Gambling as an escape

[Jody.Drummer]

The desire to get a win to cover the losses that occur can happen whenever they gamble even though they have good self-control, it does not completely close them from being able to gamble well, sometimes disappointing results can affect their own feelings until there is a feeling to gamble regularly and ignore the risk side which is actually the most certain thing to happen.
The right choice and advice when we are in a bad condition such as being stressed, we should not visit the casino because even though we can take pleasure in this, considering the risk is greater and can make us addicted and lose a lot of money and experience other bad effects, after all, prevention is better than cure, right?

That is true because we can lose our self control in gambling anytime so that is why we must be careful when playing gambling. We can not let ourselves gets deeper in gambling after we use gambling as an escape from the reality because that will makes us forget what we need to do. Gambling tempting people to stay for a long time by playing more gambling games so we will ignore the risk inside gambling and we lose our money.

If we are stress, we don't have to visit the casino instead just calm down ourselves by relaxing with other activities such as walking in our city or the best thing is just sleep. If we decide to playing gambling while we stress, that will makes us losing our self control and will frustrate if we lose for some money. We need to anticipate that for ourselves so we must know how to stay away from gambling and not use it as an escape.

Therefore, we should always consider the actions or decisions we will take, and make sure we are ready for the possible results that are disappointing, do not let the results that tend to be disappointing make us want to chase or recover losses because it tends to only make us addicted. Gambling itself can indeed make us addicted, even though those who gamble with the aim of having fun are sometimes tempted to play gambling longer.
Good advice, when we are stressed, it is better for us to find activities that we like with the aim of making us calmer, for example by finding a comfortable place for reflection or others, but with those who take the option of gambling for escape I think it will not be completely successful and will not go well completely.

[ethereumhunter]

Therefore, we should always consider the actions or decisions we will take, and make sure we are ready for the possible results that are disappointing, do not let the results that tend to be disappointing make us want to chase or recover losses because it tends to only make us addicted. Gambling itself can indeed make us addicted, even though those who gamble with the aim of having fun are sometimes tempted to play gambling longer.
Good advice, when we are stressed, it is better for us to find activities that we like with the aim of making us calmer, for example by finding a comfortable place for reflection or others, but with those who take the option of gambling for escape I think it will not be completely successful and will not go well completely.

If we can realize as what you said, I am sure that many people will not use gambling as an escape because they will think that they will lose more money. Many people chase their losses in gambling so that will be our reason to stay away from the big lose and not tempting from the offers from the casino easily. We should know that when we are stress, we must not doing something that can makes us sadly but we must search for the activities that can makes us becomes happy and can move on from the bad things. They must know that using gambling for escape will difficult to win and when they lose, that will just gives more disappointed to them.

[Finestream]

I totally get how gambling can sometimes turn into a communal activity, especially in unique cultural settings like funerals. In my experience, I’ve never seen gambling directly tied to grieving or somber events, but I’ve played casually during family gatherings or just to lighten the mood during stressful times. It’s kind of fascinating to hear people use it as a comforting ritual or, in some cases, a means to help with financial needs during tough times. I guess everyone has their own way of coping or finding connection.

In my country, some gamblers make use of the funeral as business. They set up table games and give some commission to the bereaved family. For a poor family, this seems to be a huge help, and so they allow it. 

We might say this is an old tradition because ancient people did this as their normal activities. Unfortunately, what happens now is quite different and not looking good anymore, as people just gather not to give sympathy to the family but just to gamble. 

[Tungbulu]

In my country, some gamblers make use of the funeral as business. They set up table games and give some commission to the bereaved family. For a poor family, this seems to be a huge help, and so they allow it. 

We might say this is an old tradition because ancient people did this as their normal activities. Unfortunately, what happens now is quite different and not looking good anymore, as people just gather not to give sympathy to the family but just to gamble. 

People will always have a way of abusing something that’s been a good tradition, especially when they have something to gain or benefit from it. I’ve heard of this same thing somewhere and i personally think it’s quite a great initiative and a also a great way of offering condolences to the bereaved families, but it’s such a shame that people are now abusing it and using it for their own selfish interests, they forget why the activity was first introduced in the first place and are now after what they stand to gain, it’s such a shame.

[Pandorak]

In my country, some gamblers make use of the funeral as business. They set up table games and give some commission to the bereaved family. For a poor family, this seems to be a huge help, and so they allow it. 

