Lies told to cover up gambling habit

[Reid]

That's unhealthy. But for men this is normal. We keep our secrets to ourselves that is why I am kind of curious on why this guy told  his secret on social media. Perhaps his wife won't know about it but still, it could become our weakness.
I tell my wife lies everyday but it's more of white lies, jokes, and made up stories. All of it has a reason and most of the time it's to make her smile or laugh. I don't like an environment with a heavy feeling. Lighter is better as it makes the whole house positive and it becomes a home.
When it comes to gambling, I don't tell lies because it's money related. As much as possible she would know how I spent the money.

[EluguHcman]

Hi gamblers, greetings to everyone..

So today, I was scrolling through my reddit feed, and I came across this post in the screenshot I share below..

There is nothing wrong about it as long as it is not one of a marital offence. It is just some source of where the guy derives fun which of course the wife may as well have Source by which she feels fun especially when the husband is not around.

I don't see gambling being an issue to a responsible married man as far as he is also doing the gambling stuffs in the responsible manner. So he can go ahead and tell the wife but should not make the wife feel that the bedtimes with Hera's claimed was not necessary or remarkable.

The wife on her own may even tend to also tell the husband probably that she enjoys doing the house chores especially dealing on the delicacies in a quiet time when alone.
So it does not make any offence of couple telling each other how they finds fun at their leisures.

[alastantiger]

Your neighbours are very lucky. It is not every man that has a great relationship with their spouse. Situations like are possible where the husband and wife have a good understanding and love eachother. They help, support and lookout for eachother. In gambling it is no different. We know that it is not all about playing slots, roullete and other casino games. Some spouse may also want to start a social media page on gambling, write a book about gambling and what have you. A supportive spouse makes everything easy.

[Zadicar]

That's unhealthy. But for men this is normal. We keep our secrets to ourselves that is why I am kind of curious on why this guy told  his secret on social media. Perhaps his wife won't know about it but still, it could become our weakness.
I tell my wife lies everyday but it's more of white lies, jokes, and made up stories. All of it has a reason and most of the time it's to make her smile or laugh. I don't like an environment with a heavy feeling. Lighter is better as it makes the whole house positive and it becomes a home.
When it comes to gambling, I don't tell lies because it's money related. As much as possible she would know how I spent the money.

There are really things which we cant really be able to tell into our wives on which it would really be that something that will really be that not healthy i should say specially if you do keep on hiding just because you are doing something that your wife doesnt known and its not something that i dont really like for me to do and it would be better that you should really be making out some confession that you've been dealing with gambling and this is something that you should really be doing in the first place.

Its really that totally different if you are living a life with your wife without having any secrets or any hiding on which you could really be freely and confidently be dealing up with things
as long you do say on what you are doing. Although there are really things which isnt really that needed to be told but keeping up secrets and making up some gambling or
those kind of behavior when you are on bathroom then this is an another story.

[Dailyscript]

That's unhealthy. But for men this is normal. We keep our secrets to ourselves that is why I am kind of curious on why this guy told  his secret on social media. Perhaps his wife won't know about it but still, it could become our weakness.
I tell my wife lies everyday but it's more of white lies, jokes, and made up stories. All of it has a reason and most of the time it's to make her smile or laugh. I don't like an environment with a heavy feeling. Lighter is better as it makes the whole house positive and it becomes a home.
When it comes to gambling, I don't tell lies because it's money related. As much as possible she would know how I spent the money.

Very sweet of you. At least you choose having a home rather than having a house filled with sad people. Gambling can twist someone who is sincere and honest into someone who wont stop telling lies everyday. And this is as a result of  gambling addiction or perhaps other gambling habit which has planted a negative seed in the heart of the gambler.

In my opinion i feel its normal telling your wife most things especially things that troubles you. Its biblical that the both of you are now one and to share in both pains and happiness. If one is certain in the kind of wife he has, he would have relief and good advice with support from his wife to quit some gambling habit.

[sompitonov]

Your neighbours are very lucky. It is not every man that has a great relationship with their spouse. Situations like are possible where the husband and wife have a good understanding and love eachother. They help, support and lookout for eachother. In gambling it is no different. We know that it is not all about playing slots, roullete and other casino games. Some spouse may also want to start a social media page on gambling, write a book about gambling and what have you. A supportive spouse makes everything easy.

