Relationship not marriage, a need to be careful with the information we share.

[Queentoshi]

A man shared his story with me about how he was in a long relationship with a lady, it lasted for a very long time that he expected it to end in marriage, but it did not. What was his regret? his regret was that during the long time of being the relationship with this lady, he shared a lot of his personal information with her, and she even knew his bank passwords and pins and was able to send away all the money in his account just before she left him, leaving him broke. Could it have been his bitcoins? yes, but he is not an investor in bitcoins. How about you? are you being too open in the relationship you are keeping that is not yet marriage, you could be doing yourself some harm by exposing to the person who you are in a relationship with where you have invested which is in bitcoins, and even giving them too much information about how you have kept your seed phrase safe. The sweet relationship can go sour in a moment and that your lover can become your enemy. Unless you are married, do not share all information about you with the person you are in a relationship with.

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[famososMuertos]

Sometimes it is a broken bridge for these people, we talk about couples, but some how eventually when you think about inheritance or assets, there are someone you have to trust and in those cases there is legal jurisdiction that functions neutrally in that trust of assets even with your bitcoin.

 It is a shame but absolute trust does not exist, it is a reality but you have to live with this, the above is a legal solution that works in part, common sense simply does not exist in relationships if there is love.
 
In any case, it is not a new situation, and in the reality of life sometimes you have to use a phrase that says: God, take care of my friends, I take care of smy keys.

[Spaceman1000$]

A man shared his story with me about how he was in a long relationship with a lady, it lasted for a very long time that he expected it to end in marriage, but it did not. What was his regret? his regret was that during the long time of being the relationship with this lady, he shared a lot of his personal information with her, and she even knew his bank passwords and pins and was able to send away all the money in his account just before she left him, leaving him broke. Could it have been his bitcoins? yes, but he is not an investor in bitcoins. How about you? are you being too open in the relationship you are keeping that is not yet marriage, you could be doing yourself some harm by exposing to the person who you are in a relationship with where you have invested which is in bitcoins, and even giving them too much information about how you have kept your seed phrase safe. The sweet relationship can go sour in a moment and that your lover can become your enemy. Unless you are married, do not share all information about you with the person you are in a relationship with.

I cannot blame the young man for some of the things he has exposed to the girl he didn't end up marrying. It is often said that in love and in war, whatever we do at that point is always fair, because it is believed that we have been beclouded by sense of reasoning which is not normal at that particular moment. Love they say is blind and in love you can do things ordinarily you wouldn't do on a good day, you would expose yourself to things you wouldn't want to, it can agreements, it can be gift and a whole lot more. same thing as well in war situation, because you are to obey the last command of your commander even if it goes against your personal wish.  that is why for me I do not blame people too much when they do things or take some actions out of love, because it's not everybody that is wired to keep top secret to themselves and these individual differences is what makes us human beings.

[FatFork]

Well, that's quite a dramatic story about the ex! I wouldn't go assuming every new partner is gonna turn into a bank-robbing criminal though.  Sharing some personal stuff can help build trust in a relationship, you know? But yeah, I wouldn't be handing over my bank password on date one either!

My hypothetical bitcoins are my own business.  Trust and boundaries walk hand-in-hand in my view but then again, Id have no reason to actively hide anything from someone I was seriously with.  There are always two sides to consider though.  What if something happened to me and I couldn't access my crypto anymore? My partner would need to know.

[criptoevangelista]

What your friend needs is to learn how to choose a nice person to have a relationship with, I believe that everyone here who is married shares information with their wives or husbands, after all a marriage is about living life together sharing everything, right?

[sokani]

I think there was a thread you created sometime ago and you asked if we could trust our spouse with our seed phrase and there were many contributions. From the discussion, I realized that it's necessary to disclose the seed phrase to your spouse if he/she genuinely loves you.

However, in this case it's too early to trust your fiance/fiancee or girlfriend/boyfriend with your financial information. He/she may pull out of the relationship anytime and steal the funds, I've seen it happened many times where one of them would empty the other's bank account and run away. So I think it'd be wise to keep your financial dealings only to yourself while in a relationship to avoid such sad occurrences.

[kryptqnick]

That's a very unfortunate story, I'm sorry that a person fell a victim of, basically, theft in this relationship. Of course, though, such things can happen even in marriage, with one person stealing from another or storming off with funds at some point. So it's tricky and requires some trust, which also presupposes the risks that it might be broken.
I'm married, and I have been married since the beginning of my experiments with cryptos, so I don't know how I would have acted. I suppose to me, it's more about how serious a relationship is, rather than whether people are actually married. I'm a pretty trusting person, and I believe that relationships should be built on trust, so I share my finances with my spouse, cryptos included.

