A personal view

[GideonGono]

👉 how do you view women gambling in your area:

I don't really care about it, I grew up seeing women gamble in our area, and I think it is normal.
Gambling doesn't have to be just for the boys.

👉how do you really feel when you lose money on gambling?  Do you feel bad or just lie to yourself that's it was for fun?

Of course I would feel bad, like it would come up to me that the amount that I've lost could be used in other things.
But honestly there are times that I would really enjoy gambling so it doesn't matter much to me if I lose.

👉how do you spend your gambling wins:

Most of the time I would eat out with my friends or family, buy some things that I like.

👉how do you feel when people ask you for money to gamble?, do you gamble with debt?  Or would you never indulge in such no matter how sure you are about the game ?

I don't get it why people would borrow or take a loan just to gamble, if they couldn't afford it then don't, we should only gamble what we could afford to lose so why would they even gamble if they don't have enough to support it.

👉Do you set rules or limits on how much you stake per week to control your addiction or you are disciplinedenough to know when to stop?

Yes I set up a limit on how much I would deposit to gamble, and a timeframe to stay out on gambling.

👉behind the mask of loving to gamble if you get rich would you still gamble or never again?

Yes, I would still continue to gamble maybe the difference is that, when I am rich it is more for fun not for profit.

[boyptc]

I do not gamble with debt and that's what I will never do and the same goes for investing. Investing and gambling with the use of debt is a big no for me.

I might understand if people that own businesses and they're asking for loans for expansion and more inventories as that's needed for them to cope up with demand.

But in gambling it's different, that's why I'll never do that. I'm more comfortable to gamble with my own money so even if I lose, I have no obligation to pay anyone.

Probably for some beginners in gambling, taking debt is a big NO. However, for those who have been gambling in years and have already developed addiction, taking debt is very welcome for them. That’s why a lot of addicted gamblers drown into debt, not because they’re unable to pay, but because they have put in mind that gambling can be a reliable source of income to pay their debts when in reality, it’s not.

And that's what people shouldn't imitate them for doing so. Gambling and asking for a loan shouldn't be a tandem and done by any gambler because you're just pushing yourself too much and giving the bad view about what being a gambler is.

I might be addicted into gambling somehow but at the end of the day, I still manage not to cross my betting budget and limit my expenses and losses as well. But taking debt just to gamble, I will never do that.

IMO that contradicts. When you're addicted to gambling, you can't manage anything as there's only one thing on your mind and that's to gamble and you won't be able to control that.

However, when it comes to investment, taking a loan is acceptable as long as you’re able to pay and you have your stable job that will back up you when your investment does not work based on planned.

I won't also do this.

If you are going to take loan for investing, you might just save your salary and use that.

[teamsherry]

I've been around a lot of gamblers and you would find them in all their types according to what they say and do, and there there several arguments and views that they have on different issues, and I'd like to hear your on them too.

👉behind the mask of loving to gamble if you get rich would you still gamble or never again?

Once a gambler always a gambler as that old saying goes.Of course though once you get rich you would think twice to gamble again as from your gambling experience you would have come to some conclusions which overall you would be losing money in the long run and getting rich is something that happens extremely rarely.I personally would stop gambling right away though as I know people who have won lotteries of multi million dollars and still managed to ruin their lives because of their gambling addiction,bad friendship and relatives and many other things that impacted their life,so once you get rich put the money in the bank and call it a day.

Most people often delude themselves that they could leave old habits just like that especially when it was part of what get them rich, I've heard some notorious gamblers that indulge often say if I win a huge amount I won't gamble again but yet when they do they would only increase their stake and even plan to stake more than they do before.

So yeah most people would say they won't but we all know deep down that we would

[Odohu]

I've been around a lot of gamblers and you would find them in all their types according to what they say and do, and there there several arguments and views that they have on different issues, and I'd like to hear your on them too.

👉behind the mask of loving to gamble if you get rich would you still gamble or never again?

Once a gambler always a gambler as that old saying goes.Of course though once you get rich you would think twice to gamble again as from your gambling experience you would have come to some conclusions which overall you would be losing money in the long run and getting rich is something that happens extremely rarely.I personally would stop gambling right away though as I know people who have won lotteries of multi million dollars and still managed to ruin their lives because of their gambling addiction,bad friendship and relatives and many other things that impacted their life,so once you get rich put the money in the bank and call it a day.