We might say this is an old tradition because ancient people did this as their normal activities. Unfortunately, what happens now is quite different and not looking good anymore, as people just gather not to give sympathy to the family but just to gamble. 

I just found out that there is such a thing, if it happens as you say of course it is not a problem although in general if someone dies it will definitely be a very sad moment especially for the family who comes to the funeral, they must be in a very sick state because this is the moment to let go of the family who died forever, but this is not a problem if you have received direct permission from the family especially if you can help by giving a relatively large amount of money.

Although it's rare nowadays, i'm sure there are many people in the past who allowed gambling at their family funerals because it would really help the economy of the family left behind.

[Etranger]

People's attitudes are unlikely to change because gambling advertising is very common, and casinos are advertised by various bloggers, telegram channels and even some journalists who do not seem to represent the gambling sphere in their activities, but still act as mouthpieces of the fact that gambling is a way to make good money. And that it is very cool and it is definitely worth trying your strength and luck.

the main problem is that betting often becomes compulsive and not because you like doing it
people get caught up in the gambling frenzy, convinced that they can play and win and therefore lose money
even the bonuses they give you serve perfectly to make you play and get into the mood of spending money in order to win them

Well, actually, I wouldn't say that bonuses keep the attention on the game that much. Basically, they can't be withdrawn without wagering x1.5-2, and so people play because there is no other choice. But these bonuses are easier to lose than to win something with them. I think it would be more effective for the casino to give bonuses that can be withdrawn without any conditions and requirements. This would show the casino's trust in users and give them some leeway to make free decisions. And in these conditions, people would be more willing to play, since it would be their own decision, and not a condition of the casino.

[Richbased]

I totally get how gambling can sometimes turn into a communal activity, especially in unique cultural settings like funerals. In my experience, I’ve never seen gambling directly tied to grieving or somber events, but I’ve played casually during family gatherings or just to lighten the mood during stressful times. It’s kind of fascinating to hear people use it as a comforting ritual or, in some cases, a means to help with financial needs during tough times. I guess everyone has their own way of coping or finding connection.

In my country, some gamblers make use of the funeral as business. They set up table games and give some commission to the bereaved family. For a poor family, this seems to be a huge help, and so they allow it. 

We might say this is an old tradition because ancient people did this as their normal activities. Unfortunately, what happens now is quite different and not looking good anymore, as people just gather not to give sympathy to the family but just to gamble. 

In this case, they have made gambling become more like fun actually because imagine playing gambling and giving the bereaved family the commissions that comes from the gambling, such a fun fact. The commission that the bereaved family will get from the gambling activities can be of great help and relief to them especially when they are not financially equipped. It's unfortunate that those old tradition has gone into extinction and most people are more concerned about themselves when they gamble in funeral events now. No more gambling commission for the bereaved family as gamblers who comes to the funeral are only after their personal benefits from gambling activities they engage in.

[LUCKMCFLY]

Escaping from reality and only use gambling to forget what we face will not solve our problem because that can gives more problems than we thinks. When we want to playing gambling, we must make sure that we are in a normal condition and not thinks much about gambling so we can release our stress in busy day and enjoy the games. But we must know that playing gambling needs to have responsibility so we can use gambling to have fun while we have  a spare time.

It may be like that, but it works for me personally, sometimes I have so many things on my mind that playing is like therapeutic, it has a positive effect, of course this is how I free myself from the current situation, for me it's similar to when I go to the football stadium to sit with my team, it's a different environment, one de-stresses, my worries are different and that can turn into fun for me, the problem that could be caused by making this into a game is not controlling oneself, but since before playing I have money available that I can lose, there's no problem.

[uneng]

It may be like that, but it works for me personally, sometimes I have so many things on my mind that playing is like therapeutic, it has a positive effect, of course this is how I free myself from the current situation, for me it's similar to when I go to the football stadium to sit with my team, it's a different environment, one de-stresses, my worries are different and that can turn into fun for me, the problem that could be caused by making this into a game is not controlling oneself, but since before playing I have money available that I can lose, there's no problem.

When gambling becomes a mean to escape from the stress of daily life there aren't any issues in placing some bets around. As you said, it's therapeutic. The real problem begins when the individual aims to escape from a situation he has to solve in life, but he doesn't want to, so he keeps procrastinating it, or when gambling is being used to escape from the negative emotions of a frustration or previous trauma faced along the life.

