Yes basically if you grow up with parents who don't show you how they struggled. How can it be different-.
People compare, that is a native reflex. and that is what leads to envy.
That apart in some places a house is good base to start, a drywall house in the US is not an investment but anything else.
Most people need to struggle to grow at all because they are unable to even go beyond the most basic primal programming that humans have. That is the key, which means that most people are making huge errors in the modern parenting which then has spillover effects into everything once these children start joining the adult world and we are already there. You literally have Gen Z adults that are illiterate in the western world.
I keep thinking about the psychological dimension too. An unfinished house is more than a money trap. It traps your identity. You become “the person building a house” and all decisions you make go through that house, no matter how logical or illogical they might seem.
What kind of fucking weaklings think like that? Seriously, they need to get therapy if they are unable to get out of such nonsense. Building a house in steps is the right way to do for anyone who can't build it all at once, and whether it is the right decision should be a purely economic calculation and not a emotional decision.
Every young people that see now is hungry to have their own house and leave their father's house but what always set them back is not having sufficient funds to do this because in Africa there is a respect attach in owning your won house rather than living in another man's house or paying rent, it's not paying rent is bad some do this base on their work location. House is a goal and also an achievement you are either living for free or been get paid by tenants.
This is a sign of primate behavior and savage humans. These decisions should be based on rationality, analysis and financial calculation and not on emotions as I said above. Think and act like everyone else, stay savage, or grow up and advance -- everyone has to make this decision for themselves. We know how many people decide though.
This means that people of earlier times believed that the real success in life was to build their own house. People used to invest their entire life's earnings in building a house. Today's people's thinking has changed. Today's land and house prices have increased so much that it has become difficult for today's youth to buy houses. Many young people keep moving from one city to another for work and education, due to which they cannot buy their own permanent house because they keep moving from one place to another every day. Therefore, they find it easier to live in a rented house. Due to increasing problems and low income, young people can only fulfill their basic needs, which are also met with difficulty. As time is changing, human thinking and lifestyle are changing
Moving from city to city, or place to place in search of better opportunities is in no way related to the inability to buy a permanent home. In reality, in most cases where the move relates to accepted opportunities, it improves the chance of the people to own a permanent home. Those that are stuck in shitty jobs at shitty pays, that accept shitty pay during job negotiations and whatnot are those that are hurting everyone else with their decisions -- in the topic of opportunities.
