The Biggest handwork(skill) mistake many people make

[boyptc]

Being low self steem is what makes us tell on how poor and low skilled we are. The negativity that comes out of our mind dictating us that we're one is a result of some past experirences.

And also, stop looking at others successes comparing what you're up to right now.

That's not going to work on how to become successful in today's life, don't get jailed to the thought that you're not successful in your means.

[landheer]

Being low self steem is what makes us tell on how poor and low skilled we are. The negativity that comes out of our mind dictating us that we're one is a result of some past experirences.

And also, stop looking at others successes comparing what you're up to right now.

That's not going to work on how to become successful in today's life, don't get jailed to the thought that you're not successful in your means.

The need to think positively about yourself is the beginning to start your steps well, which of course by not comparing yourself and others will cause social jealousy that will happen, yes in essence you need to be grateful for what you have and that is the key to achieving success over time believing in your own personal ability to achieve success is much better.

[alastantiger]

If you aren't comfortable with where you are and you are putting in little to no effort to make a change then you'd be stuck for a long time. This is why it's very important for you to work on your mentality, eliminate self doubt because you can have a lot of potentials and you could be the one limiting your growth... The fastest way to grow in life is by building networking, the skills you have are probably not just needed by those around you... communicating with people around the world can facilitate your growth and success, we now live in a digital age where distance is no longer a barrier, technology has bridged the gap.

It's always us that limit ourselves and not what others think or say about us. Despite how the world conditions us by not being fair to us, you can still make it out for the trenches that you were born in hence you don't have to give up on yourself before you try. The moment you begin to doubt your ability, it doesn't matter what happens you won't be victorious until you change your mindset and begin to think more optimistic about your dreams. One of the big mistakes that people make is to think that they're not good enough, when applying for a job or doing anything in life, they have already lost all confidence  and it makes them become inferior to the others applying for the same job, position or anything that they were going for. Self confidence is one of the most important thing to have to become successful.

[boyptc]

Being low self steem is what makes us tell on how poor and low skilled we are. The negativity that comes out of our mind dictating us that we're one is a result of some past experirences.

And also, stop looking at others successes comparing what you're up to right now.

That's not going to work on how to become successful in today's life, don't get jailed to the thought that you're not successful in your means.

The need to think positively about yourself is the beginning to start your steps well, which of course by not comparing yourself and others will cause social jealousy that will happen, yes in essence you need to be grateful for what you have and that is the key to achieving success over time believing in your own personal ability to achieve success is much better.

There is a barrier for growth and when we allow that to sink in our heads, that's the start of how we're having hard time in believing in ourselves.

It's true that we need to be positive and thinking so that we can move step forward and we'll need to remove all of the jealousy in ourselves that we see to the others.

All we have to do is to be brave in believing ourselves that we can do it.

[Renampun]

Being low self steem is what makes us tell on how poor and low skilled we are. The negativity that comes out of our mind dictating us that we're one is a result of some past experirences.

And also, stop looking at others successes comparing what you're up to right now.

That's not going to work on how to become successful in today's life, don't get jailed to the thought that you're not successful in your means.

The need to think positively about yourself is the beginning to start your steps well, which of course by not comparing yourself and others will cause social jealousy that will happen, yes in essence you need to be grateful for what you have and that is the key to achieving success over time believing in your own personal ability to achieve success is much better.

actually comparing yourself to others is very important and needed so that we do not get trapped in a monotonous and ungrowing life, you must have heard learn from other people's experiences! actually that's true because if you want to grow in your career - social - business then you have to make other people's experiences your reference, so that you do not get trapped in mistakes that you did not expect.

if you do not belittle yourself or mock yourself when comparing yourself to others then it is called motivation.

[rachael9385]

Thinking you are less than average or not qualified to live your best life
Or thinking you are not worthy to getting that contract, job or freedom to enjoy whatever you do daily is not reasonable mostly as a hard worker.

