Is it right to advice other people against gambling for personal reasons like??

[Maus0728]

Do you guys think it's OK to advice other gamblers to quit gambling simply because of your own bad experience, does your bad experience mean that every other gambler out there will also have the same bad experience?

It's definitely okay because you're basically a living and in flesh example of what gambling can do to someone's life, I mean that's how I see it and that's why I believe that it's alright to give out advice. Regarding bad experience, I can't recall any experience that I can share that would amount to any kind lesson that would be profound so I'm not keen on sharing any.

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[TopTort777]

Do you guys think it's OK to advice other gamblers to quit gambling simply because of your own bad experience, does your bad experience mean that every other gambler out there will also have the same bad experience?

My 3 cents:

First I really like to read about other gamblers experience. Does not matter if it was positive or negative experience. All those stories are kind of reminder what can happen if I or someone else act specifically.

Second I barely allow other people opinion somehow influence on mine. If it bad experience, then let me get those bumps myself. If it is good, let me feel the joy of it myself. Also I dont allow myself to act as a dominant, to push when making a choice, to influence, to force someone to do something because of my experience. I live my own life, and let other live their own and make their own choices.

Third - this is the internet. Trust any strangers words? That so-so. Last thing I would do. Without facts, everything is a lie. Like gamers say "screenshot or it did not happen"

[GideonGono]

Hi guys and ladies,

Sorry I can't share the Facebook post this thread stems from, as I lost the post, hours ago before deciding to bring it up as a discussion on this forum.

Like 6 to 7 hours ago, I was over there on Facebook scrolling my life-time away  , I came to this post where the user was advising readers on how bad gambling is, being a gambler myself, I decided to open the post in fall to read and know what the dude is all about, and from all the story, it seems the dude went all in on a gambling sprey which didn't turn out the way he had anticipated, according to him, he had lost all his life savings (over $60,000) to gambling and it all started with a bet of $10.

And right now, the dude is all out to castigate and discourage as many that are willing to give him a listening ear; from gambling, all for what? Because gambling didn't turn out well for him, he lost his entire life savings, and he now believed that that is exactly how every other persons out there gambling will lose too.

What do you make of this, I honestly do not know but deep inside of me, I feel it's absolutely wrong to advice people against doing something, just because you did the same thing and it did not favor you..

Do you guys think it's OK to advice other gamblers to quit gambling simply because of your own bad experience, does your bad experience mean that every other gambler out there will also have the same bad experience?
I will like some really useful discussions around this topic.

For me it is his personal advice, and he is just telling his own story while making it obvious that he become a gambling addict.
He is just making people aware of what addiction could do to your life, it is not just gambling but all sorts of addiction could ruin your life.
It is up to people if they would take the advice, after all we have seen so many people giving advice about investment scams but some would still be scammed by it.

[Dailyscript]

Right or wrong, when someone gives advises it's surely came from their own experiences. And it's up to the person listening to that adviser if they think it's a worthwhile tip that will help them.

We're all big to understand the good and bad advises to us. So, if you're a gambler and you hear someone explains his experience and he's just telling people what they must do based on what he went through, there's nothing wrong with that.

Thus, these listeners should be thankful to him because he can be a sign that they're looking for whether to stop or totally quit from it.

Your right here! Advice are opinions and not mandatory for you to accept any advice giving to you by anyone. There should be proper evaluation and absolute conviction before accepting the advice. So that we wont get to blame someone for what may happen in the future.

Dont get me wrong, i believe that personal experiences can be a good way to give someone an advice, sharing those stories especially based on trials and struggles can be the best way to empower someone but we should always consider that not everyone learns this same way or get corrected in the same way. There are various gambling experiences i think the best way is to share resources that such person can see multiple experiences from gamblers so he can have different options to learn from and get his conviction.

[leonair]

Do you guys think it's OK to advice other gamblers to quit gambling simply because of your own bad experience, does your bad experience mean that every other gambler out there will also have the same bad experience?