The lie is simply needed so that the wife does not ask unnecessary questions and does not think that we are dependent. Therefore, our brain comes to such unusual simplification and cunning. If we tell the wife the truth, we can spend hours listening to questions from the wife. For example, why do we do this and play, where do we get the money to play and many other similar questions, there will be a thousand of them. Not everyone can stand it and decide to lie, although I never liked telling a lie to anyone in different situations. However, if the wife ultimately understands that we are lying to her and says that she is not against it, then she is the best

[DaNNy001]

Hi gamblers, greetings to everyone..

So today, I was scrolling through my reddit feed, and I came across this post in the screenshot I share below..


After reading that post, I quickly remembered what I did some years back when I was still pretty much new to gambling and was kind of obsessed with it at that time, I remember it was on Sunday late morning after we came back from church, I darely needed to play some gambling game, but the children were running around the house making lots of noise, the little one will not stop climbing me, we've already had breakfast and my wife was busy watching a movie.
I left her and the children in the sitting room, took my phone and laptop and went into our third room reserved for visitors and locked myself in there, and started gambling, I was playing slot and casino games, and in between, I was also analyzing some upcoming sports matches to find suitable ones to place bet on.

More than 1 hour later, my wife came looking for me, and possibly was surprised i locked myself in the guest room, she inquired to know why, I told her I was studying some very important course online, and needed no disturbance at all, that was why I went to the guest room, she stood there, whether she believed or not, I do not know, I just know that she went her way after some seconds 😂😂.

So, when I came across that post on reddit, I couldn't help but laugh really hard, and also imagined how many of us gamblers out there are telling one lie or the other just to cover up our gambling habit..

I have a friend who lost a huge amount of money to gambling, and returning home that night, he lied to his wife that he was robbed, when the woman (being suspecious) asked why he was not beaten by the robbers, he got angry at her and almost beat her that night 🤣.

Have you told any gambling related lie before? Please share, let's read and have fun.

Anything done while hiding or in the dark is something you are not proud of , if you can't gamble publicly it means you are not doing it to have fun, therefore it is an addiction.. hiding from people means that they know what you are always up to and try to put you under control, sometimes I wish I had someone looking over my shoulders like that but this is real life, I've realized that we are own hero..no one is coming to save you , you must learn to discipline yourself, you can be rich and have financial problems due to gambling.,

[Jody.Drummer]

Your neighbours are very lucky. It is not every man that has a great relationship with their spouse. Situations like are possible where the husband and wife have a good understanding and love eachother. They help, support and lookout for eachother. In gambling it is no different. We know that it is not all about playing slots, roullete and other casino games. Some spouse may also want to start a social media page on gambling, write a book about gambling and what have you. A supportive spouse makes everything easy.

The lie is simply needed so that the wife does not ask unnecessary questions and does not think that we are dependent. Therefore, our brain comes to such unusual simplification and cunning. If we tell the wife the truth, we can spend hours listening to questions from the wife. For example, why do we do this and play, where do we get the money to play and many other similar questions, there will be a thousand of them. Not everyone can stand it and decide to lie, although I never liked telling a lie to anyone in different situations. However, if the wife ultimately understands that we are lying to her and says that she is not against it, then she is the best

Yes, but actually the purpose of a wife asking you questions is for the best, in the sense that your wife doesn't want you to be involved in anything that is wasteful or negative, because of course your wife doesn't want to experience various bad things in her family relationships. But actually it's all up to you, because yes, I also understand that it's quite uncomfortable when our wives interfere too much with everything we do and of course maybe this is why there are some husbands who prefer to lie to their wives.

On the other hand, maybe I would say that it is not a problem for you to lie to your wife as long as you can really take care of everything well, in the sense of being able to manage and control your gambling activities well so that you can avoid indirect problems, of course. can affect the financial situation in your family relationships.

[CryptoHeadlineNews]

Your neighbours are very lucky. It is not every man that has a great relationship with their spouse. Situations like are possible where the husband and wife have a good understanding and love eachother. They help, support and lookout for eachother. In gambling it is no different. We know that it is not all about playing slots, roullete and other casino games. Some spouse may also want to start a social media page on gambling, write a book about gambling and what have you. A supportive spouse makes everything easy.

