Will You Make Yourself As An Example Or Ashame To Expose Yourself

[traderethereum]

I might not expose myself as an example but I will suggest him not take a loan for gambling. I will tell him the risks of doing that and show him that gambling can make him lose all of his money. I don't have to show myself as an example because I don't think he can learn from other people's mistakes. So rather than using myself, I will tell about the danger of taking a loan for gambling and explain it in detail. But if he doesn't want to listen to me, even if I finally open my past experience, that will depend on him. I will just tell that all things will be his responsibility.

[peter0425]

You're an experienced gambler, having gambled for many years and having seen and done everything. Part of your experience is taking a loan and chasing losses. What if one of the young new gamblers who happens to be close to you is planning to take a loan?

Will you open up and give yourself as an example of someone who takes a loan, chases losses, and eventually loses everything, or prefer not to because you are ashamed to look back at your bad experience, and people think that you are a weak person?

We all get older and by then we mature and realize that our mistakes do happen for a reason. While those mistakes are painful lessons, it still is a lesson. So, I will not be ashamed of my past especially if I have learned something from it. And a sign of maturing is being able to acknowledge that you have made these mistakes and you have grown since then.

[Doan9269]

I might not expose myself as an example but I will suggest him not take a loan for gambling. I will tell him the risks of doing that and show him that gambling can make him lose all of his money. I don't have to show myself as an example because I don't think he can learn from other people's mistakes. So rather than using myself, I will tell about the danger of taking a loan for gambling and explain it in detail. But if he doesn't want to listen to me, even if I finally open my past experience, that will depend on him. I will just tell that all things will be his responsibility.

I don't think there is anything bad in exposing ourself on what we have done and leant from it, though its a bitter experience on us, but also a shame and we have to take it as it is and let others realized what we are telling them is not being framed, but we are such example that got affected by the same challenge, which could draw for more conviction and motivated them to take it more serious, because they are dealing with life experience and such could be the perfect teacher to some, but i still respect your opinion on personal decision to whether to expose ourself or not, this is more of a personal convictions.

[Stepstowealth]

How about you? How do you see yourself?

Of course I will, honesty is very important, especially to people you love. Some of these young gamblers will not take your advice if the story about the experience is not a personal one to you. There is nothing shameful sharing your experience, it just makes them understand that you have faced similar situation before and experienced same feeling that is motivating them to gamble so you can relate properly.

If you're trying to act all righteous to these new gamblers and then tell them a story looking like you've never been in a bad situation from gambling, they will have the feeling in their hearts that you are speaking about something that you have no knowledge about and based on your insincerity they will not take your advice, at the end of the day you would have wasted your time.

[promise444c5]

Everyone will probably give you a yes answer and I believe that’s the right thing to do, unless you’re just trying to wicked  such an individual even outside of gambling generally, if you have a bad experience about something then speak out when you see others trying to take same path  . To be honest, who the heck takes a loan to gamble? It’s just a reckless thing to do without considering the possible effects. I know some might actually be doing this, but let’s be real, it’s totally wrong.

[danherbias07]

Yes. I will not be shy about it. If it is something that could help another person, then I would not hesitate to offer my suggestion.

I am not that proud of being a gambler, and if I become a gambling addict, that will be a shame for me. Still, I want people to hear about my story and I want them to realize anything they can about my experience.
IMO, I would not be proud of anything, especially when it's about gambling. If my tragedy could help a person to become a better man, then I would not even doubt to help.

[Agbamoni]

Will you open up and give yourself as an example of someone who takes a loan, chases losses, and eventually loses everything, or prefer not to because you are ashamed to look back at your bad experience, and people think that you are a weak person?

That will be the best and purest form of convince someone what you are saying is a reality. He will see more reasons to follow your advice.

At times, testimonials can be very misleading. Which is why, personal experience is there to share so that the gambler will know that taking a loan is not the right thing to do as a gambler.

[Smack That Ace]

Yes. I will not be shy about it. If it is something that could help another person, then I would not hesitate to offer my suggestion.

I am not that proud of being a gambler, and if I become a gambling addict, that will be a shame for me. Still, I want people to hear about my story and I want them to realize anything they can about my experience.
IMO, I would not be proud of anything, especially when it's about gambling. If my tragedy could help a person to become a better man, then I would not even doubt to help.

Yes,  You are not weak, bhai. your honesty is absolutely badass.  Sharing your story genuinely helps a lot because it fosters empathy, lessens stigma & demonstrates to others that recovery is achievable.  Being genuine helps you connect with people who have been there before, gives them hope & prevents them from feeling isolated.   No limit, someone might actually be saved by your story.

regards,
duke

[cryptoaddictchie]

This I understand, and I respect the way you see it. Personally, Id rather be open as well. If someone close to me was thinking of taking a loan just to gamble, I’d share my own mistakes and what I went through on gambling even if it feels uncomfortable. I don’t see it as weakness as I see it as a way to prevent them from making the same costly choices. Sometimes, hearing a real story hits harder than just advice. But are we really suitable to give those words to them?

[taufik123]

if you take loans and you gamble.... no you are not someone to be used as guide for gambling. you haven't nothing to teach other than your mistakes and how to avoid these.
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Some consider themselves to be quite professional because they can win in some games and gain an advantage.
and they feel less capital and more so they take out bank loans to double their profits.