It's definitely okay because you're basically a living and in flesh example of what gambling can do to someone's life, I mean that's how I see it and that's why I believe that it's alright to give out advice. Regarding bad experience, I can't recall any experience that I can share that would amount to any kind lesson that would be profound so I'm not keen on sharing any.

Gambling is a very dangerous place which entertains us but besides it causes us a lot of financial loss because the issue of loss is very common in gambling and once there is a loss the entire bet amount becomes 0.  So the only good course in this losing era is to quit gambling. Because gambling addiction won't let you quit gambling.  If you keep yourself under control and stop gambling at the right time, you can have a better life otherwise gambling addiction can harm a gambler a lot.  So if one wants to advise others to quit gambling it will not be bad.

[Raflesia]

It's definitely okay because you're basically a living and in flesh example of what gambling can do to someone's life, I mean that's how I see it and that's why I believe that it's alright to give out advice. Regarding bad experience, I can't recall any experience that I can share that would amount to any kind lesson that would be profound so I'm not keen on sharing any

Actually, advising someone to stop gambling is clearly permissible, but we can only advise them to stop or it could be that from a bad experience we gambled so that losses befall us, but this is very difficult even if we advise those who have fallen into gambling or make their daily bread. To gamble, it is very difficult for us to advise gambling addicts because stopping gambling addicts does not come from someone's advice but from themselves or from their conscience. We can really advise a gambler to stop, but it must be done slowly so that it is accepted by the heart.

So Nase directs a gambling addict based on experience and then advises him in a good way so that the gambler understands and thinks about our advice.

[Twentyonepaylots]

I mean, I think it is just fine since he is just warning some of the gamblers that they might get addicted and might lose everything, so while some of the gamblers are addicted yet, he can save them and not be like him. But if you know yourself, you can just ignore it. If you are a disciplined gambler and you know how to handle all your finances and also your emotions, then you are fine. It is just good that someone is advising some of the gamblers because it might not be today, but maybe in the near future, who knows?

The people who advise others to stop gambling should just look at them like one of those people who are doing good deeds since they care for other people. Just focus on yourself and gamble when you want to gamble. But if things go wrong, maybe it is time to think a little bit about it.

[Ever-young]

Many people doing crypto or stock trading also lose huge amount of money sometimes, but we never hear such complaints about this activity. Risks are the same though. And you can become addict exactly in the same away. It's such a little bit risky for your funds when you win because unlike casinos you're not winning the money belonging to the platform("the house") but the one belonging to other users.

Advices are given out daily and most gamblers are ignorant. We face risks and most of us have become acquainted with the current unstable phase of gambling system, but most of us end up losing huge figures and keep it to ourselves, everyone is different. We have the required money and knowledge, it'd meant to share them inother to provide aides for those that desperately need them in the space. Everyone have the challenges they're facing and I must say, it's been really been really a rough path to follow this season.

You're absolutely correct mate. I believe that lack of proper education and support for people who are struggling with gambling addiction has been often overlooked. There's often a stigma around admitting that one has a gambling addiction and this makes it difficult for people to open up that they really need help, so rather than asking for help, they decide to just die inside and not talk to people about it for fear of being criticized. There should really be more open conversations about responsible gambling and also provision or more resources to help people who are actually struggling with addiction. There some addiction that requires just more than advise to get rid of, we should try harder to discover how to help addicts even when they refuse to speak up because most people are actually scared or ashamed to speak of for fear of being judged.

People dont like talking about gambling addiction. The best way to help folks struggling is to start with understanding. We need better education on this issue, the kind that truly explains the struggle. Not just pamphlets, but real, accessible information. And forget the shame game - that's not going to help anyone. We need folks to know they're not alone, that support is out there.

You're absolutely right when you say that proper education and support is a stepping stone towards helping a gambler struggling with gambling addiction.
The stigma around the issue makes it even more difficult for people to admit they need help. It'll also be very helpful to create a space or more like a community where people can actually come together to share their experiences and also talk about their struggles, that way, people will be more comfortable to open up to others because they'll be sure they're not the only ones in that situation and there won't be any fear of being judged and the stigma will be gradually eradicated.

