To have kids or not to? Your opinion from economy perspective

[Jody.Drummer]

For me I think having kids is the right thing to do, but you should give birth to kids you know you can take care of, and not give births to kids you can't cater for, although it's a commandment for God to go to the earth and replenish, but make sure you can take care of the child or children you choose to bring to this world.
I believe when you have a kid, you tend to be more responsible, because you know you have a child that you are responsible for, and it also makes you work harder to provide.

We know that once we have kids, it's a different level as a new parent where it's our obligation to take care of and raise and teach our children correctly according to what we know is right.

And this responsibility is not easy to do especially if we are just employees and not business owners. That's why some people are limiting themselves to having a child or children, unlike others who don't care if the woman gets pregnant.

Most people, when they get married, want to have children immediately, and their in-laws and daughters-in-law also hope to have children soon. Some tribes and cultures believe that children are a blessing and a source of blessings. However, some delay having children because one of them is not ready to have children, perhaps more so on the part of the woman.
As parents, even though their financial situation is limited, it is their duty to both be able to meet their needs, including those of their children. Expenses will feel greater when we have a child, but believe me, children do open the door to blessings.

[Youngrebel]

What title says,

unless one is well off himself one should not be having kids, this is my opinion.

What about you?

It depends on the environment or condition you find yourself, if someone is not progressing or is not successful that shouldn't prevent the person not have kids, at least 1 or 2 is enough to someone who is struggling, and I can't advice anyone not to have a kids when the person is above 35 years especially men, kids are gift from spring beings and if you have them they most be a positive way for you to make a provision, but we're condenm is the process whereby someone having a multiple of kids and you have nothing to take care of them, I'm against that, but having 1 when you know that earth is not favourable to you, I think that should be better

well said dear, children are seen as blessing from God so many people have kids without planning for them,their just have kids with the mindset of God being the provider forgetting that their are the instruments God will use to provide for them.personaly,the society where we currently finds our self people don't care if their have money or not before giving birth.my opinion on this issue of having kids,the government should put roles and regulations to bound people from having too many children.
   The middle class families should not have more than 2 kids,the rich should not have more than 4.this well help in improving the leaving condition of everyone in families.

[harapan]

What title says,

unless one is well off himself one should not be having kids, this is my opinion.

What about you?

This aspect needs a special kind of wisdom to operate, cause following the word go into the world and multiply it didn't say otherwise that you should have kids everywhere unplanned. So all of this are planned and that's why two people come together with interest and understanding and bear forth offspring, that's to say they are ready mentally, financially and otherwise.

[bogdanb]

What title says,

unless one is well off himself one should not be having kids, this is my opinion.

What about you?

Actually, if I want to speak the truth then I say that raising kids nowadays involves a lot of money because raising kids is not just about food, clothing, and shelter there are many other expenses too. When a kid is raised, it has a big responsibility and expenses. But if we think that when a person grows up, he will focus only on making money, then one day he will be able to lead a very boring life. If he has a wife and kid, I mean family then he will work hard for them. And in this way he will helpful for the economoy. So, from that perspective, I believe having children is a good thing but yes, of course, it comes with a lot of expenses nowadays.

[bakasabo]

The middle class families should not have more than 2 kids,the rich should not have more than 4.this well help in improving the leaving condition of everyone in families.

And we often see situation when middle class or lower families have more than two children, when rich families have one child that is spoiled. I often see families that live in country side, and have 3-6 children. That is imo one of most complicated scenarios. Those families are very dependable from their crops, weather, lots of other factors. People who live in cities have much easier lives than them. Nevertheless I have never seen those people unhappy or complaining, or saying that wish they have less children.

[libert19]

... I often see families that live in country side, and have 3-6 children. That is imo one of most complicated scenarios. Those families are very dependable from their crops, weather, lots of other factors. People who live in cities have much easier lives than them. Nevertheless I have never seen those people unhappy or complaining, or saying that wish they have less children.

Open spaces, greenery as in countryside are good for us (or for any living being for that matter), I also feel better at my parents farm than in the society I live in, which is surrounded by buildings everywhere (i.e, concrete jungle).

[Fredomago]

... I often see families that live in country side, and have 3-6 children. That is imo one of most complicated scenarios. Those families are very dependable from their crops, weather, lots of other factors. People who live in cities have much easier lives than them. Nevertheless I have never seen those people unhappy or complaining, or saying that wish they have less children.

