~And where I live, whether their views on the lottery booth or the cockpit arena, it doesn't make any difference, it's always considered bad. Because perhaps they are of the view that if the lottery outlet and cockpit arena are not there, then there won't be too many husbands who will get lost in it and leave their families behind.
They blame gambling, but they should only blame their husbands for leaving, and no one more. You take gambling away, and there will a new thing, like alcohol drinking or even just young girls, that would be taking away their husbands from them. And not only those things, there are tons of things that have the potential of distracting their husbands. So blaming just one thing because it's there right now is foolish.
Do you think that when the wife follows her husband into the cockpit of the arena or lottery booth, it is to praise her husband's bad behavior? No, bro, they followed her husband to beat and scold him, she did this simply to prevent her husband from losing any more money from his betting activities. He came to scold him to make him aware of the bad behavior he was doing.
To say that stopping gambling will create new troubles is a fatalistic attitude. Although there may be other factors at play in your husband’s behavior, removing one of the sources of the problem can result in less stress and fewer conflicts within the relationship.
On the other hand, when one blames gambling, it doesn’t necessarily suggest dismissing the impact of any other elements that might be responsible for an individual’s behavior. Hence, issues like drinking alcohol, adultery, or mental disorders must also be treated on a par and with much care. Nevertheless, determining and dealing with gambling as a possibility causing relationship difficulties is an essential measure toward recovery and keeping family well-being at its optimum level.
