Will You Make Yourself As An Example Or Ashame To Expose Yourself

[passwordnow]

Exampling myself or not, I'd be frank to that guy that they shouldn't take any loan for them to gamble. It's out already of the choice to gamble with someone else's money, let alone a loan that he has to pay with an interest. That's why many are being indebted to anybody because it's either, they tolerate it or they have saved that person and told them on what they should do better and that's not to gamble with a loan money. And how much more if that person is so dear to me, I wouldn't tolerate that and I don't want him to be in debt because of gambling.

[acroman08]

Will you open up and give yourself as an example of someone who takes a loan, chases losses, and eventually loses everything, or prefer not to because you are ashamed to look back at your bad experience, and people think that you are a weak person?
 

Or because I don't know the person and would like to keep something personal like that to myself(maybe if I know the person, I would have no problem using myself as an example). Besides, it's not hard to give an example like the one you mentioned without giving out that it is your own experience. it is also not a sign of weakness to not give out personal experience to people that you don't know or very familiar with.

[_BlackStar]

How about you? How do you see yourself?

You don't need to have the same experience to give someone sound advice - what you need is a solution to solve the problem. Gamblers often underestimate many things, including the financial risks they'll face in the future - including plans to take out loans to gamble. It's true that there's a drive to go to extremes and gamble beyond their means - this is because they believe in a chance of winning that isn't guaranteed. Stop the plan if you really want not get involved in trouble - but otherwise, just ignore it and move on.

[mirakal]

I’m quite sure that a lot here are still taking loans to finance their gambling activities and even chase losses in the long run. So should I feel ashamed for that? Never, especially that I’m also taking responsibility of my own actions and still make responsible payments on time, so it’s never something to get ashamed of.

My intention is, let these beginners learn from me and weigh things if it’s good to take a loan or not. I won’t say it’s bad nor good, but I’ll just leave it to them how they’ll create judgement on what I’ve been practicing.

[terrific]

I am done of the era of being shy to expose myself. Right now, it's about sharing my experiences and that's why it's best to have it better known to others so that they will have an idea of what I've gone through.
So, telling them what I went through could be an inspiration and will give them an idea on how it will be it to them. Because if they won't have anyone to listen to and set an example of how it went, they might do the wrong thing.
And that's why it's best for me to just make myself as an example and expose the mistakes that I did. As I have said, I am done with being shy when there is a lesson that they can take from it.

[Hazink]

Will you open up and give yourself as an example of someone who takes a loan, chases losses, and eventually loses everything, or prefer not to because you are ashamed to look back at your bad experience, and people think that you are a weak person?

I don’t see anything there to be ashamed of. Well, it all depends on how the gambler has been parading himself in the mix of others, which type of gambler he tells a story about being, that will determine if he will come clean and use himself as an example to save the next gambler from repeating the kind of mistake he made in the past. If not, I will boldly do that and make my point. How the person sees me after that is entirely the person's business. As long as I have made my point and I’m sure I’m no longer that type of person, then I have nothing to worry about.

[lionheart78]

How about you? How do you see yourself?

I won't tell about my gambling activities and things I went through to random people.  I will only give myself as an example when someone is sincerely asking for advice.  It would be rude to turn them down when they are honest about their concern.

How I tell the story of my gambling activity is dependent on the inquiries of the person who is asking for advice.  Of course I will warn them about the negative consequences of borrowing money for gambling, but as long as they don't ask about my personal experience, I will not disclose my personal struggles (if there is any) what important is I already told them the possible result if they borrow money to gamble and lose.

[cryptomaniac_xxx]

You're an experienced gambler, having gambled for many years and having seen and done everything. Part of your experience is taking a loan and chasing losses. What if one of the young new gamblers who happens to be close to you is planning to take a loan?

Will you open up and give yourself as an example of someone who takes a loan, chases losses, and eventually loses everything, or prefer not to because you are ashamed to look back at your bad experience, and people think that you are a weak person?

If you ask me, I will be honest and give myself as an example so that people will believe that it's a bad idea to take a loan, it's not a sign of weakness if you admit your past mistakes.

How about you? How do you see yourself?

Yes, but at least you have recovered already from gambling addiction or you are not that active in gambling. Because you can't be a good example if you are still chasing gambling loses and still be addicted. And that's what most of the former addicted gamblers do, they try to be a inspiration to the younger generation.

