It is worth noting that one member claimed Theymos paid him to police the new DT system until he was "shit canned". The DT system is now one of the best tools in determining if a user will run away with your coins.
Let's just pretend to not know who this user is or perhaps, we could act like we ain't even read a post like this?.. maybe..
The last line of your post bothers me alot; unless you were referring to situations of being escrows etc, anyone could decide to act weird! Seen a couple of trusted people zoom off with $450 non-colleteral loan... That's a little piece, but a huge loss to the merchant.
Luckily my wife has mostly recovered from it. I have some permanent damage from covid, but it is a cosmetic issue which if you really read the wall observer thread I mention the cosmetic damage I have.
I'm sorry about your health ... Yeah, you didn't say that to attract pity whatsoever, but whatever it takes, just take good care of yourself, wife and family.