Open spaces, greenery as in countryside are good for us (or for any living being for that matter), I also feel better at my parents farm than in the society I live in, which is surrounded by buildings everywhere (i.e, concrete jungle).

Simple life as it is, those who are use to live like that are the people who are contented with their lives they are okay having children who completed their lives, though there are still people who don't like that kind of set up and still aiming to have a much better life and still aiming to experienced a life in the city, different people always have different perceptions and opinions.

[bubilas]

What title says,

unless one is well off himself one should not be having kids, this is my opinion.

What about you?

I believe that it is necessary to have children at least out of respect for your parents, who once made the decision for us to be born into this world, and they went through many hard days and sleepless nights so that we became who we are.
And I believe that we should be grateful to them for this, and besides, does a life lived only for yourself make sense?
What can you leave behind after such a life?
I am not forcing anyone or calling for anything. This is simply my opinion.

[WatChe]

The middle class families should not have more than 2 kids,the rich should not have more than 4.this well help in improving the leaving condition of everyone in families.

My point of view is that everyone should not go for more then 2 kids regardless of his financial status. The more kids you have, more attention they need and it will be difficult for parents to give adequate time to every child. The spoiled kids we see are the one who are not given due attention by their parents.

I do agree that if your finances are not good then parents will face issue in upbringing of their kids. That's why it's important to consult family planning doctor in advance.

[Inwestour]

What title says,

unless one is well off himself one should not be having kids, this is my opinion.

What about you?

This is a very difficult question because we want to have children while we are young and still have the energy to raise and nurture them. Even if we don’t have money when we are young, we can earn it later when we have a good job and career growth. You can have children when you are already financially secure and older, but I believe that children should have young parents, although this is my opinion and may differ from yours.

[libert19]

I believe that it is necessary to have children at least out of respect for your parents, who once made the decision for us to be born into this world, and they went through many hard days and sleepless nights so that we became who we are.
And I believe that we should be grateful to them for this, and besides, does a life lived only for yourself make sense?
What can you leave behind after such a life?
I am not forcing anyone or calling for anything. This is simply my opinion.

My honest opinion goes far beyond mere economics, I personally consider life a useless affair. I am not grateful to my parents for their entertainment session which led to me, and to take care of me which they ought to do after creating me.

I like nature, I like to take care of things in it, but put another body in this show, nope! What will I leave behind? Nothing and that's best thing I can do.

[lovesmayfamilis]

What title says,

unless one is well off himself one should not be having kids, this is my opinion.

What about you?

This is the philosophy of modern youth. Until a person gets on his feet completely, acquires a profession, a good income, and a name in the end, and only after that, young people decide to "have" a child. The word "have" itself sounds quite offensive to the future person, as if people want to have a cat or a dog. I would call the topic differently, changing it to the word "give birth." Although you know, while you are building your successful life, the fertility of women and the quality of sperm in men are becoming less and less every year. You need to think about the fact that, having missed the most convenient childbearing age, many will spend their money saved for a future good life on treatment to give birth to a now desired and long-awaited child.

[gunhell16]

What title says,

unless one is well off himself one should not be having kids, this is my opinion.

What about you?

It's a different feeling to have a child; it's wonderful to be a father. This is especially true if you're a responsible parent or father. Though there are some people who really want
to have a family, there are also others who don't want children and are happy to grow old without a spouse or kids.

Because of this, they just treat their nieces and nephews like their own children. However, it's still up to us if we want to or not.
It just depends on each person's choice.

[Akbarkoe]

What title says,

unless one is well off himself one should not be having kids, this is my opinion.

What about you?

That thinking is too extreme, although we might consider it valid for someone with a deep sense of responsibility.

However, we need to simplify it: we shouldn't have children if we haven't been able to prepare them for their well-being, from conception to adulthood and independence. This must be done with the proper consideration of a visionary. I know people with such thinking are very concerned about their children because they don't want to bring up their children in hardship, especially if they can't provide a decent life. Therefore, we must be stronger in improving our lives so that when we do have children, we can provide them with a decent and happy life.

In other words, it shouldn't be like when we were children.

[DaNNy001]

What title says,

unless one is well off himself one should not be having kids, this is my opinion.

What about you?

