I noticed nobody dont tell how nice process it was most of them tell how hard and painful it was.
Because we only want to hear the success stories and not how they've gone through with the hardships and pains that they've been with.
exactly , sometimes people are just interested in the success but not about the struggles and the hardship before attaining that level of fulfilment .
And as a listener, we feel encouraged and inspired with them but it stops only there because we don't want to go with the same process as hearing those stories will discourage us.
but depend in what or whom is listening , I believe that i must learn the hardway first then next thing is the success.
We don't think that such success needed to get through tough challenges but that's how the typical process is. So, we only want to hear what we wanna hear.
there are no speed dial in success, we cannot just rang a phone then boom we are successful because that is not the reality in life.