just like the usual American dream 2.0 again where you would begin to believe it, working hard on it, and finally get total devastated by it, a boom and burst cycle, do you not get bored of it?

[Broly46]

so if I pretend dead would my friend really forget me completely ever existed in this world? would the govt really believe I'm officially dead and leave me alone in the afterlife? so is it possible to pretend ourselves to be dead and disappeared and finally making a fake official dead notice on news and announce to the entire world?

If you committed something bad that will make your friends to look for your relatives to ensure they get what you collected from them in form of loan or scam them , I don't think they will forget until they collect what belong to them as long you have the next of kids you use to filled their form. If government Carry out their investigation about your death, they will forget you but they will ensure they block all your bank details and other things for other people to know you're dead even though you are not dead and, you will no long have access to your details.

Many have use that system to test their wife to know how his wife will act to his family after death and, someone in my community did something like this to his wife, that made the man to hide his original document that contain all his properties before he pretend dead, and a months later, his wife stop all his husband family not to have access to any of his husband properties and the woman was planning to sell some of his companies before the man appear to stop the buyers not to buy the companies with the original document that made many people to believed that the man was not dead but pretending.

btw I would really want to use the "pretend dead" to test everybody else, it seem it is better to be "pretend dead" by now, idk I'd rather nobody ever make a phone calls to me and just treat me like I'm a dead person for the time being especially at the high time like now, you do not know what they are up to when they only begin to call you during the most chaotic of all time (the ATH of the crisis I assumed??), obviously we watched countless people get scammed up to millions to billions during the peak of the chaos, the text book irrational exuberance, it sound simple until we witness it again before us, and it come every ten years in a economic cycle. I know it is not possible to get lucky and not getting killed in the exuberance, I still think it is fortunate enough for me to live this long to see it clearly with my own eyes, without remorse, mistakes made, life is loss, greed overshadow everyone life, until they loss their life to the meaningless dream that promise them rewards such as "American dream, 72 virgins in the afterlife, invest in well diversified portfolio for happy ending retirement, princess Minnies as a reward", ahahahaha, what a honest mistake everyone keep falling for without knowing the danger behind them, which cost as much as their own life!

[passwordnow]

You have to understand that we're all grown-ups and we have to tackle our daily lives. They might ignore you for a fact with their busy schedules and that's why you seemed and felt ignored. But as a real friend, you need to understand that unless you're in dire need and danger one or few of them are just one call away.

I've been there and done that, I just did my own thing and I didn't pretend to be dead but I just focused on my daily activities and like felt to be forgotten because I was too busy with those things. It was a good feeling after all that no one had been bothering me but at the same time, that made me feel sad because no one was there to check on me from my friends but only my family. Take it from there, your family is always there for me but if they're also the same as your friends, then take your own boat and sail alone.

If no one is there in the times that we're in need of someone to assist us, bring yourself alone and tackle this loneliness alone. But I wouldn't come up with that idea to actually pretend and have all my records that I am dead, I might even have a problem when I'll try to cash out my crypto profits. 

[coolcoinz]

since people are savage, today they dont care whether you are dead, or they rather working to die, even my friends dont brother whether I'm dead, they dont answer calls, answer mails or answer texts, it is clear whether you existed or not doesnt really matter in their life, nothing of values is loss when one guy is dead from their social circles, they are fully becoming economics and social output, working toward eliminating each other.

Looks like you're a nihilist, a pessimist, or both. Or you're just depressed.

what do you think, how can we pretend dead? I'm injured, but not yet dead, but the reality startled me completely, I remember what they did to me heartlessly, can we really totally detach from reality and disconnect from them totally?

I know people who do that by drinking every day or playing computer games 12 hours a day. There's a well known streamer who got divorced and had some health condition and it all burdened him so much that he started playing every day. People give him money and watch him play games all day, he has enough income to pay the bills and so it goes.

I have a small child, so it's impossible for me to disconnect. I have responsibilities that make me go on. I can't lie down and give up, because if I do, other lives intertwined with mine will get destroyed. My life goal at the moment is to make their lives happy and you need to find your own goals to have something to wake up for every morning.

[Obim34]

We actually can't feel your pain, the condition which you are can be very traumatizing, yes! But I think their is every way, time and season which everything will go back to being normal.
We all are humans and sometimes we are meant to feel heartbroken, lonely and times receive fake love due to the benefit attached to you, some friends and family members are all victim of this but all the happenings should not warrant you into faking your death.

