Reasons why people get addicted to gambling have been discussed many times before and they truth is many people think differently for themselves, they think they are special that what happened to other gamblers can't happen to them, until they end up with the same result, gambling isn't something I can control, instead I follow a safer procedure.
I throw money here and there, always, and I've never feel like I must win when gambling, if you know what gambling truly means you won't want to force your way, in your life time you might never have anything to show for that you earned through gambling, it is what it is, simply a game of luck.
I have never expected anything great from gambling, the meaning is enough for me to look else where if I really want results, gambling is mostly disappoint you, its Better to not rely too much on gambling, risk only what you can afford to lose and if you ever get lucky always learn to take your rewards and come back some other day.
Nice point mate, most folks always have this high expectation in gambling in hitting something huge oneday. though it may seems possible , but you still got to mind the way you approach it , because approaching gambling the wrong way may lead to one ruining his live one way to another, like at first we all know that gambling is not a means to get rich quick despite seeing others showcasing their wins through many means. And most time why they usually endup with such huge wins (if luck where on their side), is because of the amount of money they normally make use of during their gambling sections , and that same amount of money may be the amount of money they can afford to lose. so for you to go all in as an irresponsible gambler after encounting others showcasing their wins , is better to stake that you can afford lose and approach gambling the right way.