Electrum all the way, I haven't seen any other wallet that works best with Lightning network,
Take note that using the Lightning network on Electrum is not so newbie friendly, and since op is asking for a good ligtning wallet and how to use it, then i am sure op is a newbie when it comes to lightning, so Electrum may not be friendly enough for them to use.
another thing about Electrum is that it's also really safe to use as a wallet because it makes things much more safer for you since it's an open source wallet
In the link i posted in my earlier post in this topic, you can find other open source and self custodial lightning network wallets, and then select that which is suitable and friendly for you to use.
and it basically follows the fees in the mempool so you'd know that you're not going to be paying a lot of extra for your transaction fees.
It is always recommended to check the mempool before making a tx and not to depend on the estimation from your wallet software. However, when using the lightning network, you only have to pay on-chain fees for opening and closing channels, and then very low fees for your off-chain lightning tx's.