This aspect needs a special kind of wisdom to operate, cause following the word go into the world and multiply it didn't say otherwise that you should have kids everywhere unplanned. So all of this are planned and that's why two people come together with interest and understanding and bear forth offspring, that's to say they are ready mentally, financially and otherwise.

That term In the bible "multiply" wasn't even talking about bringing forth offsprings alone, a lot of people are streamlining what it means to only reproduction...it actually means that we should be productive in every aspect of life both financially and materially...just like you said, two people shouldn't come together just to reproduce without proper planning because at the end it would lead to frustration

[bakasabo]

... I often see families that live in country side, and have 3-6 children. That is imo one of most complicated scenarios. Those families are very dependable from their crops, weather, lots of other factors. People who live in cities have much easier lives than them. Nevertheless I have never seen those people unhappy or complaining, or saying that wish they have less children.

Open spaces, greenery as in countryside are good for us (or for any living being for that matter), I also feel better at my parents farm than in the society I live in, which is surrounded by buildings everywhere (i.e, concrete jungle).

Simple life as it is, those who are use to live like that are the people who are contented with their lives they are okay having children who completed their lives, though there are still people who don't like that kind of set up and still aiming to have a much better life and still aiming to experienced a life in the city, different people always have different perceptions and opinions.

It only sounds that life in countryside is simple, but IRL its far more difficult than life in concrete jungle. From parenting point of view, in concrete jungle we have everything in few taps on screen away. Everything you need and want can be delivered. That also makes life more expensive, that scared people from having children. Those who did not have children, think that a lot of expenses on a child are instant, when a lot of things a child dont need at once or dont need at all. Food it the main expense, the rest can be replaced, or purchased used for example.

[Cheema02]

What title says,

unless one is well off himself one should not be having kids, this is my opinion.

What about you?

It depends on the environment or condition you find yourself, if someone is not progressing or is not successful that shouldn't prevent the person not have kids, at least 1 or 2 is enough to someone who is struggling, and I can't advice anyone not to have a kids when the person is above 35 years especially men, kids are gift from spring beings and if you have them they most be a positive way for you to make a provision, but we're condenm is the process whereby someone having a multiple of kids and you have nothing to take care of them, I'm against that, but having 1 when you know that earth is not favourable to you, I think that should be better

I think the problem is not having or not having kids. Kids are the most innocent creatures in fact it's a gift from God to us. The problem is not having enough resources to take care of them because it's very unfair if you are not able to provide them with the basic needs of life. If you have enough resources and you think you are on the stage where it is easy for you to raise a kid in a well organized way then it's too good. But the things got disturbed when you are also living with the very limited options and then the responsibility of kids will disturb you the more in fact it will cause the problems for the kids as well. I think it's the type of decision in which you need to pay enough attention to decide what to do.

[Jawhead999]

People need a good mentality, financial and knowledge before they want to have kids.

This is why when we're still single, make sure we try to get a good job, improve our mentality and knowledge, because when we're already become dad, we have to provide our family, can become a good husband and good father, then teach the kids with our knowledge.

These thing three are bare minimum before someone want to have a kids, I would want to add one more: make sure you've finished your single life. What I mean, if you still want to have fun, fuck many women, get drunk, and other "bad lifestyle", stay single until you're ready to be a husband and a dad.

[Sanitough]

What title says,

unless one is well off himself one should not be having kids, this is my opinion.

What about you?

If this is the mindset of everyone, hence overpopulation will be avoided. But unfortunately, those who have no stable source of income are definitely those who dare to have multiple kids when they can’t even send their kids to good schools and receive quality education. However, we have no control of others life’s decisions and perspectives, but as per my personal point of view, raising a child is good and it’s something that God wants us to do but at least we should also be responsible guardians and prepare their good future and meaningful life.

[Y3shot]

This aspect needs a special kind of wisdom to operate, cause following the word go into the world and multiply it didn't say otherwise that you should have kids everywhere unplanned. So all of this are planned and that's why two people come together with interest and understanding and bear forth offspring, that's to say they are ready mentally, financially and otherwise.

Go multiply doesn't also mean people should start producing children without having an income or a job at hand. Go and multiply is only used for those who are prepared to go into marriage,  and being prepared for marriage doesn't guarantee one must give birth to many children but only the ones that you can cater for. When it comes to child bearing, you need to be very sensitive that no one is coming to help you, which only you have the responsibility to provide  for the children.