Will You Make Yourself As An Example Or Ashame To Expose Yourself

[Justbillywitt]

I’m a gambler, I actually encourage people to take risks, lol.

Honestly, I don’t think gamblers are the type who give advice on what not to do. Especially when it comes to loans, some of us have probably taken loans just to gamble. And for me, it’s not really bad as long as you’re responsible enough to understand it’s a real responsibility. If you can pay it back, then it’s not really a problem.

Personally, I’m more of a shy type. That’s why I gamble alone most of the time, usually online, since I don’t want other people seeing me gamble. That’s also why I don’t really give advice to others, ’cause I’m not even that good myself and sometimes I still make the same mistakes.

What of in a situation where you took the loans to gamble with the hope of paying back and somehow along the line things didn't work out the way you were expecting and it got messy with your creditor. In a bid of trying to raise the money to repay back the loan, you sold stuffs and that single event cost you so much that it messed up your life. And somehow you became aware that your younger sibling is about taking a loan to gamble of course he also believes that he will pay back same way you did, are you saying you won't even bother talking to him against taking a loan to gamble or at least share your experience with the person because you are shy?

[Alex077]

I might not expose myself as an example but I will suggest him not take a loan for gambling. I will tell him the risks of doing that and show him that gambling can make him lose all of his money. I don't have to show myself as an example because I don't think he can learn from other people's mistakes. So rather than using myself, I will tell about the danger of taking a loan for gambling and explain it in detail. But if he doesn't want to listen to me, even if I finally open my past experience, that will depend on him. I will just tell that all things will be his responsibility.

Do not keep your story to yourself, bro. you know first hand accounts have the power to change people's attitudes & behaviors, so sharing your mistakes with noobs may deter them from applying for a loan. A direct personal warning could prevent serious harm because most often I have seen borrowing to gamble increases the risk of excessive debt, bankruptcy & even suicide. in many country regulators are already limiting gambling credit, demonstrating that loans are a serious concern.

[len01]

How about you? How do you see yourself?

Everything about badness and goodness or all experiences in gambling is just something that is personal to me. All of these things do not need to be published and does not mean shame to remember or tell the ugliness but personal things are not worthy to be published. And for me things like that are indeed not important to others and will usually be ignored. If possible there are young people who want to find money loans to pursue losses in gambling, I just say thinking back before stepping and no need to tell something that is not important to them.

[Peanutswar]

You're an experienced gambler, having gambled for many years and having seen and done everything. Part of your experience is taking a loan and chasing losses. What if one of the young new gamblers who happens to be close to you is planning to take a loan?

Will you open up and give yourself as an example of someone who takes a loan, chases losses, and eventually loses everything, or prefer not to because you are ashamed to look back at your bad experience, and people think that you are a weak person?

If you ask me, I will be honest and give myself as an example so that people will believe that it's a bad idea to take a loan, it's not a sign of weakness if you admit your past mistakes.

How about you? How do you see yourself?

I have different perspective in terms of loan, if you will take a loan better this would be an investment, or an asset that will give you a money and afterwards will give to you a money that payup the loan without hassle because if you just take a loan for a something like liability and you dont have the capability to pay that onwards it will lead to a debt considering in gambling if you take a loan make sure you can pay the loan and not just taking a loan for the sake of yout entertainment only. So for me not idea to take loan just to satisfy your entertainment.

[Davidvictorson]

If you ask me, I will be honest and give myself as an example so that people will believe that it's a bad idea to take a loan, it's not a sign of weakness if you admit your past mistakes.

How about you? How do you see yourself?

I will be honest like yourself and share my honest experience taking loans. I will emphasize that it was a stupid thing and did and I managed to get lucky. I will also share some other examples of other people who did the same loan for gambling and it didn't turn out the way they expected it to. However, before I share this story, if it were just once I did this, I will not share but if it were multiple times, then I'll share it.

[_BlackStar]

Taking out a loan is rarely a good choice, except in cases of a genuine emergency. The same logic applies to gambling. It's crucial to exercise caution and only bet what you can afford to lose, without jeopardizing your financial stability.

Many gamblers end up making illogical decisions with extremely high risks simply to satisfy their gambling urges. Some make loan from friends with promises of timely repayment, others loan from banks under the guise of business development and others loan from various online lending apps. This approach to gambling is clearly highly self-defeating and potentially damaging to the future - not only financially, but also with legal and mental health issues.

Gambling with loan money is not recommended - it's considered irresponsible as a gambler. Gambling should be done wisely and gamblers should only gamble when they have a budget to spare - not by saving money to do so. Each gambler has their own way of managing and controlling their own money and we will always have two categories of gamblers in it.

[Sonia_123]

You're an experienced gambler, having gambled for many years and having seen and done everything. Part of your experience is taking a loan and chasing losses. What if one of the young new gamblers who happens to be close to you is planning to take a loan?

