Gamblers with addiction and deferred life syndrome

[Jody.Drummer]

When I read an article about a gambler with addiction, I noticed that he often mentioned that when he started to accumulate debts among friends, and loans from banks, he began to eat worse, stopped buying new clothes. He began to live in the Syndrome of Deferred Life. What kind of syndrome is this?

Deferred life syndrome - is a psychological condition in which a person constantly postpones a full life, happiness and satisfaction of their needs to an indefinite future.

Do you think problem gamblers can save on themselves to start living in the "bright future" they hope for after a big win at the casino?
The same goes for problem bettors and sports betting.

I just heard about that syndrome, but when someone is addicted to gambling, their life may undergo changes, and yes, these changes are more likely to be negative, as you said, such as eating poorly, stopping buying clothes, Additionally, in my circle, when we encounter a friend who usually smokes and their cigarettes are legal, but after getting into gambling, the cigarettes they buy become illegal without any tax stamps. So my friend says, “Stop gambling, buddy; your cigarettes are starting to be illegal.”

[Y3shot]

When I read an article about a gambler with addiction, I noticed that he often mentioned that when he started to accumulate debts among friends, and loans from banks, he began to eat worse, stopped buying new clothes. He began to live in the Syndrome of Deferred Life. What kind of syndrome is this?

This is just the consequence of accumulated debt because life will be so miserable. Of course, when one is full of debt, you won't be living the life you are supposed to live but a life of regret.

 For those who have been in debt and are trying to pay off their debt, they can relate to the feeling in this kind of situation. You won't be able to meet your needs; it is so exhausting that you can't even wait for everything to become normal.

[xenomorfo]

Obviously, for this reason, if you are a true friend, you will never lend money to a gambler.
Because if a gambler ends up borrowing money to bet or gamble, it means he's already in the spiral of compulsive gambling.
The help you can give him is to call some psychologist to help him.

[Peanutswar]

When I read an article about a gambler with addiction, I noticed that he often mentioned that when he started to accumulate debts among friends, and loans from banks, he began to eat worse, stopped buying new clothes. He began to live in the Syndrome of Deferred Life. What kind of syndrome is this?

Deferred life syndrome - is a psychological condition in which a person constantly postpones a full life, happiness and satisfaction of their needs to an indefinite future.

Do you think problem gamblers can save on themselves to start living in the "bright future" they hope for after a big win at the casino?
The same goes for problem bettors and sports betting.

This is the reason why gambling needs to become cautious its not all about the fun and entertainment but also to the money youve been use just to satisfy yourself and make a short time fun and excitement, other people seeking for more so even though they lose all of their capital in game they want to have more now they sell what they have or else seek for help with the people around them and seek for money and becomes debt and onwars ended up losing those money and make a late reazliation they wasted their time and money to a thing they didnt even use at all or utilize in meaningful way. Its part of the human to have a second thought or their what if they spent it wisely but its happended already we look forward in the future and just memory from the past.

[₿itcoin]

Deferred Life Syndrome sounds a lot like being a Bitcoiner. Where you get to choose how rich you will become based on how much you stack and how little you spend. The only problem being that nobody lives forever, so at some point you must decide to go against you thoughts and spend some of those sweet coins.

thinkin somethin like this "waiting for my hodling to 100X so I could at least live my life ! !"

Deferred life syndrome which can also be called as Delayed life syndrome, is not something that is actually backed by science but is a thought process of people where they kinda think to enjoy their life after they have some perfect moment in the future. It is a mindset according to which the real life may wait, LOL.

Piling up the BTC could be similar to that as you are investing in a resource for making money in the long term which may actually lead you to move away from the moments that you may enjoy in the present. The solution to this is to just keep stacking bitcoin but not burying your daily life enjoyments

So yep, you would not get trapped in this syndrome just because you are a Bitcoiner. Just do not forget that you have a present in the rush of settling future

[Promocodeudo]

Obviously, for this reason, if you are a true friend, you will never lend money to a gambler.
Because if a gambler ends up borrowing money to bet or gamble, it means he's already in the spiral of compulsive gambling.
The help you can give him is to call some psychologist to help him.

How would one ven think of lending money to his or her friend for gambling purposes, we should understand that once a gambler reache the stage of borrowing to gamble, it means something is actually wrong and has to be checked, at this point what you can do to such friend is advise, if you can get a psychologist as you said it is also fine but lending such friend is not ideal and even though you do, don't ever ask for a pay back because he may not pay you back, some people say he's my friend, you know i won't say know his request, we have to say know to save a drowning man who don't who allows his habit to be in control of his actions.

