Are you Generous or Greedy with winning from Gambling?

[GiftedMAN]

Now my main concern is there are a set of people who actually don't gamble but expect that those who has won gambling should show them love by giving them money when eventually a gambler wins not minding how that person has lost money or how psychologically depressed he was when he was struggling while gambling.

So let hear your view as a gambler are you the generous type or the greedy type when you hit the jackpot?

If it comes to this, then am not a generous giver in such manner, you can't sit down there watching and waiting for me to cash out and then you come over to expect I give you from my money won, once I noticed such kind of behavior from a person, then I withdraw from giving anything, but I don't observe anything related to that and I wish to celebrate some of give willingly, then I may do so, but remember, it's not a must to do.

There's is a good spirit that comes to every gambler when they get lucky to win games sometimes you may not have the ability to control that urge to give when you win big, you get to see so many people in physical casinos and betting shops who don't have money to bet but they sit closer to gamblers motivating them to win so they can beg them to give them some tips to also gamble with. You can't help it but assist them so that they can also gamble and don't depend on your winnings all the time.

[_act_]

There's is a good spirit that comes to every gambler when they get lucky to win games sometimes you may not have the ability to control that urge to give when you win big, you get to see so many people in physical casinos and betting shops who don't have money to bet but they sit closer to gamblers motivating them to win so they can beg them to give them some tips to also gamble with. You can't help it but assist them so that they can also gamble and don't depend on your winnings all the time.

Maybe my loss has been the reason that I am not generous because I lose more than win in gambling and betting together which is a good reason I should not be generous because when I am losing, no one will give me money but I will use my salary for it. Although I use small part of my salary which is not more than 1% now to gamble but if I lose it, no one cares. So why should I care if I win? I have a good reason not to care at all. I am not generous if I win big while gambling or betting.

[danherbias07]

I am not a generous type when it comes to strangers, but I do spend some money on a night out with my friends and my neighbor. I think I only did it twice from my gambling winnings already. I bought alcoholic drinks and some pizza for them.

But most of my winnings are for my family. I first give them what they want before I treat my friends and neighbors. That's the important thing to do first because family will always be there, so it's best if we give back to them so that they will feel how important they are than other people.

[nara1892]

IMO, giving some of the amount of winnings we get to others depends on our own wishes, meaning if for example you don't mind sharing some of the amount then please do but if for example you don't want to do it then I think it's better for you to hide the news of your victory, I also sometimes give but sometimes I also hide it, online casinos help us to easily hide the gambling activities we do along with the problem of winning or losing.

Of course online casinos are very supportive of us in maintaining privacy, besides the name can be disguised and the wins and losses we get will not be known if we do not tell them. And in gambling activities I prefer to hide it and when I get a big enough win I will share a little of the winnings I get or treat them without them having to know where the money I get comes from, because if they know my gambling activities, I'm afraid it will become a habit without them knowing the fatigue that occurred before.

Maybe that's one of the reasons why most gamblers prefer to engage in online gambling rather than physical, in addition to hiding the news of victory from people around us, choosing an online casino also makes us safer and less likely to be detected by the government when we are in a country that does not legalize gambling.
On the other hand, you have a good idea by not telling at all about the money you get, because when you tell about it to your friends you treat, they will definitely be obsessed with doing the same thing, I'm sure they will treat gambling aggressively after seeing your victory.

[xenomorfo]

So let hear your view as a gambler are you the generous type or the greedy type when you hit the jackpot?

I gamble online which is private enough. No one knows that i won. i can not be generous if i win money from gambling because when i lose, no one was generous to me by giving me the money that i lost back. Although, i am not implying that i am stingy. This kind of question has been asked on this gambling discuss board of this forum before.

of course, when one bets or plays poker online it becomes very private and it also becomes, as it were,
intimate
I don't know, i think that different psychological mechanisms than normal ones take place, since you are there alone, nobody looks at you and nobody judges you

It certainly promotes addiction

[passwordnow]

I am not a generous type when it comes to strangers, but I do spend some money on a night out with my friends and my neighbor. I think I only did it twice from my gambling winnings already. I bought alcoholic drinks and some pizza for them.

I also treat like that with my friends and relatives if some wins have come or even just some normal occassions as long as I've got spare money or I have to celebrate some wins in my life. But I am not also giving to random people and that's why I cannot be called generous. I owe no one so whenever I want to give, I would do that but sometimes I am not in appetite to do that.

But most of my winnings are for my family. I first give them what they want before I treat my friends and neighbors. That's the important thing to do first because family will always be there, so it's best if we give back to them so that they will feel how important they are than other people.