Will you open up and give yourself as an example of someone who takes a loan, chases losses, and eventually loses everything, or prefer not to because you are ashamed to look back at your bad experience, and people think that you are a weak person?

If you ask me, I will be honest and give myself as an example so that people will believe that it's a bad idea to take a loan, it's not a sign of weakness if you admit your past mistakes.

How about you? How do you see yourself?

I e advice him and use myself as an example of what he is going into, if the Idea of taking a loan is good or bad, because I wouldn't want him to experience what I have being experiencing since taking a loan to gamble is not a good idea rather work hard to earn more money for my gambling activities or I quit gambling for the period I don't have money to gamble and wait for the period I have then return back to gambling, no matter what the financial situation must be, it is not adviceable to take a loan to gamble .

Taking a loan to gamble only put you in a very high financial risk that you will not be able to come out of, because you will end up paying unending debts which most times affects the gamblers life since gambling wins are not guaranteed to upset your loans and that is why in gambling you are gamble with what you have and can afford to lose.

[tread93]

You're an experienced gambler, having gambled for many years and having seen and done everything. Part of your experience is taking a loan and chasing losses. What if one of the young new gamblers who happens to be close to you is planning to take a loan?

Will you open up and give yourself as an example of someone who takes a loan, chases losses, and eventually loses everything, or prefer not to because you are ashamed to look back at your bad experience, and people think that you are a weak person?

If you ask me, I will be honest and give myself as an example so that people will believe that it's a bad idea to take a loan, it's not a sign of weakness if you admit your past mistakes.

How about you? How do you see yourself?

I think the people who persevere rebuild themselves from this hardship and make themselves a spotlight example jf they are stand up guy to help the younger kids and give them sound advice which would be something to the extent of convincing them not to take the loan from first hand experience and having them learn from their mistakes

[Fivestar4everMVP]

You're an experienced gambler, having gambled for many years and having seen and done everything. Part of your experience is taking a loan and chasing losses. What if one of the young new gamblers who happens to be close to you is planning to take a loan?

Will you open up and give yourself as an example of someone who takes a loan, chases losses, and eventually loses everything, or prefer not to because you are ashamed to look back at your bad experience, and people think that you are a weak person?

If you ask me, I will be honest and give myself as an example so that people will believe that it's a bad idea to take a loan, it's not a sign of weakness if you admit your past mistakes.

How about you? How do you see yourself?

Definitely owning up to our past mistakes and referencing it to the younger generations is not a sign of weakness at all, people make mistakes and sometimes, the mistakes we make is for us to learn so that we won't allow young ones coming up around us make the same mistake.

So for the reason of teaching the younger generations, I will always use my experiences as an example when trying to pass any knowledge to anyone, whether the person is younger or older than my very self, because people grow but no one grows above making mistakes, the young sometimes can teach the elderly while the elderly will also have something to teach the young as well..
It is commonly said that experience is the best teacher, I actually consider it a privilege to have gone through an experience which we learn from, and today be able to teach the younger generation through that experience, its a privilege for sure because those kids will forever remember the good impact you made in their life if what you taught them through your experience helped them not to make a major mistake that would have cost them alot.

[btc_angela]

If you ask me, I will be honest and give myself as an example so that people will believe that it's a bad idea to take a loan, it's not a sign of weakness if you admit your past mistakes.

How about you? How do you see yourself?

I will be honest like yourself and share my honest experience taking loans. I will emphasize that it was a stupid thing and did and I managed to get lucky. I will also share some other examples of other people who did the same loan for gambling and it didn't turn out the way they expected it to. However, before I share this story, if it were just once I did this, I will not share but if it were multiple times, then I'll share it.

And it just shows that gamblers are that kind of people who don't want others to fall for the gambling addiction. We are willing to share our stories and experiences, even at times that we might be ashamed, but that is the truth, as some point in our lives, we are in the lowest because of gambling.

If I'm not mistaken, those who are in the gambling hotline, those who answered and advises are people who have went into this experience and recover. This time, they want to extend their help that's why they volunteer to have in the hotline and listen as they can relate and give sound counselling.

[Dr.Bitcoin_Strange]

I don't have to use myself as the example before I make a point or give a good advice to someone, when a piece of advice is given to someone that is doing a wrong thing, the person that is being giving the advice is likely to take it or ignore it no matter any example you give to the him or her. People can choose to be ignorant and do what ever they please even if the thing they are doing us going to hurt them.

[Dave1]

I don't have to use myself as the example before I make a point or give a good advice to someone, when a piece of advice is given to someone that is doing a wrong thing, the person that is being giving the advice is likely to take it or ignore it no matter any example you give to the him or her. People can choose to be ignorant and do what ever they please even if the thing they are doing us going to hurt them.

I think that point here is not that you are going to influence the gambler to quit or stop. The point is that you are offering any help you can give to others as you don't want them to experience what you have went during your addiction years. Of course, you can't please everyone as they have every right to refuse your offer or they remain ignorant because they love what they are going.

