Between placing a wife on monthly allowance and opening business for her

[Barikui1]

Look at the world today a very high rate of married women don't like seating at home doing nothing, they want to have a life outside marriage, and besides taking care of the kids and the home is not a job but it's a responsibility which must be done.
In this current economy it's very advisable that you have a supportive wife financially,.I know that most men feel insecure when their wives are working but they don't know how beneficial it is to the family.
Nothing gives me joy than when my wife is capable of taking care of the family if I am not around, or just imagine how the family is going to cope with difficulty if you lose your job.
So in this current world economy, it very important that as a man, your wife should also give an assisting hands financially.

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[yazher]

I prefer to have a wife whom I spend money to look out for our kids and educate them to do the best she can rather than making her a businesswoman unless she is willing to be like that like most mothers in our country. The best teacher for our children is their mother because they can actually teach them good manners when they are young and it will be very important for them to be nurtured and educated by their mothers at an early age because when they grow up, they won't be changed by the societies and also they can't be affected with any modern social beliefs that are contradicted the good manners that their mother has reached when they were young. Of course, this is not possible if you just randomly choose any woman to marry because looking for a good woman is the first step to having good children.

[Hewlet]

Now my question is between having a house wife that will take care of your home and receives monthly allowance and establishing a business of her own for her which is more preferable and why?

I personally have issues with any lady that feels that because she is married, all her life is now to be used in taking care of the children.

Don't you have dreams and aspirations before we met?

I can't have a wife that expect me to put her on the payroll and I can't also ask my wife to sit back and just take care of the kids while I do all the working.

We will take care of out kids together, build our homes together and raise up finance for out future and that of our kids.

Maybe I can decide on the kind of work you will be allows to do and this might require me to set up a business for you but allowing my wife to become an 100% house wife is a no! No! Situation for me.

[Jegileman]

Now my question is between having a house wife that will take care of your home and receives monthly allowance and establishing a business of her own for her which is more preferable and why?

I will prefer my wife to also have a source of income and not depend on my own every month before she can get anything for herself. That doesn’t mean I will neglect the basic necessity of being the head of the family, if I do that, I have failed as the head of the family. Based on experience, I have seen how working women have taken over the responsibilities of the family after the demise of the family head, in a case that the woman is a full house wife, she won’t be able to continue taking the responsibility of the family and that will affect the well being of the whole family. If your wife can work, allow her to go to work and support the family. And if she can’t work, get a business for her that will help her grow herself. Living your wife idle without any work is very dangerous today because you don’t know what will the aftermath of it if you’re no more there again and she’s left with your children to fend for.

[passwordnow]

Now my question is between having a house wife that will take care of your home and receives monthly allowance and establishing a business of her own for her which is more preferable and why?

How about both? most women today are flexible and they don't settle for less. I don't know for the majority of the women out there but that's what I know. As a husband, you can give her the best life by providing everything to her and while her, she's free to do some business on her own while taking care of the family. It may sound easy but that's why they're great at these multiple tasks because that's how they are.

Unlike men, we need to get focused on something that we do especially if we're working on, we should only focus on working. I prefer to let her do her own things or do both things if she can. While giving her money, don't call it salary because it is men's responsibility to provide for her. As for women empowerment, there are also women that just chose to work instead of staying at home even with kids to take care.