[r_victory]

I think of it as depression. Someone who no longer cares about their appearance, diet, and overall health is clearly experiencing depression. It's the same as losing the will to live, but instead of ending life all at once, it ends slowly. There's a cure, but the person must want to be cured and seek help. Even more important is having the support of family and friends during this phase.

[Accardo]

This is just the consequence of accumulated debt because life will be so miserable. Of course, when one is full of debt, you won't be living the life you are supposed to live but a life of regret.

 For those who have been in debt and are trying to pay off their debt, they can relate to the feeling in this kind of situation. You won't be able to meet your needs; it is so exhausting that you can't even wait for everything to become normal.

There must be a solution rendered to emotionally broken players before they hurt themselves. In as much as, the plaque brought upon them is self inflicted, and they know about it, and wouldn't want to share it, finding a way to talk them out of the problem will help save a life. Players who are staggering towards an endless life of fear and anxiety, are in many ways fragile and vulnerable to any kind of threat. And when the lender does that, they'll always want to add extra pain to the already existing one.

[terrific]

Do you think problem gamblers can save on themselves to start living in the "bright future" they hope for after a big win at the casino?
The same goes for problem bettors and sports betting.

A problem won't be solved by another problem.
Remember that. Because if a person with deferred life syndrome gets to hope a good life with gambling.
It's best not for them to get into it. This might make their situations into worse. They shouldn't have that hope in life through winning big.
They need to fix their lives in the usual way and don't look at gambling like that because it's inappropriate and won't help them.

[HONDACD125]

I have heard that this syndrome is common to many people who are not even familiar with gambling, but simply try to save on everything, bringing their lives to the point of complete absurdity in terms of savings.

I've seen and I see a lot of people who are like that, but I also didn't know it's some kind of syndrome, because it's basically a sort of lifestyle choice that some people choose for themselves because they believe it is going to possibly change their future, or maybe make the present of other people around them better. For gamblers, it's even more understandable, especially if they are addicted to gambling, because the urge will always keep them aware of the fact that they need funds to keep gambling, and they have to find a way to get more funds however it's possible.

This is one of the many reasons that prove that gambling addiction is a curse; all addictions are curses, actually, but when it comes to an addiction that not only eats you up mentally, it also drains your pockets and financial accounts because you are constantly spending money on the addiction to calm your nerves. Just like drug addicts, when gambling addicts don't get to gamble because they don't have money, they might even become dangerous and think of doing things that they are not supposed to do or have never done, such as robberies, stealing stuff, kidnappings, etc.

[Smack That Ace]

I think of it as depression. Someone who no longer cares about their appearance, diet, and overall health is clearly experiencing depression. It's the same as losing the will to live, but instead of ending life all at once, it ends slowly. There's a cure, but the person must want to be cured and seek help. Even more important is having the support of family and friends during this phase.

Depression may manifest as a disregard for one's appearance, nutrition, or basic selfcare.  imo depression frequently manifests as a chronically low mood, a lack of drive & a loss of interest in day-to-day activities.  Although it may seem like life is happening to you rather than for you, you are not alone & this does not define who you are.

The desire to change & the availability of therapy, medication or lifestyle modifications are the first steps towards healing.  And your team?  They are important.  In difficult times, support from friends & fam provides hope, practical assistance, and emotional safety.

Regards

Duke

[cryptoaddictchie]

Do you think problem gamblers can save on themselves to start living in the "bright future" they hope for after a big win at the casino?
The same goes for problem bettors and sports betting.

Yes, gamblers with problem and bettors often fall into deferred life syndrome, where they cut back on food, clothing, or daily needs with the belief that a big win will solve everything. They postpone living fully in the present, placing all hope on an uncertain future, which usually leads to deeper financial and emotional struggles. Its hurting to know that most users taking this lane with unsure path or inacurrate computations. Gambling is based on luck and you dont wanna depend on that alone.

[hyudien]

This is the first time I've heard of "deferred living syndrome," but your description reminds me of a friend who can live a frugal life, postponing more necessary purchases and reducing daily living expenses. However, when gambling, he can endure large losses in the hope that a big win will solve his problems. Perhaps this behavior falls under this syndrome. I believe that whether or not it's salvageable depends on the individual's motivation, but most cases require professional treatment.

[JunaidAzizi]

I didn't clear what tomorrow means and why they should stop today's activities. In my view, they don't because the casinos are designed to always win, and the users lose. People are working just to make their day better, eat well, wear good clothes, and spend the money they earn. When you stop this and keep lending money again and again, how will you secure your future? If you are waiting for the right time, then it's called luck. When that time comes, you will borrow so much money that your lottery winnings will go to pay them back, and your condition will be the same as in the past.