But at least you give your best shot to those gamblers, and who knows, even at 1 every 100, maybe someone will listen to you and at least you influence them to change their lives for the better and stopping them of ruining their lives because of gambling.

[Eternad]

If you ask me, I will be honest and give myself as an example so that people will believe that it's a bad idea to take a loan, it's not a sign of weakness if you admit your past mistakes.

How about you? How do you see yourself?

For me, using myself as an example is better if I would tell a bad experience in gambling. It would even be more easy to move-on if I share my own story how I get past to that struggle.

People are more likely to take serious of your advice if you use your own personal experience. Only close-minded people will say it's a sign of weakness telling them about your past mistake.

[bubilas]

You're an experienced gambler, having gambled for many years and having seen and done everything. Part of your experience is taking a loan and chasing losses. What if one of the young new gamblers who happens to be close to you is planning to take a loan?

Will you open up and give yourself as an example of someone who takes a loan, chases losses, and eventually loses everything, or prefer not to because you are ashamed to look back at your bad experience, and people think that you are a weak person?

If you ask me, I will be honest and give myself as an example so that people will believe that it's a bad idea to take a loan, it's not a sign of weakness if you admit your past mistakes.

How about you? How do you see yourself?

This is a very difficult question, because at first I wanted to answer "yes, I would tell this guy everything about my bad experience and try to convince him that he shouldn't do this."
But then I realized that all people are stubborn and no one respects someone else's experience, even if it is given with absolutely sincere intentions. And therefore, given that this guy is a gambler, and most likely he considers himself the smartest, he will think that "some fool is giving him advice." And he himself, of course, knows better how it should be.

[DaNNy001]

I have no problem opening up if you intend to save these people from what you've experienced, so it's not a sign of weakness. The best and strongest gamblers are those who learned from their past mistakes, mended their ways, and can give advice and offer assistance to new gamblers so they will not experience the worst in gambling like what you've experienced.
If you're honest with yourself, people will easily trust you and treat you as a real person.

There's no problem with opening up to people but make sure they are the right ones because there are certain things that are not meant to be public, these people you. Open up to might start running their mouth and telling others about what you shared...There's nothing wrong In using yourself as an example but you must be very sure of the people that you tell...sometimes opening up isn't necessary when you notice the person isnt mature enough

[$weetne$$]

All my gambling years I have not had such experience or been in such position but for all the experiences I have had, if it happens I see a young gambler about making sane or similar mistake as I did, I will not hesitate to correct and stop them and if it means me opening up by using myself as an example, I would not mi d just to make sure I do not see another person suffering same fate under my nose because I will feel like I have been unfair to such a fellow who is younger and considered having very limited knowledge and experience.

[libert19]

I have never taken a loan to gamble but chasing losses is something I have done, and I am really benevolent soul, I am always glad to share my experiences with others so they do not repeat same mistakes as me, so I'll advise to not chase losses and not to take loan to gamble alongside as well — because it's just something I have learned without having to go through experience.

[Accardo]

But at least you give your best shot to those gamblers, and who knows, even at 1 every 100, maybe someone will listen to you and at least you influence them to change their lives for the better and stopping them of ruining their lives because of gambling.

A kind person never goes wrong, but it's not always worth it bothering over anybody who doesn't appreciate kindness. Advise is like a pinch of salt, you only give when someone asks of it. In gambling, gamers tend to be their brother's keeper, but addiction disrupts this privilege. That is why, as you said, giving out the talk at first is worth it, then the ball will be on the player's court, whether to adopt the information or not.

[Rockstarguy]

~Snip

There is nothing to be ashamed of regarding one's ugly experience in gambling. If it is an experience that you know you would not want to go through, it is better for you to open up to the person. You don't need to share your whole story, but you can give the person some advice on how terrible the journey is, rather than just keeping quiet.

In your own experience, it is possible that the reason why gambling was terrible is because you didn't have anyone to educate you; there were no opportunities. However, this person who needs your advice is fortunate to have you for a better experience in gambling.

[Promocodeudo]

There is nothing to be ashamed of regarding one's ugly experience in gambling. If it is an experience that you know you would not want to go through, it is better for you to open up to the person. You don't need to share your whole story, but you can give the person some advice on how terrible the journey is, rather than just keeping quiet.

In your own experience, it is possible that the reason why gambling was terrible is because you didn't have anyone to educate you; there were no opportunities. However, this person who needs your advice is fortunate to have you for a better experience in gambling.

Personally for me, telling some one about how I messed up in gambling relives me the stress, so why will I be ashamed of saying it, although individual gamblera with their different level of understanding, although I understand that is not everyone we need to share what we went through in some aspects of our lives with but being open helps to salvage some situations, relating to what you've said, i want you to understand that there are people that you may find unworthy to advise them with the experience you had in gambling, not because you're ashamed to tell them but because it might end up being a waste of time, if the person who needs ones advice, sincerely needs it and will put it into practice after the advise is been given to him, it is fine.