[Jegileman]

The sweet relationship can go sour in a moment and that your lover can become your enemy. Unless you are married, do not share all information about you with the person you are in a relationship with.

Sometimes even in marriage it is not advisable to share all your holding informations with your wife. The marriage can still go sour and she will leave you and run away with all of your money. Marriage is suppose to be a trustworthy and honest relationship between two people, but sometimes things turn around and you might separate out of some kind of misunderstanding between you two or any unforeseen circumstances. Before sharing all of your secret with your lover, you should be satisfied beyond reasonable doubts that the person is not someone that can leave you through thick and thin and will not want to cheat you. Overall, just be careful with who you share your wealth secret with, if they’re doubtful, don’t do it. And when it becomes necessary to do that, have some back up or something still only you can give the authorisations to the access.

[Lorence.xD]

A man shared his story with me about how he was in a long relationship with a lady, it lasted for a very long time that he expected it to end in marriage, but it did not. What was his regret? his regret was that during the long time of being the relationship with this lady, he shared a lot of his personal information with her, and she even knew his bank passwords and pins and was able to send away all the money in his account just before she left him, leaving him broke. Could it have been his bitcoins? yes, but he is not an investor in bitcoins. How about you? are you being too open in the relationship you are keeping that is not yet marriage, you could be doing yourself some harm by exposing to the person who you are in a relationship with where you have invested which is in bitcoins, and even giving them too much information about how you have kept your seed phrase safe. The sweet relationship can go sour in a moment and that your lover can become your enemy. Unless you are married, do not share all information about you with the person you are in a relationship with.

Even if you're married, I don't see any reason to share that much of information if both truly respects each other's privacy and as long as both provides for their relationship. It is reasonable for them to ask sometimes but for them to insist such information as bank informations and you should know her intentions or purpose well if ever you came across with such instance and you should reason it out as much as possible. If you fear of dying and letting your investments in empty space without having anyone access of it, then that's a rare instance to avoid.

What your friend needs is to learn how to choose a nice person to have a relationship with, I believe that everyone here who is married shares information with their wives or husbands, after all a marriage is about living life together sharing everything, right?

Well yes but not in all relationships. Also, you would be able to know a person well as you guys are being together for years. For sure you'd be having enough reason whether to share it or not. Everything could be reasoned out in the first place on why would you or not share such details. It just depends on how you will deliver the message and to not offend her.

[bolshojkush]

A man shared his story with me about how he was in a long relationship with a lady, it lasted for a very long time that he expected it to end in marriage, but it did not. What was his regret? his regret was that during the long time of being the relationship with this lady, he shared a lot of his personal information with her, and she even knew his bank passwords and pins and was able to send away all the money in his account just before she left him, leaving him broke. Could it have been his bitcoins? yes, but he is not an investor in bitcoins. How about you? are you being too open in the relationship you are keeping that is not yet marriage, you could be doing yourself some harm by exposing to the person who you are in a relationship with where you have invested which is in bitcoins, and even giving them too much information about how you have kept your seed phrase safe. The sweet relationship can go sour in a moment and that your lover can become your enemy. Unless you are married, do not share all information about you with the person you are in a relationship with.

If you are afraid that if something happens to you and no one else will be able to use the accumulated money, then it is better to provide passwords to close relatives, not your wife. Although close relatives do not guarantee your safety of funds, all people are different.

[kuriboh]

How about you? are you being too open in the relationship you are keeping that is not yet marriage, you could be doing yourself some harm by exposing to the person who you are in a relationship with where you have invested which is in bitcoins, and even giving them too much information about how you have kept your seed phrase safe. The sweet relationship can go sour in a moment and that your lover can become your enemy. Unless you are married, do not share all information about you with the person you are in a relationship with.

Hearing this story of yours reminded me of a friend of mine from the past. They were also in love for a long time and were supposed to get married. It was agreed with their families that they would get married after completing their university studies. Thus, their love was going very well, and their time was going very well, but their relationship ended in the 7th semester of varsity. A lot happens between them. While having a great time with the boy, the two of them shared everything, but there came a time when everything crumbled. The boy used to save money by tutoring, but he also withdrew the money from his bank.
Love is impermanent, no matter how long it lasts. Because marriage is a social bond, it is natural to have faith here as one becomes a life partner through marriage. Both good times and bad times come between them, but no one leaves anyone. When anger and pride are over, the two become each other again. If there is any such problem here, it is not much of a problem.

No matter what the love is or how long it is, your bank or many important things should not be free with them.

[foggyb]

Men are extremely vulnerable to scammsters, especially in this generation.