Most people often delude themselves that they could leave old habits just like that especially when it was part of what get them rich, I've heard some notorious gamblers that indulge often say if I win a huge amount I won't gamble again but yet when they do they would only increase their stake and even plan to stake more than they do before.

So yeah most people would say they won't but we all know deep down that we would

Most gamblers always use this line to motivate themselves and make it appear like they have a target in their gambling business. Unknown to them is the fact that once you are committed to gambling, it becomes part of you and you can only control your involvement and not stop out rightly especially when you succeed in hitting the jackpot. It is the control that makes one able to utilize winning properly and also what differentiates an addict from none addict. I even noticed that those who plans to quit when they win big money never win the kind of money they target, it is always little wins, some loses and such sequence. Huge wins from gambling always come when not expected, that is the strange thing about gambling.

[Zanab247]

I don't feel bad seeing women gambling in the gambling center because, gambling is not made for only men alone and there are some husband that permitted their wife to be gamble if she have the money and, such woman can reader help to her husband when she win huge amount of money from gambling.

I feel bad whenever I lost in the gambling but I don't want to stop gamble because, it makes me not to feel bad in some things that hot me sometime but the moment I go into gambling, it make me feel relief and to be happy with everybody around me because I don't take gambling as an investment like the way some gamblers took gambling as an investment.

[mammusu]

Most people often delude themselves that they could leave old habits just like that especially when it was part of what get them rich, I've heard some notorious gamblers that indulge often say if I win a huge amount I won't gamble again but yet when they do they would only increase their stake and even plan to stake more than they do before.

So yeah most people would say they won't but we all know deep down that we would

Those are words that I often hear from many gamblers, they say exactly the same as you said. This is like something that will continue to repeat itself, because it will be very difficult to stop the gambling habit, especially if the person is already addicted to gambling.

This is a story that I recently heard from one of my friends who gambles, actually this is an old experience but this is the first time he is telling it. My friend said he would stop when he had won a large amount, and at that time he luckily got the maximum win from the slot game. After that he stopped gambling, and can you guess how long it took him to stop? yes, only a week. He didn't gamble at all for a week and I thought it would be forever, but what happened was that he played again and that has lasted until now. Even when he told me he would stop, I would no longer believe him because it is something very difficult to stop the habit of gambling, and even if he stopped it was only for a moment like what my friend experienced.

[entertheabyss]

I don't feel bad seeing women gambling in the gambling center because, gambling is not made for only men alone and there are some husband that permitted their wife to be gamble if she have the money and, such woman can reader help to her husband when she win huge amount of money from gambling.

I feel bad whenever I lost in the gambling but I don't want to stop gamble because, it makes me not to feel bad in some things that hot me sometime but the moment I go into gambling, it make me feel relief and to be happy with everybody around me because I don't take gambling as an investment like the way some gamblers took gambling as an investment.

Gambling is not for the weak but for strong humans, the ones that will be able to withstand the top run and also doing everything within their reach to enable them move higher in the space. Gambling can be fully examined by the pro gamblers in the space, it's doesn't matter the age but what's crucial is the main thing called experience. Both genders can successfully gamble because its becoming clearer as the day passes by. Everyone is equal in the system and it might turn out to be a surprise to see the women doing exceptionally better than the men in the space. I've come in contact with experience gamblers who are women and they're the best.

[sokani]

I've been on many WhatsApp channels that you would see a lot of girls that are present asking for bookies and predictions on sports match to play at home. Do you see them as pretenders or just trying to hide their image?

I guess you're familiar with the saying that what a man can do a woman can do better. The world has evolved and gone are those days when it's a taboo for a female to gamble. Now everyone is hustling for the money and ladies have equal rights just the male folks, so it's unwise to think they're wasting their time.

have seen people watse more than a months salary on virtual or very huge amounts and woudl be sweating out of lose and have no choice but to chase their loses and end up losing even more. Do you view this persons as irresponsible to their family and themselves?

Yes, they're irresponsible for spending all of what they earn on gambling. A gambler should have a gambling budget (normally 5% salary) and work with it.

[Dewi Aries]

I don't feel bad seeing women gambling in the gambling center because, gambling is not made for only men alone and there are some husband that permitted their wife to be gamble if she have the money and, such woman can reader help to her husband when she win huge amount of money from gambling.