[ethereumhunter]

It's definitely okay because you're basically a living and in flesh example of what gambling can do to someone's life, I mean that's how I see it and that's why I believe that it's alright to give out advice. Regarding bad experience, I can't recall any experience that I can share that would amount to any kind lesson that would be profound so I'm not keen on sharing any

Actually, advising someone to stop gambling is clearly permissible, but we can only advise them to stop or it could be that from a bad experience we gambled so that losses befall us, but this is very difficult even if we advise those who have fallen into gambling or make their daily bread. To gamble, it is very difficult for us to advise gambling addicts because stopping gambling addicts does not come from someone's advice but from themselves or from their conscience. We can really advise a gambler to stop, but it must be done slowly so that it is accepted by the heart.

So Nase directs a gambling addict based on experience and then advises him in a good way so that the gambler understands and thinks about our advice.

Not many people can accept our suggestion, especially if they already find the fun things from the gambling. They will not listen to our suggestion because they feels that they don't have any problems while they playing gambling. They will still playing gambling and some of them trying to used more money because they thinks that they can wins from gambling. We can advice them to be careful playing gambling and always limiting their money but we can't force them to follow our advices. It's personal decision to playing gambling or stay away from gambling so that will be back to their decision.

If they wise, they will not playing gambling too often to search for the fun. They will try to use the other activities that can gives them the fun. They will knows that playing gambling can only for occasionally and not for too often because that can makes them losing more money.

[JMBitcointernational]

Hi guys and ladies,

Sorry I can't share the Facebook post this thread stems from, as I lost the post, hours ago before deciding to bring it up as a discussion on this forum.

Like 6 to 7 hours ago, I was over there on Facebook scrolling my life-time away  , I came to this post where the user was advising readers on how bad gambling is, being a gambler myself, I decided to open the post in fall to read and know what the dude is all about, and from all the story, it seems the dude went all in on a gambling sprey which didn't turn out the way he had anticipated, according to him, he had lost all his life savings (over $60,000) to gambling and it all started with a bet of $10.

And right now, the dude is all out to castigate and discourage as many that are willing to give him a listening ear; from gambling, all for what? Because gambling didn't turn out well for him, he lost his entire life savings, and he now believed that that is exactly how every other persons out there gambling will lose too.

What do you make of this, I honestly do not know but deep inside of me, I feel it's absolutely wrong to advice people against doing something, just because you did the same thing and it did not favor you..

Do you guys think it's OK to advice other gamblers to quit gambling simply because of your own bad experience, does your bad experience mean that every other gambler out there will also have the same bad experience?
I will like some really useful discussions around this topic.

Op the dude is actually doing the right thing at the right time, he has experienced something unusual and he does not want others to experience same thing . Experience they said is the best teacher and he is actually teaching with experience.

For me, advising others not to fall victim of gambling losses is not bad rather it shows good of him to be morally inclined to help others desist from failure. Gambling is a game of luck and chance and it’s not must you take the advice but there are those whom the advice will influence their lives very well.

[JunaidAzizi]

Do you guys think it's OK to advice other gamblers to quit gambling simply because of your own bad experience, does your bad experience mean that every other gambler out there will also have the same bad experience?
I will like some really useful discussions around this topic.

Not at all I think this is the worst thing to tell any person to not come to gambling.everyperson have right and his own decision-making authority and you can't decide for other persons to manipulate their minds.

I didn't understand the psychology of these kinds of persons. They are ok when they are earning from gambling but when they lose they start to discourage others. At the time when you make this huge income from a 10 dollar bet why you can't invite or even share your success story just like you share your story on Facebook. I think this is not a good decision to limit other people by telling them not to go gambling just because lost their funds. This would be very good if he could share the mistake through which he lost his fund so that other people can get it and protect themselves.

