I have a questions.
1.) Do we get bitcoin for running node to help pay for the power and internet payments if they want us to run nodes to get paid to do so. I'd be up to run 1,2 but need to know whether it's worth it?
You do not get paid. Your payment is in increased privacy and knowing you're contributing to the function/health of the Bitcoin network.
2.) And how to solo mine our own node?
The nodes ain't have mining capabilities. They assist the miners but collecting transactions in what we now called "mempool". They also verify confirmed transaction making sure they don't double spend.
3.) so I get it that all the transactions are stored on the node but what good is having a node if you can't buy or sell your BTC without using an exchange?
It helps support the Bitcoin network and improves your transaction privacy.
4.)does it works on sleep mode in window pc?
I don't think so, but as soon as you wake it up, it should quickly re-sync.

5.) for a special privacy how to put a BTC node into TOR network?
That's tough one. Here's some info that you can get started
This link.6.) Do you receive funds from using bitcoin node? I have several pc at my home?
Same question again! and here the questions has been asked by you are mostly repeated.

Anyway No, running a node does not pay any thing.