[Doan9269]

When I read an article about a gambler with addiction, I noticed that he often mentioned that when he started to accumulate debts among friends, and loans from banks, he began to eat worse, stopped buying new clothes. He began to live in the Syndrome of Deferred Life. What kind of syndrome is this?

Deferred life syndrome - is a psychological condition in which a person constantly postpones a full life, happiness and satisfaction of their needs to an indefinite future.

Do you think problem gamblers can save on themselves to start living in the "bright future" they hope for after a big win at the casino?
The same goes for problem bettors and sports betting.

The problem is that the problem gambler will not even have this kind of thought to plan ahead for themselves over the future and make something important happened, they will rather instead prefer to continue with their usual way of life thinking that things will always be the same for them as they have always been living and used to a managing kind of lifestyle, which is all about endurance, procrastination, fake hope and careless kind of living, whereby they don't seem to see or understand whether if something is even wrong with them or not form how they have been gambling.

[Joy_learns_crypto]

When I read an article about a gambler with addiction, I noticed that he often mentioned that when he started to accumulate debts among friends, and loans from banks, he began to eat worse, stopped buying new clothes. He began to live in the Syndrome of Deferred Life. What kind of syndrome is this?

Deferred life syndrome - is a psychological condition in which a person constantly postpones a full life, happiness and satisfaction of their needs to an indefinite future.

Do you think problem gamblers can save on themselves to start living in the "bright future" they hope for after a big win at the casino?
The same goes for problem bettors and sports betting.

That’s a strong addition the friend has. Boring from friends is going to far but going to get a loan from the bank to gamble is an addiction and they need to get help from it fast.
If I am not going to gamble with my money i close the chapter of gambling for that period of time.
Irresponsible gamble is the dark angle taken away the souls of many promising people. When you find out that you have it or when your loved ones tell you they notice it in you then you need to start fighting it.

[Cantsay]

Obviously, for this reason, if you are a true friend, you will never lend money to a gambler.
Because if a gambler ends up borrowing money to bet or gamble, it means he's already in the spiral of compulsive gambling.
The help you can give him is to call some psychologist to help him.

If as a friend you know that your friend or someone close to you wants to borrow money from you to gamble and you still go ahead and send them the money it means you don’t like them a single bit and if they don’t pay back it would be your fault.

Gamblers, deferring life because they think that there’s a huge reward for them in the future or when they hit some huge jackpot in the future they can then start enjoying life, sounds like me placing a bet and then going to my job to submit my resignation letter - the result isn’t certain so it really isn’t wise for them to deprive themselves of life experience just for some future fantasy that might never happen.

[Nheer]

When I read an article about a gambler with addiction, I noticed that he often mentioned that when he started to accumulate debts among friends, and loans from banks, he began to eat worse, stopped buying new clothes. He began to live in the Syndrome of Deferred Life. What kind of syndrome is this?

Deferred life syndrome - is a psychological condition in which a person constantly postpones a full life, happiness and satisfaction of their needs to an indefinite future.

Do you think problem gamblers can save on themselves to start living in the "bright future" they hope for after a big win at the casino?
The same goes for problem bettors and sports betting.

Everything you mentioned is attributed to gambling addiction, debts and loans keep accumulating and you begin to run from one problem to another all with the thought that gambling is the only way out for you not knowing it's putting you in more problems. Your meals will definitely be affected, you can't handle basic needs anymore and your life will be deferred hoping for a miracle to happen.

Of course they can work on themselves to not gamble all their winnings and better their life but it will be difficult to not gamble certain amount at all. Gradually an addict can work on their self to reduce the addiction but it won't be easy and depends on the level of the addiction.

[DaNNy001]

I'm aware of such a condition but I didn't really know that it has a term that it's been called, that's why we learn everyday...This case is not only with those that are addicted to gambling but every other addiction as well , like drugs, alcohol and so on, this makes them focus only on their addiction and takes their mind off from the basic things or should I say important things that are needed to survive

[sunsilk]

Do you think problem gamblers can save on themselves to start living in the "bright future" they hope for after a big win at the casino?
The same goes for problem bettors and sports betting.

Maybe not a bright future but something of as a passion or pastime from it.

Because of them being in that bad situation, they need to find an outlet of how they can entertain themselves and to forget the current problem that they're dealing with.

It's possible that it won't be from gambling is the solution that they are looking for. It won't be another addiction and deferred life that they want to prolong.

They don't need to do another thing that could push them deeper from the troubles of having another way to have anxiety and depression.