There is a Youtube channel that documents cases of older men looking for love online and voluntarily sent large sums of money to maintain the "relationship". The channel interviews these people--they tell their story even though it is embarrassing. It is sad and yet empowering at the same time.

Do not date ruthless people, or anyone you cannot be sure is trustworthy.

The founder said that they could do a video of a different case every day of the year and not run out of material.

[cabron]

Even the married couple could end up in divorce and the girl gets half of your assets. While it's not good to keep a secret, you just have to protect yourself when you already have the feeling that the relationship could go south. Especially when the inlaws are already up to rescue her and the motives increase when you see them getting nosey around. Women can be manipulative and your kids will be the most affected in this situation.

Luckily that man hasn't married her yet and true colors are revealed already. It is all just money in the end. Regardless of the reason for their fight, it's taking someone else money made her look like it was just what she was after.

[cryptoaddictchie]

Well thats pretty bad for the guy. But even though you are in a relationship with someone else unless you deeply knew the person you dont give her all access to something you knew that can compromise later on. Or yet to say if yourent ready to give it all or give up for marriage. Even the bitcoin and crypto assets arent or should be given not until you are sure and trust someone for that.

[Alana Arden]

This is where we humans stumble the most because we trust them (boyfriends or girlfriends) the most and give them all our secrets. informs In fact, our emotions work, not our intellect. If the luck is good, the relationship is fulfilled through marriage, and if the luck is bad, they leave each other in the middle. This kind of thing happens quite often these days, so it didn't surprise me.
      Here, I am not blaming this guy because he was emotional then, and the depth of the relationship between them was so intense that he emotionally shared all his personal secrets, considering him his closest person. In fact, at that time, it seems that both of them complement each other. But later, he is cheated by the girl; his love is cheated; his faith is lost; and he is broken.
   Well, why do we forget that it is not okay to share any kind of personal information until the marriage starts? We can be deceived because it is impossible to understand what is going on in someone's mind. No one is yours; unscrupulous people hide behind the mask of love. So to keep your emotions in check, it's wise to keep your personal information safe, secure, and private from everyone, no matter how close they are to you (except family).

[Promocodeudo]

It is not advisable for anyone to expose either his holdings or all his monetary investment to anyone unless such relationship is defined which is marriage, though even in marriage things can get absolutely wrong too which we don't pray for, but the truth is that sharing your financial keys or password anyone can be detrimental because no one knows when a good and lovely relationship will be meant to face difficulties, IMO I will say that every financial aspect of man or woman should only be made known the his or her immediate family which is the wife or the husband, though things can't still turn to be wrong but it is better this way.

If a man is having good time with a girl and he forget that is just a good time, there will be serious consequences is he doesn't retrace his step early, though mistake happens but it is not ideal for anyone to love and forget the needful.

[Queentoshi]

What your friend needs is to learn how to choose a nice person to have a relationship with,

People pretend a lot, so you can never really trust someone. Someone may appear nice and act nice, but not really nice.

I believe that everyone here who is married shares information with their wives or husbands, after all a marriage is about living life together sharing everything, right?

and I also was not referring to people who are married, but people in a relationship.

[Orpichukwu]

There is a difference between marriage and relationships. Before the relationship could lead to marriage, both partners should have studied and understood one another. Check their trust level and all of that before you can determine the kind of information you shared with them. 
 
We can't seize or start having trust issues due to others mistakes. If you are to check very well in the story you shared, it's either the man was blinded by love not to notice the kind of lady he was with all this while, someone you don't know their level of trust and the length at which they can go in order to bring you down is not whom to trust with your personal information with.

[darkangel11]

I'm open about it with my wife but we've known each other for decades and she never gave me a reason to doubt her intentions.
She knows about all my money and my investments but we have a child together, so If I were to die tragically, I'd like her to be able to use all my money and she would deserve all of it, since I don't have any siblings. I'm not afraid of her leaving with the money. She technically could take it, but we had access to each other's accounts for years and never used them without asking first. The access is just for emergencies.
If you just sleep together, don't share any money. It's much too early. Once you build a house and raise kids together, you either build respect and trust by that time, or you're fucked whether you share accounts or not.

[serjent05]

I highly agree with @OP's advice and  I can only say a simple word, have a self-reservation.  Trusting our partner is one thing but abandoning one-self for a partner is another thing.  Not saying everything does not mean a person does not trust his partner.  I have heard and watched several stories like the one @OP stated where the person is sucked dry by their partner and got abandoned after.

If in case same thing happens to a person, I believe he can file a case against the person and if it is proven that he was been exploited the court might favor him and issue a decision where he can recover the money stolen or given to his partner.