It was a high-risk decision and could lose everything when you lost, and really couldn't be a gambling guide or an example to anyone with borrowed money that risked putting on an even greater burden.
Simply gamble with only the money you have so that there are no bigger losses and installment burdens anymore.

I wouldn't even expose myself with my gambling, it was enough to be an entertainment for myself and there was no point in anyone else knowing as long as I wasn't an addict.

[JunaidAzizi]

Yeah, it's not a weakness nor a mistake to admit your past, in fact, it's a turning point when you consider your mistakes, learn from them, and hope not to repeat them in the future. Taking a loan and chasing your losses is not a good option, it will not help you recover your losses but create more burden. You will accept your first loss, and now you will be repaying that loan with interest if you lose. Most of the time, I see people lose that loan too because of emotional weakness, they chase the loss without any strategy, and their losses are doubled. You can take a rest, do some mental peace work, and think about where you made a mistake and how you can win if you enter again. This will create more routes for you, and your chances of winning will increase.

[Maslate]

I am not gambling illegally so there’s no valid reason for me to get ashamed. Instead, I will set my own self as a concrete example because my intention to help those newbies is pure. With this, they will realize that taking a loan in gambling is never a helpful tool because it will only push someone to lose a lot more, and here I am going crazy thinking on how to pay that loan when all my funds have used up in gambling.

Chasing losses when gambling should also never be tolerated, because that only makes you an irresponsible gambler in the long run. Just like me, I do take a loan and chase all those losses, now I am already feeling the pressure on how to recover all of them and pay the high interest of my existing loan.

[Dunamisx]

The best solution for us to take on this aspect is to be a good example, we don't have to run through the bad terrain before we could share our experience, because we are also expected to learn from others mistakes and try to avoid such for ourselves, then in doing this, we can be a good example which can serve a motivation for others because of responsible gambling and we also have results we can show from it over time in gambling, with these, we cant be shy or have a thought of hiding from our experience, instead we will boldly express ourselves to any newbie in gambling to learn form us being a good example.

[Questat]

There’s no other person that will understand you as a gambler but only another gambler as well. So I don’t see any wrong or getting ashamed of myself if I want save them going through negative experiences in the future. I don’t want them to lose because of wrong decision making, and for that I really think that they can actually learned from me if I stand up and make myself as an example.

In the end, your good deeds count more than your selfish actions. So it’s always better to show more genuineness,  not by being untrue to yourself and to the people around.

[ejikeme24]

You're an experienced gambler, having gambled for many years and having seen and done everything. Part of your experience is taking a loan and chasing losses. What if one of the young new gamblers who happens to be close to you is planning to take a loan?

Since I have done  it before and see the implications then I will have to open up to him about my past experience so that he don't end up making that same mistake I made in the past. I don't Mind what he or she would say after telling him my past experience in gamble. I'm sure he will understand, he's not going to see it the other way round.

 Though some guys can decide not to tell thier friend about thier past experience in gamble until they end up making that same mistake they made that's when they will choose to tell them thier own story but that's very wrong, is good to inform them earlier since you have already experienced it and then allow them to decide.

[Bitcoin Smith]

AFAIK, we don't need to expose ourselves completely to give advice to someone. Taking a loan to gamble is wrong and that's pretty basic so you don't need to be one who had gone through it and learned the things in the hard way. And one more reason why you shouldn't tell the truth here is because they will not value your opinion anymore once they are aware of you did something that you should not. SO just do what you want without shaming yourselves is the smart move.

[Su-asa]

If I ever see somebody close to me wanting to take loans and gamble because he's thinking he can win to get money and repay for the loan and I have done this same thing in the future, because he's my friend and new to gamble means he doesn't know the risks involved into gamble, I will freely tell him the dangers in gamble because taking loans to gamble will not do him good either. But there are times when you need to let the person do what he wants, when he's not taking your advises that's when you stop talking.

[IceLincoln]

How about you? How do you see yourself?

I will not allow him follow my foot step. I will use my own experience as an example to him so that he can know the consequences that awaits him in the future if he doesn't listen to me. For anyone to tell you his plans, it means that he confide in you and is indirectly seeking for your own suggestion and advice on the matter.

A lot of people go astray because they don't have people to direct them when they are about following the wrong path. If I am opportune to direct someone on doing what I know is right, I would gladly do so.

It’s always good and better to learn from experience especially learning from the experiences and lessons of others  so you wouldn’t have to make same mistakes.
It’s important in every aspect of life to have someone you look up to either as a mentor or role model, this persons guide you and correct you when you’re wrong their experiences become your lessons and you become better for it.
I support Using yourself as an example if you’ve had a similar story to what’s been asked cause the power of your personal story is very motivational and encouraging than that of others who the individual doesn’t know. And for the person to come to you means there’s a level of trust.

[Mrbluntzy]

Remember you said that if this new gambler is someone that is closed to me, right? Meaning that the person is not just some random person or a stranger and if that's the case, I will give the person a sincere advice by using my self as an example to describe how bad the situation can be but if the person is a random stranger, I would just advice him not to take such steps but I will not directly use myself as an example, instead I will just tell him that I know someone who made same mistake and it didn't end well for the person.

[DaNNy001]

As long as the person is close to me there's no problem in using myself as an example...we have all learnt from peoples mistakes one way or that other so there's nothing wrong in stopping someone from making the same mistakes that you made in the past especially if it has to do with taking a loan to gamble, this is wrong on all levels and it's capable of causing more harm than good...I've been impacted negatively by it and I wouldn't want someone close to me to go down that lane