The lie is simply needed so that the wife does not ask unnecessary questions and does not think that we are dependent. Therefore, our brain comes to such unusual simplification and cunning. If we tell the wife the truth, we can spend hours listening to questions from the wife. For example, why do we do this and play, where do we get the money to play and many other similar questions,

And another of the question she is likely to ask is  "So I asked you for money you told me you don't have, and now you have gone to gamble with it", because inasmuch as you have a spouse who is supportive in the family, whenever it comes to gambling she will always want to feel jealous, most especially if you are losing more than you win in all your gambling games. So in such scenario, the best thing remains to just lie to her about what you are doing, because such lies done just not to make her feel you are a money wasted can never harm a relationship. But however, if you are a gambler who have been able to show great results about the big wins you won from gambling, I'm sure such spouse will always be supportive whenever she hears you talk about gambling.

[$weetne$$]

On the other hand, maybe I would say that it is not a problem for you to lie to your wife as long as you can really take care of everything well, in the sense of being able to manage and control your gambling activities well so that you can avoid indirect problems, of course. can affect the financial situation in your family relationships.

I think it is always going to be a problem when you lie in spite the fact that your lying is going to keep your secrets safe from your wife knowing. It Is still better you tell her the truth than to keeping lying and then it gets to a time that you can not keep the truth from her again when she finds out herself. She might divorce you but this time you will lose everything and even the chance to see your children again. When you have a problem, let your love ones to know so you guys can seek help and when they are by your side, you will be capable of overcoming any problem that you are passing through regardless of it being gambling addiction problems or other addictions. When you have an understanding wife, she is not going to get angry with you when you tell her the truth but look for solutions together as a family.

[Hispo]

It is not a personal experience I had myself, but it was something which happened to a close family member of mine: this family member had lost a significant amount of money while playing at dices, that certainly disturbed him much and when their mother asked him about the money he had (and he had already lost) he had to lie about it and also avoid the topic as long as possible... Anyways... I hope I will never be in a position I need to lie to someone I love because it messed up with gambling. That is one of the warning signs one is going through a bad path and the hobby is starting to devolve in something beyond control .

[klidex]

It is not a personal experience I had myself, but it was something which happened to a close family member of mine: this family member had lost a significant amount of money while playing at dices, that certainly disturbed him much and when their mother asked him about the money he had (and he had already lost) he had to lie about it and also avoid the topic as long as possible... Anyways... I hope I will never be in a position I need to lie to someone I love because it messed up with gambling. That is one of the warning signs one is going through a bad path and the hobby is starting to devolve in something beyond control .

When someone loses money due to their own carelessness, they usually lie to the people they love because to avoid mistakes and arguments that will occur, usually people like this will be increasingly in a corner with this situation, they may already be quite stressed because they have lost a lot of money, plus they have to Listening to other people blame him will make him even more burdened and depressed. However, things like this are not good. People who have a habit of lying will continue to do so and the impact will be that people will find it difficult to believe if one day they are found out if what they have said is not true, that is why we have to be open to our partners when it comes to the economy so that there is nothing to be suspicious about.

[Out of mind]

Suppose when I start gambling I must lie because when my family asks me about these things but I can't directly tell my family that I am involved in gambling. That's why I can't discuss these things with my family because my family will never accept my gambling rather they don't like gambling. Since they don't like gambling, when they ask me about my work, I have to tell them that I'm not playing online games or that I'm freelancing. That is, I have to hide so much from my family and play gambling.

You are right when gambling, one has to lie to the family all the time because it is impossible to tell directly. But responsible gamblers never lie but tell the truth. There are many families who depend on gambling for their livelihood. But most families don't support gambling rather they look down on it, and my family doesn't support gambling and doesn't like it. Therefore, if I gamble and my family asks me about the source of income, then I must resort to lies, there is no other way. However, it is normal to lie to family, but it is better to avoid lying to others than to friends. Rather, it is better to discuss the positive and negative aspects of gambling to them because there are many new gamblers who do not understand gambling, and they face many disadvantages. That is why one should not lie to the newbies but should make them aware of everything so that they do not suffer and become addicted.

[cryptoWODL]

Suppose when I start gambling I must lie because when my family asks me about these things but I can't directly tell my family that I am involved in gambling. That's why I can't discuss these things with my family because my family will never accept my gambling rather they don't like gambling. Since they don't like gambling, when they ask me about my work, I have to tell them that I'm not playing online games or that I'm freelancing. That is, I have to hide so much from my family and play gambling.