Addictions in general are used as mean to escape from aversive feelings, emotions and memories, therefore, with gambling it's not different. If people were more sincere to their selves and conscious of their real needs and aspirations in life, we would see less cases of addiction in the world.

[ethereumhunter]

It may be like that, but it works for me personally, sometimes I have so many things on my mind that playing is like therapeutic, it has a positive effect, of course this is how I free myself from the current situation, for me it's similar to when I go to the football stadium to sit with my team, it's a different environment, one de-stresses, my worries are different and that can turn into fun for me, the problem that could be caused by making this into a game is not controlling oneself, but since before playing I have money available that I can lose, there's no problem.

If you are stress and go to the football stadium to sit with your team and yell for them or do something fun, that will help you to release your stress. But if you go to casino and play gambling and lose after playing for half an hour, you will difficult to release your stress because of your losses. It is because your mind can not accept your losses easily and you come to casino wants to release your stress and wins some money. But rather than winning the money, you even loss your money without having a chance to recover your losses or win the money. So you are free to do other things besides of gambling to escape from your reality so you can release your stress. But if you still wants to use gambling as an escape, that will be up to you

[tread93]

It may be like that, but it works for me personally, sometimes I have so many things on my mind that playing is like therapeutic, it has a positive effect, of course this is how I free myself from the current situation, for me it's similar to when I go to the football stadium to sit with my team, it's a different environment, one de-stresses, my worries are different and that can turn into fun for me, the problem that could be caused by making this into a game is not controlling oneself, but since before playing I have money available that I can lose, there's no problem.

If you are stress and go to the football stadium to sit with your team and yell for them or do something fun, that will help you to release your stress. But if you go to casino and play gambling and lose after playing for half an hour, you will difficult to release your stress because of your losses. It is because your mind can not accept your losses easily and you come to casino wants to release your stress and wins some money. But rather than winning the money, you even loss your money without having a chance to recover your losses or win the money. So you are free to do other things besides of gambling to escape from your reality so you can release your stress. But if you still wants to use gambling as an escape, that will be up to you

I think that I am definitely liking the sound of the football staduim much much more rather than the casino. If you're betting on a match at least you have the gratification of enjoying it over just sitting in some dim lit room with a bunch of other folks who are probably half drunk and all gambling their money aimlessly to try and win something or catch a rare streak of luck in many cases, unless you're on a wild streak!!! Definitely a possibility haha

[Jody.Drummer]

Therefore, we should always consider the actions or decisions we will take, and make sure we are ready for the possible results that are disappointing, do not let the results that tend to be disappointing make us want to chase or recover losses because it tends to only make us addicted. Gambling itself can indeed make us addicted, even though those who gamble with the aim of having fun are sometimes tempted to play gambling longer.
Good advice, when we are stressed, it is better for us to find activities that we like with the aim of making us calmer, for example by finding a comfortable place for reflection or others, but with those who take the option of gambling for escape I think it will not be completely successful and will not go well completely.

If we can realize as what you said, I am sure that many people will not use gambling as an escape because they will think that they will lose more money. Many people chase their losses in gambling so that will be our reason to stay away from the big lose and not tempting from the offers from the casino easily. We should know that when we are stress, we must not doing something that can makes us sadly but we must search for the activities that can makes us becomes happy and can move on from the bad things. They must know that using gambling for escape will difficult to win and when they lose, that will just gives more disappointed to them.

That's right, because many cases of big losses with more money lost are because they can't consider what they will do by usually only thinking about what to do without thinking about the risks that could happen in the future. Gambling in my opinion is something that clearly has a big risk, and it is not natural to do it when we are not in a good condition. Why are we looking for an escape? because at this time we are in a bad condition and we are looking for an escape to make us better instead of making things worse, with gambling maybe it can make some of them better but I myself think the bigger chance is that it can make their situation even more messy.

[EarnOnVictor]

In my country, some gamblers make use of the funeral as business. They set up table games and give some commission to the bereaved family. For a poor family, this seems to be a huge help, and so they allow it. 

We might say this is an old tradition because ancient people did this as their normal activities. Unfortunately, what happens now is quite different and not looking good anymore, as people just gather not to give sympathy to the family but just to gamble. 