You ought to remember after rain comes shine, I believe their will be a day, place or someone which you will find every comfort you ever dreamt of.

[Broly46]

The government can't act to you as a dead person except you present to them your dead certificate and it is funny that you can't present your dead certificate by yourself while you are still alive  So you have to die for your family to present that to them. In other words, whatever gimmick you are going to play concerning you faking your state of living or claiming to be dead, you need to collaborate with another person who would know your plan and help you to keep it and also deliver certain messages claiming and confirming that you are dead.

However, you sound depressed with the attitude you are getting from people around you. My advise is to stay away from bad people, people that don't help you to achieve your goals but only pull you down. This is new year, it is also for new kind of living where you are not satisfied with the way you have lived in 2023. Leave negative people and follow positive people that will make you happy. There are still good human beings, look for them and you will find them. Don't even think of taking your life.

people who need being positive energy to live a fulfilling life, I have no idea why people crave positive vibes so badly, is it very attrative when you follow all the socially accepted goal of life, go to school get good with grade get job with plenty of benefit get married have kids have house and invest into stock, I know when you have achieved that epitome of life where you beat a lot of guys to finally get to the first place, you received so much attentions, coverage from media, become the talk of the most influential people between your bloodlines, I too experience that same vibes too, but does it get bored quickly too, it make you feel full of hope (but then quicky become a victim to investment scheme that selling hope too, do you not wonder why banker mantras has always been about selling hope for future and family?), make your life, feel a life-changing experience, feel like when you working toward American Dream you can change the world to better, while also unknowingly working toward protecting the status quo system.

Dont get me wrong, there is guy who can live just well by accepting both positive or negative vibes, most businessman do not brother living a life under negatives vibes, they have to deal with as much people as possible, doesn't matter they are goods or the bad guys, I had seem businessman dealing with hitman service while also dealing with the top officer in the police station like nobody business as long as there is profit under the deal, you think GTA only existed in video games?

[Broly46]

You have to understand that we're all grown-ups and we have to tackle our daily lives. They might ignore you for a fact with their busy schedules and that's why you seemed and felt ignored. But as a real friend, you need to understand that unless you're in dire need and danger one or few of them are just one call away.

I've been there and done that, I just did my own thing and I didn't pretend to be dead but I just focused on my daily activities and like felt to be forgotten because I was too busy with those things. It was a good feeling after all that no one had been bothering me but at the same time, that made me feel sad because no one was there to check on me from my friends but only my family. Take it from there, your family is always there for me but if they're also the same as your friends, then take your own boat and sail alone.

If no one is there in the times that we're in need of someone to assist us, bring yourself alone and tackle this loneliness alone. But I wouldn't come up with that idea to actually pretend and have all my records that I am dead, I might even have a problem when I'll try to cash out my crypto profits. 

grown-up you said, that is kinda full of woman logic, and tbh the entire replies seem to be full of indoctrination, I'm not against such advices, but I can quicky smell sarcasm in the advices after reading too much history or getting more and more mentally prepared, btw it is as always we have read news how accidents happens due to friends going to do biking together. I overhear my neighbor have a good guy kid went out with his good friend for a trip to the sea some years ago, but unfortunately the good guy friends got killed in the sea for some stupid reasons, the mum was left crying day after day for losing a son in the accident, the lesson of the story???

of course I should not have demand anything such as emotional support from another guy, lmao, they dont owe me nothing btw, not both financially or emotionally in debt. if there is anything at all between us, that have to be some pointless string attachment (friendship tbh) that is fragile and have just one-use-away, just like a ticket after your tear it, it is useless piece of paper.

[Natsuu]

I'm really sorry you're going through this. Talking to friends, family, or a pro can make a big difference. Pretending to be dead isn't the answer. It's better to open up and get support. Communicate with your friends about how you're feeling or consider talking to a mental health pro. There are healthier ways to cope than going to extremes like pretending to be dead.

[Apocollapse]

I believe there's will be one of your family, friend of someone who knew about you will realize when you're dead, they might cry for one day and thinking about you for few day(s)/week(s), but what's you looking for?

This is why we need to find something that we likes to do in this world, without need to think about other people' opinions. I know the current generation think money is the most important thing, but if you think no need to being rich, no need to save money, and it's fine to live by paycheck to paycheck, I won't blame you.

Or maybe, you likes to have a conversation with someone else? touch the grass and try to meet other new people instead of your old friends.