You can hear their horror stories and you can feel that they really regret what happen to them, as their lives ruined and so they don't want that to happen to the younger generations. And it's true, taking a loan is very bad just to gamble. I personally know someone that is very close to our family and now we really don't know what happen to her as we haven't seen her for a while after closing her business as she become a addict and taking loan and then she can't repay.

[Cantsay]

I actually don’t see anything wrong in opening up to them about what the dangers of borrowing loan to gamble are. If it will prevent them from making the same mistake as I did then I’d be more than willing to expose it to them.

People tend to listen more, when the example you’re giving is someone they know or have seen sing you should use yourself you’ll most likely be able to get them to change their mind especially if you’re really struggling with it or if there’s proof that you did struggle with the consequences of gambling with loans.

[SATWAT]

I won't tell about my gambling activities and things I went through to random people.  I will only give myself as an example when someone is sincerely asking for advice.  It would be rude to turn them down when they are honest about their concern.

How I tell the story of my gambling activity is dependent on the inquiries of the person who is asking for advice.  Of course I will warn them about the negative consequences of borrowing money for gambling, but as long as they don't ask about my personal experience, I will not disclose my personal struggles (if there is any) what important is I already told them the possible result if they borrow money to gamble and lose.

I am also living like this I am doing this stuff without talking or sharing with peoples around me because this online stuff make things possible but here I always need to be stayed on balance because this is important if I fail to do this surely It's going to hurt me badly.
I always talk with strangers and give them positive motivation because it's good for staying on right path I never want to be had position as ashamed because this has never been acceptable but still doing this gambling stuff without any big trouble not easy.
In last few years life completely change and improvement coming but still long way to go and never have any intention to go ahead about this with anyone as its never been ideal thing for anyone.

[Distinctin]

I have no problem opening up if you intend to save these people from what you've experienced, so it's not a sign of weakness. The best and strongest gamblers are those who learned from their past mistakes, mended their ways, and can give advice and offer assistance to new gamblers so they will not experience the worst in gambling like what you've experienced.
If you're honest with yourself, people will easily trust you and treat you as a real person.

You know the effective way to help other people, show to them the real you without hiding something because you’re afraid to be criticized. These gamblers will understand you, so you don’t have to feel ashamed of yourself. But instead, let your experience be their guide so they won’t be repeating the same mistake again that will definitely lead only to an inevitable loss.

Old and experienced gamblers are the teachers of these beginners in gambling. Regardless of your past mistakes, you don’t have to get ashamed of that as that would serve as a wake up call for those who have plans to follow what you’ve been doing in the past.

[batang_bitcoin]

I actually don’t see anything wrong in opening up to them about what the dangers of borrowing loan to gamble are. If it will prevent them from making the same mistake as I did then I’d be more than willing to expose it to them.

People tend to listen more, when the example you’re giving is someone they know or have seen sing you should use yourself you’ll most likely be able to get them to change their mind especially if you’re really struggling with it or if there’s proof that you did struggle with the consequences of gambling with loans.

Me too, I am willing to tell my story to them that it's never been a good idea to take up a loan for them to gamble. And not just my story but all of those that I know of. It's a free knowledge that it's not going to be a great help to them if they do that. So, if they will make up their minds and see that it's best for them to avoid it, they will realize that. It's no need for them to experience the bad result of it just for them to say that they will never take a loan ever again. But hearing out stories from the others on how it went will help them even it will include our own.

[Accardo]

A certain pastor in the US whom I enjoy reading his book, would say; make your pain your platform. Don't hide it, come up to the stage and tell everyone about it, then watch yourself beat the fear entirely. Nothing is wrong with telling a friend that is about to jump into fire that you were once in the fire and it wasn't good, show them the scar as prove. Back to Op, it's the best thing to help stop the person from taking loan for gambling, it's not a healthy one, and would always hunt the young player later in life. If they don't listen at the initial stage, someday your words will resound as loud as a speaker in their subconscious mind, and you'd be the first person they'll run to for help.

[Mindyspace]

Taking out a loan is rarely a good choice, except in cases of a genuine emergency. The same logic applies to gambling. It's crucial to exercise caution and only bet what you can afford to lose, without jeopardizing your financial stability.

[crwth]

I believe the best way to show that you know something is the willingness to open up to someone, and it shouldn't be a "shame" if you know it's part of the process. Admitting lapses should not be ashamed.