[Promocodeudo]

Gambling decision is personal no matter how you advise people on gambling matter they will still end up doing what is in their mind, so if I may advise I will say that the best time to mediate in the in things regarding gambling is when you notice that a gambler is going extreme apart from such situation I don't think that mediation is needed.
Let's just say someone is earning through gambling, how possible do you think that it is possible to advise such person to make use of minimal funds to gamble, this is not possible, gamblers ate the wrong people to advise because we have different gamblers, the once that wants to win irrespective of the amount they have lost so far and those ones that are ready to to gamble to satisfy their gambling habit wether they are losing or not, people that fall within this category will never take advise from anyone because of their mindset.

[sunsilk]

Right or wrong, when someone gives advises it's surely came from their own experiences. And it's up to the person listening to that adviser if they think it's a worthwhile tip that will help them.

We're all big to understand the good and bad advises to us. So, if you're a gambler and you hear someone explains his experience and he's just telling people what they must do based on what he went through, there's nothing wrong with that.

Thus, these listeners should be thankful to him because he can be a sign that they're looking for whether to stop or totally quit from it.

Your right here! Advice are opinions and not mandatory for you to accept any advice giving to you by anyone. There should be proper evaluation and absolute conviction before accepting the advice. So that we wont get to blame someone for what may happen in the future.

Dont get me wrong, i believe that personal experiences can be a good way to give someone an advice, sharing those stories especially based on trials and struggles can be the best way to empower someone but we should always consider that not everyone learns this same way or get corrected in the same way. There are various gambling experiences i think the best way is to share resources that such person can see multiple experiences from gamblers so he can have different options to learn from and get his conviction.

We can understand if the advise if to give ill to us but if not, then it can easily be understood whether you want to obey that advise or not. Because what is important for us is we know what's going to be good for our welfare.

If someone gives us an advise that's no good then we can always ignore that guy or those people that gives us ugly advises that will not benefit us.

But if you've heard something like this and has no bad intention and only gives us a reminder, don't think of the person as if he wants something bad to happen to you, no.

[Makus]

i don't blame anyone who's advising other not to go into gambling because I cannot also advise anyone to start gambling, reason being that, not everyone can handle the pressure from gambling maturely, in fact some person becomes addicted and even put the blame on you for introducing gambling to them, so I prefer you learn in on your own, then if possible we share ideas and experience and catch the fun together. I ones had a friend who became so addicted that he used money for the family that was transferred to account for gambling, and at the end the family started pointing fingers towards me, that I am the cause of the an adult's irresponsible gambling lifestyle. It's possible that after advising someone not to go into gambling, they'll still go ahead and start gambling.tgey all have their personal choice to make.

[fikrett]

Hi guys and ladies,

Sorry I can't share the Facebook post this thread stems from, as I lost the post, hours ago before deciding to bring it up as a discussion on this forum.

Like 6 to 7 hours ago, I was over there on Facebook scrolling my life-time away  , I came to this post where the user was advising readers on how bad gambling is, being a gambler myself, I decided to open the post in fall to read and know what the dude is all about, and from all the story, it seems the dude went all in on a gambling sprey which didn't turn out the way he had anticipated, according to him, he had lost all his life savings (over $60,000) to gambling and it all started with a bet of $10.

And right now, the dude is all out to castigate and discourage as many that are willing to give him a listening ear; from gambling, all for what? Because gambling didn't turn out well for him, he lost his entire life savings, and he now believed that that is exactly how every other persons out there gambling will lose too.

What do you make of this, I honestly do not know but deep inside of me, I feel it's absolutely wrong to advice people against doing something, just because you did the same thing and it did not favor you..

Do you guys think it's OK to advice other gamblers to quit gambling simply because of your own bad experience, does your bad experience mean that every other gambler out there will also have the same bad experience?
I will like some really useful discussions around this topic.

I think its ok sharing your gambling experiences, its more or less like review. It can be really helpful. It gives everyone a chance to learn and be careful. But still you need to remember, everyone's different, and not all will face the same issues. Instead of telling people to stop gambling because it was bad for you, share what you learned and talk about how to gamble safely.

