See things from other people's perspectives

[Alpha Marine]

This is a discussion forum, and for you to understand why a person says what they say, you have to understand that person's perspective. It is only after you've seen things from his point of view that you can know how skewed their point is and how to correct such a person. It is also only when you can learn from a person. Keep in mind that we live in different realities, and my experiences may be different from yours, so the way I view things may be different from yours, but at the core, humanity should prevail.
Now and then, I see people being rude or condescending to other users, mostly in a subtle manner, but it shouldn't be like that. Except that the person is being a jerk or just inhumane, there's no need for that.

When we see something, we should try to critically analyse that thing properly before making judgments.
For example, a person can say something like "taxes are too expensive" and another user might just dive in and disagree, failing to realise that we come from different parts of the world and how things are in one country or city may be different from the other. Therefore, our views will be different, and that is fine because that is how we can grow or get better.

[goldkingcoiner]

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Also it would be quite important to know that some people on this forum write long texts and post needlessly bloated topics about unimportant things just to fill their signature campaign quota for the week.

But there is always the ignore option and I find that very handy to use on people who write a lot of "nothing about something".

In time you guys will develop an eye for the signature spammers. But luckily these kind of posts can be spotted easily and avoided, as they do not offer anything but a headache from reading.  

[Hazink]

When we see something, we should try to critically analyse that thing properly before making judgments.
For example, a person can say something like "taxes are too expensive" and another user might just dive in and disagree, failing to realise that we come from different parts of the world and how things are in one country or city may be different from the other. Therefore, our views will be different, and that is fine because that is how we can grow or get better.

We are in a forum where we don't expect everyone to understand all our thoughts and how we talk and share our ideas, which we should also try as much as we can; if we are stating an opinion, we should try to be as clear as everyone can understand, even if we can't satisfy everyone.

Using the example that you give, there will also be nothing wrong with saying that "my country's taxes are too expensive" instead of taxes are too expensive," so there will be a clarity of what you are pointing at.

No one is perfect; there are times one can be corrected in the form of an attack. You can either calmly point the member who misunderstood you in the right direction, or you can use the ignore button if the attack persists.

[Alone055]

You can't make a thread with advice and expect everyone to become saints all of a sudden. These things will always exist in a community, and you can't correct everyone at once by doing this. What is more practical and understandable is to point it out when you find someone crossing the limit when they shouldn't be. Whenever I see someone with a higher rank getting unnecessarily rude with a newbie or a newer member, I point it out right there, and say that they should do it because it's not appropriate, and I believe that's the right way to do it and not by creating a thread.

I would also like to mention that someone who is a part of a community where they have to put out their thoughts publicly for the whole community to read and share their opinions about, they need to understand that they aren't always going to get sweet responses, and they will need to learn to handle harsh ones as well. Sometimes, some people will throw constructive criticism at you and you might find that being rude, but you need to take out the positive out of it, and then respond to the same response in a matter that should make the person on the other hand realize that you didn't take what they said as an offense but you learned something from it, and that might change their views about you.

[SmartGold01]

The most important thing should be if that person can able to accept correction or defeats, What I mean by defeat is that they aren't always right in everything they are doing; therefore they would have to adjust to learn more things from people and in general forum. There is something I have to understand about life is that "for us to move further we have to unlearn something that we had already learned", so focusing on self studies can as well increases and boost our knowledges further above their previous states. Last, before we judge anyone around us we should first at least also view from their perspectives to understand the reason why such person said.

[boyptc]

Now and then, I see people being rude or condescending to other users, mostly in a subtle manner, but it shouldn't be like that. Except that the person is being a jerk or just inhumane, there's no need for that.

I understand but sometimes there is also wrong in our perspective the way we read and understand them.

While it could be a normal reaction and words to them and in their culture but with yours, you think that they're being rude and condescending to others.

I also notice that but we also have to understand maybe that's how they are expressing themselves in a way that we think we're offended. But in no means, that's just normal to them.

In some people, the obviousness of their rudeness is there and we can't stop them from being like that.

[Davidvictorson]

It is a forum and what you expect is not what you get. People bring their courtesies and uncut behavior online which also happens in an offline forum. That is why, you must develop a thick skin and know that not to take people's reaction personality so that it doesn't get to you. There are also measures for that too using the ignore button which if you feel that you're being insulted and attacked you can simply use that.

[happybitcoinph]

If some people are rude, so be it. There's an ignore button there. If people are kind, then talk to them nicely. If you are in the middle of an argument, always keep your rebuttal on point without turning into a rude person. Always stay on a good approach.

