Story of my life

[bettercrypto]

Have you ever noticed or am I the only one?

The more active I become with gambling, the more it drags me back, luckily I keep risking only what I want to lose.

The less active I become with gambling, the more positive it gets for me, not most of the time but my results are simply better than when I was very active.

It's like the casinos are wired to mess with the most active gamblers. I don't know, so far I can only find someone who has seen such before.

A friend who lives far away from me has also said the same, he got tired of gambling because it wasn't going his way but when he started talking it less seriously, that's when he started to get positive results.

Has anyone had the same experience before?

Not yet, but what I know is that the more gamblers who become positive about gambling, the more they become negative about winning; instead, the amount of money they
actually lose increases.

That's proven and tested, and it's still happening in the present where we are now. So, I've never experienced that; this is the only reality I know that other gamblers in this
field are experiencing.

[ethereumhunter]

I agree with @OP because I feel that too when playing gambling but I can hold myself not to playing gambling too long. I knows the risk will becomes bigger and that can caused me lose much money. I can't recover my losses so I will limits my money that I used to playing gambling, especially I have a bad experiences in losing much money before.

The casino will tempts the gamblers to comes to their place and try the other gambling games. That makes gamblers thinks that they have a big chance to win but that's not right because that can makes them lose much money. They must control themselves and not drags them back to the casino or they will used more money and spends it to playing gambling. They can't expect to have a good outcomes as in gambling, they will have a chance to lose much money.

[Zanab247]

If you are talking about the positive result by winning in your gambling when you don't take gambling serious, I have experienced such thing before in gambling that made me not to take gambling as an investment than to make it as fun with a budget daily and is making me to enjoy good results from my gambling.

And those that take gambling as an investment are the ones losing most in gambling because they want to win to recover their money immediately by taking their gambling serious to use any big money to gamble.

Since you discover what is making you not to achieve good results from your gambling, I believe you will avoid such habit so that you will not be taking gambling serious when you have money than to settle down to make some prediction that will help you to make money from your gambling.

[Juse14]

I gambled, I risked all the money I had and I did it because I believed that I would win, I did that over and over again. The more I lose, the higher my curiosity about gambling becomes.

and what I have experienced in gambling is that I have lost more often than I have won, but I keep trying to win, and what we try will definitely produce results, just like what we want. but this is just a stupid assumption, a futile effort, because in reality, if gambling is not carried out in a controlled manner it will only cause losses and losses. This is the worst thing I have ever experienced, and hopefully the experience I am telling you about can serve as an illustration, explanation and warning of the bad impacts and losses that result from gambling that is not responsible.

[joniboini]

I think I get what OP is feeling, even though it is not necessarily related to gambling activity. I used to play a game regularly, and I get the impression that the more I play it, the more I get unlucky with drops, etc. I think recency bias affects how we perceive things too. I also feel the same with gacha or any game with gambling elements. It might not be similar since you can argue that gacha games can rig the rates, but you can more or less say the same about any platform really. Maybe take a break regularly, especially if you want to avoid any addiction that might eat you further.

[Webetcoins]

That's all just in our minds and there is no actual reality in that. Casino games aren't programmed in a way that they would make you win more when you gamble less frequently and make you lose if you are gambling regularly, the results are randomly generated regardless of how much you gamble or stay away from gambling. However, there is one thing, it's the RTP, if you gamble regularly, you might win sometimes at certain games because of the RTP.

A lot of people also think that they win more when they are betting with smaller amounts and lose when they start betting with bigger amounts, however, that is also a myth and it can be a coincidence and nothing else. Results would be the same regardless of your bet amount, it's just that your money will finish quickly if you bet higher.

[bluebit25]

(...) Has anyone had the same experience before?

Your experience is completely true, in the past and even now I still have a little feeling about gambling that being alert and responsible will avoid risks, but in reality when I gamble it's not always the case. I also maintain a state of sobriety to be able to fully ensure that it does not affect anyone, because gambling itself directly affects me and my opinion is that it is also affecting.

Anyway, in this field we experience it regardless of the outcome, it brings things that we accept or resist, and all help us realize ourselves.

[YOSHIE]

Has anyone had the same experience before?

My belief in gambling is that 50% of the experiences and problems experienced by gamblers are almost the same, the other 50% is divided into several problems and experiences, Believe it or not, some of the gamblers here experience the same thing, of course not all of them, the point is that your experience is felt by other people.

I often say that gambling is like someone who has been hypnotized, and if you are serious about gambling, it doesn't matter who is around you, whether it's your family or your friends, gambling is like a magnet, If someone is thinking about gambling, of course their mind will continue to think about gambling, some people will not stop before they can beat the dealer, even if the opposite happens, The more he thinks about the bigger the profit, the deeper he will be dragged into the hole of defeat, that's why no human is perfect.

