Why are women so dependent on men?

[Prosofina_G]

I have really try to understand the reason behind this full dependent on men, you hardly seen women depending on their own either married or unmarried.

Even when you as a man have given her businesses to handle and take care of herself, she will still come back to ask you for money. If you like open series of businesses for her she will definitely come back to still ask you for money.

This is spiritual: it is spiritual in the sense that men derived everything they wanted in the earth the houses the money the cars everything, while women derived everything from men.
Because they derived from men they can never get tired that is just how women nature is.

Have you ever wondered why your wife who is so rich then the husband still place a demand from you the man, because men are their roots of placing a demand.
So stop quarrelling with your wife when she placeses a demand from you.

[franky1]

many things come into it

women did work before WW2. and during it. but then when men came back from war and were looking for jobs, most jobs were filled.. so nations governments and media started the propaganda that the womans place is in the home so that the men can be the earners. yep the 1950's tv shows started misogyny of the house wife

kind of hypocritical for TV shows to need to employ women to send a message that women should not be employed

what people need to learn is how media play people..
such as how media play out that black women had no worth in society until rosa parks took a stand and sat at the front(white section) of a bus,
but here is the thing. before that notable event rosa parks had a job, her mother worked as a teacher her grand mother worked on the family farm

but media played out that black women were below human until she sat forward and got recognised

yes women worked before the 1950's
the propaganda of womens place is in the home only bagan 1950+

[348Judah]

Because by nature, men are superior to women, they were meant to be a subject tot men, but men must also love and cherish them, be responsible for them, maybe if we look into the account of how a man and a woman was created, we are going to have a more better understandings, women are not slaves to men, they have rights as well equally as men do, but under a general settings, men are always the head and women subject to them in honor and they received back with love, but today, things have not been like this as it used to be, everyone does what he likes and take charge, its even hard to find a true love.

[Prosofina_G]

many things come into it

women did work before WW2. and during it. but then when men came back from war and were looking for jobs, most jobs were filled.. so nations governments and media started the propaganda that the womans place is in the home so that the men can be the earners. yep the 1950's tv shows started misogyny of the house wife

kind of hypocritical for TV shows to need to employ women to send a message that women should not be employed

what people need to learn is how media play people..
such as how media play out that black women had no worth in society until rosa parks took a stand and sat at the front(white section) of a bus,
but here is the thing. before that notable event rosa parks had a job, her mother worked as a teacher her grand mother worked on the family farm

but media played out that black women were below human until she sat forward and got recognised

yes women worked before the 1950's
the propaganda of womens place is in the home only bagan 1950+

Perfectly said I secerly subscribe to your opinion, just as you quoted 1950's I am meant to understand by your quote that women work very well, but how come no matter how they earned money they still want the man's money, is it because it is in their nature to derived from men?

[Fiatless]

Based on African tradition, women don't depend solely on men. Historically, they assist their husbands in their profession. There are tasks that were reserved for women in different occupations. In farming, women do less tedious jobs like planting, weeding and harvesting. While hard jobs like cutting bushes or forest and digging are done by men. In fishing, men go to the river to catch the fish while women sort and sometimes dry the fish.

franky1 came up with a valid explanation of how the housewife mentality crept into society. But this dependent mindset is gradually changing. Men now want to marry women who are gainfully employed because the harsh economic conditions are affecting their finances. Husbands want women who will contribute financially to the family.    

[DYOR+BTC]

Because by nature, men are superior to women, they were meant to be a subject tot men, but men must also love and cherish them, be responsible for them, maybe if we look into the account of how a man and a woman was created, we are going to have a more better understandings, women are not slaves to men, they have rights as well equally as men do, but under a general settings, men are always the head and women subject to them in honor and they received back with love, but today, things have not been like this as it used to be, everyone does what he likes and take charge, its even hard to find a true love.

I agree to the above mentioned statement that men are superior to women, taking reference point from religious beliefs it is conspicuously stated that women should honour their husbands while men should love them unconditionally  signifying same superiority mentioned above.

Laying emphasis  on gender inequality when it comes to duties, I believe major duties are meant to be handled by men while women render assistance just as they arerecognized as helpmate. Practicing division of labour when it involves duties between men and women I think its a very wrong practice that we are not supposed to adhere to.

[LTU_btc]

I wouldn't say so. Maybe such situation was a thing 50 years ago, but now things have changed. Women aren't dependent on men anymore. Not matter we talk about single or married women, she can be successful in business, politics, science and etc without any help from men.
Offcourse, some women chose themselves to be dependent on man, but it's their own choice. Or they live in country where women have limited rights and they have no other choice than be dependent on man.

[GiftedMAN]

I wouldn't say so. Maybe such situation was a thing 50 years ago, but now things have changed. Women aren't dependent on men anymore. Not matter we talk about single or married women, she can be successful in business, politics, science and etc without any help from men.
Offcourse, some women chose themselves to be dependent on man, but it's their own choice. Or they live in country where women have limited rights and they have no other choice than be dependent on man.

In some countries you see the woman having equal rights with the man they go about doing their things and making their own money because they choose not to be dependent on the men but in most cases you get to see a lot of women who can't survive without the help of the men like they expect to get everything from the men not because they don't have the equal rights but because they see themselves as people who can't work but relax to spend what the Man is bringing.

What do you call the ladies who run to get married to successful men just to get divorced and share the man's money are they not dependent and hungry?

