Do you mind being alone?

[shanhaigamefi]

I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows

[jrrsparkles]

I need some me time for whatever reason and being alone is the best remedy for it. And being alone is not really a bad thing it gives you some time to analyse about yourselves and make changes within you if you feel necessary and you have to accept the practicality everyone is alone in this world so don't expect someone to back you up at your hard times.

[rodskee]

All of  us wanted to be alone mate but you seems to be not loving that moment to think deeply
about what is the situation and what can be the better things to do upgrading what's in low because
 we cannot be with someone everyday or everytime mate because time will come that we will be lonely.
 maybe instead of feeling that mate> best to use this  situation to understand what is happening and
what will be your future.

[peter0425]

I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows

What have you done that it makes you feel bad when you think about it?

We all have bad disturbing thoughts we wish to ignore but personally I like being alone. I am someone who value my personal space and my personal time. Don’t get me wrong, I love spending time with family and friends but if I don’t have my own time where I can just sit down with my thoughts I fear I might go crazy.

[Andrearepap]

It sounds like you're using distractions to avoid facing tough thoughts when you're alone. It's pretty common, but it might help to try small steps like journaling, mindfulness, or finding a hobby you love. Talking to a therapist can also be a great way to get support.

[kotajikikox]

I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows

Same here. The silence bothers me and I always need to be constantly stimulated either by audio or visual. I guess it has something to do with environmental factors as I was growing up. It doesn’t have anything to do with not wanting to think but more of a comfort that I crave a lot, I’d say. However if you are distracting yourself through busying yourself then it might actually be a lot deeper than you might realize.

[GideonGono]

Nope, I don't mind being alone in fact I prefer to be alone most of the time.
I enjoy it and somehow it helps me clear my mind and relax.
I am not against being in a crowded place or meeting people, it is just that I only hang out to the people that I really like or comfortable with.

[nngella]

I think it is not that being alone, it is the state of loneliness that we are afraid of.  You can be alone but secured at the same time that people love you.  However, loneliness is a different case.  It is a state wherein you think that you cannot find company in other people - no connection.

[cute nmp]

Not at all Mosttimes i prefer to stay alone without any disturbance at all. We don't need noisy environments all the time

[boyptc]

I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows

I think everyone has the same situation.

I want to be alone as well but when you start a family, your me time is going to be occasional. Most of your time will be dedicated to your family and even with your work, you need to weigh things.

But if you have spare time and all you do is watch tv shows and scroll on your phone, that's fine if that's what is giving you a emotional heal.

Just do remember that too much in everything is bad.

[BADecker]

Do you mind being alone?


If you were a bad child, your Mommy might tell you to go to your room with no TV, Internet, or cellphone use. How many kids listen to their Mom and do what she says. They might go to their room, but the next thing you know is, they are on the Internet, or watching TV.

So, do you really mind, when you are alone?

[moneystery]

I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows

that means you need to check what is wrong with you or you are addicted to the device. because if it were a normal person, they would not be afraid to feel alone because they feel that it is normal and don't mind it too much, let alone being afraid to face themselves. even when they don't have a device to play or watch, they will still be normal, at most they will find something to do whether reading the newspaper, sleeping, or enjoying coffee while looking at the morning/evening sky.

[bluebit25]

I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows

So perhaps you lose the present with the past or daydream about the future. No matter the situation, for me every moment of life is wonderful, being alone is okay because it is not synonymous with loneliness (in other aspects, loneliness also appears as happiness lost in the crowd)

I have quite a lot of things I can do while I'm alone like reading books, listening to music, watching movies, working, drawing, meditating,... there are really a lot of things I can do when I'm alone. don't bother anyone. Maybe I always feel complete with this life, even when facing challenges in life, I want to solve them myself.

[Uhwuchukwu53]

Loneliness is very bad but certain condition need such but for more proficiency in advancing in knowledge and others thing's one can't do completely been lonely because certain situations need people idea to move forward. I don't like being lonely in some extend but I restrict my self form certain crowed that may not be of help why associating to avoid being lonely.

Loneliness is dangerous example one with some illness don't need to be lonely as help may be necessary to avert sudden death where he can't help it's self. To be lonely is good and also bad others may but me I can't I tried been moderate by balancing my loneliness to associate with relevant friend.

[Filippo Spina]

I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows

That means you are holding on to the past. Kind of unrelated to hating being alone, as isolating in a positive way can lead to pretty good outcomes. For example, isolating for 5 or 10 mins away from a crowd is much more healthier than going full rambo and living in the woods to make a point XD.

I get what you mean about facing what you've done...truly I do. One of the worst parts about being alone is that you have nothing but the voices in your head, whether it's yours, God's, or haunting memories from your past. Doomscrolling is a super common response to being alone, as our phone is a window into the world we can hide behind the screen with. I highly suggest avoiding doing this, because it will just drive negative feelings further. All you see on social media is the "best" parts of peoples lives, and when you aren't at your best, that can be intimidating, daunting, depressing, etc.

[bitterguy28]

I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows

I believe this is about our bring up , how we are being raised because like me that starts being alone since childhood I mean in night time that we need to sleep in our own rooms , we are going to school all by ourself.

Have you been with your parents since child?

[spindotbetcasino]

I hate being alone. When I'm alone, it forces me to face myself and think about what I've done. So when I'm by myself, I constantly scroll through my phone or aimlessly watch TV shows

I do think being alone is a great way to relax and reset. When you only have to worry about no one but yourself, that's a great way to unwind. But too much alone time can lead to loneliness as I do think we are built to socialize and have human interaction. Finding that balance is up to you, however.

[Cityhunter34]

Loneliness is very bad but certain condition need such but for more proficiency in advancing in knowledge and others thing's one can't do completely been lonely because certain situations need people idea to move forward. I don't like being lonely in some extend but I restrict my self form certain crowed that may not be of help why associating to avoid being lonely.

Loneliness is dangerous example one with some illness don't need to be lonely as help may be necessary to avert sudden death where he can't help it's self. To be lonely is good and also bad others may but me I can't I tried been moderate by balancing my loneliness to associate with relevant friend.

Honestly speaking loneliness is very dangerous to human being because when you are always lonely you see that your mind wouldn't be at rest that's why is not good to be lonely, although it can lead someone into early grave, however I think it's very necessary for us to always try as much as possible to stay with people because once you are with someone talking and laughing, chisting you we noticed that if you have anything in your mind that is burdring you at moments it we fanish.

[mich]

No I do not mind if I am going to be alone. It is a time for me to be in peaceful mind and not to worry about other things in my life.
If I am lonely well then i can text somebody or make a phone call to them. And I will not make my self addicted to my phones and other devices. 

[Betwrong]

I depends on the period of time, you are spending being alone. Anyone can bear a week or two, I think, but it's more than that it starts becoming problematic.