You are right when gambling, one has to lie to the family all the time because it is impossible to tell directly. But responsible gamblers never lie but tell the truth. There are many families who depend on gambling for their livelihood. But most families don't support gambling rather they look down on it, and my family doesn't support gambling and doesn't like it. Therefore, if I gamble and my family asks me about the source of income, then I must resort to lies, there is no other way. However, it is normal to lie to family, but it is better to avoid lying to others than to friends. Rather, it is better to discuss the positive and negative aspects of gambling to them because there are many new gamblers who do not understand gambling, and they face many disadvantages. That is why one should not lie to the newbies but should make them aware of everything so that they do not suffer and become addicted.

We all have to resort to lies to hide what is forbidden in the family and society. Gambling is almost forbidden in our society. As a result, it is natural for us gamblers to lie to our family members to cover up our gambling habits.
Moreover, gambling can never be a means of earning money either for an individual or a family. Nowadays gambling or casinos have spread to such an extent that many families support them and many families do not. But if the family members who are not supporting the amounts gamble and if the family wants to know about their source of income then they must lie because that activity is forbidden in their family.

There is a regional saying in our country that the fish is covered with vegetables. Just like we have to cover up our gambling habit with lies.

[danherbias07]

It is not a personal experience I had myself, but it was something which happened to a close family member of mine: this family member had lost a significant amount of money while playing at dices, that certainly disturbed him much and when their mother asked him about the money he had (and he had already lost) he had to lie about it and also avoid the topic as long as possible... Anyways... I hope I will never be in a position I need to lie to someone I love because it messed up with gambling. That is one of the warning signs one is going through a bad path and the hobby is starting to devolve in something beyond control .

The worst part is when we get used to that lying thing because we will keep on doing it and the trust within the family or your partner will be gone. Yes, it's better to just tell the truth and come up with an idea on how to bring back the money in a different way, not gambling anymore. I also have been in a situation where I lost a certain amount that I cannot hide and I told my wife about it. Luckily, the next day I got a max win that made her happy and that's when I tried to control my gambling habit using the profit an betting with just small bets.
The same as you, I don't want to be in that situation again because all stress has come up of my body and I cannot think straight after losing. I just got lucky in the end and I learned my lesson afterward.

[bering]

I think almost all of the husbands in the world have cover up their gambling habit to their family especially to their wifes this because the husbands fear their wifes will not accept their habit and it can be influence to their relationship so this is a normal thing done by everyone who has a family but i think has gambling habit is not matter as long as those people can responsible to their family and if there is any people who can able to do that i think they can life normally without having to fear that it will have a negative impact on his family

I have one example in my environment because a friend of mine has gambling habit for years and he can cover up his habit with very well without his family know about that this because before gambling he always prioritize his family needs first and until now he continues to live a normal life without fear that gambling will affect to his life

[betswift]

I think almost all of the husbands in the world have cover up their gambling habit to their family especially to their wifes this because the husbands fear their wifes will not accept their habit and it can be influence to their relationship so this is a normal thing done by everyone who has a family but i think has gambling habit is not matter as long as those people can responsible to their family and if there is any people who can able to do that i think they can life normally without having to fear that it will have a negative impact on his family

I have one example in my environment because a friend of mine has gambling habit for years and he can cover up his habit with very well without his family know about that this because before gambling he always prioritize his family needs first and until now he continues to live a normal life without fear that gambling will affect to his life

That's good of your friend, however, he would need to be cautious with it. He may be fine for now, but it doesn't mean he needs to cover up his habit. He just needs to take it as a hobby and talk about it in that same way. Being chill with it and using gambling to have some fun and joy wouldn't cause any bad looks from his relatives and such, if he is disciplined with it and uses the sums he would like to spend.

[Baki202]

That's unhealthy. But for men this is normal. We keep our secrets to ourselves that is why I am kind of curious on why this guy told  his secret on social media. Perhaps his wife won't know about it but still, it could become our weakness.
I tell my wife lies everyday but it's more of white lies, jokes, and made up stories. All of it has a reason and most of the time it's to make her smile or laugh. I don't like an environment with a heavy feeling. Lighter is better as it makes the whole house positive and it becomes a home.
When it comes to gambling, I don't tell lies because it's money related. As much as possible she would know how I spent the money.