When you roll out, big growth starts.
Three practical steps to follow

Expand ur network =follow and engage with professionals beyond ur circle

+keep learning on going mostly from people who has done what you are hoping to do

+allow feedback from unbiased minds that can give constructive feedback.

Don't tell ur self ur are not good
enough or worthy.
Professionals aren't made in a day
Growth starts by doing what u were never qualified to do

The mind is a powerful tool and if you tell yourself that you are not worthy enough to get something you probably never will. A negative mindset can't take you anywhere, as long as you constantly invest in yourself and become a professional in whatever field you find yourself you are going to succeed. Most people allow their environment limit them, if you were born into a certain environment that's not favourable to you that doesn't mean that it's your final destination, you have what it takes to be whatever you want to be, like you said professionals are not made in a day it takes consistent effort.

[Kristiyana]

Being low self steem is what makes us tell on how poor and low skilled we are. The negativity that comes out of our mind dictating us that we're one is a result of some past experirences.

And also, stop looking at others successes comparing what you're up to right now.

That's not going to work on how to become successful in today's life, don't get jailed to the thought that you're not successful in your means.

You're right, looking at other people's success is just the same as not being contented with what you have and anyone who is doing this will be tag as someone who is greedy Because you don't want the success of other people, sometimes this can even make one not to concentrate in pursuing that  goal which he desired to achieve in the future. Because he wouldn't want other people's success to be different from hes, and in the process of doing that maybe he can even end up achieving nothing. This is why excessive greed is not good.

[jaberwock]

Being low self steem is what makes us tell on how poor and low skilled we are. The negativity that comes out of our mind dictating us that we're one is a result of some past experirences.

And also, stop looking at others successes comparing what you're up to right now.

That's not going to work on how to become successful in today's life, don't get jailed to the thought that you're not successful in your means.

Title says ' handwork ' but I think self-esteem comes from within. I'm sure all has a bad experience but we must also have a good experience. We also need to think of it if we are down. I like the like last thing that you said or ' in our own means ' . Indeed, this should be our very bench mark. I am sure that many of us have improved all throughout the years. There are times in our life that we are down or we lost some of our physical properties but there are things like knowledge that can't be.

If we do it the wrong way like downing our self, then yeah but maybe some use it in a right way, like they think they need to improve their self more because someone else is still better than them.

[Y3shot]

The first step is accepting you do not know and trying to know and regardless of what you’re doing, always trying to get more smarter ways to do it because at the end of the day, smart work pays more than hard work in this generation we find ourselves now.
You did write a good work and I agree with you on your writing and I think trying to mingle with people who are more learned in what you are trying to achieve will help go a very long way to achieving whatever goal as a person.
Accepting criticism and trying to learn to grow from honest feedback is key to strategic growth rather than getting offended when criticized genuinely.

One thing yo acknowledge you lack knowledge and you need to learn is very important, mistakes some some people are always making they claim too much and feel all they know is enough.  People who understand that no one knows it all in life and are always ready to learn do go far in life. From the day you think you know it all that's the day learning ends the consequences of not learning is t make terrible mistakes. Wisdom is very profitable and every individual needs to apply wisdom and work smart.

[Koadharber]

Don't tell ur self ur are not good
enough or worthy.
Professionals aren't made in a day
Growth starts by doing what u were never qualified to do

Totally depends on someones mentality i should say on which not all people will really be that optimistic about reaching out something new or step up into their career but rather they are really just that contented on what they do have now and the bad thing is that they do work up most all of the years of their lifetime and waiting for that retirement. When it comes into enjoying your life then its really that having that absence but since we do have some responsibility on which we do need up to fulfill then as a parent or family guy then you would really be that sacrificing up those good stuffs over as long you do able to do your responsibility and this is what the reality that we do need to do and we dont have no choice. On the moment that you have that better situation in terms of finances then this will be an entire different story.