[passwordnow]

There is now this movement that they call 'women empowerment' and that thing of the past is just now in the past. Most women now are also like men when they hustle, work hard and focuses on their careers. I think when a woman gets to married someone, it's normal for the man, the partner to provide for them. Because that's how it goes in the traditional aspect that we see. But these days, it's not a problem when we see that the provider is the woman and the man is taking care of other things or the situation is on the opposite that man is the one that doing chores. IMHO, there is nothing wrong either of the two situations for both partners. As long as it's been talked to and agreed upon to, that's what is marriage is all about, team work.

[Supreme Donvic]

Men are created to be stronger than women and since they are created that way it means they are the provider, in BC and AC. Humans where using hands to work in other to feed and this works are farm works that requires strength and this strength men has it more than women and so the men where very active in all this farm work and since a man and a woman needs to come together to make children and the woman was the one to get pregnant and the man was made to go and work since his also the strongest and when the woman starts having children those children needs to be taken care of and that was what the woman was mostly doing She was also helping the man in farm work in her own little strength so women where created to take care of the home while the man was to work and feed the wife and children.
And as a man if you are providing for your wife you will feel happy doing that men love women to depend on them while women love to depend on men nature solved everything perfectly, if you are a man know you are a provider however you still don't have to please a woman and displease yourself.

[_Miracle]

Hierarchies and a long established patriarchy.

This sets societal norms, and when those get challenged it can create a collective identity crises in those who feel their "superiority" is being challenged.

Woman in America only gained the right to vote in 1920 so I supposed in a human time scale that is a relatively short amount of time.

[caroasi]

It is tradition for women to be home makers while men bring in the resources. So, women are seeking a traditional relationship. This tradition is likely based on human instincts. It is likely the instinct of a woman to seek a man with resources. Suppose their is a species of birds. By instinct, the male bird builds a love nest, then sings a song attracting in a female bird, who comes in, evaluates their nesting situation, and then considers moving in. In this situation, the mating is the marriage, while laying of an egg by the female binds the marriage to be permanent metaphorically speaking. And that would be considered a marriage healthy for the species at least, and probably a happy situations for the two love birds as well.

[ODG001]

A man is built to be a protector and provider

Women hold and maintain the home so I think it's a very natural thing for a woman to be dependent on a man.

Additionally, men are valued when they toil and provide so they don't want to be dependants rather the other way round.

[Bigjoe158]

Women can be dependent on their men for financial, social, and cultural reasons, including a historic lack of economic right, societal expectations and gender roles,lack of personal or professional development opportunities, and the perception that the husband is the primary provider of stability and security. While women often have legal rights,socio-economic barriers can prevent them from accessing sufficient income and resources, leading to depency.

[Dunamisx]

If children can depend on their parents, the parents on their maker, then we all can also see women depending on men because that has been the way it has been right from time, men are head over women, we are also expected to have dependence on each other, while women mostly are more involved in this more often even than men generally.

[AmaGold70]

I have really try to understand the reason behind this full dependent on men, you hardly seen women depending on their own either married or unmarried.

Even when you as a man have given her businesses to handle and take care of herself, she will still come back to ask you for money. If you like open series of businesses for her she will definitely come back to still ask you for money.

This is spiritual: it is spiritual in the sense that men derived everything they wanted in the earth the houses the money the cars everything, while women derived everything from men.
Because they derived from men they can never get tired that is just how women nature is.

Have you ever wondered why your wife who is so rich then the husband still place a demand from you the man, because men are their roots of placing a demand.
So stop quarrelling with your wife when she placeses a demand from you.

Women are dependent on men because it was supposed to be so from creation, women were built from the beginning of time to depend on men because men are superior over women. Men are built to be providers and protectors and even caregivers to their women, women were created to depend on men right from the garden of Eden and knowing that they were created from men's ribs make it easier to understand why they are so dependent and no matter how rich a woman is asking for financial assistance from the men will never go away. In this digital age now women are asking for equality and that is totally against the tradition but it is what it is.

[Findingnemo]

Let me tell you the turth, it's not women who are dependent, it is the men who are dependent on their wife/girlfriend and she just take advantage of the vulnerable situation of men to live a comfortable life without giving the efforts needed for it in the name of finance, and I am saying this most of the women colleague said this to me whenever we talked about this because men are so ready to do everything for them then why should they be risking anything?

[Juicyhome]

If children can depend on their parents, the parents on their maker, then we all can also see women depending on men because that has been the way it has been right from time, men are head over women, we are also expected to have dependence on each other, while women mostly are more involved in this more often even than men generally.

I agree with you, if you're a Christian the Bible says men are the head of the family, it's the original plan of good to have a man in charge of the homo, that's why men provide and defend the hom, it's a natural thing. Women are vulnerable being and they need men to achieve their goals and aims, when we talk if dependent we must also give honor to some women that take the place of a man in the family, they provide and protect the home too. Not all women depend on a man to eat or survive. But naturally it's the men right to make life easy for women, while women ensure the home is at peace. There is nothing to worry about if your woman depend on you solely, don't be tired it's your responsibility to make a women happy, without men they can really not complete.

[Akbarkoe]

Basically men are stronger than women, therefore women who are physically weak will depend on stronger and it has been created from God who is Almighty, that a man must protect women, questioning shals like this is indeed interesting, but we cannot debate that all today has a perspective on feminism or to men who are gender conversation.

[Hispo]

No necessarily part of the nature of women. It could be rather a way for them to survive and try to thrive in societies which are dominated by men and where men have a clear advantage over women. That is the case of my homeland, I have personally seen women being dented the chance to work for an important company just because they were not men, in that regard, there is still a long path ahead for my country and companies which operate here.