What quality do you think a husband must have to keep a healthy marriage

[DeathAngel]

He should treat his wife well, look after her & keep her safe. There isn’t all that much more to it. Obviously a lot of marriages fail but the good ones probably all have similar attributes that make them work. Just be a good husband & treat your wife right.

[Victorybit1]

As a man from the day you were born you were destined for responsibilities. First thing you must understand as a man is that it's your role to lead because you are the head of the house, if you are in a position where a woman gives you orders or doesn't respect you it means that something is wrong. One quality that a man should have especially when you have a family is that ability to solve problems. Some problems requires critical thinking to solve and a lot of times the family is looking up to you as the man of the house to solve it, this is why you must learn to invest in yourself for you to be knowledgeable enough to handle tough situations.

[uchegod-21]

Marital issues now our days is high I guess compared to past age (just guessing). Like the hike in the rate of divorce and so on.

A man with well developed EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE can be able handle alot and keep things balanced for himself and his family.

What quality do you think a husband must have to keep a healthy marriage (family life and lifestyle).

A man should be a man and not a boy or a woman;
If your woman doesn't see you as a man enough, she won't submit to you;
A man should be naturally more intelligent than a woman;
Smarter than a woman;
Has better and bigger aura;
Financially more stable;
And prove the capacity to remain unmoved even in adversities;
Any man who has these qualities can scale through only if he married  a reasonable wife.

[Dunamisx]

Everyone wants a good man and no one want to be the good and perfect human for others to appreciate, this does not only applies to men, but women were not also exempt in this, because everyone has a responsibility to fulfill in life and we must understand that both genders should be involved in this, the same way a man will love to ha e a responsible woman, same should everyone have the responsibility of being for each other in life.

[letteredhub]

He should treat his wife well, look after her & keep her safe. There isn’t all that much more to it. Obviously a lot of marriages fail but the good ones probably all have similar attributes that make them work. Just be a good husband & treat your wife right.

There are women that you'll still treat them fine as a good husband but they don't get satisfied with it. They are rather showing ingratitude, always comparing the other couples within the neighborhood to her husband which makes her not seeing him doing enough for the family.

We pray never to find ourselves or anyone we know with such women in marriage, as a man you could die early before your time. So it's true as you said, every marriage that have worked fine they all have similar attributes no doubt.

[Sexylizzy2813]

Marital issues now our days is high I guess compared to past age (just guessing). Like the hike in the rate of divorce and so on.

A man with well developed EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE can be able handle alot and keep things balanced for himself and his family.

What quality do you think a husband must have to keep a healthy marriage (family life and lifestyle).

Marriage is not a video game where to fail and restart again and you expect to do better the second time, no. Marriage is something that one's you're in you're in for good and it only takes a man who has control and patience to handle the situation at home, the problem of the family can make a man lose it and choose to divorce the woman, true some women are the cause of some of the issues that happens in the family but that is why we need to date first before marriage, is like getting to know your future partner first before the real deal. And I agree with you, these days divorce occurs more than back then when our forefathers used to get into marriages, you can see a man with 5 wives living in peace without hatred but now just 1 or 2 wives will give you a problem bigger than the problems we have in the society and the man will find it hard to even go home from work, these are factors that lead to divorce so I'd say patience and self control is the key.

[Helena Yu]

Huh? it's always husband who need the quality, while wife doesn't?

Here are the quality of husband to have a healthy marriage:
1. Money
2. Money
3. Money
4. Money
5. Money
...
999. Money

Your wife can't cook and clean, hire a housemaid.
Your wife want to build her body, hire a personal coach and pay the gym membership.
Your wife can't drive to the gym, hire a private driver and buy her car.
Your wife want to travel, buy her ticket and give her money.
Your wife feel lonely because you're busy, hire a handsome man and someone who can listen to her.
Your wife not happy because you're not good in bed? hire a manwhore.

I promise, there's no woman in this world will leave you.

Am I wrong? give at least one thing that can't be solved by money, I would like to test my skill.

[Gozie51]

Well if you talk about quality of a husband, I don't think there is just one quality that qualifies a man as a husband. It has to do of more different qualities that will be compatible with the woman as the wife. Like some people could say being responsible which they term as not smoking nor drinking as part of it but there are wives that are compatible with men who do all that while there are women who don't cope with such, so being compatible in character is important.

Also, to have a moral emotional balance is important. This will make you know good and bad. Good and bad to know how best to handle your wife and home. A man that doesn't have that moral balance may not feel what the other person (the wife) is going through in the marriage. And again, it is universal that the man as a husband should be able to provide, protect and give a future (direction) to the family.

