Why do some rich men deprive wife from working?

[virasog]

So guys what are your thoughts on this? Let's have a discuss here.

If I had so much money and have some investment that can take care of my family if I die, my wife will not work. She would be at home and focus on raising the children. Childraising is a full time job because children needs to be guided and cared for almost althrough the day. They reason why most women work is to support their husbands financially. If the family have a good financial backup most men will not allow their wives to work.  

Usually men would want their wife to work either because there is some financial crisis or if the wife is herself willing to work, then let her work. Otherwise a person who is financial independent would never want her wife to work. He can provide everything to her and keep her save in his home. What else a girl need?

Also the wife who is the mother also, should give maximum time to her children as no other person can care for her child except her. I have seen rich families ladies working and sending child to day care  and doing job only to avoid the housework 

[Majestic-milf]

 I think some men do this not with an intention to make the wife seem like her only use is to take care of the home and kids but to actually have time for herself. Because even though as a stay at home mom, there's a lot of jobs out there they can do remotely but these husbands stipulate that they should not work because they feel they can provide all their wives' need and it's not because it's out of pride, but for love's sake.

[Futurexxx]

       I find this mostly with rich men.

What will make a man bar his wife from making money of her own. What if sudden death takes away the man, what will be the fate of such woman and the children.
So guys what are your thoughts on this? Let's have a discuss here.

To be honest here, rich men knows themselves, they knows that they can get any woman of their choice wether married or not, and most times it's because of the married woman in question is out there trying to make a living, but these Rich men believe that if they are always at home doing the house chores, the rich guys wouldn't even have access to see them, talkless of talking to them and even possibly sleeping with them, so this rich guys always feels like they might do to their wives what they themselves are doing to most  poor people's wife.

Then on the aspect of if anything bad happens to the man, how are they going to survive, this is just one of the disadvantages when the woman is not doing anything, but in my own opinion, right now, it's very wrong for the load of all the financial responsibility to rest on the man, that alone can send him to his early grave, because too much pressure kills.

[Hispo]

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What will make a man bar his wife from making money of her own. What if sudden death takes away the man, what will be the fate of such woman and the children.
So guys what are your thoughts on this? Let's have a discuss here.

It is rather a cultural thing. Some cultures see as ideal to have women always at disposition of their children, so she can take care of them and provide love and comfort, you know, so children won't grow up alone with the lack of love from both of them parents.
Also, sudden death of the father should not be a problem, because if he was rich enough to allow his woman to stay home and take care for the children, then it is probable he also would leave a good heritache behind for the woman to fence for herself while she finds a new partner or a job.

In my personal point of view, it should be up to both the man and the woman how their roles are distributed under the same household, if both of them are okey with it, then it is no a problem.

[BADecker]

It's depressing. She shouldn't be so happy. It's depressing how happy she is. I gotta find her a job.

[Franctoshi]

In the many part's of the  world, particularly, in the South Pole regions, it is understood that even in this contemporary time that human knowledge has greatly advanced with no society left behind to the stone age, still there are practices among men that I find very improper, even among the educated ones that would have been said to have gained some social exposure.

I am muddled to see that there are many men that have sworn never to allow their woman (wife) to be working or do any business. They just want her to stay at home feel comfortable and take good care of the home while they the men make provisions for all that family would be needing. I find this mostly with rich men.

What will make a man bar his wife from making money of her own. What if sudden death takes away the man, what will be the fate of such woman and the children.
So guys what are your thoughts on this? Let's have a discuss here.

If the woman is taking care of the home they're working already,  isn't a must they go out there to do a 9-5 job, Many big men that I know stopped their wife when the job they're doing is taking almost all their wife's time and can't take care of family and kids, whereas the salary isn't big, So some big men who realized this and can afford to pay their wife's Salary comfortably to have them take care of their home tend to do this. However, I don't buy the idea of those that do not allow their wife to engage in opening or operating a business of theirs.

[Kelward]

Traditionally husbands are supposed to go out and work while wives will stay home and take care of the children, also to manage the affairs of the home. I need to categorically say here that being a full time housewife is not an easy task, except she has servants to do house chores for her, otherwise it's a lot of work, and they don't get paid. If I'm very rich and I have enough investment to cater for my family if I'm no more, I will not encourage my wife to work. She will have enough work running my home, besides I believe that most men wouldn't like their wives to be working for somebody else. 

Times have changed and it's no longer easy for many men to cater for the financial needs of their families alone which necessitates wives to also work and support their families. Another reason is that many women are now showing the capacity to work and I believe that they should also be given a chance to also work like men. Although where a husband and wife are both working, if the children are not put in the care of good people, they might turn out to be nuisances to the family and society at large.

[Fiatless]

So guys what are your thoughts on this? Let's have a discuss here.

If I had so much money and have some investment that can take care of my family if I die, my wife will not work. She would be at home and focus on raising the children. Childraising is a full time job because children needs to be guided and cared for almost althrough the day. They reason why most women work is to support their husbands financially. If the family have a good financial backup most men will not allow their wives to work.  