[Bitinity]

Honestly, I dont really like to advice other people when it is related to something personal like addiction but if others ask me my opinion then I'll just tell them what I know based on my own experience or based on other real stories. Some people do not like to be advised especially when they are in deep problem. So advising others need to be done to the right people and also need to be done at the right time because some people may become angry when you advice them not at the right time. 

[Mauser]

What do you make of this, I honestly do not know but deep inside of me, I feel it's absolutely wrong to advice people against doing something, just because you did the same thing and it did not favor you..

Do you guys think it's OK to advice other gamblers to quit gambling simply because of your own bad experience, does your bad experience mean that every other gambler out there will also have the same bad experience?
I will like some really useful discussions around this topic.

I wouldn't give too much about a person that gambled all his life savings away and now wants to lecture other people on how bad gambling is. Why didn't he feel bad about gambling when he still had money? Then gambling obviously was fine, because he had a the chance to make a big profit. But now with no money anymore there is no chance for him to make a big profit, he is stuck with his losses and regrets his decisions. Just because he made wrong decisions in his life doesn't mean that everything is terrible now, because most other people are not going to make the same mistakes. When you read here through the forum you will find that the number one rule for most people in gambling is not to use money that you can't afford to lose. Gambling with your life savings is obviously money that you shouldn't use for gambling.  Sharing your opinion publicly is fine as long as it doesn't become only negative stories that brings other people down. 

[Quidat]

Honestly, I dont really like to advice other people when it is related to something personal like addiction but if others ask me my opinion then I'll just tell them what I know based on my own experience or based on other real stories. Some people do not like to be advised especially when they are in deep problem. So advising others need to be done to the right people and also need to be done at the right time because some people may become angry when you advice them not at the right time. 

This is really that an indeed someones decisions into their lives and i dont also like on giving out some advises considering that it is really that our own full decisions on how to deal up with things.
Its our money then its our own right on what we should gonna do with our money. There are people who are really that loving on getting involvement with other peoples lives but for me i do just
let them be on what they are doing. Its impossible that they werent aware on the possibilities that could happen into them if they would really be making out that uncontrolled gambling.

Unless if we do speak about seeing one of your family members is at stage on spending too much money in gambling, then it would really be normal that you would really be
making that kind of advises or involvement on which it would really be just that a normal approach to have but to those other people then im not having those kind of actions
because i dont really like on getting scolded or been said that its none of my business.

[harapan]

Facebook? Have you checked the comments on YouTube when a person talks about gambling? It is all the same. Truth be told gambling is addictive so is smoking, drinking, clubbing, gaming, mobile phone and other activities that brings about a release of dopamine.

But are everyone who engage in these activities addicts? The answer is no. The stories from people who discourage others not to begin gambling are from those who didn't gamble responsibly. They are stories from those who didn't do it in moderation.

I will say  just like the philosopher, "man/human know thyself". You know what you have the ability to control and what you can't, if anyone feels gambling falls into the category of activities that may likely be beyond their control, then they shouldn't start at all.

This is why, gambling is not for kids only for adults.

I concur to this entirely,you can only advice an addict not a responsible gambler who knows how and what to do and again I would say the category of addicted gamblers you would want to advise are those who find it hard to stop gambling,those that go extra miles to take loan, borrow Money and even do nasty things just to gamble,those people that can't gamble with the lowest percentage of their income or finance,in general those people fall under irresponsible gambling and at such they need to be persuaded to leave gambling and focus on something good.

But advising a responsible gamblers sometimes can be seen as an insult to them,as they take it as something that excites them,so if you want to advise such persons it's really not gonna work,cause they know what they are doing and that's why it's preferable to educate the young ones about gambling and all they need to know so they won't end up as addicted irresponsible gamblers.

[Jawhead999]

I'm a person who believe in "what you think is good, it not always good for other people and vice versa".

If gambling is good for me, I won't invite people to gamble, if Bitcoin is good for me, I won't advise people to invest in Bitcoin. Instead of thank to me about those good advice, they might blame me because my advice isn't work for them.

So, why I need to spend my time and effort to explain something when I would get bad feedback too?