This is the right thing to do and before them, I think you should also put yourself first if by chance gives you that winning. But I understand that it's always been family first and we're always generous to them at all times and as long as we've got something to give to them.

[Olatundespo]

Now my main concern is there are a set of people who actually don't gamble but expect that those who has won gambling should show them love by giving them money when eventually a gambler wins not minding how that person has lost money or how psychologically depressed he was when he was struggling while gambling.

So let hear your view as a gambler are you the generous type or the greedy type when you hit the jackpot?

If it comes to this, then am not a generous giver in such manner, you can't sit down there watching and waiting for me to cash out and then you come over to expect I give you from my money won, once I noticed such kind of behavior from a person, then I withdraw from giving anything, but I don't observe anything related to that and I wish to celebrate some of give willingly, then I may do so, but remember, it's not a must to do.

There's is a good spirit that comes to every gambler when they get lucky to win games sometimes you may not have the ability to control that urge to give when you win big, you get to see so many people in physical casinos and betting shops who don't have money to bet but they sit closer to gamblers motivating them to win so they can beg them to give them some tips to also gamble with. You can't help it but assist them so that they can also gamble and don't depend on your winnings all the time.

You are right that those people can help you win but you should not always trust them. I think they are very experienced in gambling activities and they cannot continue gambling due to lack of money. You can imagine most of the time that they have made themselves poor by gambling but could not give up the addiction so they keep watching and encouraging others to bet and console themselves.

You can manage those people as you wish and when you win you will naturally feel the need to support them financially. They can help you by providing sufficient information about the team before betting and they can also help you review the past history of the team and win.

[GiftedMAN]

There's is a good spirit that comes to every gambler when they get lucky to win games sometimes you may not have the ability to control that urge to give when you win big, you get to see so many people in physical casinos and betting shops who don't have money to bet but they sit closer to gamblers motivating them to win so they can beg them to give them some tips to also gamble with. You can't help it but assist them so that they can also gamble and don't depend on your winnings all the time.

Maybe my loss has been the reason that I am not generous because I lose more than win in gambling and betting together which is a good reason I should not be generous because when I am losing, no one will give me money but I will use my salary for it. Although I use small part of my salary which is not more than 1% now to gamble but if I lose it, no one cares. So why should I care if I win? I have a good reason not to care at all. I am not generous if I win big while gambling or betting.

I understand your reason for not always giving out to people when you win it's just that you can not always expect people to give you when you don't win but people are always there to ask for financial help once they see you winning. Gambling is a game of luck and if you follow up the game very well you will realize that you lose more than you win no two ways about it and you have to always use a small amount of money if you don't want to be down when you lose.

Personally, I always have a soft spot for people who beg for assistance when ever I get lucky to win in a betting shop but that doesn't mean I must do it all the time.

[Webetcoins]

Like you said there @OP, it is freaking hard to win in gambling. So, maybe if it takes a lot of time and a lot of money for me to hit the Jackpots that I'm still down or even almost breakeven only, I'm sorry but I think I'm going to be greedy at the moment in a way that I won't give people I know a tip/money.

Maybe I will only give something for my wife. No need to explain that. When it comes to these things, I already saw lots of people that get angry by the gamblers who won for the same reason even without knowing it. This is why when they win, they will also get very stingy. It is like a disease that everyone else in the room gets infected.

[alastantiger]

Now my main concern is there are a set of people who actually don't gamble but expect that those who has won gambling should show them love by giving them money when eventually a gambler wins not minding how that person has lost money or how psychologically depressed he was when he was struggling while gambling.

You don't owe anyone money that you made from gambling unless maybe you want to show some kindness because they were responsible for you getting the bets that made you to win. You still don't owe them anything because you took the risk of betting and not them. Assuming you lost, you're the one that was going to suffer lost if money and not them hence as you won, it's your decision to make. I'm the type of gambler that after winning, I don't mind sharing some of my profits with only those that need it. Others won't know about my victory because I'm not the type that goes around telling others how much I made from my gambles. Many people are always greedy with what they won because they have lost many more already and this doesn't add up to their losses.

[JoyMarsha]

So let hear your view as a gambler are you the generous type or the greedy type when you hit the jackpot?

Nowhere was it instructed that a gambler would be generous to their fellow gambler when they have a win. A gambler decides whether to give or not to give a small amount of money to those present or learn about their gambling wins. That doesn't make them better or worse gamblers than others.

People learn to do things as their mind pushes them to do so. I can win at gambling today, and choose to be generous to the people around me. The next time, I can choose not to be generous. All that depends on how I feel that day.

[noormcs5]

I am not a generous type when it comes to strangers, but I do spend some money on a night out with my friends and my neighbor. I think I only did it twice from my gambling winnings already. I bought alcoholic drinks and some pizza for them.