Usually men would want their wife to work either because there is some financial crisis or if the wife is herself willing to work, then let her work. Otherwise a person who is financial independent would never want her wife to work. He can provide everything to her and keep her save in his home. What else a girl need?

Also the wife who is the mother also, should give maximum time to her children as no other person can care for her child except her. I have seen rich families ladies working and sending child to day care  and doing job only to avoid the housework 

Some parents don't have time to even interact with their children even during the weekends. They don't know what these kids are going through in school or at home. I Have a friend whose child was engaging in drug abuse but he didn't know until the child became hooked up to drugs. The child has been showing signs not drug use but nobody was observant enough to identify it. Sometimes I wonder why people focus so much on providing the physical needs of children while they neglect their emotional needs. I repeat that my wife will stay at home if I have the necessary financial backup.

[Roseline492]

In the many part's of the  world, particularly, in the South Pole regions, it is understood that even in this contemporary time that human knowledge has greatly advanced with no society left behind to the stone age, still there are practices among men that I find very improper, even among the educated ones that would have been said to have gained some social exposure.

This topic is a very educative one in this regard so that we will have several opinion concerning this issue because a lot of men that does that have one or two reason why they want it that way, though this is not common in everywhere round the world because there are countries that husband and wife shares the same bills, so the husband has no right to stop her from working since she is taking care of almost 50% of her needs, while in those countries that men has all the responsibility of 100% of his wife needs and children, such person can dictate a lot on the things they should do and not do, so actually the living style of such places are the reason why it can be possible but if only the woman was independent before married the husband may not subject her anyways he likes.

[Yucky]

 Some men don't allow their wives to work because they prefer to have them stay at home. However, I believe that a woman's decision to stay at home should be entirely her choice.

The positive aspect of a man wanting the wife to stay at home is that he cares about her well-being. He acknowledges that childbearing and motherhood are full-time jobs that require dedication and support. In this scenario, the husband supports his wife's decision, providing her with the necessary resources and financial access. She is empowered to manage the household finances effectively. This way, she is not left stranded or vulnerable in case anything happens to her husband.

On the other hand, there's a negative scenario where a man's decision to have his wife stay at home stems from possessiveness or insecurity. For instance, he might be uncomfortable with the idea of his wife interacting with others, especially if she's attractive. He might fear that she'll be harassed or pursued by other men. In this cases, the man's decision to keep his wife at home is rooted in his own insecurities, rather than a genuine concern for her well-being.

Unfortunately, this often means that the woman has limited access to financial resources and is entirely dependent on her husband for survival. She may not even have control over her own finances or know how to manage the household expenses. This can leave her vulnerable and stranded if anything happens to her husband.

Whether a woman chooses to work outside the home or stay at home, it should be her decision to make and she should have the necessary support and resources to thrive in her chosen path.

[vino.gcs]

Some men don't allow their wives to work because they prefer to have them stay at home. However, I believe that a woman's decision to stay at home should be entirely her choice.

The positive aspect of a man wanting the wife to stay at home is that he cares about her well-being. He acknowledges that childbearing and motherhood are full-time jobs that require dedication and support. In this scenario, the husband supports his wife's decision, providing her with the necessary resources and financial access. She is empowered to manage the household finances effectively. This way, she is not left stranded or vulnerable in case anything happens to her husband.

On the other hand, there's a negative scenario where a man's decision to have his wife stay at home stems from possessiveness or insecurity. For instance, he might be uncomfortable with the idea of his wife interacting with others, especially if she's attractive. He might fear that she'll be harassed or pursued by other men. In this cases, the man's decision to keep his wife at home is rooted in his own insecurities, rather than a genuine concern for her well-being.

Unfortunately, this often means that the woman has limited access to financial resources and is entirely dependent on her husband for survival. She may not even have control over her own finances or know how to manage the household expenses. This can leave her vulnerable and stranded if anything happens to her husband.

Whether a woman chooses to work outside the home or stay at home, it should be her decision to make and she should have the necessary support and resources to thrive in her chosen path.

there are cultures where women really cannot practice everyday life like a normal human being also due to their religion, so it is not just about rich and wealthy people who want the woman to stay at home but also about people who are blinded by something that has been imposed on them

[Yablee0]

In my opinion, there are only two vital reasons that can make a wealthy man deprive his wife from working :1, they want there wife sit back and take maximum care of there home. Taking care of the children, house chores and
all that. Secondly 2, they don't want there wife to be sexually harasses by other man,they feel insecure by letting there wife go out all in the name of work why they already have everything it takes to take care of her. Therefore any wealthy man that declain is wife from working is not far from this two reasons thank you.

[OgNasty]

I think part of being really rich is having a partner that doesn’t need to work. This way they are free to spend their time working on making their house a home, or helping care for their family. A spouse that is working has less time for their family and for a rich man that could be seen as a large negative compared to a non-working wife.