[danadc]

What happened is that the level of concentration of the players has a lot of influence and that can be something that gives rise to what we know as a possible Addiction, and it is likely that they Feel bad, when everything goes wrong and we start to worry a lot, Our brain starts to work faster, thinking why we are losing if we are spending more time in the game , so in this aspect one can say if I Play more , then I know more, and I understand more, but the long-term Game makes us We lose because the casino will always have the advantage, when we stop playing that is better , because there is more Desire, on the other hand if we do them every day, I think that emotion goes away.

For that Reason, when we are looking for ways to have fun, the casino is the ideal but it is very dangerous.

[wiss19]

What do you mean by "drags me back"? I ask because it sounds serious apart from simply losing money. If so, then you better stop gambling even permanently if it hinders your growth in life.

The explanation would be on why we are feeling positive the longer we take a break in gambling is because there are no more stress that builds up on us due to gambling. Not only in gambling actually but the same thing works in other things. This is what they say that sometimes when things feel so hard, maybe what we only need is a break. If it's about feeling lucky, the explanation would be is the casino tries to lure us again, for us to remain active.

[ChiBitCTy]

I do wonder if so may of you really have had this addiction to gambling or if it's exaggerated a bit.  I have thankfully/luckily not had any sort of addiction to gambling or gotten to the point where it really just drags me down.  I always where it just is enough to be nice if I win, but not a big deal if I lose.  I also mainly do it just for entertainment purposes. So, I guess I'm lucky.

[Slow death]

Have you ever noticed or am I the only one?

do the following test: leave your house alone to a very distant place, do this during the day and make sure it is a distance where the entire journey is safe. After arriving at the distant place, return along the same path alone. When you arrive at your house you will be complaining about the distance and you won't want to repeat that journey alone. but if the next day you take many of your friends and walk to the same distant place while talking. You will see that when you arrive at the distant place, it will seem that the path has become very short, you will not feel that you have walked very far. This is something psychological. as you were walking around chatting with your friends, so you weren't irritated by the distance. In gambling, the same thing happens. when we play with anxiety we find it easier to not focus on the game and consequently we lose more

The more active I become with gambling, the more it drags me back, luckily I keep risking only what I want to lose.

As I explained above, this happens because you've been playing non-stop, so you've started to lose focus because you've started chasing losses, even if you say you're not chasing losses, but these. When you spend a lot of time playing without stopping, you start to feel a lot of pressure because you lose a lot and the tendency is for the person to continue losing even more because they are playing with emotions like anger, hate, revenge and all these feelings are not good, they make the person lose more
 

The less active I become with gambling, the more positive it gets for me, not most of the time but my results are simply better than when I was very active.

Because you have more time to rest, you can analyze the game better and play without pressure. when a person plays and then stops playing and does other things in the real world, then that person does not have stress due to the game and is able to think better, manage money better and does not play under pressure. That's why it has better results compared to the person who doesn't stop playing. This happens and all things in life. For example, if a person worked every day for many months without resting, that person would not be achieving good results at work because they would be unhappy when they worked, they would be less focused and tired.

[2Pizza410000BTC]

Have you ever noticed or am I the only one?

The more active I become with gambling, the more it drags me back, luckily I keep risking only what I want to lose.

The less active I become with gambling, the more positive it gets for me, not most of the time but my results are simply better than when I was very active.

It's like the casinos are wired to mess with the most active gamblers. I don't know, so far I can only find someone who has seen such before.

A friend who lives far away from me has also said the same, he got tired of gambling because it wasn't going his way but when he started talking it less seriously, that's when he started to get positive results.

Has anyone had the same experience before?

Actually gambling should be mainly for entertainment. This gambling game should never be used outside of entertainment. If a person can take this gambling as entertainment then he can enjoy very well and if he cannot take gambling as entertainment then he will suffer a lot. Moreover, gambling should always use a fixed budget of income and should never be used outside of the fixed budget of income. Gambling is a very dangerous addiction, the more it can be minimized, the better for a person.

[danherbias07]

Or, it's just also trying to mess with our brains.
How much money did you lose when you were super active as a gambler? How much money did you gain when you became an occasional gambler?
I would calculate both and see to it that you are actually winning when you are gambling rarely or it's just actually giving back what you had lost when you are an active gambler.

I played long enough to say I can still remember the money that I lost but having a hard time counting how much I won because it's too rare to happen. Calculating everything (I am a rare gambler now) I can still say that I am at a loss even though I recently won a good amount.
Accumulated loss.