But most of my winnings are for my family. I first give them what they want before I treat my friends and neighbors. That's the important thing to do first because family will always be there, so it's best if we give back to them so that they will feel how important they are than other people.

By the way, "Generous"  doesn't mean that you spend money on strangers or the poor ones whom you do not know and then you are considered Generous, its not like that.

Even if you spend money from your winnings and earnings on your family, relatives and friends, you are still generous. Also it is better to allocate certain portion of your earnings for generosity and you will find good luck and happiness mostly comes to you.

[yudi09]

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So let hear your view as a gambler are you the generous type or the greedy type when you hit the jackpot?

When I lose a total of one month's worth of money according to my records and memory, who cares even if I gamble in a room using a device like a smartphone.
If I gamble and win in a place where there are people who know that I won, I probably won't give them money even if it's not a large amount even if they also played and lost. That's his risk that I don't have to feel sorry for.

People who expect us to give money from our winnings should be aware and understanding of the position when they are losing too. Taunya luck is not good, do not force yourself to play.

[finaleshot2016]

Generous only to family but others, I don't care.

If maybe I want to have fun with friends, i'll treat them but for random, Nah idc.

Now my main concern is there are a set of people who actually don't gamble but expect that those who has won gambling should show them love by giving them money when eventually a gambler wins not minding how that person has lost money or how psychologically depressed he was when he was struggling while gambling.

So let hear your view as a gambler are you the generous type or the greedy type when you hit the jackpot?

If it comes to this, then am not a generous giver in such manner, you can't sit down there watching and waiting for me to cash out and then you come over to expect I give you from my money won, once I noticed such kind of behavior from a person, then I withdraw from giving anything, but I don't observe anything related to that and I wish to celebrate some of give willingly, then I may do so, but remember, it's not a must to do.

There's is a good spirit that comes to every gambler when they get lucky to win games sometimes you may not have the ability to control that urge to give when you win big, you get to see so many people in physical casinos and betting shops who don't have money to bet but they sit closer to gamblers motivating them to win so they can beg them to give them some tips to also gamble with. You can't help it but assist them so that they can also gamble and don't depend on your winnings all the time.

Yeah, I get that, most of the people are like that being a good person because he got lucky but if you have a good principle in life, learning that you should prioritize yourself is very important. It's not your responsible and luck happens very rare so you shouldn't waste that opportunity to make something about yourself like improving in many ways, not providing needs of other people.

[sompitonov]

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So let hear your view as a gambler are you the generous type or the greedy type when you hit the jackpot?

When I lose a total of one month's worth of money according to my records and memory, who cares even if I gamble in a room using a device like a smartphone.
If I gamble and win in a place where there are people who know that I won, I probably won't give them money even if it's not a large amount even if they also played and lost. That's his risk that I don't have to feel sorry for.

People who expect us to give money from our winnings should be aware and understanding of the position when they are losing too. Taunya luck is not good, do not force yourself to play.

The thing is that winnings happen much less often than losses, I even play only for this and want to win and do not share with my environment. Only on those close people who surround me, for example my parents or my children, and strangers will immediately turn away if losses happen, so why should I treat them with champagne. This is a classic story, I think there were many of them, but the main thing is what conclusions we will draw from this. Of course, I can not advise those who and how to manage their winnings, but it is better to think about it in advance than to make spontaneous spending, and probably those people who were treated to champagne sit and only wait for this from other players, lol.

[Furious 7]

I admit this is hard to be sure but clearly I myself want to be wise in gambling such as not going crazy chasing victory by continuing to deposit money in gambling when you have lost, because that is something that will be a worse disaster in the future if we continue to do that. Apart from that, even if I win, sometimes I give it to my friends, whether they are the ones who gamble or not, even a relatively small victory, sometimes I like to share it, but this cannot be ascertained either because there are times when I win and I happen to be in a position where I need money so I don't share it with anyone.

In addition, I think there are quite a lot of people who gamble by sharing their winnings with friends who also gamble, but the wrong side is giving them loans to gamble, this is different.

[|MINER|]

Gambling is one thing that requires time effort and most importantly your hard earned money, so this is one thing that is really a serious matter because it's not easy getting a win when it comes to gambling there are times where you don't get to record a win even up to two to three months this means that the gambler is constantly losing money to gambling with the hopes that he will eventually win.

Now my main concern is there are a set of people who actually don't gamble but expect that those who has won gambling should show them love by giving them money when eventually a gambler wins not minding how that person has lost money or how psychologically depressed he was when he was struggling while gambling.

So let hear your view as a gambler are you the generous type or the greedy type when you hit the jackpot?