[Zanab247]

If husband can develop this qualities things to his wife, true love, financial love, making her to have access to every documents in the house, I think it will prevent the marriage for destruction. If you look at some marriage that ended in our society today, you will agree with me that those things I mentioned here was not involve in the marriage, and if you want that marriage to work as you want, please do everything possible to love you wife, make her know all your secrets and she will let you know all her secrets too and you will make a solid home.

I have made up my mind to help my husband to build a healthy marriage, to be submissive to him and do everything that make him happy on the time, which is how marriage should be in every societies.

[SuperBitMan]

Marital issues now our days is high I guess compared to past age (just guessing). Like the hike in the rate of divorce and so on.

A man with well developed EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE can be able handle alot and keep things balanced for himself and his family.

What quality do you think a husband must have to keep a healthy marriage (family life and lifestyle).

When it comes to marriage it is between two people a man and a woman and so it is not only the man's responsibility to keep or maintain unity and togetherness in the marriage the woman is also involve, now the reason why I'm saying so is because a man may have the best quality that can keep marriage but the wife is still frustrating him and a time will come when the man won't hold his self again and he will react and it may lead to ending the marriage, so the man has his own responsibility things he should do or attitude he should carry that will keep the marriage and the woman also has her responsibility and attitude and she should carry in other to keep the marriage together.
Now for a man there are some qualities he should have in other to maintain a healthy marriage and that is loving his wife, being patient with his wife, tolerance, respect, helping out in house chores, being not just a husband but a father, if a man has all this qualities then it is possible for the marriage to be healthy and last.
Also there are some qualities a woman should have in other to make the relationship healthy which is tolerance, respect and obedient, love and assistance, with this the family will be very healthy and will last.

[jstyler]

I think communication and empathy are key qualities a husband should have in a marriage. Being able to listen actively and understand each other's perspectives can prevent misunderstandings and strengthen the bond between partners. Additionally, being willing to grow and learn together is crucial in maintaining a healthy marriage.

[Solodoski]

A man with well developed EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE can be able handle alot and keep things balanced for himself and his family.

emotional intelligence is not enough to keep marriage in this era where gender equality continues to disturb marriages and couples from a broken home unites together bringing the issues they have in their homes to the family they are just creating. social media has equally done her part dishing out false narrative on the expectation of the parties involved in marriage making it very unrealistic and at the end divorce becomes the soft landing spot. as an husband, you just have to be yourself, do your part and don't have an unrealistic expectation from both your wife and children a lot has changed about life.

[uchegod-21]

Huh? it's always husband who need the quality, while wife doesn't?

Here are the quality of husband to have a healthy marriage:
1. Money
2. Money
3. Money
4. Money
5. Money
...
999. Money

Your wife can't cook and clean, hire a housemaid.
Your wife want to build her body, hire a personal coach and pay the gym membership.
Your wife can't drive to the gym, hire a private driver and buy her car.
Your wife want to travel, buy her ticket and give her money.
Your wife feel lonely because you're busy, hire a handsome man and someone who can listen to her.
Your wife not happy because you're not good in bed? hire a manwhore.

I promise, there's no woman in this world will leave you.

Am I wrong? give at least one thing that can't be solved by money, I would like to test my skill.

I have seen many wealthy men whose marriages failed. Is it that they don't know how to use the money on their wives or what? Mind you, any woman or wife who has seen money in abundance, money will stop to be her problem. So, things other than money, which could be more difficult than money to get will arise. Mate, have you forgotten that women are dynamic and very much insatiable? Money doesn't solve everything, but I agree that money is part of what makes it work.

[Cryptohygenic]

There are no qualities that husband must have or must have not to keep a healthy marriage. Marriage is a union of two. Two persons must have qualities that will suit each other. There are no qualities that will fit for every person, family or couple. There is no one right answer. If you dont understand that in family two must work and expect only husband or wife have that special quality (for example honest, rich, loyal, strong), then any advice you get will fail for you.

Yes, you talked senses their. Infact, talking about a man of the house quality to have a healthy marriage or family is like centering every conducive and misconducts of the family on the man. That is impossible to see it workout healthily as said, however, the woman as the wife will also have it roles to play for them both to be compatible so they can always bring out times to study one another in other to best give their partnership services as union.
So this is a task between the both parties of the husband and the wife.

[Helena Yu]

I have seen many wealthy men whose marriages failed. Is it that they don't know how to use the money on their wives or what?

It's because the wealthy men demand something that the wives can't accept.

It's mostly about sex, if the wealthy men demand to having sex with many women and their wives can't accept it, that's why the marriages failed.

