S€x before marriage or after marriage, which one do you prefer?

[El_Tammy]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

[tsaroz]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

Partners should get to know each other before going into something important like marriage. It also includes being intimate to know if they go along with each other or not. I did that and we have a happy married life.

[AmaGold70]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

Marriage is about being compatible with your partner in all ramifications and sex isn't excluded, many marriages have failed because they chose sex after marriage and found out later that they don't compliment each other on bed. You should be able to know your partner's capabilities if they can withstand your sexual behaviors and the things that attracts you sexually before you go into marriage fully, I would always choose to know intimacy with my partner so that I don't regret getting married and finding out later that my supposed partner is not up to my expectations on bed.

[Hewlet]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

There is more to marriage and intimacy than having Sex before marriage can proffer. There is a lot that can change about relation once sex is involved. sexual intimacy can always come after marriage, doing so helps build respect for both parties such that people do not just take advantage of you sexually and then walk away.

If you want to use sex to test compatibility, and in the long run the relationship crashes, how many persons will you do that with before you find a sexually compatible partner? it is not too difficult to adapt to individual sexual fantasies even in marriage. it is only an issue when one of the parties has a lot of body count and experiences while the other has none. if both parties are chaste, there wont be any serious issue with waiting till marriage before considering sex.
 

[Dunamisx]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

The ideal way to marriage is by going to the normal customs and rites required of both the man and the woman to do, but because of traditions, some customs will even encourage for the intending couples to have sex and get pregnant before the marriage ceremony, while a large number of other customs and traditions goes against such as, this now makes it a thing of personal decision for us all to make in case we want it or go against it depending on how convinced we have become.

[Merit.s]

Marriage isn't all about sex because no lady can have it all. What I prefer is a responsible girl who is hard working and open minded. Sex should be considered after all these. This is because you might see a good girl who is a wife material but doesn't have much appetite for sex or cannot last long on bed. You have to tolerate and be satisfied that way because sex is not the ultimate.

The world is taking sex too serious nowadays, and you will see teens and adults looking forward for sex in a relationship that wouldn't lead to marriage. The reason why sex before marriage is not advisable is to avoid giving birth out of wedlock which is a taboo in some traditions down here in my country.

[DeathAngel]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

I’m not religious, I would rather intimately know my partner before marriage. No criticism of anybody who prefers the opposite & I admire the restraint but it’s not for me. If I met a woman & we both had strong feelings for each other then I would like to tap that before marriage if I am honest. Nothing like first date but once we got chemistry & feel comfortable with each other then it’s good to be intimate.

[POPOLUV]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

Actually accord to the scripture sex after marriage is the best and acceptable in the Bible but as the world is becoming so global that is how things is getting out of hands like before in the olding days were things are done according to how it written in the scripture, so many people might prefer sex before marriage because the world is not like the days of our four fathers where by people married before sex, so many people will prefer testing the woman they are getting married to because most of the woman out there are leaving a life that is not pleasant to eyes, so many people prefer sex before marriage to check if the women is productive.

[Zlantann]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

Religiously and traditionally sex before marriage is not acceptable. Young people could take advantage of marriage to sexually exploit one another. I know some young men who promise to marry women just because they want to have sex with them. After having sex, they will abandon the relationship and seek other girls to deceive. For me, it is better to have a close relationship ( not really sex) with your partner before marriage.

Sex shouldn't be the priority when considering a marital partner. Sexual performance can be improved with time, but other important things should be the paramount characteristics people should look for. I would prefer to marry a girl who is respectful, brilliant, and hygienic rather than a highly sexually skilled partner.

[Helena Yu]

I disagree with sex before marriage, it's wild.

Both partner shouldn't having sex before marriage, but they should discuss about sex before they want to get married, if either of them can't fulfill the expectation, then don't married.

What I prefer is a responsible girl who is hard working and open minded. You have to tolerate and be satisfied that way because sex is not the ultimate.

That's what said by single man who're not married yet. Sex is not the ultimate, once you have everything and you see your wife can't fulfill your desire, you would "cheat" but using open marriage or something like that as the excuse, if your wife can't accept that, you will blame her for not being open minded.

I would prefer to marry a girl who is respectful, brilliant, and hygienic rather than a highly sexually skilled partner.

Because you can have sex with high sexually skilled women or your dream women by cheating. I know the way you think.

[Zlantann]

I would prefer to marry a girl who is respectful, brilliant, and hygienic rather than a highly sexually skilled partner.

Because you can have sex with high sexually skilled women or your dream women by cheating. I know the way you think.

I just can't stop laughing when I read you reply. No, that's not my intention for choosing a respectful and brilliant lady over a woman who is good at bad. I don't have any intention to cheat on my wife because there are other alternatives. Every man knows what he cherishes in a woman. Others might prioritise good sex to other qualities. But sex is not my main reason for getting married, I want a companion who would be my partner in all areas of life.

[Pauldesaints]

The essence of courtship is to know and understand each other,everything about your partner.his or her likes and dislikes which sex is sex is included  and is crucial in marriage.if after marriage you were unable to satisfy your partner sexually,they will definitely be problem.so it's expected we know everything about our partners including his or her sexual activeness before marriage.

[LoyceV]

What is "S€x"? Is that sex paid in euros?

[Zoomic]

What is "S€x"? Is that sex paid in euros?

hahaha... He though he is in Mark Zuckerberg's forum. He doesn't want to me suspended for mention sex.