You can't always expect a healthy conversation in an online forum. Please take note of that.

[Samlucky O]

Welll i get your point mate, but you should understand that here is a place with divers people from deferent part of  the world who view things in different perspective, so you can't expect everyone to reply politely to a question when asked. There must surely be some set of people that bully or criticize other people for anything they say. So it will be nice fort anyone here to bear it in mind that he or she must grow a thick skin to withstand the atmosphere of the forum. Here is like a jungle, survival of the fittest. And you know what that means.

[Majestic-milf]

 This is a social space where there are different kinds of people. Normally, except like you said, the poster is being an outright jerk, it's unnecessary to to be rude when making your reply when you can obviously ignore but at the same time, it's also necessary to understand that you won't expect everyone to sugarcoat their words when pointing an error the person made that's why most times these kinds of people are advised to grow a thick skin.
 Now I'm not saying that because one has to grow a thick skin, it's an avenue to be uncouth.
Not everyone that comes to this place is fluent in English and as such may mixup what they are trying to pass across and those who may not truly understand would see it as a means to blast the person, further deflating their confidence but as @Goldkingcoiner noted, it's not all that are fumbling newbies, rather some of them just want to complete post count and don't care if they spam just to do it.

[CryptopreneurBrainboss]

Now and then, I see people being rude or condescending to other users, mostly in a subtle manner, but it shouldn't be like that. Except that the person is being a jerk or just inhumane, there's no need for that.

This is a public forum and one that has freedom of speech so we can't stop people from expressing themselves how they feel but the sad reality is that people talk to people they way they feel because of the things they're experiencing in real life therefore when you see someone being rude, that might just be the only way they can let out their frustrations by acting as bullies online. You should develop a tough skin and stop allowing the way people treat you to determine your growth in life. Take the necessary information from the message they sent to you. You can't tell people how to act but you can determine how you respond and that's all that matters. People will always prioritize their own perspectives so don't expect them to put yours into consideration.

[Rustam Meraj]

Everyone sees things differently because of their unique experiences and accepting this diversity helps us connect better. It is frustrating to see people being rude online subtly or not. Unless someone truly being jerk there is no call for negativity. Instead of this we should think critically and be curious. I like you example which you given about someone who is facing tax issues so should not disagree but consider their situation. We do not know actually in which condition he is. We just think if we are not facing that issue so no one can face. So being kind and respectful should always guide our interactions.

[Jawhead999]

For example, a person can say something like "taxes are too expensive" and another user might just dive in and disagree, failing to realise that we come from different parts of the world and how things are in one country or city may be different from the other. Therefore, our views will be different, and that is fine because that is how we can grow or get better.

Then prove him wrong by show the tax bracket in your country are high, why make it complicated?

If they can't accept your proof and being jerk just in order to have argument against you, you have an option to reply his message or not. What I know people who already mature can make decision and focus to spend their energy on important thing, not just because seeking for validation.

Disagreement is normal, it's not even rude at all if other people's opinion are correct.

[Skjadoon]

This is a discussion forum, and for you to understand why a person says what they say, you have to understand that person's perspective. It is only after you've seen things from his point of view that you can know how skewed their point is and how to correct such a person. It is also only when you can learn from a person. Keep in mind that we live in different realities, and my experiences may be different from yours, so the way I view things may be different from yours, but at the core, humanity should prevail.
Now and then, I see people being rude or condescending to other users, mostly in a subtle manner, but it shouldn't be like that. Except that the person is being a jerk or just inhumane, there's no need for that.

When we see something, we should try to critically analyse that thing properly before making judgments.
For example, a person can say something like "taxes are too expensive" and another user might just dive in and disagree, failing to realise that we come from different parts of the world and how things are in one country or city may be different from the other. Therefore, our views will be different, and that is fine because that is how we can grow or get better.

In forums, we should speak clearly so others understand us. Specify your opinions, like saying "my country's taxes." If misunderstood, calmly clarify or ignore persistent attacks. No one's perfect.

[Alpha Marine]

Then prove him wrong by show the tax bracket in your country are high, why make it complicated?

I get your point but this is just an example. It's not a real scenario. It's more like the case of one person seeing a "6" while the other person at the other end sees a "9". From each of their point of view, they're both correct, but they may be seeing different sides of the same thing.

Disagreement is normal, it's not even rude at all if other people's opinion are correct.

Even if someone else's opinion is wrong, it's not rude, because at the time, he may not know that he's wrong, unless he is rude about it.