lol way off center ... i ended up resolving it just took me 12 hours..
It was more a math issue than anything else... and not writing things down properly.
Lawyers pffft who needs those, either way that wouldnt be a requirement, too old and the point was to not have a repeat and a trusted party to assess.
Nevertheless thank you for the semi answer...

Edit : I had no idea there was such a thing lmfao @ google ... too funny and odd ..

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