I feel bad whenever I lost in the gambling but I don't want to stop gamble because, it makes me not to feel bad in some things that hot me sometime but the moment I go into gambling, it make me feel relief and to be happy with everybody around me because I don't take gambling as an investment like the way some gamblers took gambling as an investment.

Yes it means gambling for everyone, and it is true that everyone can gamble as long as they have the money to bet on two possibilities at the end of the session between winning or losing, simply put gambling never looks at whether you are male or female all have the freedom to gamble. But if you are asking something else then yes obviously I would say that gambling is recommended only for those or people who do not have any problems in life especially financial, because honestly lately I see quite a lot of people who come with the aim of overcoming their personal problems such as gambling to pay off debts or gambling to improve their financial situation, that is very wrong because gambling is not a solution because there is absolutely no certainty in terms of the results at the end of the session about winning or losing.

You said that you feel bad or uncomfortable when you lose in gambling but on the other hand you also said that you don't want to stop gambling because this can make you relieved and happy, so maybe I would say that you are not one of the responsible gamblers because you feel bad when you lose, and my suggestion is that if you want to continue gambling and don't want to stop then you have to re-justify your understanding of gambling, you must understand that gambling is always about winning and losing, and losing can never be avoided completely, so the choice may be between you stopping or being able to accept the consequences of losing.

[Volimack]

how do you view women gambling in your area: I've never seen a woman standing in any bet store before gambling, but I've been on many WhatsApp channels that you would see a lot of girls that are present asking for bookies and predictions on sports match to play at home. Do you see them as pretenders or just trying to hide their image?

I'm a woman and do casual gambling. It's more common to see women involved in gambling, whether it's physical or online. It's unfair to label us pretenders just because women may not be as visible in public due to societal norms, one of the reasons why I prefer gambling online. Regardless of the gender, everyone should enjoy gambling.

Nowadays there is no gender discrimination for gambling everyone can gamble according to their needs and ability. Men and women are keeping pace with each other so I have seen women gambling in many places. Online gambling has become easier for women. Many women enjoy gambling along with housework at home so women gambling is natural.

[Samlucky O]

👉 how do you view women gambling in your area: I've never seen a woman standing in any bet store before gambling, but I've been on many WhatsApp channels that you would see a lot of girls that are present asking for bookies and predictions on sports match to play at home. Do you see them as pretenders or just trying to hide their image?

Women are highly respected in the society for there responsible habits compeard to that of a man, and they usually try to maintain such prestige by not involving themselfs on public gambling. What they do mostly is online gambling, when ever they ask for bookies they want to use it to play online gambling than offline. They are not pretenders but has a dignity and pride they have to cover in the society. If you as a man see any lady who comes to the casino hall to play gamble, you will see such lady as a wayward type, just like they usually call men that gamble too.

👉how do you view notorious gamblers: I've been around some bet shop and have seen people watse more than a months salary on virtual or very huge amounts and woudl be sweating out of lose and have no choice but to chase their loses and end up losing even more. Do you view this persons as irresponsible to their family and themselves? Or do you pity them as victims of gambling habit as it can happen to even the most righteous person?

Lolz, I never knew such Gamblers are taged notorious gamblers. I thought it was gambling addict or compulsive Gamblers. Anyway I have come across such a situation where a guy is always know for booking down a particular computer just for only his use whenever he comes to play gamble. He will make sure they fund the bet account, he will play and play and play till he exhaust the amount in the system before he will go back home. Although some day are also lucky days to him when he wins big but looses more frequently. I see it as his own way of gambling because everyone must not play thesame way.

[junder]

I don't feel bad seeing women gambling in the gambling center because, gambling is not made for only men alone and there are some husband that permitted their wife to be gamble if she have the money and, such woman can reader help to her husband when she win huge amount of money from gambling.

I feel bad whenever I lost in the gambling but I don't want to stop gamble because, it makes me not to feel bad in some things that hot me sometime but the moment I go into gambling, it make me feel relief and to be happy with everybody around me because I don't take gambling as an investment like the way some gamblers took gambling as an investment.

Indeed, sometimes women have more charisma than men, and also gambling is not only for men, gambling is intended for those who have the money to be able to do it, some people think that women are better at managing finances, so maybe they can manage their finances well even though they like to gamble. but in my opinion, even though that doesn't mean they won't become addicted, of course the opportunity to become addicted is definitely there, especially as we know that everyone is sensitive to money, therefore women can also become addicted and go crazy with the gambling they do if they lose self-control.