What's important is that you know you are doing it responsibly and are financially literate, so you can manage yourself and avoid making poor decisions when feeling emotional, as this could lead to further problems.

Your experience will definitely lead to education/awareness.

[lovesmayfamilis]

If you ask me, I will be honest and give myself as an example so that people will believe that it's a bad idea to take a loan, it's not a sign of weakness if you admit your past mistakes.

How about you? How do you see yourself?

I would say that this is an experience that you pass on to others. If we do not share our experience, even if it is bitter, then here we can blame ourselves for the indifference that will one day return to us from other people. It is not for nothing that there is an expression: "fear the indifferent." I am not saying that we should always butt in with our advice, sometimes unsolicited, but a careful warning will clear your conscience. I respect freedom of choice, but when I see that some actions can bring losses to a person, I will persist in warning, especially if I have made these mistakes myself.

[m2017]

You're an experienced gambler, having gambled for many years and having seen and done everything. Part of your experience is taking a loan and chasing losses. What if one of the young new gamblers who happens to be close to you is planning to take a loan?

I would share my (negative) experiences with a new gambler and tell him about my failures to give him a full picture of what can happen in gambling (ups and downs). After that, let him decide for himself whether to borrow.

Will you open up and give yourself as an example of someone who takes a loan, chases losses, and eventually loses everything, or prefer not to because you are ashamed to look back at your bad experience, and people think that you are a weak person?

Unsuccessful experience is also experience. I don't see the point in hiding it in such a case to seem better. Failures happen to everyone and it is impossible to become successful without going through failures.

If you ask me, I will be honest and give myself as an example so that people will believe that it's a bad idea to take a loan, it's not a sign of weakness if you admit your past mistakes.

How about you? How do you see yourself?

I agree with your opinion.

The ability to admit your past mistakes is a good quality. It is bad if you don't learn from past mistakes and repeat them over and over again.

[Nahl]

You're an experienced gambler, having gambled for many years and having seen and done everything. Part of your experience is taking a loan and chasing losses. What if one of the young new gamblers who happens to be close to you is planning to take a loan?

Will you open up and give yourself as an example of someone who takes a loan, chases losses, and eventually loses everything, or prefer not to because you are ashamed to look back at your bad experience, and people think that you are a weak person?

If you ask me, I will be honest and give myself as an example so that people will believe that it's a bad idea to take a loan, it's not a sign of weakness if you admit your past mistakes.

How about you? How do you see yourself?

Basically i never shy to be a gambler but i cannot revealed my habit to my family because being an the gambler has negative opinion in my environment and i never mind to tell my weaknesses and my mistakes in gambling to my friends especially to my close friend and actually if there is my friend who want to taking loan on gambling i will encourage them to thinking twice that because gambling with loan money has double risk compared to gamble using your own money and i will tell to them that i am a witness to see some people are dare to hypothecate their houses and cars because they want to gamble and chasing their loses but eventually those people have ruin their life and lost everything so, this way is really not recommended

[Jody.Drummer]

You're an experienced gambler, having gambled for many years and having seen and done everything. Part of your experience is taking a loan and chasing losses. What if one of the young new gamblers who happens to be close to you is planning to take a loan?

Will you open up and give yourself as an example of someone who takes a loan, chases losses, and eventually loses everything, or prefer not to because you are ashamed to look back at your bad experience, and people think that you are a weak person?

If you ask me, I will be honest and give myself as an example so that people will believe that it's a bad idea to take a loan, it's not a sign of weakness if you admit your past mistakes.

How about you? How do you see yourself?

What I will do when I have someone close and will take out a loan to gamble is to advise him not to do it, and we know that people like this are usually stubborn because they really want to fulfill their gambling desires no matter what, so if he still insists on doing it, I will not force him not to do it, besides, later he will experience something that might make him realize that his actions are wrong. By trying to remind him and giving an example of myself as the object is good, but the further decision is up to him, but at least I have tried to advise him.

[bakasabo]

I would say that everyone is their own happiness blacksmith, everyone has their own head. I would gladly share my experience of gambling and would never be ashamed of it. If I had experience something good - that is a good story to tell, but not to boast with it. If I had experienced something bad - that is a good story to tell either and be example for others. Let them learn from my experience and make own conclusion. If I had taken loans, I would also tell all the pros and cons of that to warn others.