Men often make excuses, especially when they have a gambling addiction. Furthermore, the majority of them always feel humiliated, especially when they bet and lose. As a result, they are accustomed to making up reasons when they don't win in order to hide their carelessness and gambling habit. The majority of intelligent people never disclose their gambling habits.Men often make excuses, especially when they have a gambling addiction. Furthermore, the majority of them always feel humiliated, especially when they bet and lose. As a result, they are accustomed to making up reasons when they don't win in order to hide their carelessness and gambling habit. The majority of intelligent people never disclose their gambling habits.

I don't think it's a smart idea to tell your wife. You understand how women are if you lose, they will always turn the situation to your advantage and find a way to assign you all the responsibility simply because you are gambling. Although I'm not married yet, if you are aware of my gambling addiction, we will eventually use it to evaluate you because we are the order. When you continually informing them about your winnings and gaming, I feel You should probably keep a lot of secrets because we all know that our wives are wealthy.

[ethereumhunter]

Suppose when I start gambling I must lie because when my family asks me about these things but I can't directly tell my family that I am involved in gambling. That's why I can't discuss these things with my family because my family will never accept my gambling rather they don't like gambling. Since they don't like gambling, when they ask me about my work, I have to tell them that I'm not playing online games or that I'm freelancing. That is, I have to hide so much from my family and play gambling.

You are right when gambling, one has to lie to the family all the time because it is impossible to tell directly. But responsible gamblers never lie but tell the truth. There are many families who depend on gambling for their livelihood. But most families don't support gambling rather they look down on it, and my family doesn't support gambling and doesn't like it. Therefore, if I gamble and my family asks me about the source of income, then I must resort to lies, there is no other way. However, it is normal to lie to family, but it is better to avoid lying to others than to friends. Rather, it is better to discuss the positive and negative aspects of gambling to them because there are many new gamblers who do not understand gambling, and they face many disadvantages. That is why one should not lie to the newbies but should make them aware of everything so that they do not suffer and become addicted.

If their family doesn't like gambling, that person can lie to their family because he doesn't want other people know that he likes playing gambling. He will lie more and more to his family and hides their gambling activity from other people and will only playing gambling if they are in their rooms. But if he decides to lie to his family, he can makes another lie to covers his previous lie and that will not be good for him.

But if people rely on gambling to feed their daily needs, they will not have a big chance to wins because that is gambling and not a work which can gives them salary. They can lie again to their family and saying that the money they gets from gambling is from other works. One lie will cover with other lies and that will stops until their family caught them that they lies to their family.

[betswift]

Suppose when I start gambling I must lie because when my family asks me about these things but I can't directly tell my family that I am involved in gambling. That's why I can't discuss these things with my family because my family will never accept my gambling rather they don't like gambling. Since they don't like gambling, when they ask me about my work, I have to tell them that I'm not playing online games or that I'm freelancing. That is, I have to hide so much from my family and play gambling.

You are right when gambling, one has to lie to the family all the time because it is impossible to tell directly. But responsible gamblers never lie but tell the truth. There are many families who depend on gambling for their livelihood. But most families don't support gambling rather they look down on it, and my family doesn't support gambling and doesn't like it. Therefore, if I gamble and my family asks me about the source of income, then I must resort to lies, there is no other way. However, it is normal to lie to family, but it is better to avoid lying to others than to friends. Rather, it is better to discuss the positive and negative aspects of gambling to them because there are many new gamblers who do not understand gambling, and they face many disadvantages. That is why one should not lie to the newbies but should make them aware of everything so that they do not suffer and become addicted.

If their family doesn't like gambling, that person can lie to their family because he doesn't want other people know that he likes playing gambling. He will lie more and more to his family and hides their gambling activity from other people and will only playing gambling if they are in their rooms. But if he decides to lie to his family, he can makes another lie to covers his previous lie and that will not be good for him.

But if people rely on gambling to feed their daily needs, they will not have a big chance to wins because that is gambling and not a work which can gives them salary. They can lie again to their family and saying that the money they gets from gambling is from other works. One lie will cover with other lies and that will stops until their family caught them that they lies to their family.

In my opinion, it's better to tell the truth from the get-go. That way, nobody will be hurt and everybody will be happy knowing there are no hidden doors from one another.