In my area there is also a woman who gambles online, and as far as I know her partner also likes gambling online, I can't understand how it is possible that they both like gambling, I'm afraid they will experience conflict when their finances are destroyed and It's a mess too, I'm sure they must have their own egos which may not want to give in to each other. I hope you can still control yourself well, so that something undesirable doesn't happen, because gambling is not an investment.

[SeriouslyGiveaway]

👉how do you spend your gambling wins: I know a lot of persons that woudl say gambling wins is for enjoyment and would use to to buy cloths or shoes or may go out to have fun. And you also like this? Or do you use you gambling wins for other issues?

I see that most people who win money often continue to use this money to gamble. Few people can spend it in a more enjoyable way unless it is unexpected that they will win large sums of money. For me, I usually use a portion of my gambling winnings for the longterm investment.

👉how do you feel when peopel ask you for money to gamble?, do you gamble with debt?

Of course I wouldn't like someone to borrow money from me to gamble, and conversely I would never borrow money from someone to fund my gambling, that's my gambling principle. Because I think gambling activities are more about entertainment, not suitable for borrowing money, only playing when you have money. I only lend money to someone or borrow money from someone for life's urgent needs or serious investments.

👉Do you set rules or limits on how much you stake per week to control your addiction or you are disciplinedenough to know when to stop?

I always set for myself certain rules on how to bet as well as the limit amount for each bet. I have been following it for a long time, I find it works well for me. And when I strictly follow these principles, I find that I no longer play as crazy and blindly as before, eliminating the feeling of addiction every time I don't gamble.

[Strongkored]

👉 how do you view women gambling in your area: I've never seen a woman standing in any bet store before gambling, but I've been on many WhatsApp channels that you would see a lot of girls that are present asking for bookies and predictions on sports match to play at home. Do you see them as pretenders or just trying to hide their image?

I don't really care about this because it is their right and as long as the activity doesn't disturb other people then go ahead and I quite often see women gambling in my area, it's just that it's done in secret but many people already know about this activity, or also women who regularly buy lotteries or what is usually called togel in my area and it has become a common thing.

👉how do you really feel when you lose money on gambling?  Do you feel bad or just lie to yourself that's it was for fun?

Even though many gamblers consider gambling as a fun activity or to get pleasure, it is still not easy to accept losing, but those who gamble, because they want to have fun, will be able to accept it even though it takes time because usually they only gamble using money that they can afford to lose. and that's me because today I just lost a sports bet but that's acceptable because the amount is still within my limits.

[taufik123]

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Even though many gamblers consider gambling as a fun activity or to get pleasure, it is still not easy to accept losing, but those who gamble, because they want to have fun, will be able to accept it even though it takes time because usually they only gamble using money that they can afford to lose. and that's me because today I just lost a sports bet but that's acceptable because the amount is still within my limits.

Just for the sake of fun and this also depends on how much betting is used to bet.
It would be a different story if you bet a considerable amount and lose, nonsense if you just say it's a pleasure.

There is a limit where the minimum possible bet amount is just to make a pleasure bet,
if lucky it will be doubled and the opportunity to play more without regard to how much profit.

[ethereumhunter]

Most people often delude themselves that they could leave old habits just like that especially when it was part of what get them rich, I've heard some notorious gamblers that indulge often say if I win a huge amount I won't gamble again but yet when they do they would only increase their stake and even plan to stake more than they do before.

So yeah most people would say they won't but we all know deep down that we would

They do that because they thinks that they can win much money from gambling so they delude themselves. They pretends that they will win from gambling someday so they will still playing gambling without stops because they thinks that they still have a chance to win. That's why we must knows how to control ourselves and always used limitations so we know that playing gambling is just for fun and not have any intention to win because winning will be our bonus. Let them still often say that if they win a huge amount, they will not gamble because that is not important to us. The important things for us is how we can treat and used gambling as it should be so we don't have or face any problems like them. Playing gambling is fun, but behind the fun, we must be aware that playing gambling can cause us becomes addicted to gambling.

[Jawhead999]

Nowadays there is no gender discrimination for gambling everyone can gamble according to their needs and ability. Men and women are keeping pace with each other so I have seen women gambling in many places. Online gambling has become easier for women. Many women enjoy gambling along with housework at home so women gambling is natural.