[Stalker22]

You know that nagging inner critic telling you that youre not good enough? Tell it to shut the hell up!  Seriously, its spouting nonsense.  If you truly want that big contract, kick-ass job, or freedom to live life on your own terms - then go after it.  No one is handing out worthy badges - you prove your merit through determined action. 

Also, you really should expand your worldview beyond the comfy bubble youve wrapped yourself in.  The narrow perspectives currently surrounding you are clearly feeding your self-doubts and  seek out some folks who are thriving in the realm you wanna play in and learn from how they think and operate.  Stop barricading yourself on your lonely island of insecurity.

[AmaGold70]

Thinking you are less than average or not qualified to live your best life
Or thinking you are not worthy to getting that contract, job or freedom to enjoy whatever you do daily is not reasonable mostly as a hard worker.

When you roll out, big growth starts.
Three practical steps to follow

Expand ur network =follow and engage with professionals beyond ur circle

+keep learning on going mostly from people who has done what you are hoping to do

+allow feedback from unbiased minds that can give constructive feedback.

Don't tell ur self ur are not good
enough or worthy.
Professionals aren't made in a day
Growth starts by doing what u were never qualified to do

Just like they say that practice makes perfect, if you really want something positive to come out of your life then you have to work towards it, you are right, professionals aren't Born overnight, without action there will be no growth. I am good enough to be anything I wish and everyone should have the same mindset if they really want to succeed in life, as no one achieves greatness by just waiting around for it to happen or itself. Self belief can move mountains.

[Cryptohygenic]

Being low self steem is what makes us tell on how poor and low skilled we are. The negativity that comes out of our mind dictating us that we're one is a result of some past experirences.

And also, stop looking at others successes comparing what you're up to right now.

This was like you were talking to me directly. I used to live a low self esteem of neglecting what I am capable of doing is worth admirable by others.
I just think whatever that has to do with technicalities or highily required knowledge that I do is not right because I was living a poverty which I had this mentality that if I was this brilliant to do the needful, I would had be rich like others.
Then I began to flop giving my best regards on the rich people around me believing they are ahead of me with the evidence of their successful ness. And at same time, those being classified above me has also got some level of respects for me because I could do what they can't do.
That recalling to me that not being financially successful does not warrant degrading of one potentials. We could be graceful in different ways which when you discovers that which you are perfected, embrace it and be cheerful because not everyone is up to your height. Not even those richer than you as money may not be a summary of high esteem.

[Natalim]

Being low self steem is what makes us tell on how poor and low skilled we are. The negativity that comes out of our mind dictating us that we're one is a result of some past experirences.

And also, stop looking at others successes comparing what you're up to right now.

That's not going to work on how to become successful in today's life, don't get jailed to the thought that you're not successful in your means.

We are all unique in different ways. So let’s stop the act of comparing, that may develop having low-esteem afterwards and lose your confidence. Instead, let the success of others becomes your motivation to grow and achieve your dreams and aspirations in life.

Develop a positive mindset, because for me staying positive at all times creates a big difference in your life. And if others can do it, then there’s no reason that we will be left behind because we think we aren’t good enough and capable.

[Oluwa-btc]

Don't tell ur self ur are not good
enough or worthy.
Professionals aren't made in a day
Growth starts by doing what u were never qualified to do

One thing I understand in life and it's always my watchword is believing in oneself, countless times there might be things that must have made one looked down on themselves thinking they can rise above the stage they are in, but that's not the way out. When yu think positivity you become results oriented and definitely everything will fall in place. This is why it's advisable to start small from where you are and think big regardless. An individual growth starts from the decisions they make which is accompanied by a change and that change is as a result of the steps they have decided to take.

[slapper]

Being low self steem is what makes us tell on how poor and low skilled we are. The negativity that comes out of our mind dictating us that we're one is a result of some past experirences.

And also, stop looking at others successes comparing what you're up to right now.