Have you ever heard Dubai Porta Potty? if the wealthy men have disgusting kink like asking their wives to eat and swallow their poop, if the wives can't accept it, the marriages failed.

So, things other than money, which could be more difficult than money to get will arise. Mate, have you forgotten that women are dynamic and very much insatiable? Money doesn't solve everything

What's that? say it.

[Obulis]

You should be intelligent enough to control your wife. And by intelligence I mean Light. If you have alot of it your wife will be under your power, and will see you as her master and fully submit to you.
Ofcourse this light only comes from the CREATOR.

 As much as this light comes from the creator, one must likewise be available for it, recognize it and allowing it take place (that's being a tool/medium for these light).

[Mene_rence]

Marital issues now our days is high I guess compared to past age (just guessing). Like the hike in the rate of divorce and so on.

A man with well developed EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE can be able to handle alot and keep things balanced for himself and his family.

What quality do you think a husband must have to keep a healthy marriage (family life and lifestyle).

It takes both the husband and the wife (man and woman) to keep a home. One sided development from the husband will not keep it. It has to be from the both side to have a balanced family. They both have their individual roles to play.

However, when it comes to the qualities a husband must possess to keep his family and marriage, one among the qualities is LOVE.
It is confirmed that marriages break because of unforgiveness—holding on to past hurts. Whereever you find unforgiveness, just know that genuine love is lacking.
The husband must know that love is not only a feeling. Love is commitment. It is choosing to love and forgive even though your spouse does not deserve it. There is no record of wrong where found is active, hence forgiveness is a virtue that the husband must have. Your wife will hurt you either by commision or ommision, it will surely happen and you must learn to forgive in advance.

I believe that if the husband sees love as commitment and not a feeling, He will be able to play his part in bringing balance for himself and family.

[Mene_rence]

Huh? it's always husband who need the quality, while wife doesn't?

Here are the quality of husband to have a healthy marriage:
1. Money
2. Money
3. Money
4. Money
5. Money
...
999. Money

Your wife can't cook and clean, hire a housemaid.
Your wife want to build her body, hire a personal coach and pay the gym membership.
Your wife can't drive to the gym, hire a private driver and buy her car.
Your wife want to travel, buy her ticket and give her money.
Your wife feel lonely because you're busy, hire a handsome man and someone who can listen to her.
Your wife not happy because you're not good in bed? hire a manwhore.

I promise, there's no woman in this world will leave you.

Am I wrong? give at least one thing that can't be solved by money, I would like to test my skill.

This is exactly where most men get it wrong. They feel when they use all the time and energy in this world to gather all the money, the money will in turn replace other things that are essential in the marriage.
Money is very important, but it can only make up 40% of the requirement for a balanced family.
Money can't replace attention and affection!
It cannot replace good love making in bed!
Love cannot replace genuine care and affection!

Give a woman the whole money in this world and lack the basic things like care, attention and affection, you'll end up divorced.

[Nothingtodo]

Marital issues now our days is high I guess compared to past age (just guessing). Like the hike in the rate of divorce and so on.

A man with well developed EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE can be able to handle alot and keep things balanced for himself and his family.

What quality do you think a husband must have to keep a healthy marriage (family life and lifestyle).

If we compare it to previous eras, the divorce rate in the present era has increased so significantly that it is beyond imagination. In previous eras, although people lacked awareness, education, culture, and technological development, they were not prone to divorce. But despite the considerable education, lifestyle changes, and many advantages among husbands and wives today, the trend of divorce is significantly higher. Nowadays, wives cannot give time to their husbands and husbands cannot give time to their wives, due to which the trend of divorce is increasing.

[Helena Yu]

This is exactly where most men get it wrong. They feel when they use all the time and energy in this world to gather all the money, the money will in turn replace other things that are essential in the marriage.
Money is very important, but it can only make up 40% of the requirement for a balanced family.
Money can't replace attention and affection!
It cannot replace good love making in bed!
Love cannot replace genuine care and affection!

Give a woman the whole money in this world and lack the basic things like care, attention and affection, you'll end up divorced.

You've quoted the whole post and you still didn't read what I wrote?

Your wife feel lonely because you're busy, hire a handsome man and someone who can listen to her.
Your wife not happy because you're not good in bed? hire a manwhore.

Money can replace attention and affection, hire someone who can treat her very good, like being her personal assistant, no one will reject it as long as he get paid enough.

Money can replace good love making in bed, if your size is only 12 CM and last less than 3 minutes, it's not enough to make your wife happy. Hence, you can hire black people (no racist) they have bigger size and could last longer than 3 minutes.

I'm sure women will not divorce when the men gives all the money, fulfill all the needs, and never ask anything back from the women.