I'm using Bitcoin Core.
It's an address from long time ago with quite a few transactions (I used to play and participated in a lot of bitcoin marketplace for fun when I was in college). The total transaction total size came up to 17243 bytes. So, even with 1/vKB, transaction fee came up to 0.00017243 BTC. Left the BTC marketplace since then; therefore wallet has a small amount.
When I make the recent transfer out, I used the total amount minus the fee with $0.00000000 left in the wallet. Therefore, RBF (replace-by-fee) or increasing the fee is not an option because the wallet essentially has 0 satoshi left.
I haven't been using / following BTC besides the brief period in the early days (without aging myself) and totally unfamiliar with most of the terminologies. I apologize. Therefore, I'm not sure how else (besides waiting) for the return and re-issue the transaction. Anywhere anyone can point me to request for the return would be great.
Thank you
Cancelling a transaction is the same process as double spending it to the destination address, you bump the fee and spend it back to your wallet and in the end only enrich the miners and achieve nothing, so its better to bump the fee and send it to the destination address, but in the case of OP, he has literally no spare and he would have to wait for as long as it takes for it to drop back to the wallet if at all it would happen, unless he deposits some coins into the wallet to bump the fee, but in his case it makes no sense since the funds he is sending across is very little.
Exactly the situation. Don't know how to thumbs up; but, appreciate the understanding.
Hence, the conundrum. And function of BTC besides an invest-able asset class. The early original idea of replacing fiat is not feasible.