This was like you were talking to me directly. I used to live a low self esteem of neglecting what I am capable of doing is worth admirable by others.
I just think whatever that has to do with technicalities or highily required knowledge that I do is not right because I was living a poverty which I had this mentality that if I was this brilliant to do the needful, I would had be rich like others.
Then I began to flop giving my best regards on the rich people around me believing they are ahead of me with the evidence of their successful ness. And at same time, those being classified above me has also got some level of respects for me because I could do what they can't do.
That recalling to me that not being financially successful does not warrant degrading of one potentials. We could be graceful in different ways which when you discovers that which you are perfected, embrace it and be cheerful because not everyone is up to your height. Not even those richer than you as money may not be a summary of high esteem.

Poverty is a whole mechanism that runs on shame, self-doubt, and invisible comparisons. You were calculating your worth using external metrics while ignoring the local data: your rare skillset, your lived experience, your survival logic. That’s where the bug was

You noticed it, though. That’s huge. Because here’s the under-discussed part: the economy doesn’t reward skill equally. It rewards position. It rewards narrative. Most people don’t get rich because they’re the best but because they’re in the loop, socially, structurally, institutionally. You were measuring your brilliance against outcomes you had no access to, so naturally it felt rigged. Because it is

Those rich folks respected you because their system doesn’t teach what you’ve learned through friction. You’ve been operating in chaos mode, and they’re in sandbox mode. Different difficulty settings. Same planet. And the fact that you can now articulate your worth without needing their approval? That’s post-capitalist awareness. That’s identity without transaction

Keep that. Expand that. The next version of wealth is competence + calm + not craving validation from anyone who’s just playing a louder game

[Unknown Op]

Don't tell ur self ur are not good
enough or worthy.
Professionals aren't made in a day
Growth starts by doing what u were never qualified to do

One thing I understand in life and it's always my watchword is believing in oneself, countless times there might be things that must have made one looked down on themselves thinking they can rise above the stage they are in, but that's not the way out. When yu think positivity you become results oriented and definitely everything will fall in place. This is why it's advisable to start small from where you are and think big regardless. An individual growth starts from the decisions they make which is accompanied by a change and that change is as a result of the steps they have decided to take.

I think in life many things are required to be successful in life because should learn how to deal with people because that is big strategy because when we are working for firm ,we have to deal with every kind of people. We have not to hesitate against that kind of people because we are going to be successful employee who have excellent communication skill. One should learn body language of person because it will speak the mindset of person. Time management is good skill which will be requirement of every time .Always learn from persons  who are senior and they will teach you and they will guide you how to be successful in the field. Everyone has different field but seniors will push you up because have firm contacts.

[Yaunfitda]

Don't tell ur self ur are not good
enough or worthy.
Professionals aren't made in a day
Growth starts by doing what u were never qualified to do

One thing I understand in life and it's always my watchword is believing in oneself, countless times there might be things that must have made one looked down on themselves thinking they can rise above the stage they are in, but that's not the way out. When yu think positivity you become results oriented and definitely everything will fall in place. This is why it's advisable to start small from where you are and think big regardless. An individual growth starts from the decisions they make which is accompanied by a change and that change is as a result of the steps they have decided to take.

I think in life many things are required to be successful in life because should learn how to deal with people because that is big strategy because when we are working for firm ,we have to deal with every kind of people. We have not to hesitate against that kind of people because we are going to be successful employee who have excellent communication skill. One should learn body language of person because it will speak the mindset of person. Time management is good skill which will be requirement of every time .Always learn from persons  who are senior and they will teach you and they will guide you how to be successful in the field. Everyone has different field but seniors will push you up because have firm contacts.

