you may be going through what you don't understand

[Accardo]

Recently, I got to notice that going through a certain stage in life don't validate the fact that we know the reason, purpose and action behind them. But unconsciously the brain go through most circumstances as though it knew what was going on. But after every year we begin to picture our past troubles differently and define them uniquely. E.g People begin to point out who was the actual culprit maybe years after when someone else was the accused. Maybe the way you explained it to someone today may be different from how you would add to it in the next 5 years. Because you are understanding deeply about the situation everytime you wonder about it and how it all went by without much casualties.

Atimes things that never got us weeping when it occured, could cause a loud cry 10 years later when somebody else goes few layers back to make you understand better what really happened, and helps you see the dots, and at that moment you'll be able to see clearly why certain things happened in a period of time and the story turns out clearer and visible, enough to throw a person back on the floor, or scream at a loud voice.

There could be different examples to this, but each experience has unique contexts and if you could relate to this please share your contributions, thanks.

[franky1]

as they say, with age comes wisdom

in younger years i used to keep my mouth shut (no snitching, no telling people hard truths) i used to just let people be.. to makes their own mistakes and choices. but now that im more frank, i dont tell people how to act or what to choose, but i dont hold back hard truths if it aids them to make better choices for themselves, aid them to figure out things for themselves, aids them to know the facts of lies/gossip, bad decisions made

in many cases years ago, when the usual young social drama between friends occur, usual careless nature of random hook-ups, easily influenced by bad peers, where a few were backstabbing/two faced, id just leave them be.. but later years, when questioned(and giving the hard truths) about why i stepped out of relationships, it blew their mind at how their sense of their reality differ of how old events played out, some wished they knew sooner, some realised it now made more sense of certain things they couldnt answer for themselves, some wish they could have worked it out or figured it out for themselves years ago, some wished they never found out as it now makes them see others in a different light and will change how they see others going forward. some wished they could have ditched the bad influential people and stuck with the ones that were not pushy, controlling, twofaced

life itself changes peoples perspectives, going from the young carefree, single life of youth, to later be the responsible parent of ones own family, makes people critically think differently, thus change perspectives on past and current life events
even the simple things like how you would ride a bike or drive a car when young, vs how you would ride/drive now that you have a family to take care of, are responsible for

getting to the point of life where you awaken to the realities, where you suddenly are ready for responsibility, for critical thinking, for analysing your actions is a pivotal point many wish they could have reached far sooner

again... with age comes wisdom

[DirtyKeyboard]

Paraphrasing others; good times or bad, this too shall pass.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WOmCfU8BTjA

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WOmCfU8BTjA

[Accardo]

in many cases years ago, when the usual young social drama between friends occur, usual careless nature of random hook-ups, easily influenced by bad peers, where a few were backstabbing/two faced, id just leave them be.. but later years, when questioned(and giving the hard truths) about why i stepped out of relationships, it blew their mind at how their sense of their reality differ of how old events played out, some wished they knew sooner, some realised it now made more sense of certain things they couldnt answer for themselves, some wish they could have worked it out or figured it out for themselves years ago, some wished they never found out as it now makes them see others in a different light and will change how they see others going forward. some wished they could have ditched the bad influential people and stuck with the ones that were not pushy, controlling, twofaced

These difficult times of growing people always create positive or negative emotional affection years after. It also strengthens friendship with distance and solitude. When they begin to figure out that something is missing out without you in their presence. In as much as your presence would make them feel insecure as regard to the hard truth making them feel uncomfortable, after a while they begin to think better relatively to the ideas which you've made in the past that didn't sit right with them at that time, but now makes so much sense. Old friendships begin to unite, as a result build respect and a better reason to let people be.

Paraphrasing others; good times or bad, this too shall pass.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WOmCfU8BTjA

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WOmCfU8BTjA

Nice music with too many perspectives, you'd want to share your own side of the story regarding this song? from the comments on there some people claim to have better understood the song better than others.