So my questions are, how does the whole wallet thing work?
As a brand new user, the easiest wallet to get up and running with quickly is
https://blockchain.info/walletOn that site you are able to set up Two Factor Authorization, choose your own password, and receive a backup of your wallet so you can still access your bitcoins if the website disappears. Eventually, you will want to take the time to research some of your other options and make decisions about increased security. Some wallets to look into are:
- Armory
- Bitcoin Core
- Electrum
- MultiBit
Can I just get a wallet from anywhere? Will it be secure?
No. There are many scammers in the world. Some will have created very "official" looking wallets that will steal your bitcoins. You should make sure that any wallet you choose is open source, and well known enough for the source code to have been reviewed by multiple bitcoin experts. Then you should make sure you know the proper location to download the wallet. If you choose to download a complied and ready to install wallet, it would be good to understand how to confirm the digital signatures or checksums of the wallet.
Also, can I buy Bitcoins with a debit card?
This will be difficult, time consuming, and expensive.
Debit card transactions are reversible. You could be a scammer or thief and using a debit card number that is not yours. When the real owner of the debit card calls the bank and complains, the bank will take the payment back from the person or company that supplied the bitcoins. Then they will have neither bitcoins nor cash. Most bitcoin holders are aware of this risk, and will therefore refuse to deal with someone that wants to pay with a reversible payment method.
Your best option for using a debit card would be to withdraw the cash from the account. There are several non-reversible payment options once you have cash:
- Purchase a USPS Money Order and mail it to the bitcoin seller
- Mail the cash to the bitcoin seller
- Send the payment with Western Union
- Send the payment with MoneyGram
- Purchase a GreenDot MoneyPak, Gift Card, or other non-reversible payment card
- Meet with the seller and hand the the cash.
If so, how do I buy Bitcoins with a debit card?
As you've already discovered, Virwox is probably your best option if you absolutely insist on using a debit card.
I almost forgot... how long does this process usually take for a first time member? Is there a waiting time?
I've never used Virwox, so I don't know how long that process takes, but I wouldn't expect it to be fast or convenient.
Is there an easier way...or is this my best bet?
For debit card, that's probably your best bet.
As for an easier way, don't use a debit card. I've listed several other options above. You can find sellers that will accept cash, USPS Money Orders, Western Union, MoneyGram, and non-reversible payment cards at localbitcoins.com or in the "Currency Exchange" sub forum here.