I'm not sure though if working in a company will make you rich. I mean you can probably save a lot of money specially high paying jobs. But still though, you are going to live paycheck by paycheck and it's better to really venture into business or become entrepreneur. And it might be good to have a job so that you can developed your skills so that when you go out, maybe you can used this skills. So for me, to really developed and become successful in life, we should break on that traditional approach of having a desk job. And perhaps even if we become businessman ourselves, we can continue to evolved and developed the skills needed by us to become wealthy in life. We can start small and aim bigger later.

[Mahanton]

Don't tell ur self ur are not good
enough or worthy.
Professionals aren't made in a day
Growth starts by doing what u were never qualified to do

One thing I understand in life and it's always my watchword is believing in oneself, countless times there might be things that must have made one looked down on themselves thinking they can rise above the stage they are in, but that's not the way out. When yu think positivity you become results oriented and definitely everything will fall in place. This is why it's advisable to start small from where you are and think big regardless. An individual growth starts from the decisions they make which is accompanied by a change and that change is as a result of the steps they have decided to take.

I think in life many things are required to be successful in life because should learn how to deal with people because that is big strategy because when we are working for firm ,we have to deal with every kind of people. We have not to hesitate against that kind of people because we are going to be successful employee who have excellent communication skill. One should learn body language of person because it will speak the mindset of person. Time management is good skill which will be requirement of every time .Always learn from persons  who are senior and they will teach you and they will guide you how to be successful in the field. Everyone has different field but seniors will push you up because have firm contacts.

I'm not sure though if working in a company will make you rich. I mean you can probably save a lot of money specially high paying jobs. But still though, you are going to live paycheck by paycheck and it's better to really venture into business or become entrepreneur. And it might be good to have a job so that you can developed your skills so that when you go out, maybe you can used this skills. So for me, to really developed and become successful in life, we should break on that traditional approach of having a desk job. And perhaps even if we become businessman ourselves, we can continue to evolved and developed the skills needed by us to become wealthy in life. We can start small and aim bigger later.

Before you do go to think with high paying jobs specially if its a physical one then its better not to make yourself that rushing up into this aspect yet we do know that promotions or step up with your current position will never be that so easy and it do really takes time. If you are trying out to rush things accordingly then it might be that resulting into those unethical actions and even trying out to destroy your work mates for the sake of promotion or having those gossips or stealing of works or whatsoever. Just be consistent and be good into your work then this will be that best way for having that promotion but of course dont make yourself that expecting that much because not all that last long into companies will be granted up such promotion and thats why i considered it out on needing up to have some mix of luck on this case.Trying out to fasten up things will be basing up on how exceptional you are with your current work.

We are all unique in different ways. So let’s stop the act of comparing, that may develop having low-esteem afterwards and lose your confidence. Instead, let the success of others becomes your motivation to grow and achieve your dreams and aspirations in life.

Develop a positive mindset, because for me staying positive at all times creates a big difference in your life. And if others can do it, then there’s no reason that we will be left behind because we think we aren’t good enough and capable.

Just dont make yourself that being delusional then you are that too good or having that self entitlement that you do deserve a good position or high paying one. Just make yourself that being consistent then you wont be facing up any problems. On the moment that you do have some ideas in mind like creating a business or investment then its not bad to make yourself that deal up with some side hustles on which you can be able to deal up with but of course it will be needing up that kind of good time management since its never been that easy.

[Y3shot]

One thing I understand in life and it's always my watchword is believing in oneself, countless times there might be things that must have made one looked down on themselves thinking they can rise above the stage they are in, but that's not the way out. When yu think positivity you become results oriented and definitely everything will fall in place. This is why it's advisable to start small from where you are and think big regardless. An individual growth starts from the decisions they make which is accompanied by a change and that change is as a result of the steps they have decided to take.

Being positive in life is very good, it gives one ability to know that nothing is difficult to do or get in life. The reason why some people strive  to do anything they want is because that positivity is not in them, which they feel so relaxed and seems not good enough to achieve things .once one is being positively in mindset their is nothing that will be so difficult for one to accomplish. And some people don't have this knowledge being positive and it advantage.