People will always have a way of abusing something that’s been a good tradition, especially when they have something to gain or benefit from it. I’ve heard of this same thing somewhere and i personally think it’s quite a great initiative and a also a great way of offering condolences to the bereaved families, but it’s such a shame that people are now abusing it and using it for their own selfish interests, they forget why the activity was first introduced in the first place and are now after what they stand to gain, it’s such a shame.

I often wonder if people do not have any human feelings again, the desperation for money is too much. If it can reach the level of using the funeral service to arrange the means by which they can make money, they can do worse terribly thing to make money. This is a selfish interest and I wonder why the bereaved allows it if not for poverty and I am sure the organizers will pocket the most of the money. I so much blame those who are participating in such betting, they could have just donated to the bereaved family honourably.

[gunhell16]

The desire to get a win to cover the losses that occur can happen whenever they gamble even though they have good self-control, it does not completely close them from being able to gamble well, sometimes disappointing results can affect their own feelings until there is a feeling to gamble regularly and ignore the risk side which is actually the most certain thing to happen.
The right choice and advice when we are in a bad condition such as being stressed, we should not visit the casino because even though we can take pleasure in this, considering the risk is greater and can make us addicted and lose a lot of money and experience other bad effects, after all, prevention is better than cure, right?

That is true because we can lose our self control in gambling anytime so that is why we must be careful when playing gambling. We can not let ourselves gets deeper in gambling after we use gambling as an escape from the reality because that will makes us forget what we need to do. Gambling tempting people to stay for a long time by playing more gambling games so we will ignore the risk inside gambling and we lose our money.

If we are stress, we don't have to visit the casino instead just calm down ourselves by relaxing with other activities such as walking in our city or the best thing is just sleep. If we decide to playing gambling while we stress, that will makes us losing our self control and will frustrate if we lose for some money. We need to anticipate that for ourselves so we must know how to stay away from gambling and not use it as an escape.

Therefore, we should always consider the actions or decisions we will take, and make sure we are ready for the possible results that are disappointing, do not let the results that tend to be disappointing make us want to chase or recover losses because it tends to only make us addicted. Gambling itself can indeed make us addicted, even though those who gamble with the aim of having fun are sometimes tempted to play gambling longer.
Good advice, when we are stressed, it is better for us to find activities that we like with the aim of making us calmer, for example by finding a comfortable place for reflection or others, but with those who take the option of gambling for escape I think it will not be completely successful and will not go well completely.

You have a point in saying this dude, I admit it, I often say that I only gamble for fun, but even though my money is limited, I still think sometimes that I might get lucky and win big.

But this is just a passing thought in my mind, because once my limits are exhausted, I actually stop because I'm used to it.

[LUCKMCFLY]

Addictions in general are used as mean to escape from aversive feelings, emotions and memories, therefore, with gambling it's not different. If people were more sincere to their selves and conscious of their real needs and aspirations in life, we would see less cases of addiction in the world.

Indeed, it is as you say, but to be good with yourself and have control over everything you have to do only one thing, control the money you are going to spend at the casino and if you spend it, then respect not to put more money into the game, that is the secret, that is where emotions are controlled, instincts are controlled, absolutely everything is controlled, because reason is above feelings and emotions, which affects anyone, but controlling money no longer affects it and addiction would not exist, that is why I insist so much that players apply it.

[madnessteat]

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If reason prevailed over feelings, we would not see a huge number of addicted people, and not only in the field of gambling. Only a small part of gamblers can really control their compulsive desires, imposed by the release of dopamine, adrenaline and other hormones and neurotransmitters. Most can control themselves before and after the gambling session, and during the gambling session succumb to temptation. This is the way the human body works and it is difficult to cope with it, especially if a person has a predisposition to addiction on a psychological level.   

[Frankolala]

I totally get how gambling can sometimes turn into a communal activity, especially in unique cultural settings like funerals. In my experience, I’ve never seen gambling directly tied to grieving or somber events, but I’ve played casually during family gatherings or just to lighten the mood during stressful times. It’s kind of fascinating to hear people use it as a comforting ritual or, in some cases, a means to help with financial needs during tough times. I guess everyone has their own way of coping or finding connection.

