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February 25, 2025, 09:28:13 AM
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Everyone's time is limited, and chasing external validation and recognition only takes us further away from our true selves.
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February 25, 2025, 09:59:38 PM
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Wow i was thinking about that today and i realized that ACTUALLY i don't need to be liked, so if i do not hurt anybody then i don't own no one an explanation. Thanks for this post for real.
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February 26, 2025, 11:07:02 AM
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Everyone's time is limited, and chasing external validation and recognition only takes us further away from our true selves.
Waiting for validation from people is a waste of time and effort, because you end up pleasing the wrong people. You should rather invest  in  your personal development. Because in life if you like do good or do bad people must criticize you. So enough is enough you don't need to explain yourself to anyone. Rather improve and work on your growth and personal development daily.
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February 27, 2025, 01:37:28 AM
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And most of the people I often hear explaining themselves are doing it in front of somebody who does not even care about them or could not care less about the thing they are explaining.  Even if they listen to the explanation, it is often useless because they end up either not believing or simply still not caring.  It is true, explaining yourself is most often a waste of time.
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February 27, 2025, 12:53:53 PM
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And most of the people I often hear explaining themselves are doing it in front of somebody who does not even care about them or could not care less about the thing they are explaining.  Even if they listen to the explanation, it is often useless because they end up either not believing or simply still not caring.  It is true, explaining yourself is most often a waste of time.


You know there is this unbearable level of emotion one would be, it feels heavy in the heart that what can only make it an ease is explaining yourself out and all grievances or weaknesses will be normalized in orderliness.
As well, there are people who don't deserve your explanatory because they have nothing good to offer and if time not taking, you are probably explaining yourself out to the wrong person giving it chances to eat you down.
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March 05, 2025, 09:14:39 PM
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Everyone's time is limited, and chasing external validation and recognition only takes us further away from our true selves.

Pitiable pity how that even after seeking these helpless validation and recognition, excellent percentage of people don't even care about you. Some had cooperated just to please nothing more...
These helpless act (external validation and recognition) should not be confused with getting feedback from like minded people as per self analysis
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April 07, 2025, 09:27:13 AM
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And most of the people I often hear explaining themselves are doing it in front of somebody who does not even care about them or could not care less about the thing they are explaining.  Even if they listen to the explanation, it is often useless because they end up either not believing or simply still not caring.  It is true, explaining yourself is most often a waste of time.

This your statement burst my brain, just as you have stated clearly there is no doubt that many create more issue or problem by letting some of their problem to people that don't even care, there is no doubt that explaining yourself to one who don't care is just like one in a locked room shouting and hearing his echoes that solve no problem instead may even have ear drum issue for reverse of echoes created by him.
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April 08, 2025, 03:12:54 PM
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Your friends don't need an explanation, if you don't hurt anybody please avoid speaking to much, because is a weakness and you will feel deeply regret later.
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April 09, 2025, 10:14:38 PM
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I was going to say that Satoshi already said, "If you don't understand it, I don't have time to explain it to you," but I just found out that it's not documented.
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April 19, 2025, 08:23:53 AM
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Stop wasting  time fooling yourself also.
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April 21, 2025, 11:05:15 PM
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chasing external validation and recognition only takes us further away from our true selves.

Unfortunately it's human nature, hardwired into our biology.
That is our true selves.


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April 22, 2025, 09:19:38 AM
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chasing external validation and recognition only takes us further away from our true selves.

Unfortunately it's human nature, hardwired into our biology.
That is our true selves.




Exactly, we are just created that way and it's not an inferiority complex but just a way to acknowledge the wisdom of others, that is why we seek validation and recognition from them. But however, even after getting a good conviction from others, it doesn't stop us from taking our own decisions if we don't find their opinion worthy enough.
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April 23, 2025, 02:40:45 AM
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And most of the people I often hear explaining themselves are doing it in front of somebody who does not even care about them or could not care less about the thing they are explaining.  Even if they listen to the explanation, it is often useless because they end up either not believing or simply still not caring.  It is true, explaining yourself is most often a waste of time.
True talk my brother, what is obvious is obvious you need no much explanation to explain that because it could end up beening a waist of time.

Let your  good deed or actions do the speaking definitely real people that love good things will definitely acknowledge and identify you thank you.
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April 26, 2025, 10:22:35 AM
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chasing external validation and recognition only takes us further away from our true selves.

Unfortunately it's human nature, hardwired into our biology.
That is our true selves.




Exactly, we are just created that way and it's not an inferiority complex but just a way to acknowledge the wisdom of others, that is why we seek validation and recognition from them. But however, even after getting a good conviction from others, it doesn't stop us from taking our own decisions if we don't find their opinion worthy enough.

The opinion of other people are not important in our life however one can't underestimate it because in one way or the other those opinions by others can help us understand more about our life or anything we are doing.
When people give there opinions about our life or anything we are doing is either we accept or reject it, what we do with our life is our full responsibility.
Yes you are right Btcdeybodi that after getting a good conviction from others, it doesn't stop us from taking our own decisions if we don't find their opinion worthy enough.
One that that some set of people do that is wrong is that they don't make there own decisions after other peoples opinion is given they just go with that opinion not minding if is wrong or right and that is not a good thing to do.
Some people has gone into depression because of other peoples bad opinion about there life which is not right we should not be taken the opinion of people in our life that serious is our life and we decide how it will be.
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