Actually the casino owners and other gamblers are very welcome with women, some offline casinos even give free drink for women.

There's nothing new for women wants to gamble, but for discrimination, I guess it's happen in everywhere. Even you live in the most non discrimination country, there's will be always a person will make fun about you. Discrimination never ends except every people in the world have a same height, body, face, color, ethic etc.

[Gozie51]

I don't feel bad seeing women gambling in the gambling center because, gambling is not made for only men alone and there are some husband that permitted their wife to be gamble if she have the money and, such woman can reader help to her husband when she win huge amount of money from gambling.

If the man realize that there is an area of sports or games to gamble on that the woman is good at, he is likely to give her that chance to exibit her gambling talent but not that the man should be expecting such kind of help from the woman because if you get your mind fixed on the woman helping you afterwards winning her bet and then she doesn't begin to act or do to your expectations of help, that may cause some reaction from you and eventually would cause trouble in the home. So, it is better not to keep your hope on the winning from the woman or wife but if the husband is lucky that the woman supports him from her gambling winning then that is fine.

I feel bad whenever I lost in the gambling but I don't want to stop gamble because, it makes me not to feel bad in some things that hot me sometime but the moment I go into gambling, it make me feel relief and to be happy with everybody around me because I don't take gambling as an investment like the way some gamblers took gambling as an investment.

If you see gambling as fun then you will always run back to it whenever you want to be happy. Some people when they get angry, they resort to smoking or drinking so likewise if you like to gamble for fun. So instead of transferring aggression, you can relax with your favorite gambling game and forget the anger. This is a very good strategy from men and that has really helped to control certain perceived eruptic situations in the family.

[teamsherry]

👉 how do you view women gambling in your area: I've never seen a woman standing in any bet store before gambling, but I've been on many WhatsApp channels that you would see a lot of girls that are present asking for bookies and predictions on sports match to play at home. Do you see them as pretenders or just trying to hide their image?

Female gamblers are not much in my area but the few I know are extremely lucky. There is a kind of gamble that is popular here and there good participation of women but the number is insignificant when compared to men. Where you see more women in the gambling business is as staff in physical shops. Most of the workers in casinos in my area are women and sometimes they do gamble but not as much as the men.

I guess you haven't meet the notorious women that gamble a lot without really caring about the image I would give them publicly, you know women are supposed to show off good attitudes and try to have better self control than men.

I seen women workers in gamble shops but I never have seen any gamble before.

[Ever-young]

I don't feel bad seeing women gambling in the gambling center because, gambling is not made for only men alone and there are some husband that permitted their wife to be gamble if she have the money and, such woman can reader help to her husband when she win huge amount of money from gambling.

I feel bad whenever I lost in the gambling but I don't want to stop gamble because, it makes me not to feel bad in some things that hot me sometime but the moment I go into gambling, it make me feel relief and to be happy with everybody around me because I don't take gambling as an investment like the way some gamblers took gambling as an investment.

Yes it means gambling for everyone, and it is true that everyone can gamble as long as they have the money to bet on two possibilities at the end of the session between winning or losing, simply put gambling never looks at whether you are male or female all have the freedom to gamble. But if you are asking something else then yes obviously I would say that gambling is recommended only for those or people who do not have any problems in life especially financial, because honestly lately I see quite a lot of people who come with the aim of overcoming their personal problems such as gambling to pay off debts or gambling to improve their financial situation, that is very wrong because gambling is not a solution because there is absolutely no certainty in terms of the results at the end of the session about winning or losing.

You said that you feel bad or uncomfortable when you lose in gambling but on the other hand you also said that you don't want to stop gambling because this can make you relieved and happy, so maybe I would say that you are not one of the responsible gamblers because you feel bad when you lose, and my suggestion is that if you want to continue gambling and don't want to stop then you have to re-justify your understanding of gambling, you must understand that gambling is always about winning and losing, and losing can never be avoided completely, so the choice may be between you stopping or being able to accept the consequences of losing.

Absolutely, this is an important rule for all bettors to remember. Diversification is essential in any investment or financial decision, but it is particularly vital in gambling. Putting all of your money on one event is not only hazardous, but also leaves little opportunity for mistake. Spreading your bets across multiple events allows you to reduce your losses while still having the opportunity to reap the benefits.