The moment we realized that we cannot function without the help of each other, then we will identify and know the value of each everyone around us, the government cannot lead all alone without the support of the people they govern, same also the people cannot live a coordinate live without the help of the government leadership, which also tells on how important everyone is and why we should value ourselves towards the realization of everyone's achievement of his or her goal in the society we lived in.
To me I don't realize the importance of others to be when they can help me to achieve a goal, I basically look at importance of others via their potentials on how they can impact the society and how we could network and drive utilizations amongst ourselves.
I hope not to rely on a man because they can fail you at a high emergency expectation.
We actually live for the sake of others because we can't do it all alone and that's why we needed leaders to govern us so that there could be well condonation just as you've pointed. The security agencies can't also do the security jobs all alone that's to say security and wellbeings in the society is everyone's concern to be prioritized.