In my country, some gamblers make use of the funeral as business. They set up table games and give some commission to the bereaved family. For a poor family, this seems to be a huge help, and so they allow it. 

We might say this is an old tradition because ancient people did this as their normal activities. Unfortunately, what happens now is quite different and not looking good anymore, as people just gather not to give sympathy to the family but just to gamble. 

Damn it...seems like funeral in your country is an opportunity for people to gamble publicly without thinking of the harm it will cause to the younger ones in that vicinity. This means that during funerals, making money is the aim to assemble and sympathize with the bereaved. It means that your tradition encourages gambling to the core.

[LUCKMCFLY]

If reason prevailed over feelings, we would not see a huge number of addicted people, and not only in the field of gambling. Only a small part of gamblers can really control their compulsive desires, imposed by the release of dopamine, adrenaline and other hormones and neurotransmitters. Most can control themselves before and after the gambling session, and during the gambling session succumb to temptation. This is the way the human body works and it is difficult to cope with it, especially if a person has a predisposition to addiction on a psychological level.   

It is a fact that it is like that, but there are strategies to help, my technique is very helpful, when the person is fit it has to be treated quickly, the idea is to get out of that problem, that illness has to be attacked quickly so that the person does not lose control of their life, some lose everything, family and many things, it is always good to have help in particular.

Here it is good to share this type of experiences because we do not know how many people are in that situation, and when they read something like that they can identify and if what we talk about helps in part we are doing this well, that is why I always recommend before playing to know how much money we are willing to spend and from there no more.

[Jody.Drummer]

Therefore, we should always consider the actions or decisions we will take, and make sure we are ready for the possible results that are disappointing, do not let the results that tend to be disappointing make us want to chase or recover losses because it tends to only make us addicted. Gambling itself can indeed make us addicted, even though those who gamble with the aim of having fun are sometimes tempted to play gambling longer.
Good advice, when we are stressed, it is better for us to find activities that we like with the aim of making us calmer, for example by finding a comfortable place for reflection or others, but with those who take the option of gambling for escape I think it will not be completely successful and will not go well completely.

You have a point in saying this dude, I admit it, I often say that I only gamble for fun, but even though my money is limited, I still think sometimes that I might get lucky and win big.

But this is just a passing thought in my mind, because once my limits are exhausted, I actually stop because I'm used to it.

It's okay like that, besides with your limited money it's good and you yourself must be able to limit your own gambling, don't let it be that when the limited money runs out you want to deposit money again to gamble again, when the money runs out you must stop not to gamble again in any way, especially by borrowing money, that's the wrong way. And thinking that sometimes we will be lucky to get a win is a natural thing but what must be considered is not to chase luck that we don't know when it will happen.
Maintain your habits like this, and if you have friends who like to gamble, maybe you can remind your friends not to gamble excessively and can gamble like you do with strictly set limits.

[ethereumhunter]

I think that I am definitely liking the sound of the football staduim much much more rather than the casino. If you're betting on a match at least you have the gratification of enjoying it over just sitting in some dim lit room with a bunch of other folks who are probably half drunk and all gambling their money aimlessly to try and win something or catch a rare streak of luck in many cases, unless you're on a wild streak!!! Definitely a possibility haha

You are right because the sound of the football stadium make us exciting watching our favorite team match. We can join with other people who have the same team and supports our team together. With that way, we will found a different experience rather than drunk and bet without any reason. That will make us can not leave the place even if we have something to do. We must avoid that habit so we will not getting deeper in gambling like other people.

That's right, because many cases of big losses with more money lost are because they can't consider what they will do by usually only thinking about what to do without thinking about the risks that could happen in the future. Gambling in my opinion is something that clearly has a big risk, and it is not natural to do it when we are not in a good condition. Why are we looking for an escape? because at this time we are in a bad condition and we are looking for an escape to make us better instead of making things worse, with gambling maybe it can make some of them better but I myself think the bigger chance is that it can make their situation even more messy.

They just gamble without thinking about tomorrow and not realize that gambling can not be an escape from the reality. Sometimes we are looking for an escape because we don't want to do something that look bored so we do other things such as playing gambling but we don't realize that playing gambling needs moderation to enjoy the games. If they know that playing gambling have a big risk, they will not do that very often and just use gambling for occasionally with the money they can afford to lose. They will not use gambling as an escape but use other things that will gives fun to them.