Who wouldn't want to win a huge jackpot from gambling?
I personally think that everyone wants to win a big amount, but to win a big amount we have to control our mind and then gamble, otherwise if we do not control our mind and gamble only to win a big amount, then there is a possibility that we will gamble an amount that we cannot afford to lose. And later if we lose, we will suffer a big loss ourselves. And if we can reduce our winning limit, even better.

[milewilda]

Generous only to family but others, I don't care.

If maybe I want to have fun with friends, i'll treat them but for random, Nah idc.

Now my main concern is there are a set of people who actually don't gamble but expect that those who has won gambling should show them love by giving them money when eventually a gambler wins not minding how that person has lost money or how psychologically depressed he was when he was struggling while gambling.

So let hear your view as a gambler are you the generous type or the greedy type when you hit the jackpot?

If it comes to this, then am not a generous giver in such manner, you can't sit down there watching and waiting for me to cash out and then you come over to expect I give you from my money won, once I noticed such kind of behavior from a person, then I withdraw from giving anything, but I don't observe anything related to that and I wish to celebrate some of give willingly, then I may do so, but remember, it's not a must to do.

There's is a good spirit that comes to every gambler when they get lucky to win games sometimes you may not have the ability to control that urge to give when you win big, you get to see so many people in physical casinos and betting shops who don't have money to bet but they sit closer to gamblers motivating them to win so they can beg them to give them some tips to also gamble with. You can't help it but assist them so that they can also gamble and don't depend on your winnings all the time.

Yeah, I get that, most of the people are like that being a good person because he got lucky but if you have a good principle in life, learning that you should prioritize yourself is very important. It's not your responsible and luck happens very rare so you shouldn't waste that opportunity to make something about yourself like improving in many ways, not providing needs of other people.

There are those people who do want to show off or wanting to get some good impression into other people will be doing this on which at the time or moment that they have win up something big then they would be trying out to impress people via giving those tips but just like you said that I dont really care up that much about other people and I would rather be that focusing up to my family members or loved ones and when it comes to spending then i would be preferring on spending up to my family rather than on trying out to impress people. There's no thing that you can benefit from it. Yes, you might be that looking be popular but on the time or moment that you dont have money then you would that easily be dumped and forgotten. So its better that you should be that focusing into more important things rather than on other people just to get that good impression.

[bakasabo]

Like you said there @OP, it is freaking hard to win in gambling. So, maybe if it takes a lot of time and a lot of money for me to hit the Jackpots that I'm still down or even almost breakeven only, I'm sorry but I think I'm going to be greedy at the moment in a way that I won't give people I know a tip/money.

Maybe I will only give something for my wife. No need to explain that. When it comes to these things, I already saw lots of people that get angry by the gamblers who won for the same reason even without knowing it. This is why when they win, they will also get very stingy. It is like a disease that everyone else in the room gets infected.

I think that it isnt correct to call someone greedy if he does not share his winnings. Gambler simply might not want to share, its not obligatory, its not a tradition, its not going to influence on next games. I would not share my money with strangers in casino. Sharing with friends is ok, but opposite can be asked - why would nobody among friends share bonuses they get at work? They are also extra and unexpected money. I would better keep all money in family and diversify them on regular expenses I have.

[Taskford]

Like you said there @OP, it is freaking hard to win in gambling. So, maybe if it takes a lot of time and a lot of money for me to hit the Jackpots that I'm still down or even almost breakeven only, I'm sorry but I think I'm going to be greedy at the moment in a way that I won't give people I know a tip/money.

Maybe I will only give something for my wife. No need to explain that. When it comes to these things, I already saw lots of people that get angry by the gamblers who won for the same reason even without knowing it. This is why when they win, they will also get very stingy. It is like a disease that everyone else in the room gets infected.

I think that it isnt correct to call someone greedy if he does not share his winnings. Gambler simply might not want to share, its not obligatory, its not a tradition, its not going to influence on next games. I would not share my money with strangers in casino. Sharing with friends is ok, but opposite can be asked - why would nobody among friends share bonuses they get at work? They are also extra and unexpected money. I would better keep all money in family and diversify them on regular expenses I have.

Everyone has right to do what he think better for his self. Also its not being greedy if the gambler won't share his winnings since we don't know the real story and maybe he lost more than what he win at the moment. So if the gambler won't give a share from his winning then people should respect that since its not easy to win on gambling since its posses huge risk rather than to win something consistently with this activity.

If there's people deserving to get a little share I guess this is our family members. But for other people? I guess I will just keep my winnings and enjoy it myself. Also I guess this is a wise decision we take and if people won't understand so be it meaning they are the one who's greedy to get free money from us.