2024 is lonely year, after marriage become even more lonely

[Broly46]

A man and his dad was talking one day…

-Dad, how is the marriage life? Is it good?
+Yes son. It is a wonderful thing. When you get married you will have somebody you can share your troubles with.
-But dad, I have no trouble…
+Don’t worry son, You will have it when you get married!

~anonymous Turkish story~

the former is the true. not the latter. No more debate

[zaim7413]

Correct yourself before complaining about the situation you are facing.

Why did your friends leave you after you got married?
Why do family members treat you as a stranger?
Only you can find the answers to these two questions, maybe the same life does not apply to other people.

My assumption is that why family members treat you as a stranger is because of financial factors. I don't want to talk about how you treat them because only you know the truth. Believe it or not, money always plays an important role in the two questions above. Money can't buy everything, but without money everything you have planned can be destroyed.

[kaka_Shipai]

It depends and varies from person to person. If you get the love of your life, then it becomes fantastic but if not then things can be very tuff. When you have to spend time with someone you don't love and after marriage you still miss someone else, then yeah, it is lonely.

[peter0425]

contradict to popular belief, after getting married, life become twice more lonely, because all friends leave me immediately, and my wife and kids basically treat me as stranger, I become super lonely although on my social page I post a happy family group selfie, but deep inside me I crave that loneliness so badly that I need validation from you I'm not alone, I have a big family in the picture to show you I'm not ALONE!

I was wondering what kind of Person you are in real life?

Your Wife supposedly your best friend and best ally are denying you? and what more of your kids that treating you as stranger?

Lol where in the world where kids will treat their Father as strangers when most of the kiddos made their father/parents as a Living Hero?

are you a real father or a pretending father that's why you are receiving those treatment?

[kotajikikox]

Give them time mate, maybe you are too busy in your work and other stuffs that you have pushed them back? sometimes it is TIME THAT IS IMPORTANT and not the Money , yeah we are providing foods and all stuffs but do we spend times for them?
those problems mostly occur when the father or the mother is giving more time outside the house.
so try to meet them in the middle mate.

[Reatim]

contradict to popular belief, after getting married, life become twice more lonely, because all friends leave me immediately, and my wife and kids basically treat me as stranger, I become super lonely although on my social page I post a happy family group selfie, but deep inside me I crave that loneliness so badly that I need validation from you I'm not alone, I have a big family in the picture to show you I'm not ALONE!

This is my biggest fear in life that one day I will go home from work and my family will not recognized me as if I am a total stranger, this is why I kept the balance , and I also kept talking to my wife about the formulation for the kids and her , so our communication is constant and we will never be a stranger to each other.
can you tell us about other components why this happens mate? I mean why they are treating you like that?

[rodskee]

That is sad mate ,  as we all celebrate the past year and this new with our family and love
ones but that is opposite on yours so sorry about that mate , hope you'll find joy in the coming days
here and also hope that your family will reunited to you as we need to be enjoying life in this world now .

It depends and varies from person to person. If you get the love of your life, then it becomes fantastic but if not then things can be very tuff. When you have to spend time with someone you don't love and after marriage you still miss someone else, then yeah, it is lonely.

But it is His family that his problem mate.

[xhomerx10]

All these people chiming in with their paying sigs are your friends now I'm sure.  Honestly, how many friends does a self-confessed, self-hating nerd expect to have?  If you approach life with that mindset, you disadvantage yourself.  I'm not a doctor but you seem depressed - seek professional help; they don't always give you pills... sometimes just a kick in the ass.

[Ravichnadra]

I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling lonely and that you're struggling with the changes that have come with marriage and family life.But to be i guess you need to find a solution or reason and adopt the changes.

[encryptogon]

I suggest you go talk to a psychiatrist and get some antidepressants. Go for trip to the woods or mountains, it will certainly heal you. I myself do the same whenever I feel lonely and tired. Explore tourism clubs in your locality and try engaging with them. You can also join a support group. Praying that you find happiness and peace in your life.