[EluguHcman]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

Fact: sex has become a thing that is no more respected but expression to show exciting feelings amongst partners, sexual intercourse has become so common almost like a social activity and as a result of urges satisfactory and monetization, the dignity of sexual intercourse goes lost as generations to generation gets exposed to it.

So forth nowadays sex is no more an intercourse observed amongst partners in intimate relationship or marriage but has become a lifestyle for most people.

Back in the days when marrying virgins was a common was when sex before marriage has something to write about but today's, we even find underage involved with sex so, it almost give hopelessness to anyone dreaming to marry a virgin and on that note. It becomes almost impossible to get married before sex when your future partner is somewhere out there already an expert. So nothing to reserve or kept special in the "marriage before sex"

[Bright0515]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

It doesn't matter if it is right or wrong nowadays, what matters is if the both parties agreed to have sex before marriage or after they get married. Keep Christianity aside, I'm also a Christian too but I do not see any wrong if they both agree. One of the main reason why some people get married is because they want to have kids of their own, so those people will not want to end with a woman or a man that can not get them pregnant or a woman that isn't fetal. That is why I do not see any wrong in having sex before being married or after getting married.

[Hispo]

What is "S€x"? Is that sex paid in euros?

It is something which is being normalized now on the internet, to use wordings and replacement words, so people can express themselves without fearing to be taken down by the algorithm or artificial intelligence doing some moderation work. For example, there are thousands or millions on people on Tik tok and other major social media who are using the word "grape" instead the word "rape".
It is also common for people to type down words composed by letters and numbers, when they want to say things like: sex, abuse, retard, idiot, among other words which could end up on their accounts getting flagged.
i have both seen in on YouTube and Instagram, more in YouTube, in the title of the video itself, rather in the content inside.

[LTU_btc]

Offcourse it's everyone's choice, but for me it's not even a question. I don't understand how you can have sex only after marriage. I understand it's mostly religious things, but for me it looks strange in 21st century.

I would prefer to marry a girl who is respectful, brilliant, and hygienic rather than a highly sexually skilled partner.

I don't see correlation between these things. Do you want to say highly sexually skilled partner can't be respectful, brilliant and hygienic?

It is something which is being normalized now on the internet, to use wordings and replacement words, so people can express themselves without fearing to be taken down by the algorithm or artificial intelligence doing some moderation work. For example, there are thousands or millions on people on Tik tok and other major social media who are using the word "grape" instead the word "rape".
It is also common for people to type down words composed by letters and numbers, when they want to say things like: sex, abuse, retard, idiot, among other words which could end up on their accounts getting flagged.
i have both seen in on YouTube and Instagram, more in YouTube, in the title of the video itself, rather in the content inside.

Yeah, due to censorship on social media people started to use alternative words and looks that this habbit moved to Bitcointalk too. I remember in covid times people also replaced words like covid or vaccine to not get shadow banned. Shadow banned means that account visibility and post reach is restricted. Such things also may be used in political context.

[Hispo]

Offcourse it's everyone's choice, but for me it's not even a question. I don't understand how you can have sex only after marriage. I understand it's mostly religious things, but for me it looks strange in 21st century.

I would prefer to marry a girl who is respectful, brilliant, and hygienic rather than a highly sexually skilled partner.

I don't correlation between these things. Do you want to say highly sexually skilled partner can't be respectful, brilliant and hygienic?

It is something which is being normalized now on the internet, to use wordings and replacement words, so people can express themselves without fearing to be taken down by the algorithm or artificial intelligence doing some moderation work. For example, there are thousands or millions on people on Tik tok and other major social media who are using the word "grape" instead the word "rape".
It is also common for people to type down words composed by letters and numbers, when they want to say things like: sex, abuse, retard, idiot, among other words which could end up on their accounts getting flagged.
i have both seen in on YouTube and Instagram, more in YouTube, in the title of the video itself, rather in the content inside.

Yeah, due to censorship on social media people started to use alternative words and looks that this habbit moved to Bitcointalk too. I remember in covid times people also replaced words like covid or vaccine to not get shadow banned. Shadow banned means that account visibility and post reach is restricted. Such things also may be used in political context.

Though, it is very silly to me someone would come to this forum, where freedom of speech is one of the core values of the administration and yet, continues to use those anti-censorshio words as if we all were posting in a forum controlled by Meta/Facebook or other big tech corporation. Obviously, OP does not have much idea of how things work here and fact one can say whatever one wants without any fear of a shadow ban or getting banned completely from this ecosystem.
It is something a very new user would do... it is worrying how restrictive internet has become and people resorting to those measures is only a symptom of it.

[Ruttoshi]

Would you rather want to wait till marriage to intimately know your partner or will you rather know everything there is before marriage?

It doesn't matter if it is right or wrong nowadays, what matters is if the both parties agreed to have sex before marriage or after they get married. Keep Christianity aside, I'm also a Christian too but I do not see any wrong if they both agree. One of the main reason why some people get married is because they want to have kids of their own, so those people will not want to end with a woman or a man that can not get them pregnant or a woman that isn't fetal. That is why I do not see any wrong in having sex before being married or after getting married.

Did I get you right. How does one use sex to know if his future partner is fertile or not. You have taken this discussion into a different dimension because all women can have sex but not all of them can bear children. So, are you saying that you will first get your wife pregnant before you will marry her. I don't think that sex before marriage will make a  barren woman to be fruitful.

I don't correlation between these things. Do you want to say highly sexually skilled partner can't be respectful, brilliant and hygienic?

Why not, we have ladies with these qualities that you mentioned. That will be a perfect woman for Zlantann