[DubemIfedigbo001]

The more active I become with gambling, the more it drags me back, luckily I keep risking only what I want to lose.
The less active I become with gambling, the more positive it gets for me, not most of the time but my results are simply better than when I was very active.

You had the opportunity of relieving the pressure you place on yourself and the  expectation mindset in gambling. Secondly, you approached it with a much cooler head, free of pressure and your luck started shining in no distant time,  this illustrates the much we can achieve when mental pressure its relegated.

It's like the casinos are wired to mess with the most active gamblers. I don't know, so far I can only find someone who has seen such before.

No,casinos are innocent of that allegations, those gambling addicts and irrational gamblers are the ones that mess with themselves, they implicate themselves and make gambling life a prison sentence for themselves. Naturally, too much of anything is bad and over indulgence in gambling isn't left out of it.

Has anyone had the same experience before?

Yes, as a converted gambling addict, I can't blame the casino for any of my mistakes, I take full responsibility for them and all my past mistakes and lost funds. The decision to quit gambling for a while and undergo some psychological and emotional healing helped me effect the change I so much desired tho be a better person.

[Odusko]

I am not clearly understanding what you mean by the longer you stay away from gambling the more positive it becomes when you gamble again, do you mean when you stay off gambling for a long time, it increases you winning chances and ability?
If yes then I will say that is not certain because you may still lose your first bet even though you stay away from gambling for a year it all depends on the amount of luck that is on your side to win.

[passwordnow]

Life coincidence and I think that reflection of yours is helping. If that's what you think is helpful to you as you gamble then keep on manifesting all of those good vibes that you're having. I thought that the title will speak for itself as I read this thread that includes the story of your success in gambling and everything that you've gone through but I was wrong. Well then, everyone who thinks that they should lie low in gambling and starts to forget a bit of it, good things comes to them because they've got more time to the other activities that they've left for gambling. And as they go back and don't take it seriously then they win and there's lesser pressure for their minds and that's all you need to do. Don't put yourself as if you're in a million dollar contest thinking of strategies with the luck based games that you're gambling with. You're just causing a mess to your head and will turn into a headache without even knowing that you've got some working strategy. It's not how it goes so, just be free, light and gamble as if you have nothing to worry about. But remember, you only gamble with the money that you can afford to lose.

[STT]

he got tired of gambling because it wasn't going his way but when he started talking it less seriously, that's when he started to get positive results.

Has anyone had the same experience before?

Sounds very familiar and correct.   You play loose you could also be more flexible less committed to mistakes made and agile for the win, it is ironic but that is life in general imo.     Stay rigid and every hit you take transmits the full damage and you are acting wounded still trying to recover into the rounds that follow.  The more concentrated and stressed you are the more fragile your position when playing, thats why I really try to say all experience helps towards a win regardless of size if you can play loose when big or small in your bet then it will become more likely you stay with a good level attitude.

  Stability is number one priority, balance will allow you to handle the loss and direct your plays to win more often on average.

[taufik123]

It's a kind of psychological influence that makes you look more interested when it comes to staying away from it,
but more and more disadvantages when playing it intensely.
But this depends on how you do it in each bet or game you play.

You should be aware that you are playing and risking the money you have, use an allocation that has been limited so that you don't lose it all.
I also do betting and slot games, but never commit the foolishness of risking all the money.

In the end, you will lose when you can't manage everything, when you lose with your psychology.
You need to be able to control how you are in gambling, how you use the funds for betting and for some games.

[Fivestar4everMVP]

I am not clearly understanding what you mean by the longer you stay away from gambling the more positive it becomes when you gamble again, do you mean when you stay off gambling for a long time, it increases you winning chances and ability?
If yes then I will say that is not certain because you may still lose your first bet even though you stay away from gambling for a year it all depends on the amount of luck that is on your side to win.

I think you clearly misunderstood the op, going by what I understand that he meant, he is actually saying that, when ever you begins to take gambling very serious, like he's gambling seriously possibly chasing after winnings as well as profit, that is when he begins to experience loses constantly and consistently.

But eventually when he gets tired of the whole thing and decided to stop, but still place a few bets once in a while, that is when he begins to win most of his games, like as if the casinos manipulating him in some way, which is, when ever he's careless about gambling, but still place a few bets, the casino will make him win those bets so as to get him to become more and more interested in gambling, and when eventually he becomes so interested and starts betting every time and day for profit, the casino will then make him to begin to lose, maybe as a way for them to recover the money they had previously gave him in winnings when he was not interested in gambling.

Now, do not misunderstand me, I am the one that came up with the casino thing, op didn't particularly said that, I just used that to better explain to you what op really meant by what he said.